Communication

Effective Communication in the Workplace
About your facilitators

Brenda Watkins, Trainer, Special Projects HCC and IT3 were fortunate to lure Brenda away from USF, where she was a full-time Visiting Instructor in the College of Education since 1996. Brendas work experience also includes a human resource background for several major companies in the Tampa area. She has a BS in Finance; an M.A. in Business and Office Education; and is a Ph.D. student in Higher Ed at USF. She has been a contributor in many conference presentations, and was an editor for Learning Disabilities 101: A Primer for Parents. Celeste Fenton, Director IT3 Holding a BA in Psychology, an M.Ed., and a Ph.D. in Education from the University of South Florida. Celeste has over 16 years experience as an educator in K-12 and higher-ed; and spent 10 years at Anheuser-Busch in HR management. In addition to directing the IT3 department, she also teaches as an adjunct for HCC. Active in the community, she has served as a board member for the Hillsborough County Childrens Services since being appointed by the Hillsborough County Commissioners in 2000. Also in 2000, Celeste was selected as a consultant to the United States Agency for International Development (USAID) for international educational and workforce development.
Training Agenda
Learning Objectives Introduction Awareness of Your Personal Style Skillful Listening Expressing Yourself Impact of Emotions
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Learning Objectives
After completing this workshop presentation, you will be able to:
1. 2. 3. 4. Develop an awareness of your personality and communication tendencies Learn how to listen more effectively to others Express yourself in a more clear and specific way Appreciate the power of emotions
Introduction
The ability to effectively communicate with others is one of the most powerful tools for personal and/or professional success. Most people are challenged by the many day-to-day interactions with co-workers, family, and friends. Emotion, communication and conflict are present in all human interactions and affects each of us in different ways.
Everyone manages emotion, communication and conflict from habit patterns and styles developed early in life and over time.
80% of problems in the workplace are communication related
Introduction
One of the quickest ways to alienate yourself from other people is to communicate unsuccessfully.
Effective communication empowers you to influence others.
Your capacity to communicate is often seen as an indicator of your ability and intelligence.
In this presentation, you will learn a variety of strategies to improve your communication skills, and break the cycle of destructive habits of personal interaction.
Unit One Awareness of Your Personal Style
Unit One
Awareness of Your Personal Style
Past Experiences Shape Communication Style

Communication doesnt just happen; your style is based on your experiences that over time have developed into a pattern of attitudes and actions.
It is a continuous cycle. Your experiences influence your thoughts. Your thoughts, over time, become your attitudes. These attitudes become the blueprint for new experiences, which develop into patterns of behavior.
An awareness of your personal style is critical to begin to transform negative attitudes and behaviors into positive ones. It is key to empowering you to establish personal responsibility and accountability in the midst of changing your behavior. Remember, the only person you can ever really control or change is yourself.
Unit One
Communication Skills Test

Discover your own level of interpersonal communication skills. Activity: Click on the link below and read the statements carefully, then indicate the degree to which they apply to you. After finishing the Communication Skills Test, you will receive a free basic report. NOTE: Do not feel pressured to purchase the detailed report for a fee.
Access the link below, and click on Non-members take the test GO
http://www.queendom.com/tests/relationships/communication_skills_r_access.html
Unit One
Take the Kiersey Temperment Sorter

Temperament is an arrangement of preferences or pre-dispositions towards developing certain attitudes and behaviors.
Activity: Access the link below. Complete the questions. http://www.advisorteam.com/temperament_sorter/register.asp?partid=1 For more information on the Kiersey Temperment Sorter and your type, access the following link and click on your type (SJ, SP, NF, NT) http://keirsey.com/pumII/temperdef.html
Unit One
Activity: What have you learned about yourself? Based on what you know about yourself and how you have handled similar situations in the past, how do you think you would handle the following scenario:
You have been asked to supervise a project. The success of the project is also dependent upon the contributions and feedback of other department groups. The deadline is approaching. The other managers/department groups have largely ignored requests for information, but complained in group meetings that the project is in danger of noncompletion. During manager meetings, this non-response has been raised as an issue, but your manager has not addressed it, stating that all of the managers are busy and that they will respond as soon as they can. However when the documentation is not provided to you, it is identified as your deficiency and has been designated as a risk to project completion. The end result is that you (your project) has been identified by senior management as being at risk for completion and as your deficiency. At one meeting, a manager who had ignored requests for information for several weeks, complained that you were harassing him. You felt frustrated and close to tears.
Unit Two Skillful Listening
Unit Two
Skillful Listening
Nine Steps to Effective Listening

