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Understanding Self-control
Assessment on Self-control or
Self-regulation
Conclusion
2) Does your child have tantrums when things do not go his/her way?
8) If your child is yelling, crying, or screaming in a restaurant, do you leave the restaurant?
10) Do you feel that you need more information on how to teach your children to control their emotions?
Do you feel that children can
Assessment Results control their emotions?
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yes no
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no 70%
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Assessment result on Self-control
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that children can child have child use physical child cause self- that having a parents let you children express yelling, crying, or friend’s children that you need
control their tantrums when assault instead of injury? screaming fit is express your their emotions? screaming in a behave like your more information
emotions? things do not go words? appropriate for a emotions? restaurant, do children do? on how to teach
his/her way? two-year-old? you leave the your children to
restaurant? control their
emotions?
YES NO
Assessment Result
Does your child have tantrums when If your child is yelling, crying, or
things do not go his/her way? screaming in a restaurant, do you leave
the restaurant?
Yes No Yes No
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What is self-control?
According to Marion, 2015, “Self-control is the voluntary, internal regulation of behavior. It might well be
one of the most significant changes during early childhood. Also known as self-regulation, it is an essential
part of how children learn, is important in a child’s growth and development, and is fundamental in
preserving social and moral order.” (Marion, 2015, p. 73)
Understanding Self-control
• “Self-control enables children to cooperate with others, to cope with
frustration, and to resolve conflicts” ("Help Your Child Develop Self-
Control," n.d., para. 1)
• “Self-control means being able to express and cope with strong
emotions in appropriate ways...Self-control also involves thinking skills,
as we decide which of our impulses to act on.” ("Help Your Child
Develop Self-Control," n.d., para. 2)
• “Babies are born with virtually no self-control. They have little-to-no
ability to control their emotional states or behavior. However, the
process of developing self-control begins in a baby’s earliest months
and continues across the first three years and beyond” ("Help Your
Child Develop Self-Control," n.d., para. 3)
12 to 24 months:
1. Give your child opportunities to choose.
2. Label and recognize your child’s feelings.
24 to 36 Months
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1. Give your child opportunities to choose.
2. Help the child to learn to wait.
("NAEYC," n.d.)
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SA
“Letting children know their feelings are
understood helps them calm down and regain
control. This doesn’t mean you give in to their
demand.
Self-control is an
important part in the
Self-control is learned
child’s learning and
development
• https://www.naeyc.org/our-work/families/help-
your-preschooler-gain-self-control
• http://csefel.vanderbilt.edu/resources/strategies
.html
• https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/s
piritual-growth-for-kids/teaching-kids-self-
control
• https://www.zerotothree.org/resources/228-
help-your-child-develop-self-control
Detroit Educational Television Foundation. (1997). The whole child: Building inner controls[Video file]. Retrieved from
https://learning.fresno.edu/mod/page/view.php?id=1143619
Marion, M. C. (2015). Guidance of young children [Redshelf] (9th ed.). Retrieved from
https://fresno.redshelf.com/book/read/833263/?course_id=2242