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Children are to obey and honor parents, how? "in the Lord" defines the quality of the obedience. An act without the proper attitude is nothing but hypocrisy. To honor one's parents means to show them respect and love.
Children are to obey and honor parents, how? "in the Lord" defines the quality of the obedience. An act without the proper attitude is nothing but hypocrisy. To honor one's parents means to show them respect and love.
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Children are to obey and honor parents, how? "in the Lord" defines the quality of the obedience. An act without the proper attitude is nothing but hypocrisy. To honor one's parents means to show them respect and love.
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means ‘to generate’. It serves to describe either the mother or father. Goneus is in the plural in this verse, Let’s go back to ‘Honor your father and mother’ - Obedience is the duty. Honor is the attitude. To honor one's parents means to show them respect and love, to ENGAGED April 17 - 23 which would signify both parents. There should be a care for them as long as they need, and to seek to bring cooperation of the parental authority. Parents should honor to them by the way one lives. Remember that an act stand united and not oppose one another. They without the proper attitude is hypocrisy. If you do what your should parent consistently with one clear voice. parents tell you to do but you hate it and you’re unwilling and nasty about it, then you’re a hypocrite. If you do what Children are to obey and honor parents, how? ‘In your parents tell you to do but you’re bitter, fearful, the Lord’ - Paul's point is that this prescribed reluctant and selfish, that is not the right spirit. God is after obedience to parents, is the child's obligation to the attitude much more than He’s after the act, because if Christ, whether or not the parents are Believers. "In the attitude is right, the act will follow. But a right act with a the Lord" defines the quality of the obedience. It is wrong attitude is nothing but hypocrisy. to be the obedience of a Spirit-filled child in communion or fellowship with Christ and their What is Honor? Honor means: to show high regard; respect obedience should be as if to Him, as if obeying the for and so to count as valuable; to esteem; to value; and to Lord Himself. Children should see Jesus in dad and revere. To show respect to someone is to recognize their worth as a person (and if they are a parent, to recognize mom and that should fuel their obedience and honor the validity of their role and their authority) and implies a fire! considered evaluation or estimation. To hold in awe. It is The “modern version” of Ephesians 6:1 would be, the same attitude we are to have to Christ. In a family, the “Parents, obey your children, for this will keep them husband is Christ, the wife is the church, and the children Ephesians 6:1-3 happy and bring peace to the home.” are to see that union lived out in such a way as to ascribe awe to it. The world should watch a Christian family; “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is Exodus 20:12 "Honor your father and your mother, seeing the love of a husband, the respect of the wife and right. Honor your father and mother–which is the first that your days may be prolonged in the land which commandment with a promise–that it may go well with the LORD your God gives you." It is worth noting the honor of the children; as they obey the authority of their parents, the world stands in awe and desires what it sees. you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” that in the New Testament all Ten Commandments As the world watches your relationships, does it make them except the fourth [Honor the Sabbath] are restated stand in awe? What are you doing to promote Christ in and are to be obeyed in the power of the Spirit's your lifestyle? Does your life and attitudes give you filling and under grace. opportunity to declare His fame? Why or why not?
