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your tantra newsletter: 5 secrets of longer lovemaking from ancient traditions & one from victorian
america: introducing our new ecourse, the flagship of our 33% off total longer lovemaking
package

"sacred sexual secrets" newsletter 11/22/06

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published by somraj pokras and jeffre talltrees

issn 1540-8825 (c) copyright 2006 by tantraattahoe.com

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this free ezine offers practical sex tips derived from the ancient wisdom of tantra and the kama
sutra coupled with modern sex research. we teach supreme bliss tantra which is spiritual sex that
helps you deepen relationship intimacy and reach astounding heights of sexual ecstasy through
long-distance learning and hands-on training.

our motto: deeper into the heart of sex

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if you don't want this newsletter, scroll to the end to stop them.

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contents

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* thanksgiving message: "thoughts for giving thanks"

* featured ecourse: "get our new longer sex ecourse for free!"

* featured article: "5 secrets of longer lovemaking from ancient

traditions plus one from victorian america"

* tantric quote: "going to the deepest core of the other"

* tantric quote: "sex as a gateway to richer deeper experience"

* featured ebook: "ultimate premature ejaculation mastery"

* featured dvd: "lover's guide to extended orgasm ejaculation control"

* juicy joke: "a make-up gift for the wife"

* featured discount: "save 33% on total longer lovemaking package"

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thanksgiving message: "thoughts for giving thanks"

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the most destructive habit ..................................worry

the greatest joy ............................................giving

the greatest loss......................................self-respect

the most satisfying work.............................helping others

the ugliest personality trait.........................selfishness

the most endangered species.........................dedicated leaders

our greatest natural resource..............................our youth

the greatest "shot in the arm".......................encouragement

the greatest problem to overcome.........................fear

the most effective sleeping pill.......................peace of mind

the most crippling failure disease..........................excuses

the most powerful force in life .............................love

the most dangerous pariah..................................a gossiper

the worlds most incredible computer....................the brain

the worst thing to be without...............................hope

the deadliest weapon ......................................the tongue

the two most power-filled words .........................."i can"

the greatest asset ............................................faith

the most worthless emotion.................................self-pity

the most beautiful attire.....................................smile!

the most prized possession................................self esteem

the most powerful communication channel................prayer

the most contagious spirit................................enthusiasm

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with multiple orgasms for both.

to offer you our new ecourse -- a series of a few short online lessons -- we've extracted the most
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streamlined and updated format, in just a few hours of delightful practice with erotic massage and
kama sutra sexual positions, the two of you will master longer sexual intercourse and the ultimate
solution for couples orgasm mastery and premature ejaculation.

the 9 half-hour lessons about kama sutra love, sex, and intercourse includes 13 step-by-step sex
practices, 25 erotic exercises, and 28 guided sexual discussions that you and your honey do
together. they teach you 9 ways to reach pleasure peaks and orgasmic plateaus, 3 ways to
interrupt premature ejaculation, and 7 primary kama sutra sex positions plus multiple techniques
for longer lasting lovemaking during erotic massage and sexual intercourse.

because it's the most advanced part of our "total longer lovemaking package," we recommend he
learns solo sexual stamina first from the solo ecourse or ultimate mastery ebook in the package.

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featured article: "our new ecourse, the flagship of our total package"
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- how to use 5 secrets of longer lovemaking from -

- ancient traditions plus one from victorian america -

we're excited to announce our latest and greatest tantric sex teaching tool, the "longer lasting
lovemaking ecourse." right, it's just before thanksgiving day in the u.s., and we're feeling great
gratitude that we've finally completed this last step in our "total longer lovemaking package" of 3
ecourses and our best-selling, comprehensive "ultimate premature ejaculation mastery ebook"
which started it all.

it makes us feel great that we can help lovers like you all over the world.

do y ou realize that, in this little global village the internet has helped create (the world), we have
supreme bliss tantra students in 109 countries, most of them, bless their hearts, wanting to
master long lasting lovemaking? which is why our newest ecourse tickles the cockles of our
hearts (are cockles a sex organ?) and hopefully will yours, too, soon.
you know, the estimated 30 million men in the u.s. alone who suffer from premature ejaculation
aren't the first social group who wanted to develop longer lasting sex. which is why our continuing
research extends way past the forefronts of the modern sexual sciences into hidden erotic
traditions from all around the world. and that's partly why our ecourse's 38 exercises and 7
illustrated sex positions are based on techniques from ancient india, china, and arabia which
you've probably never heard of.

so, since the purpose of this article is to get you as jazzed about our new "longer lasting
lovemaking ecourse" as we are, i'm going to explain 5 sexual stamina methods from foreign
countries, as well as one from the victorian u.s. before we're done, i hope you'll understand the
value of these techniques as well as their limitations. which is where the real value of our new
ecourse comes in, which is teaching permanent mastery of the spiritual life force that's continually
percolating inside you to erupt as sexual energy, or what the ancients called "kundalini."

