Wafaa (2008)

Director: Rakesh Sawant

Cast: Rajesh Khanna, Sara Khan

Four Hot Signs Of Attraction

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In today’s society, beauty, physical attraction, and sexuality are all commonly
misunderstood as some transcendent inevitable fact; falsely interlocking the three makes
it seem doubly true that in order to initiate attraction between a man and a woman, both
sexes should be beautiful to be sexual.

That of course is not true at all. The definitions of beautiful, attraction, and sexual
constantly change to serve the social order, and the connection between the three ideas is
a recent invention.

Some psychologists contend that the disparity among the concepts of beauty, attractions,
and sexuality is based on the premise that both sexes are inclined to physical or sexual
attraction because women are able to view men just as men view women, as subjects for
sexual and aesthetic evaluation.

In a survey conducted by an “evolutionary psychologist,” from 10,000 individuals who

were interviewed, it was found out that men have high-regards to physical attraction in
their budding sexual mates, while women attach importance to prominence, goals, and
monetary sources.

No wonder why most cases of attraction are all based on sexuality and physical attributes.
This is because men and women would rather have their significant others physically and
sexually capable of giving them their necessities.

For instance, men are attracted to women who look good because this indicates excellent
vigor and the capacity to produce offspring babies. On the other hand, women are
attracted to men who look good because this indicates abundance in financial resources,
in which, the ability to provide the basic necessities to their children is generated.
The point here is that both men and women may have their own basis for attraction but
everything is generally focused on the physical and material aspects. This is because
attraction is associated with the fact that the physical attributes motivate that part of the
brain known as the “hypothalamus” that will produce different kinds of reactions from
the body such as sexual arousal, increased heart rate, and perspiration.

So the question now is: How can the individual identify the clear signs of attraction?

There are many probable actions that might suggest attraction. However, the real signs
include but not limited to the following:

1. Visual contact

This is when both a man and a woman gazed upon each other and instantly prolonged the
moment as they look at each other longer than the typical glance.

Both are completely immersed on each other’s anecdote, and every word will impress
them both. All eyes are glued to each other that send a message that they are drawn to
each other.

2. Preen

Preening means to adorn oneself carefully or to groom oneself with particular attention to
details. Hence, attraction sets in when both would try to instantly make a quick fix and
conquer each other’s space.

3. Flirting

Teasing could have been the more appropriate term for it. This is when both sexes
converse in a relaxed manner, with bodily actions associated to their thoughts and
feelings, where, most often than not, sexual tensions and arousal are the primary upshots.

4. Physical contact

This is when a woman leans towards the man and places a modest hand on his hand or
arm. In this way, the woman is trying to tell the other person that she is attracted to him
and that she is open to possibilities that involve the concerned person.

All of these things are boiled down to the fact that the asymmetry of the correlation
among beauty, attraction, and sexuality that tells both men and women lies on how they
both perceive each other’s physical attributes. This is inevitable because the lack of it will
definitely keep them sexually estranged.
Attraction is generally focused on imagery that is exclusively on the physical attributes of
both men and women, where the society has created a very important role. This goes to
show that the signs of attraction indicate the clear identification of desirability.

Given all that, both men and women should make the choice, by and large, to take each
other as human beings first and not just mere sexual objects.

It should be well noted that these signs of attraction may be well confined on the premise
that both men and women send out these signs as a ticket to conquer each other’s space
so as to start the “getting-to-know-each-other” stage.

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Love,Sex in Bollywood

Posted by Hassan Gulzar,Waqas Bosan in Bolly Special Gallery

While Bollywood isn't exactly known for sex in its films, but it has been an important
part of the storyline of many a Bollywood flick and this isn't just in the B-grade stuff.
There have been a number of mainstream Bollywood films in which sex played a privotal
role in the narrative as our list shows.
Sins (2005)

Director: Vinod Pandey

Cast: Shiney Ahuja, Seema Rahmani, Uttara Bavkar

Tauba Tauba (2004)

Director: TLV Prasad

Cast: Payal Rohatgi, Monalisa, Rocky Sandhu, Amin Gazi

Actress Udita Goswami is all set to woo her co-actor Anuuj Saxena in Jag Mohan
Mundhra's Chase.

