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(After this exercise you will realize how profound this example truly
is.)
Now! Look at that hand and visualize placing upon it something in
your
life that is troubling you. This might be something that is blocking
you,
something perhaps that you don’t seem to be able to find your
answers
too.
To see how this part of the process works I am asking you to place
something there that could be perceived to be negative - just the
one
thing for now! Once you get used to this process, you will be able to
do
this with anything that you ever experience and are looking for
answers
too.
How might you recognize something that is negative or holding you
back? Are you feeling out of balance, out of sorts, perhaps a little ill?
Some kind of dis-ease has sneaked up on you? One thing I came to
understand in my journey is that when it happened with me, I knew I
was
going through a growth process again or a shifting in my energies.
In the beginning I found myself seeing this as a very negative and
unpleasant experience. Eventually I learned to see them as a blessing
and an exciting part of my ascension towards mastery. A part of the
growth towards the true GOD/CREATOR light essence that we all are.
I
firmly believe that this has greatly enhanced the processing of these
moments and I found that I moved forward at a faster rate because I
now
viewed them as experiences from both aspects of duality.
Ok, here we go. Start this exercise by holding up one of your hands.
For
the purpose of this experience use the right hand. As you hold up
your
right hand, place the negative there. As you look at it, detach
yourself
from it and see it for what it is. See it is an experience - nothing
more,
nothing less. Now hold up your left hand. While still looking at the
negative on the right hand, see if you can find any positives in the
experiences you have placed there and place these positives into the
left
hand. This might take a little bit of practice, but don’t give up. Even
in all
negatives there are always positives to be found if you observe it
deeply
enough. What you have now created is a visible way of looking at a
challenge or negative from two totally different perspectives, these
being
the Negative and Positive or in other words, “duality”.
Let’s visualize an example here to assist in clarifying. Imagine I just
had
a car accident. My car is damaged. This could be perceived to be the
negative. I would therefore place this example in my left hand.
Fortunately I am not hurt, this can be seen as a positive. I could also
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look further. When I look at what happened, I might want to find out
what
happened on the road I was taking to get to my destination? Was
there
an even worse accident further ahead whereby I might have been
physically hurt?
Another possibility would be that I have my car checked while it is
being
repaired. Could it be that there was something wrong with the car
and
had I driven many more miles that a defect would have shown up at
an
inopportune moment causing even greater damage, not only to
myself,
but perhaps also to others who were travelling the same road as me?
I
would certainly place these examples in my left hand.
In this example I would again detach myself from this visualisation
and
by placing no judgements or adding any further energy, emotions
etcetera to what is placed there. I would consciously in my thoughts
take
a few steps back, detach myself from the experience, take a few
deep
regular breaths and simply monitor my thoughts. I have learned to
trust
whatever pops into my mind as being guidance from my higher -
partner
self.
By detaching myself from my emotions with regards to what
happened
and being able to look at them in duality, I create a space whereby
the
third possibility is triggered into action.
This is TRIALITY!
What I have just achieved with this exercise is, I have moved beyond
duality. This allows me to step into triality. Triality is of course, my
connection with all three parts. Once my higher-partner self is
involved I
gain clarity, I see many more perspectives and I receive answers.
Remember! Our higher-partner selves are in circular time and are
not
limited as we are by linear time. Our higher-partner self is therefore
able
to see all potential possibilities.
We can take this a step further. I can ask while I am in that triality
space
for suggestions as to what I can do to achieve the best possible
outcome
for my greater good. By simply being aware of whatever thoughts,
ideas
or suggestions that pop into my mind, I am in fact receiving those
potentials-possibilities. I am never concerned if nothing pops into my
mind. Because I have activated my higher-partner self or placed the
intention there, I will generally find that synchronicities are placed
on my
path that will lead me to the highest possible solution.
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I have found that through working with this duality to triality tool
with
others, we have been able to move beyond any blockages that might
be
holding them back. By listening to them intently and at the same
time
detaching myself, I have found that I see the two sides of what could
have been. As I see these potentials in duality, remaining open to my
higher – partner self, I also receive more tools/suggestions to assist
them
in seeing clearly what it is that is blocking them. Often this will be a
suggestion to read a certain book, or visit a certain web site.
A further and perhaps different perspective as to what Triality is can
be
explained in this way.
My higher-partner self is in contact with all that is. It is a part of the
GOD/Creator energy. This means that I am tapping into that energy.
There are no questions that cannot be answered, no challenges that
cannot be overcome, no negatives that cannot be changed to
positives.
