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Fellowship—October 2009

Take Your Shoes Off in the House Captain Janet Duperree


Eastern Territory
lished time, have her write down the
items that she identified. Give a prize
Where Did You Go?
Prior to the devotional, ask the
to the woman who guesses the most women to make a list of places their
items correctly. feet took them during that day or the
prior week. At the end of the devo-
tional have them review the list to see
Prizes
Award foot related items or a copy of
the poem “Footprints in the Sand.” if they could have used their steps in
better ways.
Decorations
Display items pertaining to feet—
stickers, shoes, posters, socks, stack of
shoeboxes, shoe polish, shoehorns. Beautiful Feet
I keep a supply of slippers in the closet near the entry at our house and
Refreshments encourage guests to remove their shoes and relax during their visit. In
Serve grape juice—representing Bible days it was customary for travelers to have their feet washed before
grapes pressed by feet, foot long hot entering a house. Although a slave usually performed this task, Jesus
dogs, bear claws and Gummy® feet. washed His disciples’ feet as a demonstration of love and servanthood.
For the brave, have them try pig’s feet.
Many times we see a need but wait for someone else to take care of it.
Jesus gave us many examples to follow by showing servant leadership.
We sing the song, “To be like Jesus, this hope possesses me,” but many
Program Ideas

Everyone loves a good foot massage times we want to pick and choose when we want to be like Jesus. We
Foot Massage and Pedicure

and a pedicure can be a real treat. This need to respond to the needs of others as He would.
can be done with partners, each work- Paul writes, “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news”
ing on the other or as a demonstration. (Rom. 10:15). What a peculiar verse. I’ve seen many feet that I wouldn’t
Supplies needed: Emery boards, nail consider beautiful and have been close enough to some where the odor
polish, foot cream, pumice or foot redirected my course. When I think of people who have beautiful feet, I
scraper, toe separators, cotton balls, don’t see feet with a professional pedicure, pretty and painted. I see
nail clippers, footbath, soap. someone using their feet to go and do things for others—shopping for
someone who can’t get out of the house, cooking and taking meals to
Make copies of the footprints of var- someone who is sick, or helping someone by using a talent or gift they
Animal Foot Prints

ious animals. Have the women guess have to benefit others.


each animal’s footprint. When our feet are used for the right purposes, they are transformed;
The following sites have examples: they are beautiful. I believe this begins in our homes with our families.
http://pelotes.jea.com/footprn.htm. The world can be very ugly with dark and depressing news. That’s why
http://www.leslietryon.com/ani- we must have beautiful feet to carry a message to the world, a message
mals1101/animalfootprints.html. of good news about God’s love. “People don't care how much you know
until they know how much you care.” Another saying reminds us,
“Actions speak louder than words.” People will see the beauty of Christ,
when you put it into action.
Games

Have the woman place their shoes in


Shoe Relay
Psalm 119:105 proclaims, “Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to
a pile in the center of the room. Ask
my path.” When His Word is recognized in our homes, it brings peace
them to line up forming two teams.
and beauty to our loved ones, and spreads to others. “Make level paths
On command a woman from each
for your feet, so that the lame may not be disabled, but rather healed”
team must find her shoes, put them on
(Heb. 12:13). Our beautiful feet are important in developing beautiful feet
and fall back into the line. This is
in others. An old Sunday school song carries the message, “Do you know,
repeated until all team members have
O Christian, you’re a sermon in shoes? Jesus counts upon you to spread
both shoes on. The first team to
the Gospel news, so walk it and talk it, preach it and teach it, live it and
accomplish this is the winner.
give it, know it and show it—a sermon in shoes.”
We leave our mark in life by our actions, words and deeds beginning in
Place about 15 to 20 items that relate
Shoe Box
the home and extending to those we encounter every day. May our faith
to the theme in a shoe box—shoelaces, walk be constant and always honoring to God. Let’s take a look at the
shoe polish, a shoehorn, socks, nylons, lists of where our feet have trod today. It’s good to consider how we may
footies, nail polish, manicure scissors, beautify our feet for better service to God. Before we depart from this
nail clippers. Blindfold each woman place, let us take time to pray for the places where our feet will go in the
and ask her to identify the items in the future and that God would be honored in our every step.
shoe box by touch. After an estab-

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Education—October 2009
Major Mary Corliss GIGO—Garbage In, Garbage Out
Central Territory
along. Sometimes the words are not
encouraging, uplifting or becoming of
The Internet
The Internet has changed the way
we live, conduct business and com- a Christian. Do you know what music
municate with others. It is a wonder- your children are listening to? What
ful media for obtaining information message is being conveyed? Play
and educational material. However, it some examples of songs that are pop-
can be a wolf in sheep’s clothing. ular with young people. Print out the
Quite innocently you can be surfing words so the women can see and
the web and find yourself confronted understand their message. website gives information on movie
with pornographic, sexually explicit ratings: www.filmratings.com.
or other inappropriate sites. Parents
TV and Movies
Many of the shows on TV today are
and grandparents should be particu-
sexually explicit. At one time these
Refreshment
larly aware how much time and what Serve a “garbage cake,” so called
were only shown on the cable chan-
sites children are viewing. Check the because you add everything but the
nels. Explain how channels can be
following sites and ask a couple of the kitchen sink. Use a new, clean garbage
blocked to prevent viewing. If possi-
women to give a report on the infor- can lid as a platter for the cake. It may
ble, demonstrate how to go about
mation found there. be necessary to prop up the lid be-
blocking a channel. The following
cause of the handle.
❁ www.enough.org—Enough is websites give further information.
Enough—information providing Ask one of the women to share the
rules and tools for Internet safety information from these sites. One chocolate cake mix. Prepare as
Garbage Cake

❁ www.family.org/entertainment— ❁ www.themoreyouknow.com/ directed. Add: 1 tbsp. butter, 1/2 cup


