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Shiri Cohen
Marc S. Schulz
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Judith A. Crowell
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Waldinger, R. J., Cohen, S., Schulz, M. S., & Crowell, J. A. (2014). Security of attachment to spouses in late life: Concurrent and
prospective links with cognitive and emotional wellbeing. Clinical Psychological Science August 18, 2014 2167702614541261.
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Robert J. Waldinger a
Shiri Cohen a
Marc S. Schulz b
Judith A. Crowell c
a
Department of Psychiatry, Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School
b
Department of Psychology, Bryn Mawr College
c
Department of Psychiatry, Stony Brook University
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Abstract
Social ties are powerful predictors of late-life health and wellbeing. Although many adults
maintain intimate partnerships into late life, little is known about mental models of attachment
to spouses and how they influence aging. Eighty-one elderly heterosexual couples (162
individuals) were interviewed to examine the structure of attachment security to their partners
and completed measures of cognition and wellbeing concurrently and 2.5 years later. Factor
analysis revealed a single factor for security of attachment. Higher security was linked
concurrently with greater marital satisfaction, fewer depressive symptoms, better mood, and
less frequent marital conflicts. Greater security predicted lower levels of negative affect, less
depression, and greater life satisfaction 2.5 years later. For women, greater security predicted
better memory 2.5 years later and attenuated the link between frequency of marital conflict
and memory deficits. Late in life, mental models of attachment to partners are linked to
The search for the underpinnings of wellbeing in late life takes on new urgency as the
Baby-Boomer generation begins to swell the ranks of those living into old age. Accumulating
evidence demonstrates that living longer and aging well are not solely dependent on advances
in medicine but are strongly linked to the presence and quality of human relationships. A recent
meta-analysis of 148 prospective studies of links between social connection and longevity
indicated a 50% increased likelihood of survival for participants with stronger social ties (Holt-
Lunstad, Smith, & Layton, 2010). This meta-analysis confirms the earlier influential conclusions
of House, Landis, and Umberson (1988, p. 541) that “social relationships, or the relative lack
thereof, constitute a major risk factor for health – rivaling the effect of well established health
risk factors such as cigarette smoking, blood pressure, blood lipids, obesity and physical
activity.”
But what exactly is it about human relationships that impacts aging? Social relationships
have been measured primarily in two ways – by gauging the breadth of one’s social networks or
frequency of social contacts (e,g., Vogt, Mullooly, Ernst, Pope, & Hollis, 1992; Waldinger &
support (e.g., Hawkley & Cacioppo, 2010). Analysis of social networks gives priority to social
behaviors over subjective experience of relationship quality, and reports of feeling lonely or
connected do not typically account for the social context in which the social exchange takes
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place. A third window on human relationships that bridges the domains of subjectivity and
behavior is that of mental models (Craik, 1943; Johnson-Laird, 1983) – internal representations
of external reality that shape a broad range of experiences and behaviors, from how we assess
probable outcomes (Tversky and Kahneman, 1983), to how we make political judgments
(Westen, Blagov, Harenski, Kilts, & Hamann, 2006), to how we solve math problems (Fischbein,
Deri, Nello, & Marino, 1985). Mental models typically have both explicit features that are
conscious and implicit features that operate outside of awareness (Johnson-Laird, 1983).
mental models of close relationships that links subjective experience with behavior and
incorporates both consciously-held beliefs and beliefs that are largely out of awareness.
Attachment models have been the topic of much research, beginning with how infants develop
patterns of careseeking and maintaining attachment to caregivers who are essential to the
child’s physical survival and psychological development (Ainsworth, 1979). In adult life, secure
attachment to intimate partners has been linked with health, stress management, and
emotional wellbeing (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007; Pietromonaco, DeBuse, & Powers, 2013;
safety and survival across the life span (Ainsworth, 1985; Bowlby, 1969). Based on repeated
interactions with caregivers, children develop scripts that shape expectations about and
behavior in close relationships (Main, Kaplan & Cassidy, 1985). These scripts guide children to
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behave in ways that help them maintain proximity to caregivers. Reliable, responsive caregiving
with closeness and the willingness to depend on others (Waters & Waters, 2006). By contrast,
anxiety about abandonment and/or avoidance of closeness (Bowlby, 1969). The resulting
schemas are relatively enduring (Scharfe & Bartholomew, 1994), persist into adulthood
(Waters, Merrick, Treboux, Crowell & Albersheim, 2000), and shape expectations, experience
and behavior in romantic partnerships (Meyers & Landsberger, 2002). Secure attachment in
intimate adult relationships is associated with greater relationship satisfaction (Cobb, Davila &
Bradbury, 2001), a stronger sense of intimacy (Collins & Feeney, 2004), and more frequent
seeking and giving of support to partners (Simpson, Rholes & Nelligan, 1992).
