of vital functions, Dying is the process of losing these functions. Dying may also be seen as a developmental concomitant of living, a part of the birth-to-death continuum. Good death is one that is free from avoidable distress and suffering for patients, families, and caregivers and is reasonably consistent with clinical, cultural, and ethical standards.
Bad Death is characterized by needless
suffering, a dishonoring of the patient or familys wishes or values, and a sense among participants or observers that norms of decency have been offended Legal Aspects of Death
According to law, physicians must sign the death
certificate, which attests to the cause of death (e.g., congestive heart failure or pneumonia).
They must also attribute the death to natural,
accidental, suicidal, homicidal, or unknown causes. A medical examiner, coroner, or pathologist must examine anyone who dies unattended by a physician and perform an autopsy to determine the cause of death. Stages of Death and Dying
Stage 1: Shock and Denial.
On being told that they are dying, persons initially react with shock. They may appear dazed at first and then may refuse to believe the diagnosis; they may deny that anything is wrong. Some persons never pass beyond this stage and may go from doctor to doctor until they find one who supports their position. Stage 2: Anger. Persons become frustrated, irritable, and angry at being ill. They commonly ask, Why me? They may become angry at God, their fate, a friend, or a family member; they may even blame themselves. They may displace their anger onto the hospital staff members and the doctor, whom they blame for the illness. Patients in the stage of anger are difficult to treat Stage 3: Bargaining. Patients may attempt to negotiate with physicians, friends, or even God; in return for a cure, they promise to fulfill one or many pledges, such as giving to charity and attending church regularly. Some patients believe that if they are good (compliant, nonquestioning, cheerful), the doctor will make them better. Stage 4: Depression. In the fourth stage, patients show clinical signs of depressionwithdrawal, psychomotor retardation, sleep disturbances, hopelessness, and, possibly, suicidal ideation. The depression may be a reaction to the effects of the illness on their lives (e.g., loss of a job, economic hardship, helplessness, hopelessness, and isolation from friends and family), or it may be in anticipation of the loss of life that will eventually occur. Stage 5: Acceptance. In the stage of acceptance, patients realize that death is inevitable, and they accept the universality of the experience. Their feelings can range from a neutral to a euphoric mood. Under ideal circumstances, patients resolve their feelings about the inevitability of death and can talk about facing the unknown. Those with strong religious beliefs and a conviction of life after death sometimes find comfort in the ecclesiastical maxim, Fear not death; remember those who have gone before you and those who will come after. Near-Death Experiences
Near-death descriptions are often
strikingly similar, involving an out-of- body experience of viewing ones body and overhearing conversations, feelings of peace and quiet, hearing a distant noise, entering a dark tunnel, leaving the body behind, meeting dead loved ones, witnessing beings of light, returning to life to complete unfinished business, and a deep sadness on leaving this new dimension. A term to describe this experience is unio mystica, which refers to an oceanic feeling of mystic unity with an infinite power. Life Cycle Considerations about Death and Dying The clinical diversity of death-related attitudes and behaviors between children and adults has its roots in developmental factors and age dependent differences in causes of death As opposed to adults, who usually die from chronic illness, children are apt to die from sudden, unexpected causes. Almost half of the children who die between the ages of 1 and 14 years and nearly 75 percent of those who die in late adolescence and early adulthood die from accidents, homicides, and suicides. Children
Childrens attitudes toward death mirror their
attitudes toward life. Although they share with adolescents, adults, and elderly adults similar fears, anxieties, beliefs, and attitudes about dying, some of their interpretations and reactions are age specific. Dying children are often aware of their condition and want to discuss it. They often have more sophisticated views about dying than their medically well counterparts, engendered by their own failing health, separations from parents, subjection to painful procedures, and the deaths of hospital chums. At the preschool, preoperational stage of cognitive development, death is seen as a temporary absence, incomplete and reversible, like departure or sleep. Separation from the primary caretaker(s) is the main fear of preschool-age children. Adolescents
Capable of formal cognitive operations,
adolescents understand that death is inevitable and final but may not accept that their own death is possible. The major fears of dying teenagers parallel those of all teenagers losing control, being imperfect, and being different. Concerns about body image, hair loss, or loss of bodily control can generate great resistance to continuing treatment. Alternating emotions of despair, rage, grief, bitterness, numbness, terror, and joy are common. The potential for withdrawal and isolation is great because teenagers may equate parental support with loss of independence or may deny their fears of abandonment by actually repulsing friendly gestures. Adults