Focus on the Family Entertain Site coconut, 10 chopped maraschino
Monitoring_Kids_TV_Viewing—
❁ www.themoreyouknow.com/inter- cherries, 1/2 cup chocolate chips, 1/2
NBC—Monitoring Kids TV Watching
net_safety—NBC Internet Safety cup chopped nuts, 1 cup raisins.
❁ www.TheTVBoss.org—Parental
Controls for TV watching Bake at 350 degrees in 9x13 pan
/pguidee.htm—FBI Site—A parents
❁www.fbi.gov/publications/pguide
Many movies are not suitable for according to package directions. Frost
guide to the Internet children or Christians. The following if desired.
❁ www.nationalcoalition.org—The
National Coalition for the Protection
of Children and Families Be Careful
❁ www.webwisekids.org—informa- We need to be careful what we allow to come into our homes via tele-
tion on how to protect children from vision, radio, computer, books and videos. Modern technology has made
predators on the web it so easy for us to have access to a world of instant and constant sight
and sound. Most homes have a television on, a radio playing and a com-
Internet Access puter running. They provide entertainment, distraction or company.
Connect a LCD projector to a com-
puter that has Internet access so the Do you think you can watch any movie or television show you want, or
women will be able to see how to use listen to any kind of music without experiencing any effect? The world’s
the Internet. Have someone explain message is often broadcast through these mediums, and we are like
the use of search engines, email, sponges. Whatever we hear and see, we soak up and take in. Ephesians
instant messaging, chat rooms, My- 6:12 (NLT) tells us, “For we are not fighting against people made of flesh
Space and web addresses. This would and blood, but against the evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world,
be a good service project for the Girl against those mighty powers of darkness who rule this world, and
Guards who are working on earning against wicked spirits in the heavenly realms.” If we take garbage in, we
their computer emblem. get garbage out.
Psalm 101:2,3 reminds us to be careful to live blameless lives of integri-
Library ty in our homes and to refuse to look at anything vile and vulgar. Our job
Take a field trip to the library and is to protect our children as well as guard our own hearts. How do we do
have the librarian explain how to use that? The Bible urges, “Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable
the computers available there. and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable.
Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise” (Phil. 4:8
Music NLT).
How often do we put the radio on
but really aren’t listening to it? It is I am reminded of a chorus we used to sing: “Be careful, little eyes, what
just background noise. It is amazing you see and be careful, little ears, what you hear. For the Father up above
how quickly the words of the songs is looking down in love, so be careful, little eyes, what you see.” Although
penetrate our minds and we find this is a children’s chorus, it has an important message to adults.
we’ve memorized them and can sing Remember—garbage in, garbage out.

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Service—October 2009
My Own Place Major Brenda Singletary
Southern Territory
1. What is her favorite color? house. Without skipping a letter of the
2. Where will she spend most of her alphabet, invite the women to list as
time in the house? many items as they can of things to be
3. What appliance will she use the found in these rooms. Give prizes of
most? household items to the winners and
4. What is her favorite color to be encourage them to give their prizes to
Worship Center used inside the house? the guest.
On a round–skirted table place a 5. Does she prefer to open her win-
Bible opened to Proverbs 24:3. Beside dows or use the air conditioner?
it put a framed picture of a family or a 6. What is her favorite dinner to pre- Place ten household items in sepa-
What’s in the Bag

new home. Add small items that are pare? rate bags and close the top so the
needed in every new home—measur- 7. Would she rather dust or vacuum? items cannot be seen. The leader starts
ing cups, dish towels, kitchen utensils. 8. Does she consider herself a morn- this game by giving hints as to what
ing person or a night owl? item is in the first bag and continues
Refreshments 9. What is her favorite time of day? giving hints until someone guesses
Serve a cake decorated with the 10. Does she work in the yard with correctly. That woman opens the next
words “Welcome Home.” gloves on or off? bag and gives hints as to its contents.
This continues until all the bags have
been opened. As the items are correct-
Service Projects Games

Distribute sheets of paper printed ly identified, they are given to the


A Through Z
Contact your local Habitat for
Habitat for Humanity
with the names of various rooms in a shower recipient.
Humanity chapter for information on
things that are happening in your
community and how the women’s
ministries group can help. Their web- A Place Called Home
site is www.habitat.org. At the end of the day isn’t it wonderful to find our refuge in the place
we call home? It doesn’t really matter if it’s an apartment, a single rent-
ed room or a house. It’s home. A beautifully decorated home is nice but
Locate a family in the community
Shower
what really matters is what fills it. A house doesn’t make a home.
that will become a Habitat for
Humanity homeowner. Set a date to I grew up in a family of eight. We all slept in two bedrooms. I never
hold “A Dream Come True … My knew what it was to have my own room, as I shared a single bed with my
Own Place” shower for them. younger sister. We shared everything—the closet, the dresser drawers
and the one bathroom. Did I ever want for anything more? No!
Ahead of time, make a list of house-
hold items that are needed in setting As I look back it amazes me that I was quite happy with my home.
up a new home. Check to see if there Why? It was because when I reached home I looked forward to being
are any children in the family and add with my mom, dad, brothers and sisters. I looked forward to eating
items that could be used in a child’s together, watching TV together, playing kick ball in the backyard, wash-
bedroom to the list. Ask the women to ing the family car or drying dishes at the kitchen sink as my older sister
bring an item or two from the list. washed them. This is what made us a family and our house a home.
These should be wrapped and placed Home was a place where everyone felt a sense of love and belonging.
in a laundry basket with a large bow.
As we think of what the home symbolizes, how grateful we should be
Add a tag indicating “To: Someone
to a wise God who even before we were conceived designed a plan and
Special From the Women of the Home
pattern for our lives. There’s nothing more pleasing than walking up to
League of The Salvation Army.
the front door of someone’s home and seeing a welcome mat. God
extends to us a welcome mat—a place where we can feel wanted, safe
Include information about the and secure. Is your heart a place where God feels welcome and is at
Special Opportunity

women’s ministries group in the bas- home?


ket, giving the time, day and where
In Proverbs 24:3 we read, “It takes wisdom to build a house, and under-
you meet. Ask a couple of the women
standing to set it on a firm foundation” (The Message). Is there dissension
to follow up on your guest so that she
in your home? Are cross words exchanged between family members,
feels welcome and wants to return for
which result in hurt feelings? As women who long to have a heart after
future meetings.
God, we need to ask Him to help us fill every room of our homes with
love, joy and peace. Take Proverbs 24:3 and build your home on the wis-
dom found in God’s Word. He will supply you with whatever you need
Getting to Know You
Ask the women to guess how they
think your guest will answer the fol- to bring harmony into your home and will set it on a firm foundation.
lowing questions: Make Him the center of your life.