Attachment theory predicts that, as with children and younger adults, older adults with
secure mental models of attachment are comfortable depending on others and confident of
basic needs for emotional and instrumental support increases with age as older adults
withdraw from casual social networks (Carstensen, 1992; Wrzus, Hanel, Wagner, & Neyer,
2013) and retirement results in the loss of workplace friends and acquaintances (Damman,
Henkens, & Kalmijn, 2013). Antonucci and colleagues (2004) have shown that central
attachment figures remain relatively constant across much of adulthood, and that in the 8th and
9th decades of life these figures are most commonly spouses and children.
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Because aging raises the specter of physical and cognitive decline and interpersonal loss,
growing older may heighten concerns about the availability of important others in times of
need, making attachment cognitions potentially even more central to wellbeing. Yet older
adults’ attachment representations and how they relate to psychological and social functioning
have received little empirical attention. In one of the rare studies examining age and
attachment in close relationships, Zhang and Labouvie-Vief (2004) found that older adults self-
reported more secure, more avoidant, and less anxious attachment styles than younger adults.
What little is known about older adults’ attachment models is derived from self-report
measures designed for younger adults (e.g., Magai, Consedine, Gillespie, O’Neal & Vilker, 2004).
This limits the study of late-life attachment in two important ways. First, the self-report
measures designed for younger adults ask about what one is “generally” like in romantic
relationships. Many adults currently in their 70s and 80s did not have other significant romantic
relationships prior to marriage, and those that did may have trouble recollecting experiences
from many decades in the past. Second, although consciously-held beliefs about relationships
are important determinants of functioning, people are often motivated by attitudes that are
outside of awareness but that nonetheless shape their experience of and behavior in intimate
attachment matter (Mikulincer & Shaver, 2007). Less secure attachment to intimate partners is
associated with more negative affect (Caldwell & Shaver, 2012), greater loneliness (Bernardon ,
Babb, Hakim-Larson & Gragg, 2011),and less satisfaction with life (Hinnen, Sanderman &
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Sprangers, 2009). In the interpersonal realm, less secure romantic attachment is associated
with lower marital satisfaction (Givertz, Woszidlo, Segrin & Knudson, 2013) and less adaptive
particularly consequential in late life, when cognition appears more vulnerable to interpersonal
stressors. Loneliness and social isolation have been linked with earlier and more severe
cognitive decline (Tilvis et al., 2004; Wilson et al., 2007). Cacioppo and Hawkley (2009) have
pointed to several mechanisms that may underlie these associations, including increased
reduced cognitive stimulation when one is not socially engaged. Of particular relevance to
attachment security is their hypothesis that social isolation and loneliness may result in chronic
surveillance for threat, placing increased cognitive demands on the brain and thereby reducing
couples in their 70s and 80s, using a semi-structured interview designed specifically to tap
implicit as well as explicit aspects of attachment. We developed a rapid coding system to assess
security of attachment in intimate relationships and applied this to 162 interviews to examine
how attachment concerns manifest in late life. We examined associations between late-life
attachment and psychosocial functioning concurrently and after 2.5 years. Because security of
partner (loneliness) and behavior toward that partner (social connection), we hypothesized that
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security of attachment would be positively linked with psychosocial and cognitive functioning in
Method
Participants
The sample for this study consisted of 81 elderly Caucasian heterosexual couples. The
male participants were part of a 75-year longitudinal study of adult development that began
when they were adolescents. Fifty-one men were part of the original Harvard College cohort,
which consisted of 268 college sophomores recruited between 1939 and 1942, for intensive
multidisciplinary study of psychological health (Heath, 1945; Vaillant, 1977). Thirty men were
members of the Inner City cohort, which consisted of 456 boys born between 1925 and 1932
(age 14 +/- 2 years at study intake) selected from disadvantaged families in low-income Boston
(Glueck & Glueck, 1950). Participants from both cohorts have been assessed using interview
Beginning in 2003, both cohorts of men and their intimate partners were invited to
participate in a study of late-life marriage. A total of 201 surviving members of the original
sample had partners. To be eligible, couples had to have been living together for a minimum of
one year. In addition, both members of the couple had to score above 25 (indicating minimal or
no cognitive impairment) on the Telephone Interview for Cognitive Status (TICS, Brandt,
Spencer, & Folstein, 1988) and be in sufficient physical health to be able to complete the in-
home and follow-up telephone interview procedures described below. Forty-four couples were
unable to participate because one or both partners could not complete assessments due to
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physical or cognitive impairment. Five couples completed part but not all of the assessments.