1. Face the speaker and maintain eye contact. 2. Be attentive, yet relaxed. 3. Keep an open mind to the speakers message try to feel what the speaker is feeling. 4. Listen to the words and try to picture what the speaker is saying. 5. Do not interrupt and do not impose your "solutions." 6. Wait for the speaker to pause to ask clarifying questions - ask questions only to ensure understanding of something that has been said (avoiding questions that disrupt the speaker's train of thought). 7. Give the speaker regular feedback, e.g., summarize, reflect feelings, or simply say "uh huh." 8. Pay attention to nonverbal cues -- to feelings, tone of voice, inflection, facial expressions, gestures, posture. 9. Be aware of potential barriers that impact your ability to listen effectively.
Unit Two
Skillful Listening
Barriers to Listening
Sometimes people have a barrier that impedes their listening skills. Awareness of a barrier is the first step in being able to overcome it. Barriers to listening include: past experiences that influence our reaction to the speaker or the message worry, fear, anger, grief and depression individual bias and prejudice semantics and language differences noise and verbal "clutter" preoccupation, boredom and shrinking attention spans Activity: Awareness of a barrier is the first step in being able to overcome it and improve your listening skills. Look at the above list of barriers. Can you identify one or more barriers that may/does impact your ability to listen?
Skillful Listening Unit Two
Active Listening
Stay active by asking mental questions. Some questions you can ask yourself as you listen are: 1. What key point is the speaker making?
2. How does this fit with what I know from experience?

3. How can this information benefit me?
Unit Two
Skillful Listening
Looking and Acting Like a Good Listener Non-Verbal Communication

Turn your body and tilt your face toward the speaker. Use other parts of your body besides your ears to receive the message: 1. Look at the speaker to pick up nonverbal signals or cues 2. Your eyes will also send signals to the speaker 3. When the speaker sees a receptive audience they are motivated to work harder to communicate their message React to the speaker by nodding your head.
Unit Two
Skillful Listening
Acknowledgement
Listen and acknowledge what you hear the speaker saying, even if you don't agree with it. At this point do not express your point of view. Acknowledging the speakers thoughts and feelings does not mean that you approve of or agree with the speakers opinions or actions. Your ability to listen and then acknowledge what the speaker said allows the speaker to feel a sense of satisfaction of being understood
Skillful Listening Unit Two
Reflecting back
When making a statement, paraphrase and reflect back what you've heard the speaker say. Reflecting is affirming to the speaker and encourages the speaker to elaborate further or delve more deeply into the topic. Meaningful exchanges between you and the speaker are built on feedback. In order to accurately feedback a person's thoughts and feelings, you have to be consciously, actively engaged in the process of listening. Try to experience what the speaker is describing, feeling the speakers feelings through the lens of your own experience.
Unit Three Expressing Yourself
Unit Three
Expressing Yourself
Communicating Long or Emotional Messages

Briefly explain the intention of your conversation. . The other person(s) will attend better if they have a basic understanding of the time and effort they will be bringing to the conversation. Use I statements to communicate your feelings, and what you have personally seen, heard, need, or expect. Do not engage in verbal attacks on the other person. if you need to criticize, describe the behavior or actions of the other person that bother you. State what you need or expect in positive terms.
Unit Three
Expressing Yourself
Utilizing I Statements
Accept responsibility for your emotions Use I statements. Say I feel angry when rather than You make me mad
Activity: Consider the following statements you might make. How would you change . them into I statements? 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. You make me so mad when you dont complete your work on time. My supervisor frustrates me when she doesnt communicate her expectations. My employee aggravates me when she comes in late. My boss made me happy when he complimented my financial report. Those students make me sad when they dont study and fail their tests.
Unit Three
Expressing Yourself
Five Components of Your Message

Your communication should include these five important components: 1. What you are seeing have seen 2. What you are hearing have heard 3. What you are feeling have felt about the issue
4. What you need or want

