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IN A HEALING WAY
Adapted from James E. Miller - “The Art of Listening in a Healing Way” 2003
Listening is a Choice
LISTENING - 6 TYPES
1. CASUALLY
NOT CONCENTRATING, UNFOCUSED
2. FOR COMPREHENSION
SEEKS INFORMATION
3. CRITICALLY
JUDGEMENT
4. APPRECIATIVELY
PLEASURE
5. THERAPEUTICALLY
TO HELP
6. HEALING LISTENING
HEALING LISTENING
* MORE ABOUT BEING THAN DOING.
* LISTENING NOT TO HELP BUT TO BE WITH.
* LISTEN NOT TO GIVE ADVISE, BUT TO GAIN
WISDOM, INSIGHT INTO THEIR THOUGHTS,
WORDS, FEELINGS.
HEALING LISTENING
… OR NOT
HEALING LISTENING
INVOLVES WHOLENESS
HEALING LISTENING
NO AGENDA
HEALING LISTENING
WE LISTEN BECAUSE...
WE CHOOSE TO
THE OTHER PERSON IS WORTH
LISTENING TO.
HEALING LISTENING
WE LISTEN BECAUSE...
IS FOUNDED AND
RESTS ON WONDER
HEALING LISTENING IS FOUNDED AND
RESTS ON WONDER
•16,000 microscopic hairs
•20,000 vibrations second
•vibrations convert to neural energy
•sound is processed 1,000x faster than the
eye processes light
PRINCIPLE #2
HEALING LISTENING
BEGINS WITH A TRIPLE INTENTION
* WILL I LISTEN?
2. LISTEN …
RESPECTFULLY
THE PURPOSE OF HEALING
LISTENING
3. LISTEN …
CARINGLY
4. LISTEN …
BELIEVINGLY
“Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of
feeling safe with a person, having neither to
weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring
them all out, just as they are, chaff and grain
together, certain that a faithful hand will take
and sift them, keep what is
worth keeping, and
with a breath of
kindness blow the
rest away.”
Mary Ann Evans
PRINCIPLE #4
A HEALING LISTENER
LISTENS TO SELF…
“...whoever wishes to
become great among
you shall be your
servant; …for even
the Son of Man did
not come to be
served, but to serve, …” Mark 10:43-45
“If to talk to oneself when alone is folly, it
must be doubly unwise to listen to oneself in
the presence of others.”
Baltasar Gracian
PRINCIPLE #15
A HEALING LISTENER
CLEAVES TO SILENCE
“What shall I say to you?
What can I say better than silence is?.”
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
“GOODBYE” - COMPLETION
PRINCIPLE #20
A HEALING LISTENER
REFRAINS FROM LISTENING.
“The strongest principle of growth lies in the
human choice.”
Mary Ann Evans