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Worship—October 2009
Commissioner Debi Bell My Heart, Christ’s Home
For the Western Territory

My Home
The short story, My Heart, Christ’s Home, by Robert Boyd Munger sounds
a whole lot better than a nightmare I had. In it I lived in a beautiful man-
sion owned by Jesus. It was clean, well decorated with a beautiful view.
The library was furnished with comfortable furniture and beautiful
books. The kitchen was well stocked and had the latest appliances. The
living room was elegant and the family room had a large television. The
beds were made. The bathrooms had large soaking tubs and inviting
Purpose fluffy towels. The dining room had a cabinet filled with beautiful china.
This program will introduce the In my dream, it was a sunny, quiet day and I had the back door open to
twelve worship programs for this catch the cool breeze that was blowing the graceful trees. I also opened
year’s “A Beautiful Home” series. the garage door to take advantage of the cross breeze. In the dream I got
Each of the programs will explore a absorbed with a project and did not notice that people were beginning to
different part of a home and how it set up a party on the front lawn. When I did notice, I was not concerned
relates spiritually to our individual at first because there was enough space to share. Soon the noise and
situations. This program focuses on clamor began to grow, so I went to check out what was happening. To my
the importance of having a dedicated amazement some people had backed their cars into the garage and were
quiet time so that we can have a beau- having a tailgate party. The front yard was filled with people sitting in
tiful heart that Jesus will feel comfort- groups and having picnics. I tried to order the people out of the garage,
able in as He makes it His home. but they laughed at me and refused to leave.
I went back inside the house only to find that people had come inside
too. They were having meetings, parties, family gatherings and some
The Setting
If meeting around tables, use small
model homes or birdhouses as the were using and enjoying my things. I yelled and ordered them out. Many
centerpieces. An inexpensive place to were embarrassed that I noticed they had come uninvited, but still
find them is on line at www.collec- refused to leave. Some said they would leave after their party. They rea-
tionsetc.com where everything is soned that if I did not want them there I should have kept them out. A
$19.95 or less or go to www.terrysvil- women’s ministries group was meeting by the fireplace in the family
lage.com for other great bargains. room. They were led by an older woman who was patronizing and
manipulating. She explained that she and her group came to this house
because they knew it would be a lovely day and on lovely days I always
left the front door open. She was surprised that I could be so upset. As I
Program Outline
Welcome
Call to Worship—Psalm 84:1–4 angrily began to call her to account, I woke up.
Song 670, “Abide With Me”* What a nightmare! I remember trying to explain that it was Good
Scripture Reading: John 15:1–17 Friday and my plans had been to have a quiet day, enjoy my devotional
Story, My Heart, Christ’s Home time and just be with my friend Jesus. They agreed that was a noble plan
www.geocities.com/heartland/flats/ but still refused to leave. I never thought to ask Jesus, the owner of the
4048/heart.html home, to help me evict the interlopers and help me get control over the
Devotion—My Home situation.
Discussion Like Robert Boyd Munger’s story was about a dream, which served as
Closing Prayer a parable, my nightmare was a parable or warning. In the story, My Heart
*The Salvation Army Song Book
Christ’s Home, the owner of the home/heart invited Christ in to become
his guest. John 14:23 tells us that when we love Jesus and obey His teach-
ing He will come and make His home in our heart. Jesus has been the
Program Cover owner of my heart for many years. It is a home that has continual
Earlier in the week have a couple of improvements made and is not finished yet. He is the owner and I am the
women make the program covers steward so I am supposed to have control over who enters my home.
from folded card stock. Either print or However, there are times when I let my calendar and my life get filled
make a house using brown or white with distractions. Soon they overrun me and take control of my heart, the
construction paper cut into the shape home of Jesus. My nightmare of a beautiful home overrun with people
of a house. Add additional cut out and their activities is a reflection of how my life can get out of control and
shapes for the roof, windows and a a reminder to let Jesus help me keep things in order.
door. Glue a small red heart on the
door where a wreath would hang. Following the devotional ask the following: Is your heart Christ’s home? Is it
Print the program outline and place filled with order or have other things crowded Jesus out? Read John 15:1–17 again
inside the program cover. and discuss what it means to abide in Jesus.

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Fellowship—November 2009
Home Is Where the Hearth Is Major Bonnie Kirk
Eastern Territory
from home that is a family heirloom. have the latest model TV, car or
Have them share its significance to refrigerator?
their family. 4. Do you think you have an addic-
tive personality?
Discussion 5. If you realize that you don’t need
something, do you give it away or do
1. Do you buy an item because you
Sharing Simple Ways
you keep it just in case you might
need it or because you want it? need it in the future?
Decorations 2. Do you always need to have the 6. Are you easily influenced by others
This program would be most effec- latest gadgets—GPS, BlackBerry®, or do you make up your own mind?
tive if done in someone’s home in a hands–free cell phone? 7. Do you prefer a walk in the park or
relaxing homey environment. If this is 3. Do you go into debt in order to tickets to a Broadway show?
not possible, set up the meeting room
to resemble a living room.
There Is No Place Like Home
Refreshments
According to Wikipedia, “Comfort
Read Luke 15:11–24

