Characters • Priya • Ammamma • Thatha • Ma • Sowmya • Neelima • Lata • Nick • Nick’s mother, Frances • Nick’s father • Nick’s brother • Anand • Jayant • Apoorva and Shalini • Manju and Nilesh New words • Pachadi (p.67) - a traditional South Indian fresh pickle served as a side dish
• Avakai (p.67) – mango pickle
• Kallu (p.79) - Indian Language word for black guy. Used
instead of the N word. Feminism Theory • Radical feminism- against the norm • Priya was being radical in the family and against the norm as a woman in that society. • “So, my brother who lives in Los Angeles told me that nowadays Indians- not those foreigners, but Indian girls and boys- live together… do everything when they are not married. Why can’t they simply get married?”- Lata (p.75, para.3) • “Because they want to live together for a while, not spend the rest of their lives together. Maybe they just want to test the waters. Marriage is serious business. You don’t marry the first guy you sleep with or live for that matter…”- Priya (p.75, para.4) • Having only daughters and no son in the family considered as a burden. • Lata did not want to have another daughter. • “What if you have another daughter?” I asked what was probably the most taboo question. “I won’t …. I know I could, but I hope I won’t. All this for nothing, then.”- Lata (p.77, para.7) • Priya also thought that Lata would have undergone abortion if she had another daughter. Post- colonialism theory • India was colonised by Britain. • Thatha had a bad perspective to all Westerners. • “All white people do is exploit the others. And the black people kill. That country is just… no family values, nothing…”- Thatha (p.80, para.1) Reader-Response theory Discrimination and prejudice • Priya’s family were being discriminate and prejudice towards the Westerners. • “The white people are just… crooks, and the black people… those kallu people are all criminals.”- Ammamma (p.79, para.6) • Priya’s grandmother was being racist towards black people. • “All black people… dirty they are… All black people are doing drugs and they kill on the street…” - Ammamma (p.79, para. 6) Ethnocentrism • Ma falsely accused Manju and Nilesh’s divorce were because of the evil American influence. • “Your friends… Manju and Nilesh, they were fine if they had not gone to America…They went to America and now they are getting a divorce after four years of marriage… if they were in India, it would have never happened.” – Ma (p.80) • They had condemned the entire Western world to being immoral criminals and crooks. Caste-based discrimination • Priya’s family always put their race/caste and also tradition in the first place. • Thatha and Ammamma could not accept Neelima as their daughter-in-law because she was a Maharashtrian, and not a Telugu Brahmin. They said that Neelima seduced Annand to marry her. They treated her badly even she acted nicely. • Neelima wanted to help Lata and Ma in the kitchen and she was immediately shooed away (p.73, para.11) Obey the family rules • As a woman, Priya was being asked so many things from her family. • “One aunt said I should learn to cook so that my husband won’t starve, while the other wanted me to get pregnant in case my reproductive organs gave up on me….my mother who wanted me to marry any man who made what she considered “good money.”- Priya (p.75, para.2) Family Acceptance • Although Priya and Nick were from different ethnicity, but Nick’s mother accepted Priya and she was undoubtedly fascinated by Priya’s Indianness. • “I’ve never spoke to an Indian before, but I love curry.” – Frances (p.70, para. 4) • “Nick’s mother – Frances – and I became friends. She was an adorable woman who always remembered my birthday and sent me gift, something she knew I wanted… She always talked about our “impending” wedding and changed the reception dinner menu regularly – her way of asking us to hurry up and tie the knot and of course give her grandchildren.” – Priya (p.70, para. 5)