agitate or excite’. The mental thinking or feeling of a person at a particular instant of time knowingly or unknowingly is called emotion. Emotions are complex psychological and biological responses consisting of subjective feelings, physiological reactions and expressive behaviours to internal and external stimuli. “Emotion is the all around state of the organism marked by increased bodily activity and strong feelings directed to some subject.” Kimball Young • According to crow and crow “An emotion is an affective experience that accompanies generalized inner adjustment and, mental and physiological stirred up states in the individual and that shows itself in his overt behaviour” Emotional development is a process that a child develops from dependence to a fully functioning adult and applies to most life forms. Emotional development refers to the ability to recognize, express, and manage feelings at different stages of life and to have empathy for the feelings of others. • The core of an emotion is feeling. • Emotional experiences are associated with some instincts or biological drives. • Emotions are the products of perception. • Every emotional experience involves several physical and physiological changes in organism. • The basic ways of expressing emotions are inborn and it develops through maturation. • Emotions rise abruptly and die slowly. • Same emotion can be aroused by a number of different stimuli. • Emotions have the quality of displacement. 5 • Fear • Anger • Jealousy • Greif • Curiosity • Joy, pleasure and delight • Positive emotions: Pleasant emotions which are helpful and essential to the normal development of individual are termed a positive emotions Eg: love, amusement, curiosity, joy,… • Negative emotions: Unpleasant emotions, which are harmful to the individual’s development are termed as negative emotions Eg: fear, anger, jealousy, guilt etc As Spitz (1949) has observed, “Emotions are not present ready-made from birth. Like any other sector of the human personality they have to develop.” Emotional development is due to 1. Maturation 2. learning not to either one alone. • During childhood • During adolescence Early childhood:(2-5yrs/3-6yrs) At 24 months, delight was further differentiated and joy appears. • At 5 years(60 month), fear is again differentiated into shame and anxiety. Anger is again differentiated into disappointment and envy. From delight, hope is again differentiated. • Child cannot control their emotional expressions in social situations. They express their emotion at the time of the perception. • Emotional expressions become less diffuse, random and undifferentiated. The emotion cannot be spread to other social situations. There is a mixture of emotional expressions related to a particular stimulus and cannot be differentiate it. Eg. Excitement is accompanied by fear • Emotions are expressed in the absence of concrete objects. In this stage the child needn,t any physical object to express his emotions. • Emotions are most contagious. Because children are most suggestible and dependence on others. The emotional expressions he share to elders. • Cannot hide their emotions. • As the child grows the strength and intensity of the emotion varies. • Health and physical development The children weak in somatic structure or suffering from illness are more emotionally upset and unstable than children having better health. An intelligent person, with his reasoning and thinking powers, exercise control according to the situation and make proper use of their emotions 15 Where the cordial atmosphere prevailed at home, children develop positive emotions; while conflicts and tensions in family relationship give birth to negative emotions. The size of the family, socioeconomic status of the family, parental attitude etc also influence the emotional development of children The healthy and conductive atmosphere of the school always results in the balanced emotional development of children. 1.Complexity • An adolescent person has undergone a lot of stress and strain-ful situations. • We cannot understand him by his overt behaviour. • They learn to hide their emotions from others. • So it is very complex to identify the individual. 2.Development of abstract emotions • They needn’t any concrete objects to express their emotions. • It is highly individualized and can’t be identified it proper root. 3.Emotional feelings are widened • The social contacts of an individual are more widen. • He is related to classmates, elders and young people, emotionally attached heros etc. the influence of all these which sharpen their emotions. • They develops an integrity about their past experiences and future expectations. • So they become more patient and tolerate any delay in their life circumstances. 4. Bearing of emotions • They can tolerate stress and tensions in various life situations. • So they develop a sense of self control. 5. Capacity of sharing emotions • They have a tendency to consider others feelings and share their emotions to others. • Sharing of emotions reaches its peak at this stage. • Satisfication of others is important. • So they engaged in the activities of others and take role for others. 6. Loyalty expands • Their social contact expands to neighbors and other social organizations. • So they maintain a loyalty towards others. 7. Realism in emotional experiences • He entered into the world of reality. • He becomes aware of his strength and weakness. • This awareness reflect in their emotional expressions. 8. Reviewing hopes and aspirations • It is period of high expectation for his future. Some realistically hard-work for it. • So they feel a positive emotion in it. • Others engaged in day dreams, fantasy or remain in illusion. • Later they became unrealistic 9. Tolerance of aloneness • Develop a feeling of aloneness. • So they like to be alone in homes. 10. Increased compassion • Develops sympathy & empathy. • Can enter into his own feelings and appreciate the feeling of others. Some similarities are found between the emotional development of parents and children. These are the hereditary factors. As your child develops mentally, she also becomes emotionally matured. Psychologists say that the child’s emotions depend upon her maturity level. John B. Watson, an American psychologist, has stated that children learn from conditioning. An experiment was conducted on a nine-month-old baby, who was shown a rat to the child and a lot of noise was made in the background. Later it was observed that baby started crying by merely looking at the rat. Likewise, if there is an expression of physical love in the family, the baby also expresses her love by contact, kisses, or hugs. Children who have sound health can control their emotions in a better way while those who remain weak show irritability, excitement and unstable emotions. Intelligent children are also emotionally stable. Those with low intelligence are low in stability as well. Relations in the family and the way they express their emotions affect the emotional development of a child. If the parents have stability in their behavior and express their feelings in a balanced manner, the children also follow in their footsteps. If parents are violent, children also adopt the same. If you over pamper your children, there are chances for them turning indiscipline and obstinate. On the contrary, if you do not show any affection, they become introvert and submissive. Just like family, the society, too, influences a child’s emotional development. If the environment is emotionally charged, the child becomes emotionally unstable. If people are stable and have control over their emotions, the child also remains so. They learn to control their emotions and try to conform to socially acceptable behaviour. Managing emotions for a sound physical and mental health is necessary. When your child is emotionally charged, several changes, like a change in pulse rate, blood circulation, stretching of eyes, an effect on the digestive system and more, occur in the body.