Some of the most often expressed fears of adult
patients entering hospice care, listed in the approximate order of frequency, include fears of (1) separation from loved ones, homes, and jobs; (2) becoming a burden to others; (3) losing control; 4) what will happen to dependents; (5) pain or other worsening symptoms; (6) being unable to complete life tasks or responsibilities; (7) dying; (8) being dead (9) the fears of others (reflected fears); (10) the fate of the body; (11) the afterlife. Problems in communication arise out of trepidation, making it important for those involved in health care to provide environments of trust and safety in which people can begin to talk about uncertainties, anxieties, and concerns. Late-age adults often accept that their time has come. Their main fears include long, painful, and disfiguring deaths; prolonged vegetative states; isolation; and loss of control or dignity. Elderly patients may talk or joke openly about dying and sometimes welcome it. In their 70s and beyond, they rarely harbor illusions of indestructibilitymost have already had several close calls: Their parents have died, and they have gone to funerals for friends and relatives. Management Caring for a dying patient is highly individualized. Caretakers need to deal with death honestly, tolerate wide ranges of effects, connect with suffering patients and bereaved loved ones, and resolve routine issues as they arise. BEREAVEMENT, GRIEF, AND MOURNING Bereavement, grief, and mourning are terms that apply to the psychological reactions of those who survive a signifficant loss. Grief is the subjective feeling precipitated by the death of a loved one. The term is used synonymously with mourning, although, in the strictest sense Mourning is the process by which grief is resolved; it is the societal expression of post bereavement behavior and practices. Bereavement literally means the state of being deprived of someone by death and refers to being in the state of mourning. Regardless of the one points that differentiate these terms, the experiences of grief and bereavement have sufficient similarities to warrant a syndrome that has signs, symptoms, a demonstrable course, and an expected resolution. Normal Bereavement Reactions The first response to loss 1. protest, is followed by a longer period of searching behavior. As hope to reestablish the attachment bond diminishes, searching behaviors give way to 2. despair and 3. detachment before bereaved individuals eventually 4. reorganize themselves around the recognition that the lost person will not return. Anticipatory Grief In anticipatory grief, grief reactions are brought on by the slow dying process of a loved one through injury, illness, or high- risk activity. Anniversary Reactions When the trigger for an acute grief reaction is a special occasion, such as a holiday or birthday, the rekindled grief is called an anniversary reaction.
It is not unusual for anniversary reactions to occur each
year on the same day the person died or, in some cases, when the bereaved individual becomes the same age the deceased person was at the time of death. Mourning
From earliest history, every culture records its
own beliefs, customs, and behaviors related to bereavement. Specific patterns include rituals for mourning (e.g., wakes or Shiva), for disposing of the body, for invocation of religious ceremonies, and for periodic official remembrances. Bereavement
Because bereavement often evokes depressive
symptoms, it may be necessary to demarcate normal grief reactions from major depressive disorder. Complicated Bereavement
Complicated bereavement has a confusing array
of terms to describe it abnormal, atypical, distorted, morbid, traumatic, and unresolved, to name a few types. Three patterns of complicated, dysfunctional grief syndromes have been identified chronic, hypertrophic, and delayed grief. Chronic Grief The most common type of complicated grief often highlighted by bitterness and idealization of the dead person. Most likely to occur when the relationship between the bereaved and the deceased had been extremely close, ambivalent, or dependent or when social supports are lacking and friends and relatives are not available to share the sorrow over the extended period of time needed for most mourners. Hypertrophic Grief Most often seen after a sudden and unexpected death, bereavement reactions are extraordinarily intense in hypertrophic grief. Delayed Grief Absent or inhibited grief when one normally expects to find overt signs and symptoms of acute mourning is referred to as delayed grief. This pattern is marked by prolonged denial; anger and guilt may complicate its course. Traumatic Bereavement Traumatic bereavement refers to grief that is both chronic and hypertrophic. This syndrome is characterized by recurrent, intense pangs of grief with persistent yearning, pining, and longing for the deceased; recurrent intrusive images of the death; and a distressing admixture of avoidance and preoccupation with reminders of the loss. Positive memories are often blocked or excessively sad, or they are experienced in prolonged states of reverie that interfere with daily activities. A history of psychiatric illness Phases of Grief THANK YOU FOR YOUR ATTENTION