438: DO THE OPPOSITE

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438: DO THE OPPOSITE

FromONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

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Jul 24, 2018

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Learn what happens to the two of you when you choose to do the opposite of what you feel like doing in difficult situations. | "In order to carry a positive action we must develop here a positive vision." —Dalai Lama

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Jul 24, 2018

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Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind-blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

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003 – Rejection: Our McDonald’s Theory: Have you ever given any thought to the power the word NO has on your marriage? What might be a minor decision for a wife/husband (do we or don't we make love tonight) can have a larger impact on our marriages, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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006 – Power of Prayer: The Power of Prayer...change is possible, are you willing to ask for what you want and wait for it to happen? - In our microwave society we want what we want RIGHT NOW! The reality is this: we can't change our spouse or their actions no matter how muc... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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011 – Our Beginning…How the Romance Started: We step back in time to talk about how it all started for us. It was the summer of 1994 when Alisa came to the University of Colorado at Boulder on an internship program. I was a student, cook, and maintenance man around the fraternity house where she ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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019 – God Wants You to Make an Impact: Small acts done with great love can transform the world. -Jill Todd - Do you realize the power that you have? Every day we are presented with opportunities to change someone's life be it through a conversation, a situation, a prayer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
051 – True Friendship: Lessons I learned from watching my kids (Alisa)...This weekend as I watched my son make decisions about his birthday cake based on the fact that one of his best friends was coming. He sacrificed what he may have wanted for what a friend would prefer. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
62 min listen
032 – Home Sweet Home: We spent last week in Morro Bay on our family vacation. We had a lot of fun together and a few not so fun times. Just goes to show that we are still a work in progress and that this thing called marriage takes on-going effort. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
041 – Is Your Marriage an Adventure or a Burden?: Have you taken the time to think about how you view your marriage? Every relationship has highs and lows but the difference is all in your mindset. Do you choose to look at the future wondering what is around the corner or do you dread every day. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
001 – 60 Days of Sex: Eleven years and our marriage had gone through a lot and yet the pain we endured didn't have to be there forever. So on a fateful day Tony & Alisa began an adventure that would forever change their lives. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
34 min listen
012 – Fireproof: "Never leave your partner, especially in a fire." - We are a little behind the times but better late than never. This is an amazing movie that will dramatically impact you wherever you are in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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008 – Eyes Wide Open: Are you able to communicate your desires to your spouse? How do you react when he/she suggests trying something new. In this podcast Tony and Alisa talk about one of Tony's ideas and how it played out in the bedroom. - by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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030 – Sex In The Bedroom: Are you able to share your sexual passions and desires to your spouse? What's keeping you from having meaningful conversation about this area of your life? There are so many distractions pulling us in so many directions that we forget that God has give... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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034 – Can We Talk?: Week 2 - Stripped Down 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage Small Group Podcast - Communication is vital to any marriage and it's importance cannot be overstated. You need to work past the surface conversation and learn about what is really... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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010 – Can You Admit When You Are Wrong?: Can you admit when you are wrong? Or are you quick to jump on the defensive when your spouse brings up an issue? Listen in as we share our less than perfect week. I (Alisa) was moody and irritable, quick to dismiss anything that Tony had to say. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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018 – Interview: Facebook and Your Marriage: We are pleased to have had the chance to interview Jason & Kelli Krafsky authors of Facebook and Your Marriage. - Jason & Kelli have been married since 1994 and been on Facebook since 2008. They have written a number of articles, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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013 – The Difference One Week Can Make in Your Marriage: Can 7 days really make a difference in your marriage? We are placing bets that it can. Decide that for one week your spouse is going to be your number one priority and see what happens. Celebrate as you rediscover the communication in your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
37 min listen
007 – Pornography: A Secret That Can Destroy Your Marriage: Are you aware of the destructive force that pornography can have in your marriage? 28,358 individuals are viewing porn every second Internet porn generated $2.84 billion in 2006 70% of porn is viewed between the 9-5 eight-hour workday (LJ INdex, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
61 min listen
022 – Is It Safe To Share My Emotions: Have you created a marriage where it is safe to share your emotions-both the good and the bad? Are you willing to let the person, who is supposed to love you the most, in on what is truly going on with you? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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004 – Listener Feedback: In this episode we answer a number of questions from one of our listeners about ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Click here to read the email. Some of the questions we answer are: - Who we are? Why we are doing this? Where did ONE come from? by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
016 – An Attitude of Service: Do you have an attitude of service in your marriage? You can make a difference in your marriage, in your life, in the world. By choosing to serve, without expectation or requirement of a return, you free yourself to fully enjoy intimacy. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
55 min listen
033 – From the Top Down & More…: This is the first of our small group podcast on Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Marriage. Each week we will be coving the different Keys that you can use in your marriage today, tomorrow, and into the future to build passion, romance, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
56 min listen
027 – The Whole Enchilada: Are you loving your spouse with your whole self, serving them in all areas or are you just giving them a part of yourself? Intimacy involves more than just the physical intimacy we think of most the time. There is emotional, intellectual, recreational, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
021 – All is Fair in Love and Marriage…: Do you feel like things aren't fair in your marriage? Are you busier keeping track of who did what than how you are serving your spouse? - Listen as we respond to a twitter question about whether marriage is fair or can be fair. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
57 min listen
025 – Getting Away: It's time to get away with your spouse and reconnect. Getting away gives you the opportunity to have those deep conversations, to sleep late and explore new places with your one and only.Getting away allows you to refocus your priorities and make your ... by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
54 min listen
017 – Are You too Tired to Try?: Have you worn yourself down? Are there too many "things" demanding your attention? In this weeks podcast we tackle the issue of fatigue in our marriage and how it has the ability to wreak havoc on our marriage and your relationships. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
52 min listen
052 – The Christmas Story: Have you ever stopped to think about the couple behind the Christmas story? Mary and Joseph faced incredible challenges in their young relationship, but they had God the Father and God the Son at the center of their marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
048 – Count Your Blessings: Thanksgiving is just a few days away and this is a fantastic time to reflect back on all of your blessings both large and small. Sometimes in the midst of everyday life we lose sight of how much we have received. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
59 min listen
023 – Get Unplugged and Find Your Connection: We spent Memorial Day weekend unplugged out at Agua Caliente State Park...no phones, no computers, no video games. It was an amazing time of re-discovering the joys that we have in each other. It was a weekend of togetherness, laughter and conversations. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
53 min listen
036 – What If?: What if we had never done the 60 Days of Sex Challenge? Where would our own marriage be today? Where would the ONE Community be? We talk through the last two years and challenge you to stop asking the "what if" question and start doing something today .. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
58 min listen
047 – Getting On the Same Page: We are almost to 2011 and it’s a great time to be thinking about your goals for next year. So often we focus on our individual goals but it’s time to sit down and work through the goals the two of you have for your marriage. by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
61 min listen
045 – Can You Face the Music?: So often in our marriages we fail to take responsibility for our actions. Have you ever not apologized? Just swept the issue “under the rug”? Waited for everything to blow over? STOP IT! It’s does not matter if you get the words right, by ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
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438: DO THE OPPOSITE

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