Note: To every challenge there is a solution. To every negative there
is a
positive. In darkness there is always light. The example we have just
provided will assist you to find your answers. It will brighten your
lives
with many positive outcomes. It works for me, and as you are an
OPOM,
it surely will also work for you.
Abundance…
12 potential blockages to abundance.
When all of these 12 parts have been
viewed in total truth with one’s self!
Abundance on many levels will surely
be yours.
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Abundance.
This has to be one of my favorite topics, perhaps because I have a
deeper understanding of how abundance works now. It has been a
journey of discovery and being aware of many different aspects on
many
different levels.
How many times have you heard yourself or someone else use the
statement: “God never answers my prayers?” Have you ever
wondered
as to the why?
I will share with you in my opinion some of the blockages that we in
fact
ourselves are placing so that we do not receive the abundance that is
our god given right and gift to self. Before I do, I wish to state that
anyone reading this is made aware before hand that one of the most
common reactions to this parable is that one chooses to go into self
recrimination mode. Please understand that this serves no purpose.
It is
an absolute waste of your time and energy. So don’t go there, and I
very
seldom use the word “don’t”.
Note: Should you still choose to do so, then do it from a conscious
point
of awareness and that you are doing it simply to understand and
learn
from the experience.
Examples of potential blockages in your receipt of abundance.
1. Clarity.
2. Self worth issues.
3. Self doubt - negative outlook.
4. Responsibility for actions and interactions.
5. Perceptions of what abundance is.
6. Change.
7. Your perceptions on what money is.
8. Saboteurs. The four bodies.
9. The Conscious mind, sub conscious mind and the Higher self.
10. Chakras.
11. Kundalini.
12. Mastery of self.
What you see in this list is a selection of possibilities, that I will clarify
one by one knowing that they will assist you to find your flow of
abundance.
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1. Clarity. Let me start with perhaps one of the most important
subjects
for creating a steady flow of abundance in your lives. Have you ever
made a statement during a conversation and suddenly realized that
your
conversations partner had a quizzical look on their face? Did you
stop for
a moment to think why? Perhaps you even looked for a different way
of
using your words to clear the confusion?
Well good for you, because it is exactly the same while you are
imagining or fantasizing about what it is you would like to be a part
of
your flow of abundance. First of all it is essential to have clarity to
self
and then clarity to the unseen powers of the universe that
continually
await our instructions with eager anticipation to assist. Practice
writing
your wishes and desires on paper until you feel that you have total
clarity. If your in doubt? Find someone to assist you, someone who
will
be in truth with you. You will find that your manifestations of
abundance
start to flow that little bit more proficiently.
2. Self worth issues. This is often one of the more prominent reasons
for a lack of abundance and it does require total honesty to self. One
of
the main reasons there may be self worth issues is that you have
heard
all your life that you couldn’t do this, couldn’t do that, were not
clever
enough to achieve this, that or the other. Despair not, there are ways
to
release these blockages if you are willing to work on them. One of
the
best books I have ever encountered on releasing these kind of issues
is:
“Soul Psychology” by DR. Joshua Stone.
3. Self doubt - negative outlook. Self doubt is generally also to be
traced back to your early youth or what we call your formative years
and
the programming that was placed within you. You can change that
programming and we can assist with that. However, a tool that we
love
to use during our workshops is the Golden Coin provided by the
Ascended Masters. When holding that golden coin in the one hand
and
looking at whatever the negatives are within it, we simply ask you to
take some deep cleansing prana breaths and open your mind to
receiving other (positive) potentials as you flip the coin over while
placing it in the other hand. We have experienced that in almost all
cases this does open up an avenue with a little guidance to seeing
through the illusion of the negatives. Most are able to see positives
and
when doing so are faced with a choice. To stay with the old
(negatives)
or choose the other options provided. (positives.)
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4. Responsibility for actions and interactions. This one is also one
that requires total truth to self. Most people are very good at
pointing
fingers at others when things go wrong. I would invite you to hold
your
hand up in front of you and point a finger at something. What do you
see? You see one finger pointing away from you and at least three
pointing right back at you. What might that suggest to you? If you
are in
truth to self, it will say to you that whatever you are so willing to
blame
on another may well be a mirror reflection of something within
yourself.
Be open and willing to looking closely at that and we can guarantee
you,
you will make huge strides ahead in your abundance journey.
5. Perceptions of what abundance is. What are your perceptions of
abundance? Is it purely financial? We would suggest to you that it is
not.
It can be health, love, friendship. When one opens up to the many
facets
of abundance, it allows the unseen powers of the universe to
manifest
whatever it is we require without the limitations that our thoughts
might
have placed on them. It gives them freedom to manifest in ways that
we
cannot mostly even imagine. An example may be that you desire the
abundance to posses a new car! You might automatically start to
think
along the lines of: “I need such and such amount for this or that car”.
