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Getting Married is not Just Love

Marriage is a lifetime of worship, which is done in congregation with a partner. Where the
couple is someone we have chosen before the wedding vows are made. By getting married, it means
that someone has carried out the teachings of the Prophet. Marriage aims to get peace of mind. In life
in this world, it is not uncommon to find a failed marriage halfway. A good marriage is a marriage
that is based on the same vision and its purpose is for an enduring purpose not just for imaging.

So, should we bond only with someone we love? Maybe getting married for love will create a
happy life, a happy family, and help maintain all that. Husbands and wives love each other, and
children are raised well by the love of their parents. A husband who really loves his wife always
surprises his wife. A wife makes breakfast, lunch, and even dinner for her husband without hesitation

I always dream about meeting soul mates, people who I admire and will love to the point of
death that separates. Someone who is able to guide me to the straight path, to reach His pleasure.
Having an intimate relationship and continuing it all in our married life. Marriage is not just for one or
two days, but about spending the rest of the journey of life until finally returning home to God.
Marriage is about how we create a stable home where children can grow and develop, have shelter
and good food, so as to create a sure heart. Peace of heart which then gradually leads to mawadah and
mercy from God.

The reason why I think getting married for practical reasons is better than for love is because
love is an emotion that can change, falling in love only lasts a while. Another reason is that love does
not make a strong foundation. What I mean is that love is strong but it is not something that can stand
alone as the basis for a long-term relationship, especially when children are involved. Anything that is
built on the basis of love can be destroyed, because it is indeed temporary.

We tend to fall in love with those aspects than people we know. Marrying the person we love
is a small possibility, whereas loving the person we have married is most likely always possible. This
is more practical. Love will grow later or not, it is just matter of time. With syaria, marriage will still
be alive even though there is have not love that has risen between the two people as long as maintain
their rights and obligations sincerely, and aim and have a suitable life vision.