Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 24

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 24

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-03-1

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) The technology of information and communication will contribute to the acceleration of the formation and development of an efficient codevelopment of many people. 2) Without positive ideas no progress in any area of activity can be achieved. 3) Global projects generate a high number of local projects. 4) Those who work with dedication have more and greater chances to achieve more and greater successes. 5) Dates, the institutions of states, the local communities need to support, stimulate, and reward positive human actions, that are good for people, that occupy their time in a positive way and for their own good.
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6) Sportive events help maintain health, help develop more qualities and prevent more negative actions, a fact that is necessary to be supported and encouraged. 7) The events in our life influence us more or less depending from one person to another. 8) Our life is influenced by a larger number of influences. 9) In life is this not necessary to wait to do something with the approval of somebody else. 10) Our thinking must be independent, must never be according to what x or y says, but only according to logic, to the law, to fairness, and humanism. 11) In life, we must not behave like x or y says, but according to the way we think it is best, positive, correct, legal and human.
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12) Our behaviors must always be humane. 13) Our behaviors humanize society. 14) When we have personal goals we trust the future more. 15) Personal goals give us trust in the future. 16) Working with dedication we will achieve personal values. 17) Those who do not have personal goals in life live a life at random. 18) Those who do not have personal goals in life live their life like a leaf in the wind. 19) Many of those who have no personal goals have lives that are full of trouble, sufferance, disappointments, failures, etc. 20) Many people are more capable than they think they are, but underestimate themselves many times.
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21) Successes increase our confidence in ourselves, in our forces. 22) Many of us can perform incredible deeds but we do not, not because we do not have the knowledge and qualities necessary to do them, but because we do not trust ourselves, our forces and some of us because we are not sufficiently motivated. 23) We can solve the problems we have to solve if we dedicate ourselves totally to solving them, if we document as long as it is necessary to solve them and if we persevere until solving those problems. 24) Each of us has different reasons to achieve some personal goals, usually they cannot be the same reasons, and we can never foresee the reason for determining our personal goals without studying them. 25) Some of us are extremely glad when we manage to achieve a personal goal or
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more personal goals, and others have consumed their joys during their efforts in their work done to achieve that goal or those goals. 26) Personal goals are short term personal goals and long term personal goals. Their efficiency is the situation when short term personal goals contribute directly or indirectly to achieving long term personal goals. 27) Long term personal goals influence short term goals very much. 28) Achieving many short term personal goals positively influence some or all long term personal goals. 29) Achieving some short term personal goals motivates us a lot to achieve other short term goals and long term ones. 30) The successes we obtain motivate us a lot in the efforts to achieve other successes.
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31) The successes we have obtained have created a special positive experience. 32) Our achieved successes are sources of positive models for present and future behaviors for all of us. 33) Successes, the stages to achieving successes are very valuable treasures of positive experience. 34) We cannot change what we have done in the past, but we can change our present behaviors and can create positive new behaviors. 35) We can learn very much from our past both positive and negative mistakes. 36) What we learn from our past is necessary to use as much as possible to achieve personal goals. 37) By developing new abilities, new attitudes and new qualities we will increase our chances very much to achieve personal goals.
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38) By acting with dedication, with a maximum of efficiency, with the necessary documentation we will become all we can become. 39) In life, it is necessary to permanently ask for what is rightfully ours for all that we have done and all that we do. 40) Cynicism pushes others away from the ones who are cynical. 41) States need to encourage, push and reward innovation not be against it. 42) Skepticism makes it very hard for us to achieve some short term objectives which motivate us a lot to achieve personal goals. 43) Through self instruction, through experience and contact with people who have gained successes we get rid of skepticism. 44) Those who are insufficiently
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documented on a problem they have to solve can be skeptical about solving it. 45) Those who are skeptical are less active. 46) Usually, those who are optimistic are more active. 47) Optimism makes our life a lot more beautiful. 48) Optimism helps us maintain a happy marriage. 49) Optimism helps us achieve more easily greater successes. 50) Optimism helps us maintain true friendships. 51) Optimism helps us achieve efficient co operations. 52) Optimism increases and maintains our perseverance. 53) Optimism increases our enthusiasm. 54) Optimism creates good mood. 55) Optimism gives us power.