Suggestion: Allow the unseen powers of the universe to create freely
and see what they come up with. There are many different ways that
the car can be manifested, allow yourself and the unseen powers the
freedom of creation. (this was simply an example for the sake of
clarity)
6. Change. Another of my favorites. One of my fondest memories in
my
own growth process was writing “the fools prayer”. Do you
remember? It
went something like this: Lord, I wish to change my life, I am
unhappy
with who and what I am. Yet they go on doing the same old, same
old,
day in and day out and who do they blame? Yup! GOD…. Change
dear
friends is inevitable in this ever changing universe. We are part and
particle of that same universe, guided by the same laws, made of the
same elements. Is it not inevitable then that we too have to be
willing to
change?
7. Your perceptions on what money is. Did you notice also that I
hardly ever mention “money”? I purposefully leave the word money
out
of my own manifestations because I am totally aware that the
universe
provides in many different ways.
Money is in all truth simply another form of energy, when it is
treated as
such and allowed to flow in the same manner, it does flow, especially
if it
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is for the greater good of all. Many of you reading this are used to
the
flow of healing energies flowing through you. Money or finances is
again
simply another form of energy. Be willing to allow it too to flow
through
you.
8. Saboteurs. We ourselves are the greatest saboteurs. It can be
through our limiting thoughts, our doubts, our perceptions of self.
How
many times have you wished for something and then immediately
afterwards thought: “Oh that won’t happen to me anyway?” Or! No,
I
am not that lucky? Do you see what happened? First of all you were
creating through the first thought. Then you sabotaged it by thinking
negative straight afterwards.
9. The Conscious mind, sub conscious mind and the Higher self.
This too, is a deep study and requires a great deal of honesty,
perseverance, determination and will power. It is all about
understanding
how the way we view the world through eyes that are seeing an
illusion
because of our deep programming from birth onwards. Our
conscious
mind may know differently, yet our subconscious minds causes us to
see
and react in ways that when we take the time to stop and think don’t
seem to fit? This is because of our built in personality that was also
formed from birth after separation from the Mother. (Oneness)
Again, it
is very much possible to change that programming with the right
tools,
understanding and information. Allow me to offer you a powerful
example to get you started: Your subconscious mind is always telling
you
that life is hard and that to achieve anything you have to work hard
and
deserve all that you have gained. Your conscious mind knows
differently
because we know that GOD desires us to have all that we desire. We
are
limitless beings.
10. Chakras. What a beautiful part of the human experience this is. It
has a multitude of tasks and functions. As most will know, they are
there
to allow a continual flow of energy from the Universal energy source.
We
know that if they are blocked, dis-ease, tiredness etc sets in. Each
chackra represents a particular area of the body, particular organs.
The
beauty of them is, they also support within the creative process.
When
all of the chackra are in balance and there is a continual flow of pure
energy through them seemingly magical things happen in and
around
you. This also leads to the Kundalini.
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11. Kundalini. As I finished the last paragraph with the statement
that
all chackra when in total balance, totally open to the flow of the
universes energies, magical things happen around you. Many of the
worlds most famous figures utilized this energy to create some of
our
widest known human creations. For instance the light bulb, the
telephone, etc. Yes, our worlds greatest minds have used this energy.
We tend to label them with the term “geniuses”, but were they
really? Or
did they simply know something that most are not yet aware of? One
of
the best books I have read up to now on this subject is: Kundalini
Rising
by Dr. Barbara Condron. It is also an excellent book for those who
hold
firm to the teachings of the bible, as it unravels many of the
mysteries of
the parables contained within offering a different view point to that
of
the worlds religions. It explains in detail how the charkas work in the
creative process. It was an eye opener for me and most important of
all.
It really does work. I AM living proof in all that I do.
12. Mastery of self. I refer back to the highlighted points in question
in
this parable, each and every single highlight touched on a subject
that
when mastered increases everything in your life, not just abundance.
Each subject increases awareness and remember unless one is aware
of
something, change or choices cannot be made. Expand your
knowledge,
be willing to open to your mastery and so many wonderful things
manifest in your life. The Joy and the beauty of it all defies words, it
has
to be experienced. Will we achieve total mastery in this life time?
Well, I
can’t speak for all of you, but I know I am going to continue giving it
my
best effort and I wish you unlimited success in your quest, for in the
end! We are all one.
All of you who are reading this particular parable are by now
experiencing the hand of God so to speak in your back. What do I
mean
by this? Allow me to share a few examples that you might recognize.