Utsav (1985)

Director: Girish Karnad

Cast: Rekha, Shekhar Suman, Shashi Kapoor, Shankar Nag, Neena Gupta, Amjad Khan

Wafaa (2008)
Director: Rakesh Sawant
Cast: Rajesh Khanna, Sara Khan

Souten (2006)

Director: Karan Razdan

Cast: Mahima Choudhary, Kiran Rathod, Padmini Kolhapure, Vasundhara Das

Sheesha (2005)
Director: Ashu Trikha
Cast: Neha Dhupia, Sonu Sood
Paap (2004)

Director: Pooja Bhatt

Cast: John Abraham, Udita Goswami

Neal 'n' Nikki (2006)

Director: Arjun Sablok

Cast: Uday Chopra, Tanisha Mukherjee

Naughty Boy (2006)

Director: TLV Prasad

Cast: Sherlyn Chopra, Rahul Roy, Rocky Sandhu

Karma Aur Holi (2009)

Director: Manish Gupta

Cast: Sushmita Sen, Randeep Hooda, Suchitra Krishnamurthy, Deepal Shaw, Naomi
Campbell

Kama Sutra: A Tale of Love (1996)

Director: Mira Nair

Cast: Indira Varma, Sarita Choudhury, Naveen Andrews, Rekha

Julie (2004)

Director: Deepak Shivdasani

Cast: Neha Dhupia, Sanjay Kapoor, Priyanshu Chatterjee

Jism (2003)
Director: Amit Saxena
Cast: John Abraham, Bipasha Basu
Hawas (1974)

Director: Sawan Kumar Tak

Cast: Anil Dhawan, Neetu Singh, Rekha

Hawas (2004)

Director: Karan Razdan

Cast: Meghna Naidu, Shahwar Ali, Tarun Arora

Girlfriend (2005)

Director: Karan Razdan

Cast: Ashish Chowdhry, Amrita Arora, Eesha Koppikhar

Fun - Can Be Dangerous Sometimes (2005)

Director: Sunjay Zaveri

Cast: Siddharth Koirala, Aryan Vaid, Heena Tasleem, Payal Rohatgi

Fire (1998)

Director: Deepa Mehta

Cast: Shabana Azmi, Nandita Das, Kulbhushan Kharbanda, Javed Jaffrey

Ek Se Mera Kya Hoga (2006)

Director: T L V Prasad
Cast: Payal Rohatgi, Tanvi Verma, Samir Kochhar, Lavy Rohatgi, Mallika Nayyar

Ek Chotisi Love Story (2002)

Director: K Shashilal Nair
Cast: Manisha Koirala, Aditya Seal, Ranvir Shorey

Dev.D (2009)
Director: Anurag Kashyap
Cast: Abhay Deol, Kalki Koechlin, Mahie Gill

Chaahat - Ek Nasha (2005)

Director: Jai Prakash
Cast: Manisha Koirala, Sharad Kapoor, Aryan Vaid, Preeti Jhangiani

Bold (2005)

Director: K C Bokadia
Cast: Tanvi Verma, Samir Kochhar

Anubhav (1986)
Director: Kashinath
Cast: Shekhar Suman, Padmini Kolhapure

Aastha: In the Prison of Spring (1997)

Director: Basu Bhattacharya

Cast: Om Puri, Rekha, Naveen Nischol

Sex has again entered living room and tea stall discussions in India thanks to Dibakar
Banerjee's latest movie, Love Sex aur Dhokha (LSD). The film is the first mainstream
Bollywood film to have the word 'sex' in its title, though we have had a 'Sensex' (Saas
Bahu Aur Sensex ),

Khwahish (2003)

Director: Govind Menon

Cast: Himanshu Mallik, Mallika Sherawat

Manoranjan (1974)
Director: Shammi Kapoor
Cast: Sanjeev Kumar, Zeenat Aman, Shammi Kapoor
 Maya Memsaab (1993)
Director: Ketan Mehta
Cast: Shahrukh Khan, Deepa Sahi, Raj Babbar, Farooq Sheikh

Divine Temple - Khajuraho (2002)

Director: Ashok Kumar
Cast: Mamta Kulkarni, Saadhika, Vishal, Mink

Mazaa Mazaa (2005)

Director: TLV Prasad

Cast: Payal Rohatgi, Farid Amiri

Men Not Allowed (2006)

Director: Shrey Shrivastav

Cast: Payal Rohatgi, Monica Castelino, Aryan Vaid, Tarun Arora

Chetna - The Excitement (2005)

Director: Partho Ghosh

Cast: Payal Rohatgi, Jatin Garewal
Eight Flirting Tips to Bring a Shy Guy Out of
His Shell
July 27th, 2010
Posted in Dating Advice for Women

With a shy guy you have to be more available and flirty, take the lead more often and
maybe even give him the first kiss. Keep in mind, however, that he needs to be
responding very positively to each of your moves. If he doesn’t, end the relationship
because you don’t want to be stuck in a fantasy where you are crazy about someone who
is truly not into you.

