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WHAT IS MARRIAGE
MARRIAGE
Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. It is the foundation of the family and an inviolable social institution whose nature, consequences, and incidents, are governed by law and not subject to stipulation, except that marriage settlements may fix the property relations during the marriage within the limits provided by this Code. (FCP Art. 1.)
For matrimonial consent to exist, it is necessary that the contracting parties be at least not ignorant of the fact that marriage is a permanent partnership between a man and a woman, ordered to the procreation of children through some form of sexual cooperation. (CCL Art. 1096)
MARRIAGE
The matrimonial covenant by which a man and a woman establishes between themselves a partnership of the whole life, is by its nature ordered towards the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament. (CCC 1601)
A State
A Divine Institution
MARRIAGE
Sacred Reality
A Human Institution
A Social Institution
An Event
A Personal Affair
MARRIAGE
A Contract
A Covenant
RESULTS
Growing number of broken families Purely civil marriages Abortion Contraceptive mentality Church weddings are often marked by mere social display of affluence
WHAT IS NEEDED?
Prepared
O.T.
Instituted
N.T.
Israelites - Moses
By Jesus
By the CHURCH
THE PROMISE
- Prophet Hosea
THE FULFILLMENT
In the Bible are found two accounts of the Creation, one is called the Priestly account (Gen. 1:1-31) and the other is the Yahwist tradition (Gen. 2:2-25). The two complement each other and give a more detailed view of Gods work.
[Fr. Lana, OP, et al., 2004, p.9.]
Sexes/ Genders
PRIESTLY ACCOUNT
Procreation
Companionship
YAHWIST ACCOUNT
Oneness/ Unitive
Complementarity
4. Instead, woman was taken from the ribs of the man to show that they should always walk side by side in mutual support of each other.
5. Woman was also taken from the ribs of man because the ribs are closest to the heart. This therefore signifies that men should have women as the closest to their heart to love and to care for the rest of their lives.
CONCLUSION: Two Purposes of Marriage in Gods Original Plan: 1. Marriage is for Procreation. (Procreative)
2. Marriage is for the union between husband and wife. (Unitive)
These consequences of original sin will have a lasting effect in marriage as will be found in mans history.
Christ came as our Redeemer. He redeemed us from the bondage of sin in all its effects. He, therefore, also redeemed marriage and gave back its original richness.
MARRIAGE IN THE TEACHINGS OF CHRIST Source: John 15:12-14 1. Christ taught us the deeper meaning of love.
Implication: Christ has made the quality of his love for us as the standard of true love. That is, love calls for fidelity, unconditional surrender and forgiveness in the instance of failure.
Source: Matthew 19:3-11 4. The Teaching of Jesus about Celibacy Implication: Jesus provided an option, that is, celibacy for the sake of Gods kingdom.
MARRIAGE IN THE TEACHINGS OF ST. PAUL Source: 1 Corinthians 7:3-4 He exalted the value of MARITAL ACT/CONJUGAL ACT by referring to it as THE RIGHT OF BOTH HUSBAND AND WIFE. He calls this technically as a MARITAL DEBT.
MARRIAGE IN THE TEACHINGS OF ST. PAUL Source: Ephesians 5:25-27 2. He reiterated the UNITIVE aspect of marriage by linking the union between husband and wife to the love and everlasting union between Christ and His spouse, the Church. Husbands should love their wives the way Christ loves His Church.
Contract
Celebration MARRIAGE
Covenant
Vocation
Marriage is a joyous celebration. And what adds colors to the celebration is the ceremony.
SACRAMENT is a saving symbolic act or visible sign arising from the ministry of Christ and continued in, by and for the church, which when received in faith, fashions us into the likeness of Christ in His Paschal mystery through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Wedding celebration marks the solemn entry of the spouses into a binding commitment before God and the Christian community. It is a public declaration of their love-commitment before Christ and the Church.
The ecclesiastical form requires the groom and the bride to express freely and publicly their consent to take each other as husband and wife before the presence of a priest and deacon, and witnesses in these or similar words:
I take you as my lawful husband (or wife) according to the rites of holy Mother the Church.
I give myself to you as your lawful wife (or husband). I take you as my lawful husband (or wife).
These words however, may take the form of questions asked by the priest or deacon to which the groom and the bride normally respond with I do.
After the exchange of vows, the couple prays to the Lord together:
and one soul from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do as part.
Since they are the ones who mutually confer upon each other the sacrament of matrimony, the husband and the wife are the ministers of Christs grace. The priest or the deacon who assists the celebration receives the consent in the name of the church and gives the blessing.
