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I’ve been on this journey about three years now from this writing and it’s
been the most deeply soul expansive journey I’ve encountered. To make
sense of it all, I got in touch with a mentor and have been in 1 on 1
mentoring for over 1 year.
Without having his support, it would have been an even more deeply
painful and confusing journey but now that I’ve been able to make sense of
You won’t see me romanticizing this journey, because I don’t believe that is
the main purpose of it. Some may have met their twin flames but haven’t
gotten to the physical stage yet, some haven’t met in person and now
experiencing the twin flame stages (like myself) some have yet to meet their
twin flame, some have twin flame but in spirit, and others are living in
union with their twin flame.
I met my twin flame online and then in person within a few weeks of
connecting. I knew nothing of the twin flame union/dynamic or label when
I met him. I wasn’t seeking a twin flame or had any understanding of the
phenomenon.
When I first saw him online, I was thinking he must be a player who have
tons of women throwing themselves at him and immediately I “knew” him
Everything in my entire being knew that this was going to change my life
but I didn’t know how. After our first official date, we hugged and kissed
and that’s when my running started. Something in me felt that I could
never open more to this energy or it was going to destroy me and so the
next day, I sent a text letting him know that although I enjoyed meeting
him, I thought we could just be friends.
So I kept him in the friend zone for over 1 year and I was determined to go
and “date” other men and keep my options open.
I was drawn to talk to him, the pull stated growing so strong, and the
stronger it got, the more I was afraid of getting close. But I’d always go
back to him asking him questions, which he welcomed and enjoyed the
conversation.
We spent a ton of time laughing and talking about anything and everything
and my comfort level increased with him as well as the powerful magnetic
pull that kept growing beyond what I could resist rationally. The sexual
connection was by far so out of this world, that it fired up everything inside
my being and captured me and blew me away – but I kept telling him we
should be friends and probably not a good idea to get flirty with me because
it’s really not going to turn into anything.
The energy kept growing and getting intense as the days would go by to the
point where I could not ignore and many soul expansive experiences began
happening and has happened to me since then including having a major
dark night of the soul experience and a minor one because of my resistance
to the union and fight to not take a look at my inner wounds by running.
Because of his low key approach to me when I would pull close then pull
away consistently and his non-reactive way of responding, I ended up
falling DEEP in love with him after a year – the very thing I fought so hard
to avoid, caught me.
There’s more I could share here but in this introductory guide. However,
our focus is on the 21 day practices. There are many different stages of the
twin flame union, however we are going to focus on a brief summary of
feminine/masculine energy, the runner/chaser – separation/union
dynamic.
These two energies are the basis for co-creation – even at the biological
level with reproduction and offspring.
If a man is too much in his feminine, he’s inactive, does not take the lead,
isn’t decisive, lacks drive and often seen as a weak.
We will explore further in the definition of the runner dynamic how these
energies come into play.
In order for your union to have balance, you both must heal your wounded
masculine and feminine and the distorted energy balance between you.
When I worked with a mentor to heal my wounded inner masculine (the
runner) I was able to ground the energy enough to stay present and
eventually surrender to him. This took over 1 year of inner work.
When your masculine energy is unhealed, it might show itself in rage,
control, pushing, telling him what to do, manipulation and always taking
the lead. When your feminine isn’t healed, it might show itself in over-
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giving, over functioning, lack of surrender, self-love, emotional outbursts
towards him, pushing, emotional spilling, drama, crying spells towards
him, blaming, reactive, and shaming him for his lack of being present.
When both these energies are healed, there is harmony and balance within
you. I’ve noticed that when I healed a lot of my wounded feminine prior to
meeting him, I was no longer grasping in romantic consciousness for the
sleeping beauty happily ever after story that made me feel like a man and a
relationship completes me.
The runner is often the masculine energy (even if there is a female runner)
as I was for over 1 year.
The twin flame union each generally play a divine masculine and feminine
role. When it comes to the runner/chaser dynamic, it’s a play of the shadow
energies of the masculine and feminine.
You may find that as female you may be the runner and him the chaser or it
may be you are the chaser and him the runner. However this dynamic may
also shift if you’re in one dominant energy like the chaser, eventually you
may be the runner.
More than likely you’re here because you’ve mostly embodied the chaser
energy – the shadow aspects of the feminine energy and may be confused
as to why a runner run. Since I’ve been in the runner energy here’s a brief
understanding of why I was running: I was in deep pain and didn’t know it
I was in deep denial and did everything to avoid integrating the shadow
aspects of my unhealed wounds into wholeness but also deeply drawn to
him at the same time. It felt as though if I got closer it would ruin my plans,
crack me open, totally destroy me, take me out, overpower me and kill
everything in my being. Runners run because of deep patterning and
unhealed wounds because really facing oneself is so traumatizing you feel
you won’t recover.