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tantric quote: "going to the deepest core of the other"

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"tantra is the science of contacting souls, of going to the deepest core of the other. tantra is one of
the most important secrets ever discovered. but it is very delicate because it is the greatest art. to
create a communion with the energy of the other, a dancing communion is the greatest and most
difficult art to learn." -- osho
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our journey through the sexual past of the world begins in ancient rome. isn't that where the
whole idea of orgies was popularized? like most things, the romans excelled at enjoying all sorts
of pleasures including sex. for example, the common practice at roman feasts was to eat your fill
from a buffet overflowing with mouth-watering treats. and then go out back, stick your finger down
your throat, and throw up so you could come back in and gorge yourself again.

ok, that's not exactly a tantric example. tantric adepts use pleasure to connect with the divine
forces at work inside, making sex a spiritual experience. why else do so many lovers cry "oh,
god!" while they're coming?

but the romans did have a similar trick that at least allowed them to extend lovemaking, called
"coitus reservatus." i'm not a latin scholar but i guess that means roughly doing whatever you can
to "reserve intercourse."

how do you do this? well, simple, when a guy gets too close to cuming he just pulls out. he better
know his body and his arousal signals because the sudden withdrawal can be kind of exciting
itself. so doing coitus reservatus too late can backfire. or more accurately, spill his seed on the
sheet instead of inside yoni (tantric for vagina).

plus, my wife hates it when i pull out and interrupt her pleasure so suddenly.

some believe withdrawing before ejaculating serves as an adequate form of birth control, but it
hasn't really been shown to be reliable. even in skilled hands (or maybe a skilled vajra -- the
tantric word for penis -- fits here better), his timing may not be perfect. plus there's pre-cum to
consider, but that's another story.

imsak

either way, pulling out before cuming isn't what you want to know how to do. it's how to not cum
and get back in for more, right? here's an excerpt from our new "longer lasting lovemaking
ecourse" that explains our second cultural visit to ancient arabia which explains how their long
lovers extended the pull-out method:

"another ancient long-lovemaking method with value was called imsak, a arabic word literally
meaning "retention." the term obviously refers to retaining semen while making love. imsak was
apparently developed for sultans and nobles who wanted to satisfy many of the wives in their
harem each night and couldn't keep getting it up again and again after cuming with each lover.

"unfortunately, historical records are very sketchy about the exact details of the imsak method.
what appears clear is that it used repeated coitus reservatus with the man entering and pulling
out up to 10 times. of course, withdrawal when he gets too close to avoid ejaculating resembles
our stop-start peaking method (one of the 38 exercises in the "longer lasting lovemaking
ecourse"). during each break while his erection and excitement subside, stroking, caressing, and
sensual touching provide an exciting way to build intimacy and connection.

"apparently, the power of imsak was that the repeated withdrawal allowed mutual arousal to build
higher and higher with each successive penetration. though lots of teasing can be a big turn-on,
this approach employs gentle mutual titillation to boost sexual energy. if done with great
sensitivity, the whole body becomes hypersensitive and highly charged. consequently, the
ultimate impact of imsak is only reached after 10 cycles of entry and departure."