MATTER
MINISTERS
FORM
In marriage, the external sign is the love relationship between spouses. [CFC 1881]
Bridal Procession
White Gown
Joining of hands
Rings Arrhae
SYMBOLS
Candles Veil
Cord
PROPERTIES OF MARRIAGE
1. Proles :: Openness to Fertility.
Biological Dimension: The capacity of the husband and the wife to procreate offspring through sexual union.
ISSUE :: How about the infertile spouses?
ANSWER: They are still open to fertility by observing the natural laws and rhythm of fertility. (Here, contraception is seen as the tampering of this natural process of fertility.)
PROPERTIES OF MARRIAGE
2. Fides :: Unity and Fidelity
Couples must unite more intimately in their relationship (self-giving_. It signifies Gods covenant which is characterized with patience, understanding, kindness and forgiveness. To open up ones heart and extend ones hand to a repentant beloved.
PROPERTIES OF MARRIAGE
3. Sacramentum :: Indissolubility and Permanence The indissolubility of marriage is possible because God willed it so: Let no one separate what God has joined.
religious sect;
parties who
solemnizing officer.
WHICH MARRIAGES DOES THE LAW CONSIDER VOID FROM THE VERY BEGINNING?
1. Those contracted by any party below eighteen years of age even with the consent of parents or guardians; 2. Those solemnized by any person not legally authorized to perform marriages unless such marriages were contracted with either or both parties believing in good faith that the solemnizing officer had the legal authority to do so; 3. Those solemnized without license, except those covered by the preceding Chapter; 4. Those bigamous or polygamous marriages not failing under Article 41;
WHICH MARRIAGES DOES THE LAW CONSIDER VOID FROM THE VERY BEGINNING?
5. Those contracted through mistake of one contracting party as to the identity of the other; and 6. Those subsequent marriages that are void under Article 53.
7. A marriage contracted by any party who, at the time of celebration, was psychologically incapacitated to comply with the essential marital obligations of marriage, shall likewise be void even if such incapacity becomes manifest only after its solemnization. 8. Between ascendants and descendants of any degree; and
WHICH MARRIAGES DOES THE LAW CONSIDER VOID FROM THE VERY BEGINNING?
9. Between brothers and sisters, whether of the full or half blood. 10. Between collateral blood relatives whether legitimate or illegitimate, up to the fourth civil degree;. 11. Between step-parents and step-children; 12. Between parents-in-law and children-in-law; 13. Between the adopting parent and the adopted child; 14. Between the surviving spouse of the adopted child and the adopter;
WHICH MARRIAGES DOES THE LAW CONSIDER VOID FROM THE VERY BEGINNING?
15. Between the surviving spouse of the adopted child and the adopter; 16. Between an adopted child and a legitimate child of the adopter; 17. Between adopted children of the same adopter; 18. Between parties where one, with the intention to marry the other, killed that other persons spouse, or his or her own spouse.
ESSENTIAL CHARACTERISTICS OF CHURCH LAW ON MARRIAGE THE CHURCH Mixed Marriages & Disparity of Cult:
Canonical Requirements: 1. Permission to get married by the local ordinary. 2. The declaration and promise by the Catholic party:
Catholic party will declare removal of any danger of falling away from faith; Promise to do all power to have all the children baptized and brought up on the Catholic Church. The non-Catholic party should be informed of this promise. Both parties are to be instructed about the purposes and essential properties of marriage.
PART II
APPRECIATING GODS DESIGN FOR THE FAMILY
MATERIALISM
HEDONISM
CONSUMERISM
SECULARISM
The family is PRO-LIFE. (The family proclaims, celebrates, serves and nurtures life.)
Fully Human
Fecund
Total
The family is the smallest social unit, the basic component, and fundamental to the life of the society. Likewise, the family is the first school of humanity where the parents are first and foremost educators of the child. The home prepares the individual for the more demanding relationship outside the family, for the strength of a nation is parallel to the strength of its human members. Indeed, the family is the first and the vital cell of the society.
WHAT IS COMMUNICATION?
It is a Basic Human Desire to express oneself whatever form it takes. One wants to be listened to, to be understood, to be recognized, to feel important to be in good relationship with others. If there is anything that gives man his special nature among all living things, it is his ability to communicate. He is the only living species with the power of speech.
DUOLOGUE
MONOLOGUE
Nonverbal
2. Communicating as adults
Intellectual stimulation and newness Ex.: sharing or exchanging ideas gathered from their work/profession and interests Bringing out the child in them Ex.: playfulness, creativity, wonder, laughter, adventure
3. Communicating as children
8. Communicating socially
Being-in-and-with-the-world Goes beyond the couples themselves to the world outside and brings the couples into communication with others
Husband-Wife Relation
A PARENTS PRAYER
Lord give me wisdom
to deal with our children as you would, to see in each of them Your Holy image, To develop in them a Christ-like love of men not only a select few, to nurture in them a divine desire to put in and not simply to take out