PRESENTATION ON YOU CAN WIN

PRESENTED- BYKESHAW & RAVIRANJAN KUMAR

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IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDE

WHAT MAKES YOUR LIFE 100% ?

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YOUR ATTITUDE CONTRIBUTES TO SUCCESS

A study attributed to Harvard University found that when a person gets a job or promotion ,85% of the time its because of the attitude, and only 15% of the time because of intelligence and knowledge of specific facts and figures. It is surprising that almost 100% of education dollars go to teach facts and figures, which account for only 15% of success in life!. THE TRUTH IS THAT WNNING IS ALL ABOUT 85% OF SUCCESS ,THAT IS ATTITUDE .

THE CAN DO ATTITUDE

You

CAN DO everything, but not all at once. You CAN DO everything, if its important enough for you to do. You CAN DO everything, but you may not be the best at everything. You CAN DO everything, but there will be limitations. You CAN DO everything, but youll need help.

HOW TO BUILD POSITIVE ATTITUDE

STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Step1: Change focus look for the positive - Most people find what they are looking for. If they are looking for friendship, happiness and the positive, that is what they get. If they are looking for fights or indifference, then that is what they get. Step 2: Make a habit of doing it now - Life is not a dress rehearsal. I don't care what philosophy you believe in--we have got only one shot at this game called life. The stakes are too high. The stakes are the future generations. Step 3: Develop an attitude of gratitude - Count your blessings, not your troubles. Take time to smell the roses.

STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Step 4: Get into a continuous education program - Spend so much time improving yourself that you have no time left to criticize others. Step 5: Build a positive self-esteem - If you want to build positive self-esteem quickly, one of the fastest ways is to do something for others who cannot repay you in cash or kind. Step 6: Stay away from negative influences - A persons character is not only judged by the company he keeps, but also by the company he avoids.

STEPS FOR BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE

Step 7: Learn to like the things that need to be done Start by doing what is necessary, then what is possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible. --St. Francis of Assisi

Step 8: Start your day with a positive "If you are going to change your life, you need to start immediately and do it flamboyantly."

SUCCESS

EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE

Henry Ford was broke at the age of 40. Lee Iacocca was fired by Henry Ford II at the age of 54. Young Beethoven was told that he had no talent for music, but he gave some of the best music to the world. In 1913, Lee De Forest, inventor of the triodes tube, was charged by the district attorney for using fraudulent means to mislead the public into buying stocks of his company by claiming that he could transmit the human voice across the Atlantic. He was publicly humiliated.

EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE

As a young cartoonist, Walt Disney faced many rejections from newspaper editors, who said he had no talent. One day a minister at a church hired him to draw some cartoons. Disney was working out of a small mouse infested shed near the church. After seeing a small mouse, he was inspired. That was the start of Mickey Mouse.

EVERY SUCCESS STORY IS A STORY OF GREAT FAILURE

In 1914, Thomas Edison, at age 67, lost his factory, which was worth a few million dollars, to fire. It had very little insurance. No longer a young man, Edison watched his lifetime effort go up in smoke and said, "There is great value in disaster. All our mistakes are burnt up. Thank God we can start anew." In spite of disaster, three weeks later, he invented the phonograph. What an attitude!

WHAT IS HOLDING US BACK..?

NEGATIVE EMOTIONS
Superiority and Inferiority complex

Fear
Stress

HOW TO INCREASE SELF CONFIDENCE

Think positively about yourself. Set realistic goals Reward/praise yourself when you DO well.

Be aware of your thoughts.

Think logically about the situation,

DONT react

Dwell on your strengths. Do not attribute your achievement and accomplishments only to luck. Give yourself credit for your own

personal achievement.
Learn to be assertive.

MOTIVATION

MOTIVATION IS THE PSYCHOLOGICAL FEATURE THAT AROUSES AN ORGANISM TO ACTION TOWARD A DESIRED GOAL AND ELICITS, CONTROLS, AND SUSTAINS CERTAIN GOAL DIRECTED BEHAVIORS.

Internal motives are considered as the needs that every human Motives can be divided into being experience Two Types:- External & External indicate the presence Internal. of specific situations where these needs arise.

SELF-ESTEEM

CHARACTERISTICS OF SELF ESTEEM

Builds strong conviction Creates willingness to accept responsibility Builds optimistic attitudes Leads to better relationships Makes a person self motivated and ambitious Makes a person open to new opportunities and challenges Improves performance and increases risk-taking ability

PEOPLE WITH POOR SELF ESTEEM

Gossip mongers Critical Nature Closed Minded Never Accept Responsibility Jealous by nature Bored and uncomfortable Dont have genuine friends

Tend to be lonely

THE IMPORATANCE OF INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

MEANING OF INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

Knowing and trusting each other Communicating with each other clearly Accepting and supporting each other Resolving conflicts and relationship problems constructively Conflict - a moment of truth in a relationship

IMPORTANCE OF INTERPERSONAL SKILLS

We are created for relationships, not isolation Our personal well-being The well being of society Self-actualization

DIFFICULTIES IN FORMING RELATIONSHIPS

Interacting with others is a dynamic process Roots of loneliness - nomadic lifestyle, impersonality of city life, limits of relationships commitment Destructive and abusive relationships - in our personal lives and in organizations

25 STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE PERSONALITY

STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE PERSONALITY

1. Accept responsibility. 2. Concentration. 3. Think win/win. 4. Choose your work carefully. 5. Do not criticize and complain. 6. Smile and be kind. 7. Put positive interpretation on other peoples behavior. 8. Be good listener. 9. Be enthusiastic. 10. Give honest and sincere appreciation. 11. When we make a mistake, we should accept it, willingly and immediately.

STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE PERSONALITY

12. When the other person realize and admit that he has made a mistake, congratulate him & give him a way out to save face. 13. Discuss but dont argue. 14. Dont gossip. 15. Turn promises into commitment. 16. Be grateful but dont expect gratitude. 17. Be dependable and practice loyalty. 18. Avoid awareness grudges. 19. Forgive and forget. 20. Practice honesty, integrity & sincerity. 21. Practice humility.

STEPS TO BUILD A POSITIVE PERSONALITY

22. Be understanding and caring. 23. Practice courtesy on a daily basis. 24. Dont be sarcastic and put others down. 25. Develop a sense of humor.

VALUES AND VISION

BECOME INTERNALLY DRIVEN, NOT EXTERNALLY DRIVEN

No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. - Eleanor Roosevelt

TAKE INVENTORY: MAKE A LIST OF ALL YOUR STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES

Successful people realize their limitations but build on their strengths. Unless, we know these things, how can we build on them?