Two couples could not be contacted, and two did not meet the criterion of living together for a
reason given for refusal was a wish to preserve the privacy of their relationship.
Analyses indicate that those who participated did not differ from those who did not on a
range of demographic and health variables. T-tests revealed that the 67 eligible men who
declined to participate in the study did not differ significantly from the 81 men who
participated with respect to age, number of years of education, income at ages 45-55, health at
age 70 based on internist’s rating of medical records (for details, see Vaillant, 1979), number of
previous divorces, length of current relationship, or marital satisfaction at age 65-75. All
participants were Caucasian. Mean age was 80.8 years for men (SD =3.4) and 75.7 years for
women (SD = 6.8). The mean length of these relationships was 40.8 years (SD = 19.4). As in any
longitudinal study, there was participant attrition across the 2.5 years between Time 1 and
Time 2 assessments. Attrition varied slightly depending on the variable (sample sizes for each
variable noted in Table 1). Attrition was lower for male participants (the original members of
the Study) than for female spouses: 80% of men and 69% of women provided data at both time
points.
The Partners Health Care Human Research Committee approved the study, and written
informed consent was obtained from all participants for each wave of the study.
Procedure
The first wave of assessments for this study took place in 2003-2006. During a home
administered separately to each member of the couple by different interviewers, along with
the home visits, men and women were individually interviewed by telephone on 8 consecutive
interviewers varied across the 8 days and were different from those who collected data during
home visits. The interviewers were unaware of all prior data on participants, including
responses on previous days of telephone interviewing. Participants were assured that their
responses would remain confidential (including from their spouses) and were asked to be in a
location during telephone interviews where their responses could not be overheard by others.
Interviews lasted 15-20 minutes and focused on the participants’ activities during the previous
24 hours. Most interviews were conducted around the dinner hour each day. The mean
number of interviews completed by participants over 8 days was 7.6 (SD = 0.73).
The second wave of assessments took place on average 2.5 years after the first (2007-
2009; mean interval = 29.5 months, SD =8.1). Couples were again visited in their homes by
and negative affect, and satisfaction with life. In addition, participants completed a battery of
Measures
Time 1 Assessments
Relationship Interview (CRI; Crowell & Owens, 1996). This 45-60 minute semi-structured
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interview assesses adults’ specific representations of the attachment bond formed within the
respondent’s current couple relationship. The interview asks participants for adjectives
describing their relationship with their partner and illustrative incidents supporting those
adjectives. For example, if the participant describes the marriage as “loving,” he/she is asked
for two incidents that illustrate loving aspects of the relationship. The participant is also asked
about factors that have influenced the relationship and the effects of the relationship on his or
her personal development. The scoring system parallels the scoring system used in the Adult
Attachment Interview (AAI; Main & Goldwyn, 1988) in that experience with the partner,
discourse style, and believability or coherence of the description of the relationship are rated
by coders using a number of scales (Crowell & Owens, 1996; Crowell, Treboux, & Waters, 2002;
Owens et al., 1995). Based on the coding procedure used by Crowell and colleagues (Crowell &
Owens, 1996), raters read each transcribed interview twice and used the following eleven
rating scales to characterize the individual’s behavior, the partner’s behavior, and the
individual’s discourse style: relationship satisfaction, loving behavior, comfort with care-
partner, rejection of attachment, fear of loss, anxiety about dependence, and coherence of
narrative. Coherence reflects the participant’s ability to present an integrated, believable, and
consistent account of his or her own and the partner’s attachment-related behaviors and their
meaning. Ratings were made using Likert-type scales ranging from 0 to 9 and reflect the
Four coders who were unaware of other participant data were trained to reliability with
an expert coder (S. Cohen) in consultation with the author of the instrument (J. Crowell).
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Coding required on average one hour per transcript. All four coders coded a randomly-selected
among the four coders on all 11 scales was r=.7 or higher. All remaining transcripts were coded
by at least two coders, and to increase reliability, coder ratings within two points were
averaged to arrive at a final score on each scale. Discrepancies of 3 points or greater were
resolved by averaging a 3rd coder’s rating with the other two. Because the midpoint of the
coherence scale was the cutoff for secure attachment, two-point discrepancies that spanned
the midpoint on the coherence scale were also resolved using a 3rd coder.)
