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James Bryden
Performance Coach
www.reachperformancecoaching.com.au
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What Does The Mirror Say?
Chapter 1
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Chapter 2
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Chapter 3
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Nothing.
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Chapter 4
“The highest form of maturity is self inquiry”.
Martin Luther King Jr.
As I continued using this approach on myself it
reconfirmed what I had learned already. All upsets
were an opportunity to learn the truth about me.
Many people won’t look at themselves, maybe
because they’re scared of what they may find out.
I worked with a man some years ago who was very
angry - he seemed to carry a chip on his shoulder. His
whole world view was based on the belief that
nobody can be trusted; it’s every man for himself and
that people will cheat you if they get a chance. As a
result of this belief he attracted the sort of people who
lived up to that expectation - very much a self-
fulfilling prophecy. The trouble was that he didn’t
realise that when he used the words “nobody can be
trusted” that that clearly included himself. He flatly
refused to consider that maybe his beliefs were the
cause of his misery.
Blaming others was and probably still is an easy way
out for him.
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Chapter 5
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It gave me hope.
Chapter 6
"When you become immobilized by what anybody
else thinks of you, what you are saying is that
someone else's opinion of you is more important
than your own opinion of yourself." Dr. Wayne
Dyer
I remember being at a function and being introduced
to somebody who seemed to look down on me. I
sensed sarcasm and that this person felt they were
superior. My feelings were a mixture of feeling
inferior and being angry.
Looking back on the incident using the mirror it is
clear that again, I was seeing something in a person
that I did not like about myself. That is, I sometimes
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Chapter 8
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Why is that?
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Until now.
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Chapter 9
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You are not aware of the real reasons, all you know is
you don’t feel good and that is enough to stop you.
Of course, gut feelings can be and often are beneficial
as well.
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Or is it?
As I outlined earlier, I am so confident in my ability
to help you that I am offering you a trial session so
that you can see and experience for yourself why
investing in yourself is the best investment you will
ever make.
It costs nothing to find out.
Contact Details: James Bryden, REACH Performance Coaching
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James Bryden
Executive Performance Coach
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He and Dr. Donna Brandes (who was a great help putting this
together) also run various workshops in the Perth area. These can
be tailored to suit any organisation.
Contact Details:
www.reachperformancecoaching.com.au
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