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    Navigating puberty with your child is a daunting experience for all parents, but it can be especially daunting for parents who have a child with Down syndrome. Conscious that their child may be more vulnerable as they grow into a sexual person, parents are often unsure how to approach sex and puberty. Here are some practical steps to help reduce the stress for you and your children. by Kardella Whelan Family Planning Victoria (www.fpv.org.au)

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    Navigating puberty with your child is a daunting experience for all parents, but it can be especially daunting for parents who have a child with Down syndrome. Conscious that their child may be more vulnerable as they grow into a sexual person, parents are often unsure how to approach sex and puberty. Here are some practical steps to help reduce the stress for you and your children. by Kardella Whelan Family Planning Victoria (www.fpv.org.au)

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    Navigating Puberty

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    Down Syndrome Victoria
    Navigating puberty with your child is a daunting experience for all parents, but it can be especially daunting for parents who have a child with Down syndrome. Conscious that their child may be more vulnerable as they grow into a sexual person, parents are often unsure how to approach sex and puberty. Here are some practical steps to help reduce the stress for you and your children. by Kardella Whelan Family Planning Victoria (www.fpv.org.au)

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