The CRI has good psychometric properties (Ravitz, Maunder, Hunter, Sthankiya &
Lancee, 2010), including stability over 18 months (Crowell, Treboux & Waters, 2002) and
discriminant validity (Owens et al., 1995; Crowell et al., 2002; Treboux, Crowell & Waters,
2004). In addition, the CRI is associated in predicted ways with attachment ratings using the AAI
and with self-reports of relationship quality, satisfaction, violence, and divorce (Treboux et al.,
2004). Predictive validity of the CRI is supported by the finding that security of attachment
predicted a decrease in relationship conflict over the first six years of marriage (Treboux et al.,
2004).
Marital satisfaction. Marital satisfaction was measured using the Short Marital
Adjustment Test (Locke & Wallace, 1959), a widely-used 16-item self-report questionnaire.
Respondents are asked to rate the extent to which they and their partners agree or disagree on
common subjects (e.g., sexual relations, handling of family finances), with additional questions
on topics such as how they handle disagreements and how happy they are overall with their
relationship (range “very unhappy” to “perfectly happy”). The measure has good internal
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reliability, test-retest stability, and discriminant validity (Freeston & Plechaty, 1997). Higher
scores reflect greater satisfaction with the marriage. Scores can range from 0 to 163 and those
below 100 are considered to be indicative of clinically significant marital distress (Christensen &
Depressive symptoms. Depressive symptoms at Time 1 were assessed using the Center
for Epidemiological Studies Depression Scale (CES-D). The CES-D is a widely-used 20-item scale
used as a self-report of the presence of depressive symptoms. Each item asks about the
frequency of depressive symptoms during the past week. The CES-D score ranges from 0 to 60,
evidence of clinically significant depression (Lewinsohn, Seeley, Roberts, & Allen, 1997). The
CES-D has been shown to have good reliability and validity as a screening measure for
Mood over 8 days. On 8 consecutive days, participants were asked, “How are you feeling
today?” and responses were on a 7-point Likert-type scale with the following anchors: 1=very
unhappy, 2= moderately unhappy, 3=a little unhappy, 4=neither happy nor unhappy, 5=a little
happy, 6=moderately happy, and 7=very happy. Mood and related constructs (e.g., quality of
life) are often measured with single items using Likert-type scales (Diener, 2000; Sandvik,
Diener, & Seidlitz, 1993), and there is evidence for the validity and reliability of single item
measures (Veenhoven & Kalmijn, 2005; Yang, 2008; Zimmerman & Arunkumar, 1994). The 8
daily ratings were averaged to derive a typical daily mood for the 8-day period.
telephone interviews, participants were asked, “In the last 24 hours, did you have a
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disagreement with your partner, even about something small?” Participants answered “yes”
or “no,” and positive responses were summed and averaged over 8 days to create a score
between 0 and 1 reflecting the percent of days on which they reported disagreements.
Time 2 Assessments
Positive and negative affect. Positive and negative affect over the previous week was
measured using the Positive and Negative Affect Schedule (PANAS, Watson, Clark & Tellegen,
Likert-type scales the degree to which they have felt each emotion on the list during the past
week. Responses are summed separately for the positive affect (PA) and negative affect (NA)
scales (10 items each) and range from 10 to 50 for each scale. In this sample, alpha reliability is
.88 for the PA scale and .85 for the NA scale with an intercorrelation of -.22. The PANAS
demonstrates test-retest reliability, and the NA scale correlates with similar measures of
Geriatric Depression Scale (GDS, Yesavage et al., 1983), a 30-item “yes/no” questionnaire
summing the number of items endorsed. Validity of the GDS has been demonstrated by good
agreement with depression ratings using the Research Diagnostic Criteria, the Zung Self-Rating
Depression Scale, and the Hamilton Rating Scale for Depression (Yesavage et al., 1983). The
Satisfaction with life. Life satisfaction was measured using the Satisfaction with Life
Scale (SWLS, Diener, Emmons, Larson & Griffin, 1985). The SWLS is a self-administered
questionnaire that asks participants to rate how much they agree or disagree with five life
satisfaction statements on 7-point Likert-type scales. Scores are summed to generate a total
score that ranges from 5 to 35. In this sample, the coefficient alpha was .85. This measure
correlates with peer- and family-reported life satisfaction (Pavot, Diener, Colvin & Sandvik,
1991).
Memory. Verbal episodic memory was assessed using the 16-item Free and Cued
Selective Reminding Test (FCSRT, Morris et al., 1989). The FCSRT is designed specifically to
discriminate true memory deficits from attentional and processing difficulties. Participants
search a card containing four pictures of items (e.g., grapes, toaster) that go with unique
category cues (e.g., fruit, kitchen appliances). After all four items are identified, immediate cued
recall of just those four items is tested. After controlled learning has been completed for all 16
items, there are three test trials consisting of free recall, followed by cued recall for those items
not retrieved using free recall. The sum of free and cued recall on each trial is called total recall.
