After a break-up, on a full moon, go outside underneath the radiant light. Light some black, red, and blue candles and some incense of your choice. Say: "As you leave my life, I leave behind my pain. As you burn to dust, So does all my hurt. As I leave you in my past, I leave with you my sorrow." Let the candles burn down completely. Take the remains off your property and bury them. Turn around and don't look back! Now follow with a renewal or healing ritual.