Parents’ aspiration

1. Intro
Parents’ aspiration on their children has always been an endless topic to discuss about. Some
people believe it cause unnecessary pressure and stress on children. Others believe it is a
priceless motivation which leads the kids to a better life. And through my personal point of view,
I’m also giving my own belief in this topic.
2. Define
From the very beginning, this aspiration appears as parents’ blessing – wishes for their kids,
toward a brighter way of living, a happier future. They wish them to not involve dangers, crimes
and drugs. They wish them to solve math as fast as other friends. They wish them to have strong
physical state to win all football matches. However, aspiration can also come from the parents’
regret for what they couldn’t effort to do. These kind of expectations would be unreasonable
and stressful on children. There are platy ways {plenty of ways} to recognize parents’ aspiration.
They often sign up their kids to talent classes such as piano, ballet, singing, dance sports… since
little ages. Others pay much attention on school grades – “How could you get an A- for such an
easy test?” Some unbelievable parent even try to manage they kids’ dream career. The result of
aspiration can sometimes be good and sometimes be bad – it depends on different factors.
3. Support
Parents’ aspiration can be a necessity. The leading reason is, after all, it comes from good
blessing. Parents have obviously live long enough to made their mind about what is good and
what is bad. And all of their unpleasant pressures on children can draw out a happy, safety
world for them. Furthermore, children are now being so dependent on good condition and
technology that makes parents’ aspiration becomes huge encourage on self-improvement – a
goal to be gained. And as we all forget, living under unpleasant aspiration helps children find out
what they really wish for then stand up for it.
4. Oppose
On the other hands, over aspiration can lead to negative results to both sides. We all know how
colorful life is and how each person paint their own color to the world. But since children are
settled on particular path, they lack of chances to experience other various aspect they might
find interesting or also be good at. It would be worst if their chosen path is out of their reach –
this is, for sure, a nightmare of running on the never-end road. Soon, children will live their long
days under unnecessary stressful and waste their youth on something meaningless to them. The
relationship in the family won’t be comfortable as the following result, when parents keep
forcing and expecting and end up getting disappointed. In this situation, aspiration lead life to
nowhere else but Sadness land.
5. Conclude
No matter that people would discuss about parents’ aspiration for many more times, it is
something needed in one’s life with a suitable limitation – which includes parents’
understanding, sensitivity and children’s self-awareness. Once you got that perfect cooperation
between parents and their kid, you can then believe to gain a positive result in the next days.