5. What the positive result will be from receiving/acting on your request
Unit Three
Expressing Yourself
Five Components of Your Message
Activity: For the three situations listed below, think how you would communicate: What you are seeing have seen What you are hearing have heard What you are feeling have felt about the issue What you need or want What the positive result will be from receiving/acting on your request 1. Your boss marked you low on your performance review. This was the first indication you had of how you were performing in your job. An employee you supervise has been frequently absent causing lost production and a hardship for the rest of the employees in your unit. Your coworker has been opening your mail and going through your desk drawers, as well as saying negative things to others behind your back.
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Unit Four Impact of Emotions
Unit Four Impact of Emotions

Unit Four
Emotional Obstacles
Emotional obstacles to effective communication include: Vulnerability people may not express their true feelings because they do not want to expose themselves to others Protecting people may not want to express their true thoughts because they dont want to hurt or upset the other person
Expectations - social, professional, or cultural rules may inhibit expression of some feelings
Fear people seek approval and acceptance so they are often reluctant to say what they really mean for fear of rejection
Impact of Emotions Unit Four
Manage your emotions

Recognize what you are feeling. Are you angry, embarrassed, or hurt? Simplify your feelings. Select one or two words to describe how you feel. Be specific. Do not act on your feelings right away. Dont make a decision, enter into a discussion, or send an email in anger or frustration. Choose an appropriate time and place to communicate. Accept that you are responsible for your emotions; Use I statements. Say I feel angry when rather than You make me mad
Unit Four
Impact of Emotions
Managing a conflict
Keep yourself calm by breathing slowly and deeply. Remember that this is only one temporary moment in your life.
Concentrate on what you need to move forward rather than dwell on the other persons mistakes. Summarize the other persons feelings to make sure that you understand what they are communicating. Give affirmation to the other person about what they may be feeling. Acknowledge and apologize for any mistakes you may have made. Focus on positive results and make specific requests that will enable the achievement of those goals.
Unit Four
Impact of Emotions
Activity: Reflect on the following situations. 1. Your boss reprimanded you at a department meeting for emailing a joke to others in the workplace. Personal emails and jokes are routine at the office. 2. Recently you shared your idea with a coworker on how to improve departmental operating procedure that could result in greater efficiency and increased revenue for the college. You scheduled a meeting with your supervisor to introduce the concept, but your coworker beat you to it, and has claimed your idea for their own. 3. You have learned that one of the employees you supervise frequently criticizes you harshly to others in and outside of your department.
What pointers from Managing Conflict and Managing Your Emotions would be helpful to you in the above situations?
Check Your Knowledge
Following are a series of questions for you to complete. These questions are designed to check your understanding of the information you just reviewed.
Question 1
1. Past experiences A. have little or no effect on your communication B. influence your thoughts which in turn become your attitudes over time C. are key to empowering you to establish personal responsibility D. All of the above
(Click the answer you think is correct.)
You have answered A. have little or no effect on your communication This answer is incorrect.
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Click Back to Question 1 (above) to review the question, then click B for further explanation.
You have answered

C. Is key to empowering you to establish personal responsibility
This answer is incorrect.

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You have answered D. All of the above This answer is incorrect.

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B. Influence your thoughts which in turn become your attitudes over time
This answer is correct.

Communication doesnt just happen; your style is based on your experiences that, over time, develop into a pattern of attitudes and actions. It is a continuous cycle. Your experiences influence your thoughts. Your thoughts, over time, become your attitudes. These attitudes become the blueprint for new experiences, which develop into patterns of behavior. An awareness of your personal style is critical to begin to transform negative attitudes and behaviors into positive ones. It is key to empowering you to establish personal responsibility and accountability in the midst of changing your behavior. Remember, the only person you can ever really control or change is yourself.
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Question 2
2. Acknowledging what the speaker is saying is valuable because A. It does not mean that you approve or agree with the speaker B. It allows the speaker to feel understood C. It is a defensive posture D. All of the above E. Only A and B
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A. It does not mean that you approve or agree with the speaker

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Click Back to Question 2 (above) to review the question, then click E for further explanation.
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B. It allows the speaker to feel understood

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C. It is a defensive posture