Because I kept getting pulled so deeply by this energy and many intuitive
and psychic events began happening, plus a deep feeling of something I
could understand at the time, I connected with a mentor who walked me
through over 1 year of healing my runner energy and helping me
understanding my inner world and the twin flame dynamics.
This is by far the most confusing for many and it was for me in many ways.
I was very reactive to him when we first got closer, I opened up a lot of
myself to him then he went into a runner state. We’ve had many cycles of
the separation union stage and each time we come back together, it’s like
nothing happened, we pick up right where we left off BUT we somehow
have gotten much closer and want to open up even more to each other after
the separation.
I had NO idea what was going on for a long time and it was extremely
painful for me. During one of the separation stage, I fell into a dark night of
the soul experience for months on end and felt disconnected from god, my
life and purpose. I felt I had no direction for where I needed to go and it
was extremely painful feeling both of our unhealed energies (as the more
awake person) as it purged itself in in energy body. I actually got sick a few
times to the point where I was scared for my life. The first separation I
believe is the hardest, because it’s like a par to me died. It was much deeper
than a breakup, it was like a soul death. I tried my best to carry on in life
and kept seeking answers and would encounter guides along the way. But
more than that, I was pissed at god because I was very confused and
wondered why this magnetic energy was still so present in my life and I
couldn’t get rid of it no matter how hard I tried.
The separation is also divinely guided and it’s divine order in order to
accomplish its intention of purifying energies in both twins. You may
separate in many ways, for example, some might still be in a
relationship/marriage, and others might run back to a relationship or start
a new one.
The purpose of this guide is to support your healing process in your union
and to work with divine timing/order so that you can do the inner work to
heal your unhealed wounds (no matter if you’ve spent years working
through them) – so that you can come into the higher template of
unconditional divine love (unite with your twin flame if that’s meant to by
divine order) and reflect this in service to the planet.
Intention generates all the activities in the universe. Everything that we can
see – and even the things we cannot – are an expression of intention’s
infinite organizing power.” - Chopra Center
Please take a few moments to write out your sacred intention for this 21 day
journey below or in your sacred journal:
You may also use the site: http://www.stickk.com/ to help you stay
accountable to your intention and support your 21 day journey.
While doing these rituals, you are going to be moving a lot of toxic, stuck,
negative energy through your body. The following supplies will help the
process of greater movement and integration.
If you choose to make a green smoothie daily, see below for simple
green smoothie recipe
Also, practice mindful dining. Use foods as a healing tool to nurture your
body, mind and spirit.
Recommended Fluids
1) 1 cup warm lemon water upon waking. Wait at least 30 mins before
having breakfast.
2) 6-7 glasses of good water daily
3) Chamomile/peppermint herbal tea, drink 1-2 cups daily throughout
your 21 day immersion
4) 1 Cup Green smoothie (if you have time)
How to Make:
¾ fluids
1 banana or 4 or 5 dates
Handful of mixed greens/spinach
1 leaf kale
Blend for 3 – 5 mins
When you check in, name each practice you've completed for the day and
feel free to share any thoughts/feelings around each practice. Be open to
sharing whatever comes up for you during your practice or during the day
no matter what it is. The more awareness you bring to your practice, the
more insight you will gain and support from our heart and others in the
group.
Our meditation will consist of 7 mins for the first 7 days then on day 8, we
do 14 minutes daily until Day 21.
Onn Day 21, we will ground the energy in by doing a 21 minutes meditation
practice.
The meditation practice will be the same practice daily and can be done
anytime during the day. First thing in the morning is preferred since it sets
the tone for the way your day will start. Meditations are said to be highly
effective between the hours of 4am-7am when our spirit energy is opened
the widest. However, if you're not able to do it first thing in the morning, do
it during your day or before going to bed.
21 minutes on Day 21
1) Set your timer (you can use your iPhone) for the time allotted for the
in a location where you can hear it but it won't startle you when it
space to sit in. Sit in the meditation position, crossed legged. If you
have problems with your knees, choose a chair. But make sure to
shoulders
4) Additionally, you can place 1 hand on your womb space for grounding
8) Focus on breath
9) Take three cleansing breaths in through nose, drawing all the way
Breathe in from your abdomen. Breathe out from your nose. Focus
inches below navel) imagine the color orange (the color of the second
chakra) as light radiating from your womb space and keep breathing
in and out orange light without counting until your timer goes off.
A white hot pursuit and devotion to our core helps us to embody our
feminine essence deeply.
Being in a twin flame union, most often the feminine forgets about her
inner world and the need to cultivate and embody her inner power.