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56) Optimism maintains our good mood. 57) Optimism makes us more confident in ourselves. 58) When we have correctly established our personal goals we have the possibility to more efficiently manage our time. 59) The efficient management of our time helps us a lot in achieving more and greater successes. 60) The efficient management of our time helps us and increases our chances to achieve personal goals. 61) The efficient management of our time helps us and increases our chances to achieve a beautiful life. 62) Optimism is a state that stops and slows down stress. 63) We need to be permanently careful at how we order and reorder our priorities of personal goals.
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64) We need to give the necessary time for our souls nourishment. 65) Many people do not give the necessary attention for the nourishment of their souls. 66) By giving the attention and time necessary to nourish our souls we increase our chances to achieve personal goals. 67) In everything we do, when we do it, it is necessary to concentrate on what we are doing. 68) When we focus on what we are doing we increase our chances to prevent mistakes. 69) Focusing on what we do is a necessity. 70) Focusing on what we do helps us a lot to achieve personal goals. 71) Focusing on what we do helps us make the things we do of good quality. 72) Focusing on what we do helps us a
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lot to have even more chances to meet more favorable situations. 73) Concentrating on what we do helps us a lot to achieve more and greater successes. 74) Concentrating to a maximum contributes to everything that is necessary to do; it helps us continually increase our efficiency. 75) For us to succeed in having success is it is necessary to study how others have obtained successes in the area that we desire to obtain successes in and not only. 76) In order to achieve personal goals it is necessary to study how other persons have achieved the same personal goals. 77) Men who have relationships with women with higher incomes than them must not feel like that is a complex. 78) It is absolutely normal that some women or many women earn more than
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men. 79) Men must respect women who earn more than they do. 80) Men who have wives who earn more than they do need to appreciate them very much. 81) Men need to be glad that women manage to have larger incomes than they do, because they have nothing to lose and should not have prejudices. 82) Men must not have prejudices towards women. 83) Men need to support and sustain women in everything positive that they do without a trace of prejudice. 84) Men, when they have failures, must not accuse the woman or their wife. 85) The discrimination of men towards women, their where it exists, must disappear as soon as possible. 86) The co-development of men and
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women stop and prevent discriminations. 87) The co-development of men and women is in both men and womens advantage. 88) The co-development of men and women makes both men and women a lot happier. 89) The co-development of men and women does them good, helps them achieve happy marriages. 90) The co-development of women and men is a necessity for society. 91) Education for co-development is a necessity to society. 92) Self- education for co-development is necessary to be a personal goal for each of us. 93) Co-development is more efficient than individual development. 94) Forming and developing codevelopment thinking must be for each of
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us a personal goal. 95) Co-development helps us a lot in achieving personal goals. 96) Each of us needs to form and develop responsible thinking. 97) Responsible thinking produces responsible ideas. 98) Responsible thinking and responsible ideas create responsible behaviors. 99) Responsible behaviors contribute a lot to solving problems. 100) Responsible behaviors must be promoted, supported and rewarded. 101) Unfortunately, some people do what is easier even if they steal instead of working. 102) Sometimes, some people, in order to assert themselves at any cost, lie. 103) Many people speak everything that comes to mind before thinking in order to
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impress others. 104) Those who speak without thinking before they speak harm themselves many times. 105) Those who speak without thinking before what they speak harm themselves and those who listen to them in one way or another, they can steal their precious time, they misinform others, they lead others into error, etc. 106) Unfortunately, some televisions promote very harmful negatives models of behavior. 107) The more knowledge we have the more chances we have to create new ideas. 108) Methods of creation help us increase our creative capacity. 109) The more knowledge we have and the more creative methods we apply the more chances we have to achieve personal goals.
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110) The more knowledge we have and the more methods of creation we apply the more chances we have to meet more favorable situations. 111) Creative ideas help us a lot to increase our chances to meet more favorable situations. 112) Creative ideas help us a lot to increase our chances to achieve personal goals. 113) By studying our life experience we can find out where we did wrong, where we did not and we can find efficient ideas which can help us achieve more quickly and easily our personal goals. 114) By studying our life experience we can find solutions and ideas which help us achieve more and greater successes. 115) By studying our life experience and using what we need we can become more confident in our future.
