HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

Joshua Nadudo,
Mark Ian Jamias,
Preciousgem Toloy
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
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…BELIEVE…
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

ONANINIWALA
PO AKONG
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

OANG MALUSOG NA
RELASYON O
HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS AY
PARANG……..
 HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
- A healthy relationships is when two people
develop a connection based on:
O Mutual understanding
O Trust
O support
O Fairness/equality
O Separate identities
O Good communication
O A sense of playfulness/fondness
O Fun and make you feel good about yourself
O Take time and energy to develop
O Based on honesty and respect
 Healthy Relationships
O ALL THESE THINGS WORK FOR EACH
OTHER.RELATIONSHIPS NEED TO BE
MAINTAINED AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
TAKE WORD .THIS APPLIES TO ALL
RELATIONSHIPS;WORK
RELATIONSHIPS,FRIENDSHIPS,FAMILY,AND
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS.
 WHILE IN HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS
YOU:
O TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND HAVE GOOD
SELF-ESTEEM INDEPENDENT OF YOUR
RELATIONSHIP
O MAINTAIN AND RESPECT EACH OTHER’S
INDIVIDUALLY
O MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIPS WITH FRIENDS
AND FAMILY
O HAVE ACTIVITIES APART FROM ONE
ANOTHER
O ARE ABLE TO EXPRESS YOURSELVES TO ONE
ANOTHER WITHOUT FEAR OF CONSEQUENCES
O ARE ABLE TO FEEL SECURE AND COMFORTABLE
O ALLOW AND ENCOURAGE OTHER RELATIONSHIPS
O TAKE INTEREST IN ANOTHER’S ACTIVITIES
O DO NOT WORRY ABOUT VIOLENCE IN THE
RELATIONSHIP
O TRUST EACH OTHER AND BE HONEST WITH EACH
OTHER
O HAVE OPTION OF PRIVACY
O HAVE RESPECT FOR SEXUAL BOUNDARIES
O ARE HONEST ABOUT SEXUAL ACTIVITY IF IT IS
SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS
O ACCEPT INFLUENCE.RELATIONSHIPS ARE GIVE AND
TAKE;ALLOWING YOUR PARTNER TO INFLUENCE YOU
IS IMPORTANT;THIS CAN BE ESPECIALLY DIFFICULT
FOR SOME MEN.
O RESOLVE CONFLICT FAIRLY:FIGHTING IS PART OF
EVEN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS,THE DIFFERENCE IS
HOW THE CONFLICT IS HANDLED.FIGHTING FAIRLY
IS AN IMPORTANT SKILL YOU HELP YOU HAVE
HEALTHIER RELATIONSHIPS.
O Are treated with kindness
O Are honest with each other
O Like to spend time together
O Take an interest in things that are important
to each other
O Respect one another’s emotional,physical
and sexual limits
O Can speak honestly about their feelings
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
O OPEN,HONEST AND SAFE COMMUNICATION
IS A FUNDAMENTAL PART OF A HEALTHY
RELATIONSHIPS
 TIPS TO MAINTAIN
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
O SPEAK UP
O RESPECT EACH OTHER
O COMPROMISE
O BE SUPPORTIVE
O RESPECT EACH OTHER’S PRIVACY
O HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
 Love should never hurt
O Sexual abuse
O Emotional abuse
Trivia;
1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men
1.5 million women each year
Over 800,000 males
Abuse can occur in any type of relationships;
gay,straight,casual,long term,young and old
About 10% of high school students,

If you are-or have been-in a relationship where

you were mistreated,it’s very easy to blame
yourself.The problem is with the
abuser,though,not you.It’s not your
fault!anyone can be abused and anyone can
be an abuser.
In romantic relationships
O Sexual transmitted infections(STIs)
O Possibility of pregnancy
O Right time for sex
O Boundaries
Isip isip muna bago unzip…
O Am I really ready to have sex?
O How am I going to feel after I having sex?
O Am I doing this for the right reasons?
O STIs
O How am I going to feel about my partner
afterwards?
Talking to YOUR parents…
O 83% of kids age are afraid to ask their
parents about sex but for us teens 51% do
so talk with their parents about sex
Guidance
counselor,coach,aunt,uncle,neighbor or adult
you trust.
HOW TO AVOID PRESSURE ABOUT SEX….
1.HANG OUT
2.GO OUT
3.INTRODUCE YOUR FRIENDS
4.INVITE YOUR FRIENDS
5.STICK UP TO YOUR FRIENDS
6.THINK OF WHAT YOU WOULD SAY IN
ADVANCE
7.ALWAYS CARRY MONEY OR TELEPHONE
8.BE READY TO CALL
9.NEVER FEEL OBLIGATED
10.SAY NO…
DRUGS AND ALCOHOL
O TEENS AND YOUNG ADULT DONE MORE SEX
UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF DRUGS AND
ALCOHOL…..

TRIVIA;UNDER THE INFLUINCE OF DRUGS AND

ALCOHOL MAKES IT HARD FOR YOU TO THINK
CLEARLY…..
 BASIC RIGHTS IN
ARELATIONSHIPS
O EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
O TO BE HEARD BY OTHER AND TO RESPOND
O HAVE YOUR OWN POINT OF VIEW
O ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL
O LIVE FREE FROM ACCUSATION AND BLAME
O LIVE FREE FROM CRITICISM AND
JUDGEMENT
O LIVE FREE FROM EMO. AND PHYSICAL
THREAT
O LIVE FREE FROM ANGRY OUTBURST AND
RAGE
O TO BE RESPECTFULLY ASKED,RATHER THAN
ORDERED
ESSENTIALS IN A RELATIONSHIPS….
@PATIENCE
@HONESTY
@KINDNESS
@RESPECT