Controlled learning remediates the mild retrieval deficits that occur in many healthy elderly
individuals but has only modest benefits in patients with dementia (Grober, Sanders, Hall &
Lipton, 2010). The total number of items recalled during free and cued recall is used in analyses.
Executive Functioning. Executive functioning was assessed using the Trail Making Test
Part B, Controlled Oral Word Association (F-A-S) Test and the Category Generation (CAT) Test
(Monsch, Bondi, Butters, & Salmon, 1992). The Trail Making Test Part B is a test of visual
attention and task switching that consists of numbers and letters that are to be connected in
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numerical and alphabetical order. Participants are timed and scored for time taken and number
of errors made. Semantic and phonemic/lexical knowledge were measured using the Controlled
Oral Word Association Test Letter (FAS) and Category (CAT) (COWAT). In these tests,
participants generate words that begin with the letters F, A, and S and report items within the
categories of Animals, Vegetables, and Fruits for one minute each. The words generated by the
participant are summed for the FAS and the CAT; these along with the Trail Making Part B score
were z-scored, and the mean used as the index of executive function. In this sample, the
correlations among the 3 scores were as follows: rfas-cat = .56, rfas-trails b = .34, rcat–trails b = .35;
p<.001 for all correlations. These three measures are commonly used as indices of executive
functioning (Newman, Trivedi, Bendlin, Ries & Johnson, 2007; Grober et al., 2008), and previous
studies indicate that the combined scores showed greater sensitivity, specificity, and predictive
value than each score alone (Monsch, 1992; Hedden et al., 2012).
Results
Means and standard deviations for variables indexing psychosocial functioning are
presented in Table 1. To examine the possibility that missing data on particular variables might
result in sampling bias, we examined links between the presence of missing data and key
demographic variables: age, membership in the College or Inner City cohort, years of formal
education, and length of the marital relationship. Of 34 analyses conducted for each gender
using these background variables, only one significant finding emerged – a small positive
relation between women’s years of education and likelihood of missing data on mood and
frequency of marital disagreements derived from daily diary assessments over 8 days. These
estimation (FIML) as implemented in AMOS (v. 17.0) was used in all principal analyses because
FIML results in unbiased parameter estimates and appropriate standard errors when data are
missing at random. FIML estimates are generally superior to those obtained with listwise
deletion or other ad hoc methods, even when the missing-at-random assumption is not fully
met (Acock, 2005). Many of the psychosocial functioning variables under study were
moderately inter-correlated both within and across assessment waves (see Table 2).
The structure of attachment in late life. Two of the 11 coded attachment variables –
dependency and fear of loss – had truncated ranges, such that few participants were rated as
unduly concerned about these issues (only 5% were rated as manifesting maladaptive
dependency, and less than 10% were judged to be fearful of loss out of proportion with actual
life factors). Coders were trained to rate these scales accounting for actual circumstances in
participants’ lives that might warrant fear of loss and related anxiety about dependence. Scores
on these variables therefore reflect coders’ judgments about the presence of inappropriate or
irrational fears not tied to actual life factors. Because of the truncated range on these variables,
they were excluded from analyses. Using data from all 162 individuals, we conducted principal
axis factoring to identify the underlying structure of the remaining 9 variables coded from the
attachment interviews. These variables were subjected to principal axis factoring with
orthogonal rotation (using varimax criterion). Both an examination of the scree plot and the use
of the criterion of Eigenvalues > 1 revealed one factor that accounted for 69% of the total
variance. Factor loadings for eight of the nine attachment variables were at or above the .71
“excellent” level identified by Comry and Lee (1992): loving behavior (.95), valuing of intimacy
(.89), satisfaction in relationship (.85), rejecting of attachment (.84), comfort with careseeking
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(.83), comfort with caregiving (.82), derogation of partner (.78), and coherence of narrative
(.71). The lowest factor loading was .57 for derogation of attachment, still in the “good” range.