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116) We need to use our life experience to achieve a more beautiful life. 117) In order to develop a more humane society it is necessary to form and develop a humanist thinking. 118) Achieving a humanist society is a necessity for each country. 119) Humanist states will be able to use more effectively all their resources to satisfy peoples needs. 120) Studying day by day, continuously we live the life of people around us, of those who have successes, and we have great possibilities to find more effective, positive behaviors that can help us a lot in achieving personal goals. 121) Each of us needs to prevent irresponsible behaviors as they are very harmful both to us and to other persons. 122) Irresponsible behaviors need to always be prevented because,
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unfortunately, although they are very harmful in many situations we often find them in 2007. 123) Irresponsible behaviors very much reduce our credibility. 124) The more responsible we are the more credible we become. 125) Efficient co operations make us become more credible. 126) Credibility helps us achieve efficient co-developments. 127) Credibility helps us achieve true friendships. 128) Credibility helps us achieve personal goals. 129) Credibility increases our chances to meet more favorable situations. 130) Credibility helps us more easily and more quickly achieve efficient co operations. 131) Positive behaviors make us more
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credible. 132) Humanist behaviors make us more credible. 133) Mental behaviors make us more credible. 134) The choices that we make day by day are at the same time an equally big number of positive chances, but, unfortunately, they are also a great number of ill fortunes. 135) The choices we can make continuously, day by day grow also due to the development of knowledge. 136) The choices we can make grow very much if we know a foreign language out of the ones that are more spoken. 137) The choices we can make increase very much if we have more personal goals to achieve. 138) The more informed and documented we are the more chances we have to
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identify more choices that we can make. 139) The more qualities we have the more chances we have to meet more choices that we can make. 140) Efficient co-developments increase our chances to meet more choices that we can make. 141) It is necessary to form and developed the science of making choices that are most adequate. 142) The science of making adequate choices helps you enormously in achieving more and greater successes. 143) The science of making the most adequate choices helps us become even more efficient. 144) Day by day the chances for more people to achieve a more beautiful life grow. 145) Credibility helps us a lot to make our life more beautiful.
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146) Those who have happy marriages are more credible. 147) We are very much mistaking when we make others responsible for our errors. 148) Those who believe that others are to blame for their mistakes are illogical in that rationality. 149) It is risky to cooperate with people who sometimes have illogical rationalities. 150) It is a risky to cooperate with people who are vengeful. 151) It is risky to cooperate with people who are partial. 152) Those who have objective thoughts have more chances to meet favorable situations. 153) For some, many situations can be favorable situations and for others they may be not. 154) Those who think objectively can more easily achieve personal goals.
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155) The philosophy of our life needs to help us achieve personal goals. 156) The philosophy of our lives needs to be developed and analyzed, completed, changed if necessary, for as long as we live. 157) The philosophy of our life needs to help us achieve as much positive actions as possible. 158) Selfishness is one of the behaviors that stop the solving of many human problems. 159) Selfishness is one of the behaviors that stop the achievement of efficient co operations. 160) Envy is one of the negative behaviors that stop the achievement of true friendships. 161) Meanness is one of the negative behaviors that stop the achievement of some efficient co operations.
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162) Surprisingly some people have very valuable positive ideas but unfortunately they have some negative ideas that harm them and others a lot. 163) States need to promote much more efficiently and strongly efficient positive ideas. 164) States need to stop the promotion of some negative ideas as they stop harmful products on the market. 165) Censorship does not mean that the states stop those negative ideas, that harm people, from being broadcasted. 166) Negative ideas can promote sufferings and enormous damages. 167) Those who create ideas have a very big responsibility. 168) The creators of ideas are extremely valuable if they produce useful ideas. 169) The more valuable an idea is the more valuable the one that created it
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becomes. 170) Many states unfortunately do not push; do not support sufficiently the production of ideas. 171) The production of ideas is one of the most efficient human activities. 172) The production of ideas of a man can be enormously increased through formation and continuous development of his capacity to create ideas. 173) Useful ideas can be sold and are sold as any other product. 174) Useful ideas help us enormously in achieving all of our personal goals. 175) Useful ideas help us very much to increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 176) Useful ideas help us a lot in achieving efficient co operations. 177) Those who easily produce useful ideas manage to maintain a happy
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marriage. 178) Those who increase their production of positive ideas increase their chances to meet more favorable situations. 179) Presently, every man, with the help of the Internet, of the telephone, etc., can very much contribute to promoting and supporting useful ideas. 180) In the present and from now on, every man with the help of the Internet, the telephone, etc., can contribute very much to accelerating human progress in all areas of activity. 181) Presently and from now on, every man of this planet needs to be aware that he has an enormous power, through unity, solidarity and co operations, with the help of the Internet, the telephone, mass media, communications in order to accelerate human progress, to build a better world in many areas of activity.