So before we get to these flirting tips I want you take advantage of my free ongoing
support: You can learn EXACTLY how to find,attract and date great guys, find the One,
deepen commitment and much much more by subscribing to my Dating Tips &
Relationship Advice Newsletter, absolutely FREE! Click Here to get started now.
 Now here are eight dating tips to bring a shy guy out of his shell:

1. See him when he is in his element.

If he plays sports, go watch. Be there as he finishes a marathon. If he is giving a talk, try

to arrange to be in the audience. When a shy guy is in his element he will be at the height
of his charisma and at a high point of self-confidence. Bottom line: he will be feeling
very good about himself. And this means he will feel empowered to make a move on you
if he is really interested.

2. Compliment him.

Notice something about him or what he is doing that you really like and praise it with a
specific and sincere compliment. For example, That blog you wrote about going to Sicily
was hysterically funny and made me want to go! This builds his self-esteem and will
tend to get him to talk more about the topic. And it may even get him to show off a bit
for you.

3. Say his name a lot; give him a complimentary nickname.

This indicates that you are noticing him and that he is important to you. He will bond
more quickly with you when you use his name. Also, choose a complimentary nickname
based on one of his qualities that you admire. For example, if he is into cycling, call him
“Lance A.” This will get him to laugh and open up with you about his cycling
experiences.

4. Ask open-ended questions.

Good examples are, “How did you get interested in (your job)?” “What brought you to
live in the city?” “How do you manage to train for a triathlon when you work full-time?”
These kinds of questions will help a shy guy open up and talk about himself. And this
will lead to him feeling known and being comfortable with you.

5. Ask for help with something.

Men love to help women. They are biologically wired that way! Ask him to fix your
computer, your car, your bike, your door—you name it. He will enjoy coming through
for you and feel much more connected to you. Ask him questions about what he is doing
—this will get him talking more. When he is in the “helper” role he is much more likely
to share with you.

6. Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he likes. Once you find
something in common, ask him if he’d like to do it some time.
Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very
easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun
activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more
bonded. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you are opening
the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into
you.

7. When leaving, say you’d like to see him again.

This is an easy, non-threatening way to show that you are interested in him. If he
responds positively, by smiling, nodding or saying “yes” he may be feeling some
attraction to you. At that point, make sure he has your contact information!

8. Give Him a Mini-Massage

If you’ve spent some time together, make physical contact with him. Being physical
releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone so he may feel closer and start responding to you
immediately. A mini-massage also relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In
addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate
gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or
kisses you.

So practice some or all of these flirting tips and you’ll be an expert at bringing out the
best in guys.

Wishing you love

Dr. Diana

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & best-
selling author of “Love in 90 Days” (dating advice book)” out now in paperback (at
Amazon) with a new chapter on “Dating Games Men Play.” Love in 90 Days was the
basis of her PBS Special on love. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE relationship
& dating advice newsletter.
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10 strange facts about kissing
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Think you know a thing or two about kissing? You probably do. But the facts below are
so off the beaten path, we’ll bet you don’t know them all—and they could come in handy.
Not only could they provide some steamy “Did you know…?” chit chat, but they’ll help
you see all the benefits a satisfying lip lock can bring into your life. Happy smooching!

1. Two out of every three couples turn their heads to the right when they kiss.

2. A simple peck uses two muscles; a passionate kiss, on the other hand, uses all 34
muscles in your face. Now that’s a rigorous workout!

3. Like fingerprints or snowflakes, no two lip impressions are alike.

4. Kissing is good for what ails you. Research shows that the act of smooching improves
our skin, helps circulation, prevents tooth decay, and can even relieve headaches.

5. The average person spends 336 hours of his or her life kissing.

6. Ever wonder how an “X” came to represent a kiss? Starting in the Middle Ages, people
who could not read used an X as a signature. They would kiss this mark as a sign of
sincerity. Eventually, the X came to represent the kiss itself.

7. Talk about a rush! Kissing releases the same neurotransmitters in our brains as
parachuting, bungee jumping, and running.

8. The average woman kisses 29 men before she gets married.

9. Men who kiss their partners before leaving for work average higher incomes than those
who don’t.

10. The longest kiss in movie history was between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in
the 1941 film, You’re in the Army Now. It lasted 3 minutes and 5 seconds. So if you’ve
beaten that record, it’s time to celebrate!