We labeled this factor “Attachment Security.” Individual scale scores for each participant were
derived by taking the mean of all 9 items (Tabachnick & Fidell, 1996). We considered other
factor structures, including a two-factor solution (with orthogonal rotation) that might
distinguish between the dimensions of anxiety and avoidance that emerge in attachment
questionnaire data from younger adults. We also explored non-orthogonal rotation methods
(e.g., direct oblimin). However, no support was found in any of these analyses for a multi-
factorial solution. The Attachment Security scale represents a spectrum from greater security
(valuing of intimacy, comfort with care-seeking and caregiving, high coherence of narrative) and
less derogation (of the partner and the importance of the relationship) at one end, to less
security and greater derogation at the other. The Attachment Security scale score was used in
between security of attachment to partner and psychosocial functioning were examined and
are presented in Table 3. For both men and women, greater security of attachment was linked
concurrently with greater self-reported marital satisfaction, better mood averaged over 8 days,
and fewer marital conflicts over 8 days. For men, greater security of attachment was also
associated with less concurrent depressive symptomatology. Two and one-half years later,
more secure attachment predicted less negative affect, less depressive symptomatology, and
greater satisfaction with life for both men and women. These correlations generally ranged
from medium to large in magnitude, with marital satisfaction the largest at r=.61 and .73 for
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men and women respectively. For women, greater security of attachment also predicted better
memory functioning 2.5 years later. No such association was present for men, and security of
attachment did not predict executive functioning for men or for women.
recent research suggesting differential susceptibility of older adults to the effects of stress on
cognitive functioning (e.g., Pardon & Rattray, 2008), we considered the possibility that secure
attachment might be a buffer against the effects of everyday stressors on late-life cognitive
functioning. One such stressor – frequency of daily marital disagreements – was significantly
correlated with memory functioning for women but not for men (rwomen = -.27, p = .05; rmen = -
partner) was calculated and entered into a regression model predicting memory (FCSRT score),
with security of attachment, frequency of disagreements with partner, and age entered into the
model as covariates. The results of this analysis are presented in Table 4. Of note is that for
women the interaction term was a significant predictor of memory independent of the direct
effects of security of attachment and frequency of marital disagreements, and the overall
model predicted 33% of the variance in memory scores across the women in this sample. No
significant interaction was found for men. Further analysis indicated that for those women
rated as more securely attached to their partners, frequency of marital conflicts was not related
to memory 2.5 years later. By contrast, for those women rated as less securely attached, more
frequent marital conflicts predicted poorer memory functioning 2.5 years later.
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Discussion
Understanding the aging process depends in part on clarifying the nature of the links
between healthy aging and personal relationships. This study suggests that it is not only what
we think but also how we think about our connections to intimate partners that relates to
wellbeing as we age. The structure and coherence of mental models of close relationships,
along with judgments about the degree to which one can rely on an intimate partner for
support, may be especially important as we age, yet this aspect of older adults’ experience has
received relatively little empirical attention. This study assesses security of attachment to
intimate partners in older adults using an interview that is appropriate to both the age and the
life experience of individuals who are now in their 70s and 80s. Unlike the self-report measures
that access consciously-held beliefs, this interview elicits rich reports about perceptions of and
behaviors in relationships from which coders can reliably assess implicit as well as explicit
elements of older adults’ models of attachment to their partners. In this respect, the study
offers a new window on older adults’ mental models of intimate relationships and their links
An important goal of this study was to identify what attachment to an intimate partner
looks like in old age. Do the same domains of security, avoidance, and anxiety that characterize
models of attachment in children and younger adults emerge in the interviews of older adults?
The emergence of a single cohesive Attachment Security factor in our sample raises the
possibility that there may be differences in the structure of attachment in older adults. The nine
attachment variables grouped together on a single dimension that at one extreme entailed
coherence in the account of the relationship, valuing of intimacy and the partner, and comfort
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with caregiving and careseeking. The other extreme of the scale was characterized by narratives
about the marriage that were less convincing and coherent, by derogation of the partner, and
by dismissing the importance of the partner and the relationship. Individuals who expressed
unmet needs for support, intimacy, and closeness scored low on this scale, as did individuals
Our findings suggest a more unitary structure of insecure attachment in older adults
than is the case in younger adults. Two perspectives afforded by old age may converge to shape
this more unidimensional manifestation of insecure attachment to partners in late life – (1)
older adults look back on a lifetime of accumulated experiences of intimacy, and (2) they have a
heightened awareness of mortality. With regard to looking back on the course of intimacy,
some of the least happy individuals in this study longed for intimate connection, but in
