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Objectives:
1) To consider the overall aim of helping
2) To explore the behaviors that interfere with effective helping
3) To describe the characteristics of helping communication
4) To distinguish empathy from related interpersonal interaction processes.
5) To reveal the characteristics of effective helpers.
Children need help fixing problems because they are not capable, but adults appreciate their own
independence and having all of their problems fixed for them can be a point of frustration. We need to
help by making the helpee self sufficient.
Our behavior is an expression of our values and beliefs. You can be well-meaning, but not all help is
helpful. (ie: being overconcerned with matters that are none of your business.) No person can take
responsibility for another person (with some exceptions).
Effective helping is primarily problem identification and problem solving. We need to allow patients to
identify their own goals and then we provide knowledge and skill to advise them. Ask “what are the
problems from the patients perspective?”
Therapeutic Use of Self: The better view we have of ourselves the better we will come off to our
patients.
Therapeutic Communication:
-Speaks: Talks but with clarity and can explain what they mean
-Is fully present
-Listens
-Develops Trust: Resists trying to influence the patient, communicates the patient is worth listening to
Interpersonal Interactions:
- Listening with the third ear means understanding what they are saying on level that is not just
superficial
- Sympathy is normal in the healing relationship with the patient
- Do not pity
- Identifying with your patient can lead to assumptions and misunderstandings
- Putting yourself in their shoes can be an effective tool
- Stages of Empathy
o Listen carefully and put yourself in their place
o Cross over into their frame of reference, forget you are two separate entities
o Sympathy as you come back to your own skin
- Empathy is a moment of shared understanding with another person
- Encourages holistic listening
Levels of Intimacy in Professional Interactions
Level 5: Cliché Conversation
Level 4: Reporting Facts
Level 3: Personal Ideas and Judgement
Level 2: Feelings and Emotions
Level 1: Peak Communication
- Completely Open and honest and loving, usually involves relating sexually. This is the deepest and
most minority of human interaction
In therapy we have to have boundaries or we will confuse patients. Levels 5, 4, and 3 are most common
for therapeutic interactions. Stay professional, don’t let being a new therapist lead to inappropriate
behavior to make a patient feel more at ease.