FELLOWSHIP BAPTIST COLLEGE

Rizal Street, Kabankalan City, Negros Island Region

BIBLE 3 PRE-FINAL EXAM

Name: RAYMART L CUBID Course: BSCE-5 Class Schedule: FRIDAY/ 7:30-10am

General Instructions: Please fill-out all the required info above.
Answer the questions below and submit accomplished exam paper together with other
course requirements.

TRUE / FALSE. Indicate if the given statement is correct by writing True and False if the statement is wrong.
Then explain your answer. (10 points each)

1. The Obsessive Stage of Love requires lots of effort from couples because they have to work out their
differences in the relationship especially if the spark or the romance is no longer there.

 FALSE, this stage of love does not require a lot of effort, during this initial stage of love, we have other
irrational thoughts. It is in this obsessed stage of love that most people get married, and others start living
together. The whole relationship has been effortless. We have been swept along by the heightened
emotions of the “in love” obsession.

2. Because their parents never learned to speak their primary love language, some single adults feel loved
and appreciated by their parents which is very important in a family relationship.
 FALSE, some single adults do not feel loved by their parents, not because their parents did not
love them, but because their parents never learned to speak their primary love language. Many single
adults have been unsuccessful in their vocational ambitions, not because they lack skills to perform their
job, but because they have never learned how to express appreciation to those who work with them and for
them.

3. In the love language “Words of Affirmation”; the words I say has no relevance or connection to how I say it
in-order to influence and enhance my relationships.
 FALSE, since words hold such influential power, it is understandable that words of affirmation would be one
of the five fundamental languages of love. Single adults who grew up in a negative linguistic environment
will probably have greater difficulty learning to speak words of affirmation. For some, it will mean learning a
whole new vocabulary while seeking to delete the negative words that so freely flow from their
mouths. It will also involve learning to listen, really listen, to the affirming words of
others.

4. The right gift is any token, big or small, which speaks of your emotional love, so in the love language of
“Gifts”, the important thing is the size and value of the gift, not the emotional love that was communicated
by the gift.
 FALSE, the important thing is not the gift, but the emotional love that was communicated by
the gift. The right gift is any token, big or small, which speaks that emotional love. Love can be expressed
and received in all five languages. However, if you don’t speak a person’s primary love language, that
person will not feel loved, even though you may be speaking the other four. Once you are speaking his or
her primary love language fluently, then you can sprinkle in the other four, and they will be
like icing on the cake.
5. Because life is filled with many opportunities to express love by acts of service, the love language of doing
“Acts of Service” require highly technical skills, knowledge, abilities, and resources.

 FALSE, acts of service do not require highly technical skills. On the other hand, true love often finds its
expression in acts of service. It is service freely given, not out of fear, but out of choice. It comes out of the
personal discovery that “it is more blessed to give than to receive.”4 All of us have certain abilities and
skills. These can be used to express love. When we learn to speak each other’s love language early in our
relationships, we are able to keep each other’s love tanks full.
 FELLOWSHIP BAPTIST COLLEGE
Rizal Street, Kabankalan City, Negros Island Region

BIBLE 3 FINAL EXAM

Name: RAYMART L .CUBID__________ Course: BSCE-5 _ Class Schedule: FRIDAY 7:30-10AM

General Instructions: Please fill-out all the required info above.

Answer the questions below and submit accomplished exam paper together with other
course requirements.

Describe the importance of each of the 5 Love Languages and how it affects our relationships.
(10 points each)
1. Words of Affirmation
 Some people are more attuned than others to hear both positive and negative words from those
whose opinions they cherish. While negative, critical words can tear them down, positive,
encouraging words make them flourish. People who need verbal affirmation also tend to be freer
with their own encouraging words. They assume that, because they so need verbal praise, the
loved ones in their lives also need it. While most people enjoy hearing words of praise, those
whose primary love language is words of affirmation crave it. They will often structure their lives
around the possibility of receiving praise, even neglecting to speak negative truth when necessary.

2. Gifts
 We all know someone, often a woman, who brings gifts everywhere she goes. She is always
“picking up a little something” for the people in her life. She thrives on gift-giving, and, when she is
given a gift, it fills her love tank. Sometimes people misunderstand her need to express love
through gift-giving and interpret her constant offerings as bribes or the expectation of something in
return. When a gift is a person’s primary love language, he or she places a great deal of weight on
the quality of the gift and the effort that went into obtaining it. The gifts need not to be expensive,
but they are sometimes given more meaning than the giver intended.

3. Acts of Service
 People with this love language are often found behind the scenes, doing what no one else
volunteered to do. It is their gift to the people they care about. They assume that the recipients of
their service will understand the reasons behind it, but they become frustrated when they feel
taken for granted.

4. Quality Time
 The best way to communicate love to a person whose primary language is quality time is to
remove distractions such as cellphones and TV and really tune in to what he or she is saying. We
can train ourselves to give verbal feedback to indicate we are listening. A distracted audience
communicates more to this person than we may realize if this is not our primary language.

5. Physical Touch

 Physical touch is crucial for the health and well-being of every human being. Babies who do not
receive enough loving touch in infancy do not thrive and can have lifelong difficulties. But for some
people the need for physical touch is greater than it is for others. Loving hugs, backrubs, holding
hands, or a simple shoulder squeeze all communicate love to these people. Those actions spell
love to those with this primary language. While sex can be part of this language, this need for
hugging, and simple pecks on the cheek fill the love tank of those with this need.

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GOD BLESS! 
Prepared by: Ptr. Honierold S. Telmo