food is typically inexpensive, uncom- The best treasures we have in life are family and home. The family is the
plicated and easy to prepare. The rea- oldest and probably the most cohesive small group. The person that we
sons a dish becomes a comfort food are ultimately become is influenced more by our family life than anything
many, but often it is because of pleas- else. As families we spend time together, love together and tolerate each
ant associations of childhood and fam- other’s flaws. We experience ups and downs, joys and sorrows and life
ily.” Ask the women to bring one of decisions together.
their family’s favorite comfort foods In the Scripture just read, the prodigal son took the best of what his father
and the recipe to share with the group. had to give and left his family to search for something better. After squan-
dering his life inheritance, he hit bottom and realized just how much he
had lost. It was then that he remembered his family and longed to return
Program Ideas
home. He knew that even if he became a servant rather than a son, he
Speakers—check to see if there is
Genealogy
would be better off than remaining in his present position. He longed for
someone in the corps who is knowl-
the comfort, acceptance, familiarity and warmth of home and family.
edgeable on the subject of genealogy
and would be willing to share infor- While living in New York City in the early 1970s, my husband and I
mation about it. went to a Broadway show titled “Pippin.” The story is about Prince
Pippin, the son of French King Charlemagne. Pippin had just returned
Websites: There are a number of sites
home from university and was seeking for the meaning of life. He decid-
where you can start a family tree at no
ed that he wanted to be extraordinary but he missed all the simple joys
cost. Sometimes there is a cost after
of life and family in his quest to be special. He experimented with every-
the initial visit. Use a computer with
thing to find fullness and happiness, ignoring the advice of those around
Internet access and a LCD projector to
him who said that fame and fortune would not make him happy. Like the
show the women how to get started.
prodigal son, Pippin also hit rock bottom and realized that happiness is
These are a few of the sites:
found in love and family. The show ends with Pippin standing on a com-
www.genealogy.about.com pletely empty stage holding the hands of the two people that mean the
www.ancestry.com most to him—the love of his life and her son.
www.myheritage.com/family-tree
www.familysearch.org Wikipedia, the on–line encyclopedia, tells us “In common historic and
www.familytree.com modern usage, a hearth is a brick or stone–lined fireplace or oven used
for cooking or heating. Because of its nature, in historic times the hearth
was considered an integral part of a home, often its central or most
Cooking over an open–hearth is the
Open–Hearth Cooking
important feature.” Generally when we refer to “keeping the home fires
oldest way to cook. Check to see if burning,” it means keeping the family together. From the early days,
there is someone in your area who is families gathered around the hearth, the warmest place in the home, to
knowledgeable on this method of pray, sing, tell stories, read the Bible, eat and just be together. Family was
cooking. If not, ask a couple of the the most important thing.
women to research the topic and give
It is not coincidental that the word “hearth” is very close to the word
a report to the group. There are a
“heart.” We can always find ourselves again at the center of the very
number of sites on the Internet on this
heart of God who is home for each one who believes. He is always there
subject. Enter “open–hearth cooking”
beckoning us into the warmth and light of His presence. We need to take
using your favorite search engine.
our place in the shadow of His love for us. There as His children we will
find acceptance and the simple joy of life.
Ask the women to bring an item
Family Heirloom

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Education—November 2009
Major Jan Hendrickson Welcome to Our House
Central Territory
and list of fun things to do in the
area.
Introduction
Sitting by the bedside of a woman
who was dying, the conversation ✣ If you have a pet, make sure your
turned to our homes and family. She guests know as they may suffer with
said to me, “If I could do it all over allergies.
again, I would set out the best china ✣ Plan activities ahead of time for
and linens for my family. I would have entertainment. Know what events are
ans or have dietary restrictions.
treated them as well as I treated my happening around town so you can
❊ Pick up menus from local restau-
guests.” Holidays are a time when we provide this information to your
guests. rants.
often entertain family as well as
guests. ✣ If they are bringing a pet or small
children, have a child gate handy. ✣ Arrive and leave when you say
When You Are the Guest

Program Suggestions you will.


❊ When you have house guests, sim- ✣ Bring a small gift upon arrival and
What to Eat
Ask someone who has the gift of hos-
Speaker
ple is always better. Do as much of leave a thank you note when you
pitality to speak to the group about depart.
the food preparation ahead of time as
being a good hostess as well as a wel- ✣ Don’t surprise your host by bring-
possible. This will allow you more
come guest. ing your cat or dog.
time to enjoy your company.
❊ Set your coffee maker to brew for ✣ Ask before using the phone or TV.
Using your favorite search engine on ✣ Don’t make your hosts feel like
Report
early risers. Continental breakfast is
the Internet enter, “How to Prepare for easy and offers a variety. Lunch is a short–order cooks; eat what’s offered.
Guests.” Ask a couple of the women good time for soup and a sandwich. ✣ Offer to help with meal prepara-
to give a report to the group utilizing A casserole, salad and rolls are good tion, table setting and clean–up. If
this data and the information provid- choices for dinner. your hostess says no to your offer,
ed below. ❊ Know what beverages your guests respect her wishes.
like and have them available. ✣ Don’t cause controversy by bring-
❊ Learn beforehand if your guests ing up a topic that you know will
✣ Clean your house. Air it out as you
Preparing for Overnight Guests

have any food allergies, are vegetari- cause dissension.


clean by opening the windows.
✣ Look for things that could be a
hazard to the elderly such as loose
rugs and electrical cords.
Practice Hospitality
Romans 12:13 tell us to practice hospitality. During the holiday season
✣ Move breakables away from areas many of us will have guests in our homes and we will have an opportu-
where children might be tempted to nity to make them feel welcome. We want them to feel at home and have
reach out and touch. a good time. But a lot depends on us. Are we ready for their coming? Are
✣ Make the beds with fresh clean we comfortable with them being there or do we feel stressed? Is the tim-
linens. Extra blankets and pillows ing of their visit good for all concerned?
add comfort and ensure a good
night’s sleep. Luke 19 tells about a man so short of stature that he had to climb up a
✣ Place a small table with a reading tree to see Jesus. As Jesus passed by the tree, He stopped, looked up and
lamp, magazines or books of short said, “Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house
stories or poetry, a Bible and a devo- today” (verse 5). We usually have forewarning when company is coming.
tional book next to the bed. Zacchaeus did not, yet he was a gracious host. Scripture tells us that he
✣ Provide space in a dresser drawer welcomed Jesus gladly.
or closet, with empty hangers, to give If Jesus came to your house today, what would he find? Would you wel-
your guests a place to put their come Him gladly or would you have to say, “Wait a minute; I have some
things. things I need to take care of before I let You in.” Would you be kicking
✣ An alarm clock and a night light things under the sofa, hiding books and magazines, changing pictures on
are thoughtful touches. the wall or boxing up your CDs and DVDs because they were not appro-
✣ In a large basket place bath towels, priate and you wouldn’t want Jesus to see them? Would you be dusting
hand towels and washcloths. Add off the Bible and putting it in an obvious place?
some essentials like toothbrushes, In John 14:23 we read, “Jesus replied, ‘If anyone loves Me, he will obey
toothpaste, razor, soap, hotel size bot- My teaching. My Father will love him, and We will come and make Our
tles of shampoo conditioner and home with him.’” Imagine, the Creator of the universe wants to make His
hand lotion. home with you. Your heart must be as clean and inviting as your home
✣ Make sure the shower and toilet would be when expecting guests. Jesus wants to be at home with you.
are in working order. Are you ready?
✣ Provide your guest with a map