The responsibility of being good parents is not
Today, I have a question for those of you dealt with in this week’s verses (that comes next through who still live under your parents’ roof. Do you week). But notice that these verses do not say respect that authority? Do you see your submission “Children obey your parents if they are good to you, to them as part of your Christian responsibility? Are are consistent, and godly themselves.” The you willing to accept that as a command from God, responsibility in this relationship has nothing at all to and not excuse rebellion against that authority? That do with the quality of the parenting, but rests, rather, IS your responsibility, if you are a Believer. in God’s established chain of command. And so, if He is your Lord, your responsibility is to do this as His Commandments. Ten of them. This means servant, and no one else’s. This is a good thing to that God said that of ten things that would be remember in all our relationships. We do it for Him, important for relationships, one of them existed for as much as for the one to whom we are relating. the family structure. Why would the honoring of the children be a problem for the family? For society? Is it important that children obey their parents IN the Lord? Why do parents have the most responsibility in this whole idea of honor? Day 1 Day 2 Day 3 As Paul was writing to the church at The word ‘Children’ comes from the word Not only are children to obey their Ephesus, there existed a Roman law called ‘patria ‘teknon’. It is strictly a child produced, male or parents, but also, moving on to verse 2 of potestas’. Patria Postestas ruled that a Roman female, son or daughter. This word for children is not Chapter 6, we have the second part of the father had absolute authority over his family. At any in the generational sense but in the family sense. command. Honor! Obedience and honor sum moment and for any reason, he could sell them as What are children’s primary responsibilities in life as up the whole distinctive duty of the child, not just slaves, he could make them work in his fields even a child? - To obey! Obey who? Their parents! The in the New Testament but also in the Old… in chains, he could punish as he wished and could word ‘obey’ in Greek is hupakouo. It is present Read the following passages of Scripture and even call for the death penalty without a courtroom. imperative which is a command for children to obey journal anything that comes to your mind as you Further, the power of the Roman father extended for the child’s entire life, so long as the father lived. as a lifestyle. In the present verse hupakouo means read: Leviticus 19:3-4, Deuteronomy 21:18, A Roman son never came of age. There was the that Spirit-filled children are to continually put Proverbs 1:8, Proverbs 6:20-23, Proverbs 23:22, custom of child exposure. When a child was born, it themselves under the words and authority of their Pr 30:11, Pr 30:17, and Colossians 3:20. was placed before its father’s feet, and, if the father parents. They are to continually exhibit a readiness to stooped and lifted the child that meant that he hear their parent's commands and instructions. The acknowledged it and wished it to be kept. If he basic picture is that of placing oneself under what has turned and walked away, it meant that he refused to been heard and therefore submitting to and obeying acknowledge it and the child could quite literally be what is heard. What do you see as the primary thrown out. A Roman child always ran the risk of stumbling blocks to achieve this goal in your family? The relationship of parent to child has being repudiated and exposed. Often, unwanted In this culture? Why do you think it is important? been drastically undermined by the direction our children were left in the Roman forum. There they government has taken our country. Children became the property of anyone who cared to pick have become wards of the state in many (most?) them up. They were collected at nights by people who fed them in order to sell them as slaves or to cases. But for us, this verse that commands provide bodies for the brothels of Rome. Because of obedience of children to parents, places the Patria Postestas in Rome, the family was most responsibility, and the authority of discipline, often in dysfunction. What do you think lead to the development and guidance, on parents. Do not most dysfunction in families today? How can we reject that responsibility or turn it over to the begin to protect and fix family dysfunction? Following up on yesterday’s theme, we need government. God has given you as parents that to live up to a certain standard in our relationships charge, and the charge to children to submit to because we are “In the Lord”. As Followers of Christ, that authority. This week’s verse is a specific command to children who are followers of Christ. The Holy our standard of conduct is not determined by what the culture does, or by what “works”. Parent/child Spirit speaks through Paul to tell children “in the Lord” to obey their parents, because this is the relationships and discipline are determined by our right thing to do. However, there are several Master if we are truly Followers. Who determines your parenting style, your discipline style and your general lessons to be learned about all “obedience” style? relationships, by these verses. First and foremost, God is not just “right” because He says He is. The very essence of God is “right”-ness. God told the Children of Israel that We have strayed far from the belief that we honoring fathers and mothers would end up in should do something because it is right. good things for them. What are some ways that Perhaps, we as followers need to remember that this kind of relationship would go well for a in our relationships. family?
What does it mean to honor someone? Who
God has ordained structure. His structure has the honor in your family? How can you tell? is that children are to obey their parents, that this is right. Why would this structure of obedience be right for the Lord? Why is it right for the world?