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Guidance
Punishment
Child Learns:
1.
2.
3.
RESENTMENT
REVENGE
RETREAT
1. Low self esteem
2. Sneaky
Discipline
To bring to order through
Guidance
To give advice,
counsel or help.
Child learns what is
expected of them.
Learn by example.
A parents daily job!!
SELF-DISCIPLINE
The ability to control ones own behavior.
For power.
Natural curiosity.
For revenge.
Feel inadequate.
For attention.
Unfulfilled needs
Environment
Why?
MISBEHAVIOR:
Is based on a childs
mistaken
interpretation of how
to find BELONGING
& SIGNIFICANCE!
Most common
Children do better
Solution to Inadequacy
Problems:
Avoid pity
Encourage & train
Create small successes
Dont give up
Authoritarian:
Limits
without
Freedom.
Parents word
is law, parents
have absolute control.
Misconduct is punished
Affection and praise are rarely give
Parents try to control children's behavior and
attitudes
They value unquestioned obedience
Children are told what to do, how to do it, and
where to do it, and when to do it.
Permissive:
Freedom
without
limits.
Parents allow their
children to do
their own thing.
Least self
reliant
Least selfcontrolled
Least exploratory
Most unhappy
Democratic:
Freedom
within
limits.
Stress freedom along with rights of others
Happy
Mostly self-reliant
Mostly self-controlled
Content, friendly,
generous
Cooperative
High-achiever
Less likely to be
seriously disruptive or
delinquent
MOM SONG
Click to listen to
the song
Discipline Techniques
Each child is different and
different things will work for each child.
Positive Statements
Telling a child what they CAN do, rather than
Redirect Attention
If a child is doing something you do not
Reverse Attention
Ignore inappropriate behavior and deal with
Time Out
Gives children an opportunity to re-gain
Loss of Privilege
Remove a privilege if behavior is inappropriate.
Lots of different privileges can be removed.
Be consistent! Follow through.
Threats are no goodstick to it.
Works for: older children
ages 5 18.
Setting Limits
Children need limits on their behavior.
They want to know what is acceptable and
allowed.
Rules should be fair, consistently enforced and
help children learn responsibility and self-control
Works for: all ages!
Limited Choices
2 or 3 options.
Gives child a sense of
interference.
Logical: 4 rules to follow
Related to misbehavior
Not done in anger
Short duration
Unpleasant
ages 7 - 18
video games.
A child is not ready for school on time.
A child does not come home on time from a
friends house for dinner.
CLASSROOM DISCIPLINE:
them often
2. KEEP RULES SHORT &
SIMPLE
1. Be nice to teacher and
classmates
2. Raise hand to speak
3. Walk in halls
DISCIPLINE STEPS:
1. Redirect
2. Check it out
3. Speak to the child about the problem
4. Give choices
5. Use logical or natural consequences
6. Use time out if still out of control
CLASSROOM DISCIPLINE
contd
Sometimes it helps to whisper to the child
Resist giving attention to the disruptor
Someone is disturbing the class
Move closer, place hand on shoulder
Involve them
Talk privately
What can I do to get your help?
FORBIDDEN DISCIPLINE
ACTIONS:
SPANKING
NO TEASING
SLAPPING
NO HUMILIATION
HITTING
NO INSULTS
SHAKING
NO THREATENING
PULLING
NO FRIGHTENING
PINCHING
NO LAUGHING AT
ALWAYS REMEMBER:
MISTAKES R WUNDERFULL
OPPERTUNITEEZ 2 LERN!
Recognize your mistake
Reconcile Im sorry
Resolve: Focus on solutions rather
than blame.
MORE REMINDERS:
Cleaning up can be made into a game encourages a good attitude
ASSIGNMENT:
Complete the positive guidance practice
THE END