You have experienced healing energies flowing through you and you
might now be being guided to either study more, or you are being
nudged to open a healing center. You might be a teacher, and you
are
feeling the urge to speak up about new and different teaching
methods.
You have never really understood what your purpose here on earth
is
this time, yet now you are getting more and more clarity in that
process.
I see it in so many that the proverbial penny is dropping. Let me close
this parable on the subject with which I began. Follow those intuitive
feelings, open yourself to the powers of the universe, work on or
with
the subjects I touched lightly upon above. Work diligently but with a
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determination and you will find that YOUR abundance flows. Every
time
you are in the flow with your life’s purpose, the abundance is there.
If
you don’t know what your life’s purpose is? Work on these subjects
and
you will be certain to find out. Open yourself to the magic of the
universe and the universe will open to you.
Note: I am also fully aware that I started the article with examples of
blockages. My reason for doing that is to simply place information in
front of you. As you see more and more through the illusion of this
3D
reality. You will not see them any longer as blockages but gifts
provided
you so that you may have the abundance that is your divine right.
ENJOY!!!!!!!!!
A Powerful tip in closing:
Whenever you catch yourself having negative or self destructive
thoughts. Have a power statement ready that you can change to or
perhaps even chant for a while.
Example: When your stuck in the thought of lack again.
I Am wealthy, healthy and blessed in all areas of my life…
If you keep repeating that every time you have financial or health
issues,
you will attract change into you vibrational make up, your thoughts
will
eventually become your statement. Your physical reality eventually
follows.
Letting go and Letting God…
Perhaps not one of the easiest tasks in
the world as I personally discovered.
Be prepared to go through certain
experiences that will eventually fully
allow this process.
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Letting go and letting God…
What does this statement really mean?
In this parable I will attempt to give a clear description of what I feel
it to
be from my own personal experiences. Many of you reading this may
well be going through similar experiences.
During the past few years their have been so many changes in my life
that as I look back on them I wonder how the heck I ever kept up. It
all
began as my wife and I started to understand that we had grown
apart
and that our lives were taking different directions. My chosen
spiritual
path was clearly something that neither did she want to understand
or
grasp, she also ridiculed much of what I did and taught. Eventually
she
did her best to understand and I will always love her for trying. How
it
was to turn out I didn’t know at that point in my journey. This was
another
part of the letting go and letting God. The divorce procedures had
been
activated.
I often asked if she would still be a part of my life somehow? I can’t
answer that one at the moment of writing this parable as I still don’t
know. Will we remain friends? I would really LOVE to think it is
possible.
We will see, only time will tell.
She has been a major part of my life for more than 32 years now and
I
thank the universe and god for placing such a special angel on my
path
to learn life’s lessons together. How appropriate that she carries the
name Angela, for she truly has been my guiding Angel. I trust that
the
universe now has other plans for her and that her own unique blend
of
loving and caring will now be shared with so many others. It is with
the
deepest of gratitude that I have already seen that take place around
her.
All of what has happened during the last year was heightened and
clarified as my twin flame started to reveal herself for what she is:
One
half of our complete soul.
As we began to understand the purpose and our task here on this
earth
plane the experiences and understanding intensified. We were
fortunate
to meet each other physically. Each time we parted it was as if a part
of
us was being severed.
Much of this transitional phase was one of chaos, confusion and lots
of
painful experiences. Much of them centered around my wife and I
not
being able to communicate and agree on anything anymore, it was
as if
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all of a sudden we had become two complete strangers. There were
many reasons and circumstances in and around these experiences. I
trust from the very depths of my being that all that has happened is
in
divine perfection and that there is a higher purpose to it all.
In between all this there were some very beautiful moments. I had
been
preparing some workshops and seminars and I had been blessed to
introduce them in Holland and in places in the USA with Mary Pat my
Twin Flame. It was an experience that was literally out of this world.
They were very well accepted, but not yet quite having reached their
fullest potential, nor a certain degree of completion there always
seemed
to be something missing. With hind-sight the missing parts were the
most
essential ingredients. It was during a reading of the Akashic records
that
I was offered some extra pieces of the puzzle. When these were
added
the true purpose and a very much higher potential became visible.
Although they had been powerful before, they were now absolutely
mind
blowing. When having experienced all three of the workshops “The 3
steps to Ascension” it became very clear that each individual here on
this
earth plane has a special purpose and are seeing that.
As they returned to their daily lives after the workshops, they took
back
with them a spark of light that empowered them in their own
situations
and as they worked with the tools provided they now truly are
assisting in
the Ascension process.