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D. All of the above

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E. Only A and B

Briefly explain the intention of your conversation.
The other person(s) will attend better if they have a basic understanding of the time and effort they will be bringing to the conversation.
Use I statements to communicate your feelings, and what you have personally seen, heard, need, or expect. Do not engage in verbal attacks on the other person; if you need to criticize, describe the behavior or actions of the other person that bother you. State what you need or expect in positive terms
Continue
Question 3
3. Consider the following scenario
You and your office coworkers have worked well together for approximately one year. Another person has joined the work team and trouble has started. This person appears very sensitive and frequently complains about being ignored. You and the staff have tried to include this person in conversation and activities, but the employee went to the supervisor after two weeks on the job and reported on a long list of office infractions. Several of the complaints were exaggerated or totally false. The supervisor held a meeting and firmly stated that department rules must be followed, that the office was too busy for pettiness, and that future complaints or issues should be settled between the staff. A preferred way to handle the situation would be which of the following?
A. Tell the coworker how mad they make you. B. Demand to have it out with the coworker while its all fresh in your mind C. Listen not as a critic, and desire to understand your coworker rather than to achieve either agreement from or change in them D. Concentrate on what you need to move forward rather than dwell on the other persons mistakes. E. B and C F. C and D
You have answered A. Tell the coworker how mad they make you This answer is incorrect.
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Click Back to Question 3 (above) to review the question, then click F for further explanation.
You have answered B. Demand to have it out with the coworker while its all fresh in your mind This answer is incorrect.
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You have answered C. Listen not as a critic, and desire to understand your coworker rather than to achieve either agreement from or change in them

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D. Concentrate on what you need to move forward rather than dwell on the other persons mistakes. This answer is incorrect.
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You have answered E. B and C This answer is incorrect.

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You have answered F. C and D
This answer is correct. In managing a conflict you should: 1. Concentrate on what you need to move forward rather than dwell on the other persons mistakes. Focus on positive results. 2. Summarize the other persons feelings to make sure that you understand what they are communicating. Give affirmation to the other person about what they may be feeling. 3. Acknowledge and apologize for any mistakes you may have made. 4. Focus on positive results and make specific requests that will enable the achievement of those goals.
To manage your emotions: 1. Recognize what you are feeling. Are you angry, embarrassed, or hurt? 2. Do not act on your feelings right away. Dont make a decision, enter into a discussion, or send an email in anger or frustration. 3. Choose an appropriate time and place to communicate. 4. Accept that you are responsible for your emotions; Use I statements. Say I feel angry when rather than You make me mad
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Question 4
4. When you want to communicate a long or complex message, you should A. Let the other person know this may be a long conversation B. Briefly explain the intent of the conversation C. Use I statements to specifically state your feelings D. Not engage in blame or verbal attacks E. All of the above
You have answered

A. Let the other person know this may be a long conversation

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B. Briefly explain the intent of the conversation

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C. Use I statements to specifically state your feelings

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D. Not engage in blame or verbal attacks

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E. All of the above

When communicating long or emotional messages, you should
Briefly explain the intention of your conversation.

The other person(s) will attend better if they have a basic understanding of the time and effort they will be bringing to the conversation Use I statements to communicate your feelings, and what you have personally seen, heard, need, or expect. Do not engage in verbal attacks on the other person; if you need to criticize, describe the behavior or actions of the other person that bother you. State what you need or expect in positive terms
Continue
Conclusion
Congratulations you have completed the pre-workshop on Effective Communication in the Workplace
You will receive verification via email or phone that you are registered for the instructor led workshop on Effective Communication in the Workplace.
Your supervisor will receive an email notifying them that you have completed the pre-workshop activity.
Thank you for your participation. If you have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact the IT3 office at 253-7338 or at it3@hccfl.edu

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About your facilitators

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Unit One Awareness of Your Personal Style

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Awareness of Your Personal Style

Past Experiences Shape Communication Style

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Awareness of Your Personal Style

Communication Skills Test

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Awareness of Your Personal Style

Take the Kiersey Temperment Sorter

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Awareness of Your Personal Style

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Unit Two Skillful Listening

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Nine Steps to Effective Listening

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Skillful Listening Unit Two

2. How does this fit with what I know from experience?

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Looking and Acting Like a Good Listener Non-Verbal Communication

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Skillful Listening Unit Two

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Unit Three Expressing Yourself

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Communicating Long or Emotional Messages

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Five Components of Your Message

4. What you need or want

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Unit Four Impact of Emotions