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REVENGE
REVENGE CYCLE
CYCLE FORGIVENESS CYCLE
FORGIVENESS CYCLE
The Amplification Path The Reparation Path
Violence
Cruelty
Mistake
Failure Hurt
Harm 4.4.Renewing
Repairing,orrenewing or
Releasing
Loss releasing the relationship
the Relationship
Revenge
Retaliation Destruction Pain Construction
Payback 3. Granting Forgiveness
3. Granting Forgiveness
(Recognising Shared Humanity)
Choosing Choosing
Harm
to Harm toHeal
Heal
2. Naming the Hurt
Rejected 1. Telling
Shared the Story
Humanity
ADVERSARIAL NON-ADVERSARIAL
AUTHORITY AUTHORITY
• competitive/combative A – Harmer • cooperative/collaborative
• independent B – Harmed • interdependent
• not trust based • trust based
• debate • dialogue
• to do (look to harm) A B A B • do with (look to heal)
• work apart • work together
• do not accept • accept obligation/
obligation/no apology apologise
• power over another • power with another
steers action steers action
• fear rules • kindness rules
• no ownership of • ownership of outcome
outcome • giving
• taking • long-term behavioural
• momentary change
behavioural change • pay forward
• payback • mental health
• mental health construction
destruction • win/win
• win/lose • compassionate (heal)
• malice centred • contentment
(action) • #WeFirst
• resentment
• #MeFirst