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A Tisket, a Tasket Service—November 2009
Major Kathy Whittaker
Southern Territory
A Very Welcome Basket
3. Popeye Olive Oil
4. Gilligan
Speakers
Invite the director from the commu- Skipper
nity shelter for victims of domestic 5. Bonnie Clyde
abuse to speak about their services 6. Adam Eve
and how the women can volunteer to 7. Laurel Hardy
No Ordinary Basket
I found a wicker basket, 8. Jack
help. Jill
And prayed a simple prayer, 9. Mickey Minnie
Lord, let me find the right things Ask the fire department to provide a 10. Batman Robin
To show someone I care. speaker on fire safety in the home. 11. David Jonathan
I’ll decorate the basket, Contact the police department and 12. Bert Ernie
With ribbons, bow, and glue, secure a speaker on personal safety, 13. Hansel Gretel
No ordinary basket, home protection or scam artists. 14. Robin Hood Maid Marian
It’s got a job to do. 15. Lucy Desi
16. Wally Cleaver Eddie Haskell
For someone’s hurting somewhere,
Friends Game
Match up the names of these friends. 17. Nancy Sluggo
There’s someone who needs cheer, The answers are in italics. 18. Abbott Costello
Someone may need a “Thank You” 1. Sonny Cher 19. Rocky Bullwinkle
For helping me this year. 2. Romeo Juliet 20. Elvis Priscilla
And so I’ll take my basket,
And offer it in love,
A gift of my true friendship,
And blessings from above.
Friendship—The Gift That Keeps on Giving
—Kathy Whittaker
If someone were to ask you how many friends you have, you might
have to think before giving your answer. According to the Webster’s
Program Preparation Dictionary, the word friend is defined as: “A person you know well and
Decide on one of the service projects regard with affection and trust; an associate who provides assistance; or
listed below and ask the women to a person with whom you are acquainted.
donate the items needed. Decorate
large baskets with fall colored ribbons God’s gift to us, in the form of friends, is one of the many ways that He
and bows. If you have a speaker, at the takes care of us. From the beginning in the Garden of Eden, God declared,
close of the program present the filled “It is not good for man to be alone.” Even though God walked in fellow-
basket to them. ship with Adam, God decided that Adam needed human companionship
and friendship as he journeyed through life.
In Proverbs 17:17 we read, “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is
Service Projects
Ask the women to put together bas-
kets of beauty and health items for the born for adversity.” The whole design of friendship is to avoid being left
clients at the domestic abuse shelter. alone when the times of hardship and trouble arise. It is said that
Include new small stuffed animals for throughout our lifetime we may have many acquaintances, but we may
the children . be blessed with only a very small number of true friends. A true friend is
loyal and will stick with you “come rain or shine,” through the good
Fill baskets with paper plates, nap- times and the bad. When you suffer, a true friend feels your pain. She is
kins, towels and toilet tissue. Share willing to make the sacrifice of time and effort to be there for you, to drop
these with shut–ins in the community. you a note, call you on the phone or visit.
Make up baskets with baby items for A true friend will look you straight in the eye and tell you when you’re
new mothers. Have the women take wrong about something important, even if you don’t really want to hear
these to the hospital’s maternity ward. it. George Herbert, a Welsh poet, wrote, “The best mirror is an old
Include information about women’s friend.”
ministries and other corps programs,
along with an invitation for the When I was a child, I was very shy; I didn’t have many friends. I
women and their families to attend. remember feeling sorry for myself and spoke with my dad about it. He
said, “In order to have a friend, you have to be one.” I didn’t understand
Donations of school supplies can be at the time, but as I grew older, I realized that he was telling me that hav-
placed in baskets for delivery to selected ing and being a friend required an investment of myself. Proverbs 18:24
schools in low–income communities. (NKJ) says, “A man who has friends must himself be friendly. But there
is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”
Fire and police departments give
valiant service throughout the year. Are you the kind of friend you should be to others? Do you always
Baskets filled with snacks, baked show love even when your feelings have been hurt? Can people count on
goodies and bottled water are a won- you to be there for them? Has your friendship influenced someone else’s
derful expression of gratitude and life? Are you always a true friend?
friendship.

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Worship—November 2009
Captain Kory Acosta Welcome To My Home
Western Territory
words as possible from the phrase
“Majestic Homes.” So far the record
Setting the Scene
Put a welcome sign on the door to
the room where the group meets. has been 51 words.
Place a welcome mat at the entrance.
Since this program emphasizes asking Welcome Wreath
Jesus to “move in,” have boxes and Purchase miniature straw or vine
packing material around the room to wreaths. You will need one per per-
give it a moving look. son. Provide small silk flowers, rib-
bon, buttons, jewelry and other items
Introduction suitable to decorate the wreaths. Have
Give each woman a program. On the the women glue the decorations on
cover use the acronym H O M E— the wreath with a hot glue gun.
Heart, Openness, Mirrored and En-
couraging. This will help communi-
cate the message and help the women
feel the inspiration and anticipation of
HOME
inviting and welcoming Jesus into
Read Revelation 3:20. Use a number of translations so that the Word can convey

their heart. On the inside of the invita-


its special meaning to the women.