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tantric quote: "sex as a gateway to richer deeper experience"

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"tantric buddhism is the much misunderstood practice of using the sexual energy as a way of
exploring spirituality -- using sex as a gateway to a richer and deeper spiritual experience, and
using spirituality as a means of expanding the sex act into one of erotic symbolism and
meditation." -- richard craze in "a beginner’s guide to tantric sexuality"

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of course, it would be even better if the guy didn't get so excited while thrusting inside yoni. which
is why this new ecourse is a couples program that should be preceded by him mastering sexual
stamina exercises to prevent premature ejaculation first. that's the purpose of our "solo premature
ejaculation mastery ecourse."

two centuries ago in new york some avant garde new age types had their own solution, as our
new ecourse explains:

"karezza is a still lovemaking technique first published by alice bunker stockham, a pioneering
american female physician, in 1883. with karezza, vajra remains in yoni for an hour or more
simply feeling the delightful energy. whether the members of the revolutionary oneida community
in new england who developed this technique were tantric or not, i don't know. but they sure had
something that we fast-paced, gratification junkies of the modern world could benefit from."

the way karezza works is simple. you move only enough to keep vajra hard enough to stay inside.
and just feel. now that's one of the bedrock principles of supreme bliss tantra, namely feeling.
heightening your sensitivity is one of the key portals to learning to master your kundalini sexual
energy. you know, like obi wan kenobi saying to luke "feel the force, luke!"

karezza offers a major step in our new ecourse which is a series of exercises we call "still viy"
which means "still vajra-in-yoni." "longer lasting lovemaking ecourse" continues:
"karezza or still viy begins in similar fashion to the previous exercise. in this case, however, i
suggest you use the woman-on-top position and have her move just enough to maintain his
erection. you'll each have a chance to move during this exercise, beginning with 10 minutes and
working up to 30 each."

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fortunately, our new ecourse continues by teaching both lovers many ways to move while
coupled. so our third excursion into an ancient foreign culture takes us to ancient china where the
taoists were renown for their long lovemaking techniques:

"some say thousands of years ago tantra migrated from india to china to birth the taoist school of
spiritual sex. of course, the taoists believe sacred sex originated in china. it doesn’t really matter
now if you want to take advantage of some of their unique techniques.

"if you want greater structure, try the taoist 9 and 1 technique. taoist sexual texts recommend that
men use more shallow strokes than deep ones to retain their semen while exciting their lovers.
according to a master of the han dynasty in china, wu hsien, recommended you thrust according
to the following regimen:

3 shallow then 1 deep - repeat 81 times

5 shallow then 1 deep - repeat 81 times

9 shallow then 1 deep - repeat 81 times

"as you develop more and more mastery, the taoists suggest you repeat this sequence with 2
deep thrusts instead of 1, and then with 3 deep thrusts using vajra's entire length instead of 1."

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supreme bliss tantra began in india thousands of years ago, millennia before the famous hindu
love guide, the kama sutra, was written. so our fourth foray into the history of long lasting sex
methods comes from tantra's birthplace.

i'm sure it comes as no surprise to you that the position you make love in strongly influences
whether you can have long sex and multiple orgasms or not. maybe that's why the sex positions
section of the kama sutra is so popular. and that's partly why one of the 9 lessons of my longer
lasting lovemaking ecourse teaches you about how to vary your sexual position so you can last
longer during sexual intercourse.

here's what i say in lesson 6 about kama sutra sexual positions:

"though it had a much broader focus, the famous ancient indian sex manual, the kama sutra, is
probably best known for its frank presentation of sexual positions. actually, it wasn’t totally
complete and, in keeping with most ancient scriptures, was exceedingly cryptic in most places.
fortunately, we’ve developed our own system of teaching lovemaking postures which will soon
appear in an ecourse on a computer near you.

"for your first penis-in-vagina exercises in the last lesson, i suggested which sexual position to
use. now we’re going to experiment with different sexual positions and see how they affect your
sensitivity and lasting ability. then we’ll return to this delightful progression of vajra (penis) visiting
yoni (vagina), this time with more aggressive movements. your primary focus here will be to
regulate your excitement using the now familiar stop-start exercise. but we'll do this in stages until
you both get to move all you want, or at least all you can without him ejaculating."

well, that covers the victorian american and 4 of the 5 ancient longer lovemaking methods. of
course, we've saved the best for last which will appear in our next newsletter. until then, give
thanks for love, sex, and spirit and enjoy yourself.

love, somraj

your long lovemaking tantric mentor

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trying to make up for bad behavior, a man went to the shopping mall to buy his wife a gift. "i'd like
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size."

"will this help?" she asked sweetly, placing her hand in his.

"oh, yes," he answered. "her hands are just slightly smaller than yours."

"will there be anything else?" the salesgirl inquired, as she wrapped the gloves
"now that you mention it," the man replied, "she also needs a bra and panties."

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