reviewing their marriages, they appeared resigned to the futility of expecting it from their
partners. When asked whether he turns to his wife when emotionally upset, one octogenarian
in his 2nd unhappy marriage responded, “No. Definitely not. I would get no sympathy. I would
be told that it’s a sign of weakness.” While not minimizing the importance of attachment needs
(as is the case among avoidantly-attached individuals), some older adults appear to have
resigned themselves to the prospect of never having those needs met by their partners. Hope
of intimacy may no longer spring eternal for such individuals, and resignation or acceptance
could be a factor in the apparent reduction in attachment anxiety seen both in the Zhang and
The second factor that may shape attachment in late life is mortality salience. Compared
with their younger counterparts, older individuals face the more imminent prospect of their
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own and their partners’ physical decline and death, thus creating a different context in which
Greenberg at al, 2003; Mikulincer, Florian, & Hirschberger, 2003) find that people manage
anxiety about their own mortality using specific strategies, including adhering to a cultural
worldview that provides a sense of life’s meaning and purpose, and fostering a sense of
connectedness and attachment security in close relationships. Mikulincer and Shaver (2012)
have proposed that when proximity-seeking is inhibited by insecure attachment, individuals are
left defenseless in the face of mortality concerns, and these feelings must be managed in other
ways. Those who cannot find comfort in close relationships might manage anxiety about death
with other forms of self-protection, such as greater investment in a cultural worldview (e.g.,
religion) that enhances life’s meaning and purpose. For example, the study participant quoted
above went on to note that he had no hope of receiving comfort from his wife but that he
turned to God for solace: “I pray every night. My personal God doesn’t get mad at me. He
accepts that I have strengths and weaknesses.” Older insecurely-attached individuals who are
anxiously longing for intimacy and those who are keeping a partner at arm’s length might be
similarly resigned to not having needs met by their intimate partners, and their images of
intimate partnerships might be more similar than different. Because death is near, such people
Consistent with findings in studies of younger adults (for a review, see Mikulincer &
Shaver, 2007), security of attachment in this older sample was strongly linked with concurrent
wellbeing, including greater marital satisfaction, happier mood, and less frequent marital
conflicts. For men, greater security was also associated with less depressive symptomatology.
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These associations are not surprising. The feeling that one can rely on an intimate partner in
times of need is likely to foster a greater sense of wellbeing in the face of life’s daily stresses
and uncertainties, and this feeling is likely to inform the evaluation of how satisfied partners are
in their relationships. Conversely, lack of comfort with caregiving or careseeking, and the sense
that a partner cannot be relied on for support, might well contribute to more frequent conflicts
in the marriage, particularly as needs for support increase with age. It is also possible that
causal influences operate in the other direction – that is, being in a good marriage may
Looking across time, security of attachment predicted wellbeing 2.5 years later. For
both men and women, more secure attachment predicted greater satisfaction with life, less
depressive symptomatology, and less negative affect as reported on the PANAS. The
moderate-to-large magnitude of these correlations (i.e., r’s from .29 to .52) is particularly
impressive considering the substantial separation in time of these two measurements. There
was no significant association between security of attachment and PANAS Positive Affect scale
scores. This may reflect something unique about positive affectivity or may be related to the
nature of positive affect in late life. Many of the more “activated” emotion terms included in
the PANAS scale used to tap positive affectivity, such as inspired, energetic, and joyful, are less
frequently endorsed by older adults than by younger people (Pressman & Cohen, 2012).
Of particular note, less secure attachment predicted poorer memory function for
women 2.5 years later. The association of attachment security and memory is noteworthy
given links found in other studies between loneliness and cognitive decline. One possible
explanation is that relationship insecurity, like loneliness, is a chronic stressor, and research has
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demonstrated links between stress and cognitive decline in older adults (Lupien, McEwen,
Gunnar & Heim, 2009). The association between attachment security and memory was not
found for men. Moreover, security of attachment was not associated with executive
functioning for men or for women, raising the possibility that the effects of insecure
robustness of these findings. In addition, it is important to note that, because these cognitive,
affective and wellbeing measures were only assessed at one time point, temporal precedence
We hypothesized that insecure attachment to the partner might make it difficult for
older adults to weather the normal stresses of living. We further hypothesized that the wear-
and thereby impact memory. The significant interaction that we found for the women in this
memory function is consistent with these hypotheses. There was no significant link between
frequency of marital disagreements and memory for more securely-attached women but a
significant link for women who are less securely attached to their partners. This finding is
consistent with studies of younger adults in which attachment security buffers individuals from
the detrimental effects of relationship stressors such as infertility (Amir, Horesh & Lin-Stein,
A number of study limitations are important to bear in mind. Methodological issues may
be responsible for the absence of discrete factors for anxiety and avoidance and for the finding