Women are conditioned to seek validation through emotional energy – the
need to be loved and cherished and this is often the conditioning many
women reflect towards their twin flame union with romantic expectations
and affirmation of love from her male twin flame.
Whenever we turn away from our self-love, we often feel like lost citizens in
an unfamiliar world – simply because the feminine awaken when focused is
placed on its energy. This is why when your twin flame was focused on you
and paying attention to you, you feel as though you could conquer the
world.
Desiring love and attention as primary from our outer world, will often lead
to pain, disappointment, blame, reactiveness, confusion, shame, apathy,
self-pity, lack of motivation, desperation or depression.
In the twin flame union, you want to “romance” yourself in order to have
that reflected back to you. The love letter practice calls us back home: to
our sanctuary, our opulence, our flow, our dance, our signature, our inner
temple. It is by going within, that we can truly enlarge the depth of who we
are and function whole.
Do this daily for 21 Days. If you do the sacred love letter after your daily
mediation, you may find that your energy is wide open and receptive to
deeper shifts and greater union with your inner world.
I've attached a Sacred Love letter example pdf in the files tab in our
group.
The feminine tends to desire with abundant energy to love and be filled
with love.
As the sacred love letter calls us inwards, the blessing practice calls us
outwards.
It also helps with overcompensating and conflict that may arise based on
our feelings of insecurity, fears, and disappointments with our men.
You are also going to do a verbal blessing towards him during your day as
well as a blessing to the Divine Masculine and Feminine in you. If you want
to raise your vibration further, do a silent blessing to all the men you come
in contact with when you're out and about and send them divine love.
Purpose: The purpose of the Sacred Altar Practice is to set aside a sacred
space where you can establish your presence in the universe as the Divine
Sacred Feminine, amplifying your presence and making it law. By doing so,
you are going from “local” feminine to Divine/Universal Feminine – you
consciously create a space for yourself to shine. If you feel you are not
getting the results you want in life or the attention you desire, here is the
space for you to setup to help you raise your vibration and increase your
manifestation frequency.
Your altar can be anything you choose, a small table, a stool, a chair, a side
night table, anything you want. The most important thing that will make it
yours is your energy and presence. The energy you build in that space is
unique to you.
You are what makes the altar, the altar doesn't make you.
How to set up: Find anything you choose to use as your foundation space
then add anything you feel will make it unique to you such as candles, small
rocks, etc.
(Additionally, you can anoint with lavender or ylang-ylang oil. Select only pure
Essential oils. Use any of these oils to anoint your crown, forehead (the body temple
gateway of supreme spirituality - 6th chakra), heart (the body temple gateway
of compassion and divine love), womb area, palms to make everything you touch
become more sacred, and bottoms of your feet to spiritually align yourself for
stepping out in power, promise, and faith)” - from Sacred Woman, Queen Afua
When you approach, come with a sacred mindset, take 3 cleansing breaths,
anoint yourself with lavender or ylang-ylang oil and say this prayer. Place
your hand over your heart as you recite this prayer:
Divine Creator, help me to attract and establish harmonious, wholesome, and healthy
relationships. Help me to unblock and release old hurt feelings, resentments, and
hostility that are trapped within my Body Temple.
Help me to have the vision and the strength to learn from all my relationships, as they
are all my reflection, each and every one. If by chance my relationships do not
Purpose of this practice: To heal your twin flame union and attract your
twin flame back to you through clearing the energy of discord or disconnect
and living in a higher vibration. You don’t need to share this decree with
your twin flame. Trust that you are shifting the energy between you when
you say it daily.
You’re going to call upon your angels and guides to help you make a decree
you write out and say out loud daily for 21 days:
Decree
“In full union with my higher self and spirit, I call on my angels
and guides to witness this decree this day. I decree, I am one
with the beloved in me and I am one with my twin flame. I am
thankful for divine unconditional love that brings me in complete
physical union with my twin flame and doors are opening for us
right now in every way. And so it is.”
The feminine is the embodiment of flow. All of the energy systems in the
feminine is about movement and your body is the container of pleasure. To
heal any discomforts and to get back in balance, activate the power of
movement in your life on a regular basis. Focus primary on the seat of your
feminine body – your womb area and hips when you move. Make it erotic,
sensual, sexy, and as wild as possible. Give your body permission to feel its
power and wake up your feminine flow on a daily basis.
1) Make a trip to the playground during the 21 day practice and get on a
swing.
2) Let your hair down. Swing back and forth for at least 100 counts.
Smile. Glow. Flow. Rise. See yourself rising, use your imagination and
see yourself as the rising feminine.
3) Come back to the group and write about your experience or share it
with girlfriend who you can confide in. Write in your sacred journal
about your experience.