Hadith #15: Whoever Believes In Allah Should…

On the authority of Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him), the Messenger of Allah
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said, “Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day
should speak good things or keep silent.Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should be
courteous and generous to his neighbor. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should be
courteous and generous to his [traveling] visitor.” (Recorded by al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Significance of this hadith:

One of the most beautiful aspects of our religion is how it places tremendous importance on
several facets that can increase love, respect and understanding between Muslims and non-
Muslims alike. In this hadith, we see a perfect illustration of how a Muslim must behave with
others, irrespective of whether they are known to you or unknown. The beauty and completeness
of this hadith is so profound, so much so that many consider it one third of faith (Al Haitami).

When implemented, this hadith can save most of the problems you face on a daily basis, in turn
preventing a lot of fitna and heartbreak, emotional struggles and toils. Unnecessary speech,
rude/arrogant behavior or the attitude of “My life is perfect and I don’t need to care about what
others are going through” causes happy relationships to go sour, be it with our friends/
family/neighbors/extended relatives or strangers.

Let’s look into more detail about this beautiful hadith and see what pearls we can extract from
this saying of our beloved Prophet Insha’Allah!

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day…”

In this hadith, Prophet mentions 3 features that need to be a part of a Muslim’s character in order
for him to complete his/her faith/imaan. Therefore, if you find yourself lacking in these qualities,
this hadith should serve as a reminder and a reality check, helping you reassess and refine your
goals to be the best version of yourself.

So, why it the Last Day mentioned?

This serves as an encouragement and pushes you to strive to be the best Muslim you can be,
because every single aspect of your life will be questioned on the Day of Judgment, including
how you treated others and how you carried yourself in this dunya.
“…should speak good things or keep silent…”
The first part is concerned with how we use our tongue. Needless to say, majority of problems
we face is due to incorrect usage of tongue, a part of your body that needs to be guarded at all
times. It’s no secret that excessive speech will always lead to problems and misunderstandings
that would have never crept up in the first place, if only we thought twice before opening our
mouths. Our speech is one of the quickest ways for us to collect unwanted sins or blessings
depending on how we choose to use it. So next time, you’re about to talk, ask yourself:

 Will my speech by pleasing to Allah?

 Is it absolutely necessary to talk?
 Will I be overstepping my boundaries if I say such-and-such thing?
 Will this speech cause happiness and bring about good will or will it cause souring of
relationships and create bad blood?

Of course, you need not limit yourself to these set of questions. There are many more aspects
which you can assess for yourself before talking.

Umar r.a. once said,

“The one who speaks a lot commits lots of mistakes. The one who makes lots of mistakes
commits lots of sins. The one who commits lots of sins will have the Hell-fire as the first place
for him.”(Ibn Rajab)

Therefore, use your speech to:

 Correct people when they commit mistakes or are straying away from the path of Allah
 Prevent people from committing sins
 Set relationships right for the greater good
 Guide others towards righteousness

And remain silent so that you…

 Don’t spread false information about others
 Don’t lie, it may be tempting but the side effects are much worse than what you could
have imagined.
 Don’t backbite: Refrain; refrain from it as much as you can!
 Don’t speak about this deen when you don’t have sufficient knowledge to do so
“…should be courteous and generous to his neighbor…”
With advancement in technology, we have become obsessed with our gadgets, smartphones and
laptops, so much so that we don’t spend enough time with our own family members, let alone
visiting and checking out on our neighbors. This hadith is a timely reminder sent by our beloved
Prophet himself, insisting on how our conduct should be with our neighbors, irrespective of
whether they are Muslims or not:

What you can do:

 Smile: Yes, smile at your neighbors and those around you, not only is it sunnah, but
smiling is the fastest way to cement and bond and relationship that can last a lifetime.
Initiate this beautiful sunnah of our Prophet.
 Ask if they need any kind of assistance.
 Visit them when they are ill.
 Prepare nice food for them.
 Be the kind of person whom they are delighted to meet and greet when they see you.

Abu Bakr al-Jazairi (reference: Minhaaj al-Muslim) goes on to add:

 Congratulate them if something pleasing occurs to them,

 Offer condolences upon afflictions,
  Help them if they are in need,
  Be the first to greet them,
 Be kind in speech to them,
 Be gentle in one’s speech to the neighbor’s children,
 Guide them to what is best for their religion and worldly life,
 Overlook their mistakes,
  Don’t attempt to look into their private matters,
 Don’t constraint them with your building or renovations or along the walkway,
 Don’t harm them by letting one’s trash onto their property or in front of their household.

The Prophet said: “Jibreel (as) did not cease to advise me regarding the rights of the neighbor,
until I began to think that they would also receive a part of the inheritance”. [Al-Bukhari and
Muslim].

These small steps can bring tremendous rewards from Allah, so start practicing them now!

“…should be courteous and generous to his [traveling]

visitor”
Here, we are being commanded to be courteous and generous to a traveling person who has left
his belongings/family/property in search of whatever he/she is traveling for. So how does a
Muslim treat a traveler who is in a foreign land and could be extremely apprehensive because he
knows no one?

 By being kind towards him

 Ask what his needs are and try your best to fulfill them
 Prepare the best of food and give it to them, without extravagance

The scholars say “Belief is what settles in the heart and manifests itself on one’s limbs”
therefore, if you truly have faith in your heart, these actions and a whole lot of righteous deeds
will automatically flow through your limbs and tongue! And if they don’t, don’t worry, ask Allah
to make you a beautiful person inside out!

Action Points:
Let’s take a moment to internalize. We all have shortcomings of various kinds. While some
might have problems in controlling their temper, others may not be patient enough. Similarly,
not being courteous to fellow human beings or indulging in ill speech are drawbacks that need
not be looked down upon. Rather, with conscious efforts, self-control, discipline and loads of
dua, these shortcomings can be rectified Insha’Allah!

Having these negative traits does not make you a “bad” person, rather, if you consciously try to
put this hadith into practice and seek Allah’s help through sincere dua, you can turn these
weaknesses into strengths by molding your character into that which pleases Him.

So here’s what you can do:

 List down a set of negative characteristics in yourself which you think needs a change.
 Maybe, you would like to be more patient?
 You want to make a conscious effort to make others around you comfortable with a
cheerful smile?
 You’ve always had a problem in controlling your tongue?
 It could be anything…
 Whatever it may be, tonight, take a pen and paper and list them out.
 Next, make sincere dua to Allah and pour your heart out asking Him to help you rectify
these shortcomings.
 Make a set of duas which you would like to see reflected in your personality.
 Use Allah’s beautiful names when making dua and finally, try to sincerely overcome
your negative traits and don’t allow Satan to beat you!
 Try it today and do so on a consistent basis and see the changes dua can bring in your
life. It really works!