Rights of the Husband , Wife and children

The importance of meeting the spouse's rights in a marriage. The rights of the husband over the wife. The rights of the wife over the husband. The rights of the children

The importance of meeting the spouse's rights in a marriage.

all rights that fall upon a Muslim due to the general brotherhood of Islam are also due to one's spouse husband and wife have even greater rights and obligations toward each other "The best of you is the best of you to their family and I am the best of you to my family."

Rights of the Husband Over the Wife

Being head of the household {Men are in charge of women by that with which Allah has preferred some of them over others and by that which they spend from their property. So the pious women are obedient protecting in absence that which Allah has protected...} An-Nisaa:34 To be obeyed "No obedience in what is sinful. Obedience is only in what is right." Muslim & Bukhari Physical relations "Whenever a man calls his wife for his desire, let her come to him even if she is occupied at the oven." At-Tirmidhi (sahih) Control over who enters the house "...And that she should not admit anyone to his house except with his permission..." Muslim & Bukhari

 Wife leaves the house only with his permission "If the wife of any of you seeks permission to go to the masjid, he may not prevent her." Muslim & Bukhari Housework and being served by his wife To be shown gratitude for his efforts She does not fast (voluntary) except with his permission "It is not lawful for a woman to fast while her husband is resident except with his permission." Muslim & Bukhari
"When any woman prays her five, fasts her month, guards her body and obeys her husband it is said to her: Enter paradise from whichever of its doors you wish." Ibn Hibban (sahih per Al-Albani)

Rights of the Wife Over the Husband

The dowry {And give women their dowries as a gift. Then, if they are pleased to give some of it to you, consume it with good health and enjoyment.} AnNisaa:4 Support "Take was is sufficient for you and your child according to what is customary." Muslim & Bukhari Kind and proper treatment {...And consort with your wives in a goodly manner for, if you dislike them, it may well be that you dislike something which Allah makes a source of abundant good.} An-Nisaa:19 Marital relations In Sahih Ibn Hibban, the following was narrated:"The wife of 'Uthman ibn Madh'oon complained to the Messenger of Allah (sas) that her husband had no need for women.

 Not to be beaten {...And (as for) those (women) from whom you anticipate rebellion, admonish them, avoid them in the sleeping place and hit them. If they obey you, do not desire and further way to (harm) them. Surely, Allah is Knowing, Great.} An-Nisaa:34 Justice between multiple wives "Whoever has two wives and favors one of them will be resurrected on Qiyama with one of his sides hanging down." Abu Daud (sahih) To be taught her religion {O you who believe guard yourselves and your family members from a fire whose fuel is people and stones. Over it are tough and fearsome angels. They do not disobey Allah in any order they carry out that which they are ordered to do.} At-Tahreem:6 Defense of her honor

The rights of the children

PBUH said: "Every one of you (people) is a shepherd. And every one is responsible for whatever falls under his responsibility. A man is like a shepherd of his own family, and he is responsible for them." Bukhari and Muslim. "Upon death, man's deeds will (definitely) stop except for three deeds, namely: a continuous charitable fund, endowment or goodwill; knowledge left for people to benefit from; and pious righteous and Godfearing child who continuously prays Allah, the Almighty, for the soul of his parents." Muslim.