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October 2010
A man goes out on the beach and sees that it is covered with starfish that have
washed up in the tide. A little boy is walking along, picking them up and throw-
ing them back into the water.
“What are you doing son?” the man asks. “You see how many starfish there
are? You’ll never make a difference.”
The boy paused thoughtfully, and picked up another starfish and threw it into the
ocean.
“It sure made a difference to that one,” he said.
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Flexible people never get bent out of shape!
CLIENT CELEBRATION...
Late one evening a young woman needed emergency shelter. After a few days of observation and peer coun-
seling, her behaviors led us to believe that she was addicted to drugs and alcohol. She acknowledged her addictions
allowing us to offer her drug and alcohol counseling. It was through this counseling that she was able to recognize the
depth of her addiction and ask for help.
We have a very active networking system in our community… because of this we were able to find a scholar-
ship bed at a local drug and alcohol treatment program.
It was with extreme excitement that this young woman started on her path of recovery… a new adventure where
she is taking one step at a time … CNVC - Renewing Lives...Restoring Futures…
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Great question! When we changed our name to Center for a Non Violent Community we also
changed our mission statement, we included ending violence toward self, each other and our com-
munity. The first step is to end violence toward ourselves; therefore suicide prevention becomes a
natural staring place. Unfortunately, our agency has had its share of tragedy. Our former executive
director took her own life some years ago and Direct Service Coordinator’s son also ended his life
just 1 ½ years ago. On a larger scale, Tuolumne County has 2 1/2 times the suicide rate than that of
the entire state of California (per 100,000). In 2006 a group of 60 community leader including Sheriff
Mele and Dr. Stolp put together a plan to reduce suicide in our county and our agency took up a por-
tion of that challenge. We are all affected by suicide and perhaps we can help someone else. We
are now offering Suicide Prevention training. This is a free training called QPR, Question, Persuade
and Refer. Similar to CPR, these are simple steps anyone can learn to help someone in crisis or on
the verge of suicide. This training helps to identify the warning signs, offer hope and get someone
the help they need. Since everyone considers suicide at least once in their life, the question isn’t
whether we will meet suicidal people, but how prepared we will be when we do.
Quote: “Have compassion for everyone you meet, even if they don’t want it. What appears bad manners, an
ill temper or cynicism is always a sign of things no ears have heard, no eyes have seen. You do not know
what wars are going on down where the spirit meets the bone.” Miller Williams
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The old Celtic calendar began on November 1st and, therefore, October 31st was New Year’s Eve-
the night on which witches and hobgoblins rode about for one last fling. With the introduction of
Christianity the old New Year’s Day became “All Saints’ Day”; and the evening before became “All
Saints’ Eve” or “All Hallows’ E’en.” Though the name was changed, the customs-and the belief that
witches rode on this night-persisted and have come down to this day.
RECIPE BOX... Share your favorite recipes! Send to me for publishing… judy
This is an old favorite that you may already have… if not, try it… not only is it easy, it’s delicious and is always
a hit! This dip is a great addition to any holiday party! You might want to double the recipe as it goes fast!
ARTICHOKE DIP
1-Can (7/8oz) diced Ortega chili’s Mix all together. Bake at 350 degrees
1-14oz Can Artichoke Hearts, drained and diced until bubbly, approximately 30/40 minutes
1-Cup grated Parmesan Cheese
1-Cup Mayonnaise
HAPPY BIRTHDAY…
Louise Rhinevault October 12
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Leslie Griggs October 19 The game of life is the game of boomerangs. Our
Beth Hatcher December 16 thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later,
Mikki Johnson December 24 with astounding accuracy. Florence Shinn
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WHAT WE CAN LEARN FROM KIDS… CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE
by Lauren Saunders
If a child lives with criticism,
The CNVC Prevention Team, Michelle, Rhonda He learns to condemn.
and I have been working with the “Junior Crossfire”
group (grades K-5) at the First Baptist Church. If a child lives with hostility,
He learns to fight
In September we gave a Project Respect pres- If a child lives with ridicule,
entation on bullying and respect. Among the various He learns to be shy.
activities we brought with us was “Feelings Charades”
which we played with the kids. If a child lives with shame,
He learns to feel guilty.
“Feelings Charades” is a spin on the classic If a child lives with tolerance,
charades game. Players take turns drawing a slip of He learns to be patient.
paper from a bucket. On the paper is a feeling that the
player must act out. For example: happy, scared, tired, If a child lives with encouragement,
surprised etc. Watching them act out the various emo- He learns confidence.
tions so easily and without inhibition demonstrates the
many feelings that we all possess. If a child lives with praise,
He learns to appreciate.
Every time we bring this game to schools we
If a child lives with fairness,
have tons of fun. Seeing the kids get so excited while
playing reminds us adults to keep a sense of silliness. He learns justice.
Sometimes as adults, we suppress what exactly it is we If a child lives with security,
are feeling. Playing this game, while fun is also good
He learns to have faith.
practice in self-expression. Watching the kids play
“Feelings Charades” teaches us that expressing our- If a child lives with approval,
selves freely can be easy and even sometimes fun. He learns to like himself.
It is our hope that through games like these kids If a child lives with acceptance and friendship,
will grow into adults that don’t suppress their emotions He learns to find love in the world.
and are able to freely express themselves without fear.
Whether or not this message sinks in, it is obvious that From the COMFORT PROJECT
the kids have a blast while playing the game. Tuolumne County, California
The moral: Before passing judgment, first treat others with courtesy, dignity, and respect.
Pat Williams/Fleming H. Revell