OF A PERSON Youth Development Session METAMORPHOSIS • A major change in the appearance or character of someone or something.
• In biology- a major change in the form or
structure of some animals or insects that happens as the animal or insect becomes an adult. Just like butterflies, human also undergo metamorphosis. The caterpillar stage is like the childhood stage wherein our physical bodies are nurtured, and our mental and moral foundations are conditioned. This prepares the child for later years. Adolescence on the other hand, can be compared to the cocoon stage of the butterfly or from a seed to a tree. It is the transitional stage from childhood to adulthood. It is a stage in human development where there are significant physical, behavioral and emotional changes in an individual. It is a period where a person is still searching for his/her identity, a period where one undergoes self-discovery. It is also a period, according to Rudolf Steiner, where the child begins to search for truths about the world and he/she begins to experience the power of his/her own thinking (Mitchell, 2006). Unlike children who imitate adult, adolescents tend to have unrealistic expectations. Gone is the imitation stage and an age of idealism comes in. Adolescents seek a role model that will fit their descriptions of their ideals; children simply conform with the standards set by adults. A positive and compassionate adult should be present to “guide” the adolescent and not dictate what should be done. The adolescent is now preparing himself/herself for his/her role and functions as a productive adult in his/her community. At the end of this period, he/she is expected to have knowledge, skills and attitudes to fulfill life purpose as an adult. IN THE ADOLESCENTS STAGE, LOTS OF CONFLICTS MAY ARISE DUE TO THE FOLLOWING REASONS: • The adolescent’s bodies may have greatly matured but their mental and social skills are still developing. • Adults in the community have lots of demands and high expectations from adolescents but they do not provide the adolescents with proper guidance. Parents would often scold and criticize the adolescent instead of helping him/her to gain self-realization. • Adolescents are often confused by the expectations of the parents. They are expected to assume responsibility, but still he/she must be obedient or submissive to his/her parents’ demands.