tion print the program outline and the How many times have we had opportunities come and go because we
following poem. missed the chance to take them? I wonder how many ways I missed out
on welcoming God into my newly–formed life as a young married
For my heart to be His throne, woman. My husband and I missed out in the simplest and most obvious
That is my one desire, ways.
That He see fit to reign and remain
And instill in my life His fire. As a newlywed couple, we lived in a nice community and were so excit-
That I may serve Him truly, ed to have our own little place in El Paso, Texas. We worked hard to have
Follow closer still the pleasures of modern material goods such as a gated pool, great air
May my heart be an open door, conditioning in the dry desert heat and a guaranteed parking space in
Content with His gracious will. front of our home. As I look back, I now realize we missed so many
—Captain Kory Acosta opportunities for spiritual growth because our time was centered on
gaining worldly comforts rather than spiritual growth. Our focus was on
Program Outline the latest electronic equipment and furniture, rather than the gentle
Welcome knocking of Christ seeking His place in our hearts. And through those
Icebreaker actions came complacency, much like the church that John was address-
ing in Revelation 3:20.
Word Game
He reminded the Laodicean church that though they had all the riches
Welcome Wreath Project and material comforts the world could offer, their ears were deaf to the
Song #241, “Room for Jesus” gentle knocking of Jesus at their heart’s door. As newlyweds, we too fell
(The Salvation Army Song Book) into the ritual of working hard for personal gain, but neglected the great-
Prayer est free gift being offered. This gift would endure and satisfy, giving a
sense of peace, fulfillment and joy. God offers what we need rather than
Scripture Reading the temporal things we often desire.
Devotional—H O M E Maybe you’ve been seeking after things rather than God. Are you just
Closing Prayer going through the motions without really knowing God? Look again at
the acronym on the cover of the invitations—H O M E. H stands for our
Ice Breaker Heart where Jesus wants to live forever. Our heart must be the dwelling
Depending on the group’s size, place for the King of kings. Do you have something in your heart that
divide the women into smaller teams needs to be removed to make room for Him? O is for openness. Let’s seek
to encourage greater participation. conversation with Jesus and a meaningful and life changing relationship
Have them share their best or worst with Him. M is for mirrored, which means we need to be a reflection of
moving experience to a new home. His love to others, to demonstrate the love and peace we’ve found
Chose one or two stories from each though our relationship with Jesus. Lastly, E stands for encouraging. We
group to share with all the women. are called to encourage one another, to lift each other up as we grow
Give prizes to those who share the together in Christ’s love.
funniest stories.
As we close this time together, let us remember to constantly open the
door of our hearts to God. It’s time we welcome Jesus to His permanent
home, our hearts.
Word Game
Ask the women to create as many

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Fellowship—December 2009
Entertaining Angels Patt Conroy
Eastern Territory
13. Dale Evans’ book Angel Unaware 7. God spoke to this man through an
14. National Commander who played angel and a burning bush. Moses
a harp. Evangeline Booth 8. Angels rescued this man from the
15. A boy’s name Angelo cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. Lot
9. An angel rescued this woman and
her son when they were forced to
1. This man wrestled all night with leave Abraham and Sarah.
Angels in the Bible
Hagar
an angel. Jacob 10. An angel rolled away the stone
2. This angel appeared to Joseph and from His tomb. Jesus
Mary to announce that Jesus would 11. Angels told these people that
Program Ideas

Ask one of the women who deco- be born. Gabriel Christ would come back to earth just
Christmas Party

rates her home for the holidays if she 3. An angel spoke through this man’s as they saw Him ascend into heaven.
would host a Christmas gathering. donkey. Balaam the Disciples
Have Christmas music playing softly 4. They were thrown out of a garden 12. This is the only archangel men-
when the women arrive for this event. and an angel prevented them from tioned in the Bible. Michael
returning. Adam and Eve 13. This individual was once one of
5. This man was ready to take the life the highest angels in heaven, but fell
Invite the women to bring their
Angel Decorations
of his only son, but God sent an angel from heaven because of pride.
favorite angel decoration. Ask them to to prevent him. Abraham Satan
share why it is special to them. 6. This man refused to acknowledge 14. An angel rescued this man from
his reliance on God so an angel was prison. Paul
Instead of exchanging gifts with commanded to strike him with sick- I5. Angels spoke to this New Testa-
Christmas Gifts

each other, invite the women to bring ness. He was eaten alive by worms. ment individual several times in
gifts for a family in the Adopt– Herod dreams. Peter
a–Family program or for children
enrolled in the Angel Tree program.
Angels All Around
Have you ever wondered what an angel looks like? If you ask ten peo-
✣ Do you believe in angels?
Discussion
ple, you will probably get ten different answers. Angels are usually
✣ Have you ever felt the presence of thought of as having a human form and wings.
a angel?
The Lord sent angels to Abraham to provide food, water and rest before
✣ Can you share about a time when
continuing their journey (Genesis 18 3–5). In Genesis 19:13 we read that
you were comforted or helped by an
Lot saw two angels at the gate of Sodom and invited them to join him in
angel?
his house for the night. Lot prepared a feast for them of unleavened
✣ Can you think of a time when you
bread, and they ate together. Lot described these angels as men.
might have entertained an angel but
were not aware of it until later? These verses in Genesis show that Abraham and Lot did not dream of
angels but actually saw them and recognized them as being from the
Games Lord. They invited the angels into their homes, shared their food and ate
Create a list of names or titles and with them. Angels may appear to us in our dreams and sometimes in
have the women match them to the human form during times of need. God tells us that He will never leave
statements. The answers are in italics. us nor forsake us. Sometimes He will send angels to comfort us, to deliv-
er messages and to protect us.
1. City of Angels
Hidden Angels
Los Angeles Hebrews 13: 1–2 gives us direction and a warning. “Let brotherly love
2. Arctic seaport Wrangell, Alaska continue. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by doing so some have
3. Sistine painter Michelangelo unknowingly entertained angels.” Have you had an opportunity to meet
4. Children’s story The Littlest Angel a stranger’s need for food or shelter? These verses indicate that we should
5. Billy Graham’s book Angels, think about being hospitable when we encounter someone in need,
whether to provide food, clothing, somewhere to sleep or just a listening
6. Old hit TV show Charlie’s Angels
Angels, Angels
ear, for we might be entertaining angels.
7. Baked in an oven Angel Food Cake
8. Michael Arch Angel God not only wants us to open our hearts to Christ, but to those in need.
9. Broadway’s “Mame” He blesses us when we are kind and hospitable to others because we are
Angela Lansbury sharing Christ–likeness with them.
10. Christmas trim Angel Hair
We see images of angels everywhere during Christmas, but God wants
11. Song about wedded bliss
us to see angels every day. Not just as decorations but as messengers and
I Married an Angel
helpers He sends into our lives. Will you recognize them and respond?
12. Spiritual song Angels Watchin’
Over Me