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182) Disputes that are not constructive are useless and inefficient for both parts or for all the parts involved. 183) Long term thinking can avoid many present disputes that are not constructive. 184) Long term thinking can lead to solving many local present problems. 185) Long term thinking is indispensable to solving global human problems. 186) It is necessary to continuously form and developed the science of long term thinking. 187) Many problems are considered by many people as impossible to resolve, and others consider them resolvable and they resolve them. 188) Some problems can be solved much quicker and much easier but they are not solved by those who were obliged to solve them. 189) People need and must act to sue all
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the elected and dignitaries, public clerks who do not respect their rights, who created damages. 190) Some people are so stupid that they harm themselves only to upset others. 191) Human stupidity is incredibly dangerous most of the times. 192) Sometimes human stupidity does not see that it harms the one who has it. 193) Those who do not have the capacity to tell what is right and wrong sometimes harm themselves. 194) In anger many unfixable mistakes can be made. 195) In anger many words are said that are not supposed to be said. 196) In anger many true friendships can be broken. 197) In anger many harmful offenses can be made. 198) In anger many disastrous arguments
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can be caused. 199) Anger is a primitive very harmful behavior. 200) He who is angry has only to lose and nothing to gain. 201) Hatred is a primitive behavior. 202) He who hates has nothing to gain. 203) He who hates harms himself. 204) He who hates can escape hatred. 205) Life can be more beautiful if we do not hate. 206) Life can be more beautiful if we do not hold grudges. 207) Sometimes some people are upset for what they shouldnt be upset about. 208) Continuous troubles but not repeated ones can negatively affect our health. 209) Continuously, day by day, for as long as we live it is necessary to prevent having negative behaviors because these
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behaviors can sometimes produce more or less harm. 210) Communication between friends brings them closer. 211) Communication between friends makes them each feel better. 212) Communication between friends must be supported. 213) Communication between friends must be appreciated. 214) Communication between friends must be encouraged. 215) Communication between friends is like oxygen to life. 216) It is a great stupidity to be envyous of the achievements of others. 217) Envy is an abnormal behavior. 218) We must appreciate those who have achievements. 219) We must esteem those who have achievements.
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220) We must reward those who have achievements. 221) We must take from those who have achievements their efficient behaviors. 222) We must always support those who have positive actions. 223) We must appreciate all of those who have positive actions. 224) Mutual correct appreciations maintain friendships. 225) Appreciating positive actions makes those who do them stronger. 226) Life is a lot more pleasant when your positive actions are appreciated. 227) Appreciating positive actions contributes to the achievement of other positive actions. 228) Communication between friends helps them grow closer a lot faster. 229) Friends must achieve a more intense communication.
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230) Some friendships contribute to the achievement of outstanding professional records. 231) Some friendships are true models to follow. 232) Mutual respect in a friendship is a necessity. 233) Mutual esteem in a friendship is a necessity. 234) Friendships help us develop our personality. 235) Efficient friendships help us form certain qualities. 236) Efficient friendships help us develop certain qualities that help us achieve our personal goals. 237) Efficient friendships help us develop our ability of communication. 238) Those who know how to make friends have greater chances to find the right partner for life.
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239) People who have the ability to achieve and maintain friendships have more chances to achieve and maintain a happy marriage. 240) A woman who has a true friend is very happy. 241) Sensible men can more easily achieve true friendships with women. 242) Sensible men more easily achieve happy marriages. 243) Sensible men are more loved. 244) Friendships are good for our health. 245) Friendships bring us many satisfactions. 246) In some persons loneliness harms them a lot. 247) Inter human effective relationships can be formed, they are not just given. 248) For each of us the formation and maintenance of inter human relations must be a personal goal.
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249) Sincerity helps us more easily make friends. 250) Fairness helps us more easily make friends. 251) Objectivity helps us more easily make friends. 252) The ability to understand helps us make friends a lot easier. 253) The ability of commitment makes us make friends a lot easier. 254) Sincerity helps us maintain true friendships. 255) Fairness helps us maintain true friendships. 256) Objectivity helps us maintain true friendships. 257) The ability to understand helps us maintain true friendships. 258) Kindness helps us more easily make friends. 259) Kindness helps us maintain our true
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friendships a lot easier. 260) Love gives us powers. 261) Love makes us more optimistic. 262) Love makes us stronger. 263) Love makes us enthusiastic. 264) Love makes us better. 265) Love sometimes makes us more flexible.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-03-1

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