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Education—December 2009
Dawn Hayman Tie It With a Bow
Central Territory
After the demonstration, invite the
women to try their hand at making a
Gift Jars
The website http://www.razzledaz-
zlerecipes.com/christmas/gifts/inde bow. As it is easier to work with wired
x.htm offers many different gift jar ribbon, have on hand enough ribbon
recipes. Click on “Jar Making Tips” for so that each woman can make a bow.
helpful safety and other ideas.
Set up stations for each of the jar
Gift Wrapping Demonstration
Ask one of the women to demon-
recipes. Pre–print the recipes, instruc- strate the easy way to wrap a gift. You
tions and have all the food supplies can find step–by–step instructions on
needed at each station. Plastic table out the pictures from old Christmas
the Internet.
coverings, measuring cups, spoons, cards or last year’s calendars and
and paper towels will also be helpful. glue them on newspaper print or
brown paper bags that have been
Alternate Gift Wrapping
Have samples of different ways to
wrap a gift. opened up so they are flat to create
These jars can be made ahead of time
Advent Jars
inexpensive gift wrap.
for each of the women attending the ❁ Fabric Gift Bags—cut two pieces of ❁ Lunch Bags—make gift bags from
program, or have the women make material that are the same size. Sew lunch bags. These can be rubber
them to give to a family member or three sides together, turn inside out. stamped for an interesting effect.
friend. They can be used in the fami- Use pinking sheers to finish the top ❁ Wallpaper—discontinued books of
ly’s devotions each day leading up to of the bag. Tie with ribbon. wallpaper, which can be obtained
Christmas. ❁ Comic Strips—the Sunday funnies from the paint store can make inter-
make interesting wrapping paper for esting wrapping paper.
Supplies needed for one jar:
children’s gifts. ❁ Old Maps—out–of–date road maps
✭ 1 quart canning jar with lid
❁ Christmas Cards or Calendars—cut also work well to wrap gifts.
✭ 25—2" x 2" squares of card stock
printed with holiday patterns
✭ 6 1/2" square of holiday fabric, The Blessing of Giving
trim the edges with pinking sheers I will never forget my first Christmas with my husband’s family. I
✭ Rubber band to attach the fabric to remember a tree with the most beautiful packages I had ever seen in my
the jar lid life under it. Each package was carefully wrapped and then adorned with
✭ Piece of coordinating Christmas intricate ribbons, bows and other decorative picks. It looked like a scene
ribbon to cover the rubber band out of a magazine or Christmas movie.
✭ Paint or pens that will write on
My father–in–law had a wonderful sense of humor. Each year he
glass
worked hard to creatively present my mother–in–law’s Christmas gift.
On some of the squares print scrip- He loved to put a pair of earrings on a stuffed animal or hang a beautiful
ture verses, prayers, Christmas poems necklace on the Christmas tree. This particular year he did something a
and words of encouragement. Leave little out of the norm. He wrapped my mother–in–law’s gift beautifully.
others blank so that the women can It looked like a regular present. She was surprised when she opened it to
personalize them for the recipient of find a giant, golden, mechanics file. She had asked for a new manicure set
the jar. The squares are placed inside and he decided to have some fun and spray paint a gigantic workman’s
the jar and are drawn out each day file gold for effect. We all laughed so hard. My mother–in–law’s expres-
leading up to Christmas. The outside sion was priceless. She had the heartiest laugh of all.
of the jars can be personalized with
the recipient’s name. Rubber band the When I reflect on past Christmases, I think about that gift. Was it the
fabric on the jar lid and tie on with a package that made it special? No. Was it the crazy golden file? Absolutely
piece of coordinating ribbon. Add a not! It was the joy that He gave his wife and it was the delight that she
gift tag printed with the words “A Gift gave him by showing her appreciation for his creativity and humor.
of Love—Tied With a Bow For (recipi- Paul reminds us of Jesus’ words. They are a simple yet profound truth
ent’s name).” that speaks to our hearts during Christmastime. “It is more blessed to
Bow Making give that to receive” (Acts 20:35).
Teach the women how to make bows Christmas celebrates the greatest gift of all—God’s gift of love to us of
to put on their Christmas packages. His Son wrapped up in swaddling clothes. What are we giving those we
For step by step instructions check the love? Do we give with our hearts? Are we good recipients of the gifts
following websites: given to us? Do we allow ourselves to receive the blessings that others try
www.save-on-crafts.com/howtomake to give? This year fill your Christmas list with gifts that can simply bless
bows.html the hearts of those you love. You will find you will be the one who
www.craftown.com/instruction/ receives the greatest blessing.
bows.htm

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Service—December 2009
The Stockings Were Hung By Major Paula Powell
The Chimney With Care Southern Territory

Service Project on the mantle over the fireplace to dry.


Often part of the ministry of The He had an idea, slipped into the house
Salvation Army’s Christmas program and placed a bag of gold in each of the
is the distribution of filled Christmas three stockings. Legend continues that
stockings. We traditionally think of the girls were married and lived hap-
these being for children, but there are pily the rest of their days.
many other possibilities. Several
weeks before the program decide on Poem
the recipients of the stockings. Ask the Read Clement Moore’s poem, Twas
women to donate suitable items. The Night Before Christmas. You will find
Purchase the mesh stockings that the the words on the Internet along with
women will fill during the program. information about the author.
replace the gum wrapper in the stock-
ing, along with the gloves and pass
Games
◆ Seniors—socks, gift cards, stamps
Possible Recipients
the stocking to the next teammate. The
Select two teams of evenly num-
Stocking Relay
◆ Shelter Residents—socks, gloves, first team to finish wins the relay.
scarves, toiletries bered participants. Give the first per-
◆ Sunday School Teachers—teaching son on each team a stocking filled
with individual sticks of sugar free Fill a miniature stocking with as
Miniature Stocking
supplies and goodies
◆ Corps Musicians—valve oil, lip gum and a pair of cotton work gloves. many small items as possible. The
balm, Army Christmas CD Team members must reach in the women have to guess the number and
◆ Foster Children—obtain informa- stocking, put on the work gloves, take what they are. The person who comes
out one stick of gum, open it and put closest to the correct count and identi-
tion from the local child protective
it in their mouths. They must then fies the most items wins.
services
◆ Homebound Individuals—socks,
paper goods, lotions, magazines,
stamps, sugar free candy
Anticipation
It has been said that the best thing about the Christmas season is the
◆ Corps Transportation Volunteers—
anticipation. The next best thing is the remembering.
gloves, sunglasses, coupons for fast
food treats, gift certificate for a local There are many wonderful traditions that we hold dear during
restaurant, CD of music Christmas including the joy of finding a stocking filled with treats on
Christmas morning. Clement Moore’s poem “The Night Before
History of Christmas Stockings Christmas,“ helped to establish this tradition. One of the lines reads, “The
Christmas stockings have become a stockings were hung by the chimney with care.” They were hung with
beloved tradition of the Christmas great anticipation of good things they would hold when morning came.
season. Some say that the Dutch intro-
duced the tradition to America. In the Anticipation is a central theme of the Christmas story. The people of
16th century children in Holland Israel listened with anticipation as the prophets foretold the coming of
would leave their clogs by the hearth Messiah. “For to us a child is born, to us a Son is given, and the govern-
filled with straw for the reindeer or ment will be upon His shoulder. And He will be called Wonderful
donkey. Sinterclass would come and Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (Isa. 9:6).
leave treats for the children in the Elizabeth, the cousin of Mary, anticipated the birth of her son, John the
clogs. Later stockings were substitut- Baptist, who would be the messenger of Good News. Mary anticipated
ed for clogs. the birth of her son, Jesus, who would deliver His people. Joseph antici-
pated the birth of this baby, the son of the Most High God, whom he
There is another legend of a noble- would be entrusted to guide through childhood. Simeon anticipated see-
man who lost his wife due to an ill- ing the foretold Messiah. Shepherds anticipated finding the baby, the
ness. He was so distraught that he subject of the angelic chorus, lying in a manger. The Wise Men, guided by
squandered all his fortune. He had a star, anticipated seeing this King of kings.
three daughters who were very kind
and hard workers but he had no There was yet another aspect of anticipation. God the Father anticipat-
money left for their dowries. St. ed the reconciliation of a sinful people through the sacrifice of His own
Nicholas heard the townspeople dis- Son. Today we often confuse the wrappings of Christmas with the true
cussing the dismal plight of the girls meaning of the celebration. The real Gift is forgotten.
destined to be spinsters. He decided to
This year, as we prepare for the Christmas celebration, may we antici-
help anonymously. He rode to the
pate anew the coming of Christ. May our gift to Him be a heart filled with
peasant’s cottage one night and saw
adoration and love. The songwriter reminds us, “Oh come to my heart,
through the window the stockings,
Lord Jesus. There is room in my heart for You.”
which the girls had washed and hung

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Worship—December 2009
Captain Kory Acosta The Entryway
Western Territory

Welcome
Eagerness, excitement, wonder, thrill, hope and dreams—these words
describe anticipation, the waiting for what is to come. What do you look
forward to and how will you react to Christmas this year?
I remember how much I anticipated Christmas in my house when I was
a child. I am the youngest of five, so we were a big group when we gath-
ered together. Including all the extended family, we were huge. What fun
we enjoyed when the entire family came over to visit at our house.
Special food was prepared and the smells of tamales, cookies and pies
were tantalizing. We children would sit close to the Christmas tree won-
Program Outline
Call to Worship dering what was in those beautifully wrapped gift boxes.
Song #282, “O, Come to My Heart”
The Salvation Army Song Book A downside of being born and raised in Chicago is that we could expect
(Read the words) a very, very cold Christmas. This meant layers upon layers of clothing
and wet snow boots littering the entryway of the house, which make for
Psalm 100
a very awkward entrance for the late arrivals. It also made coming into
Prayer of Praise and Worship the house rather unwelcoming and distracting. Usually it was my duty,
Christmas Past though not one I wanted, to make sure the entryway was clear and free
(Old Family Pictures) of obstacles. My folks wanted to make sure our company felt welcome in
our home during this celebratory time of year, when we remembered
Discussion
again the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Devotional—”Welcome”
In Luke 7:36–50 we read about Jesus and the woman who washed His
Sing the Chorus of #282, “O, Come to feet. Jesus was an invited guest to the home of a Pharisee. The customary
My, Heart Lord Jesus” way of eating during those days was for the guests to recline, prop them-
Closing Prayers selves up with their elbows and have their heads close to the table. Dirt
and dust collected on their sandaled feet, requiring the host to wash the
Christmas Past feet of guests before the meal.
Invite the women to bring old fami-
ly Christmas pictures and share the A host would also give a kiss of greeting and anoint the head of the
memories they inspire. guests he welcomed into the home. This treatment indicated that you
were welcoming the guest into your entire home, not just at the doorway.
Women in those times would never have been invited in or even been
allowed to come close to the table. But this woman felt an overwhelming
Scrapbook Page
Announce this project ahead of time
and invite members to bring a photo need to give her very best to Jesus. She broke her beautiful and very
of their children or grandchildren. expensive alabaster jar of perfume and anointed Jesus with it. She then
Provide a blank scrapbook page and washed His feet with her hair and tears.
the supplies so that the women can The reaction of the Pharisees was judgmental and critical. Simon called
decorate their family pictures. the woman a sinner, not worthy of touching Jesus. But Jesus had very
severe words for Simon. He indicated that he had judged her incorrectly
and he had also neglected to give Jesus a proper welcome: “Therefore, I
Discussion
1. What special things does your
tell you, her many sins have been forgiven—for she loved much. But he
family do to make guests feel wel-
who has forgiven little loves little” (Luke 7:47).
come in your home?
2. What gives you a sense of joy What does that story mean to us? Overflowing love is the natural
when you welcome and care for response to forgiveness and the appropriate consequence of faith. But
guests in your home? only those who realize the depth of their sin can appreciate the complete
forgiveness God offers through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.
3. How would your guests feel if
they were allowed only in the What might be hindering you from celebrating with your whole heart
entryway of your home? during this beautiful time of the year? Do you recognize and welcome the
birth of Jesus? What obstacles might be at the entryway of your heart that
Refreshments block Jesus from having every part of you? How do you plan to respond
Ask the women to bring a Christmas to the excitement of the gift of Jesus in your life?
dessert that reminds them of a joyful
time when they were children. During May this day be the day you welcome Him with a kiss of greeting and
the refreshments invite them to share the anointing of your very best fragrant oil—your life.
these memories.

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