that two insecurities related to anxious attachment – unrealistic fears about depending on and
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losing the other – were not prominent in these interviews. It is possible that (1) the interview
did not facilitate the expression of two discrete types of insecure attachment, (2) our coders
may not have been able to distinguish between these dimensions or between realistic and
unrealistic fears around dependency and loss, or (3) our scoring system may not have
accurately assessed these dimensions. Arguing against these methodological problems, the CRI
has been shown to elicit data on avoidant as well as anxious attachment in samples of younger
adults (Crowell, Treboux & Waters, 2002) and our coding system was adapted from the original
Data on psychosocial functioning were missing to varying extents, but most particularly
in the Time 2 measures. Analyses revealed missingness to be largely at random, and use of FIML
for primary analyses allowed us to include all 162 participants. Measures at Time 1 and Time 2
(e.g., the CES-D and the GDS) tapped similar constructs but were not identical, so we were
unable to examine links between attachment security and changes in wellbeing, which will be
important to study in future research. All participants in this study were Caucasian and were
from two particular historical and demographic cohorts, pointing to the need for studies of
attachment security and wellbeing in other populations. Finally, a larger sample may increase
assessment. Both mood and frequency of marital disagreements were measured using daily
telephone interviews over 8 consecutive days. The interview approach has particular utility with
an elderly population that may not be accustomed to using electronic or computer devices to
report on daily events, and the 8-day sampling increases the reliability and accuracy of these
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assessments (Larson & Almeida, 1999). Security of attachment was rated from interview
transcripts, and marital satisfaction was assessed using self-report questionnaires, two distinct
sources of information that make the strong correlations between these variables particularly
normal retrieval deficits from true cognitive decline in the elderly. Longitudinal follow-up of
participants allowed for examination of wellbeing not just concurrent with measurement of
attachment security but 2.5 years later. Finally, the implicit measure of attachment security has
questionnaire and may thereby limit sample sizes, our raters’ ability to assess multiple aspects
of security of attachment reliably in about one hour per transcript suggests that use of semi-
structured interviews may be more feasible in the study of attachment than has been
previously considered.
In this study, we found that more secure mental models of marital relationships in late
life are linked directly with greater wellbeing, and that more secure models of attachment
appear to buffer older women from the potentially deleterious effects of marital conflict on
cognition. These findings challenge us to look more deeply into the mechanisms by which
models of attachment may “get under the skin” and into the brains of older adults. Moving
forward, it will be critical to identify exactly what it is about secure attachment that promotes
that operate principally within individuals, such as the solace of believing that someone will be
available in times of need; and behaviors, motivations or attitudes toward a partner that
benefit both members of the dyad. Studies in which older couples are carefully observed
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discussing stage-salient attachment concerns such as end-of-life vulnerability and care are a
critical next step. The goal in these studies should be to identify experiences, behaviors,
individuals in this important late-life context and to determine whether these distinctions
Researchers also need to be attentive to the possibility that these mechanisms may
operate in complex ways. Our findings regarding the moderating role of attachment on links
between marital conflict and memory are consistent with a stress-buffering hypothesis (Holt-
Lunstad et al., 2010) in which secure models of attachment promote adaptive behavioral or
buffering the deleterious influence of stressors on health. Such buffering mechanisms would
only be evident under stress. Whether they function directly or as protective factors, the effects
additional benefit to the partner and/or the dyad. Because of the potential partner benefits of
secure mental models, it will be critical to utilize dyadic approaches, such as Actor-Partner
Interdependence Modeling (Kenny, Kashy, & Cook, 2006), that can capture complex relational
interventions that promote healthy aging. As social networks narrow in late life and intimate
partnerships are more central, security of romantic attachment may emerge as an increasingly
Author contributions
R. Waldinger designed the overall study in consultation with the other authors and oversaw
data collection. S. Cohen and R. Waldinger developed the coding system in consultation with J.
Crowell. S. Cohen supervised the coding of interviews under the supervision of J. Crowell. R.
Waldinger and M. Schulz performed the data analysis and interpretation. R. Waldinger drafted
the paper with the assistance of M. Schulz, and all co-authors provided critical revisions. All
Acknowledgments
The authors wish to thank George Vaillant, Dorene Rentz, Laura Brumariu, Nina Rovinelli Heller
and four coders – Daniel Bateson, Muhannad Halassa, Sabrina Liu, and Christina Lau – for their
contributions to this project. This work was supported by grants R01 MH42248 and R01
AG034554.
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Table 1
Means (SD) of Psychosocial Functioning Variables
Men Women
Time 1 assessments
Marital satisfaction 124.8 (23.0) 123.2 (26.3)
N=81 N=81
Time 2 assessments
PANAS Positive Affect 34.62 (6.72) 34.82 (6.74)
N=61 N=49
Table 2
Pearson Correlations among Psychosocial Functioning Variables*
WOMEN Marital CES-D Daily Daily PANAS PANAS Geriatric Satisfaction Memory Executive
r(p) Satisfaction disagreements Mood Positive Negative Depression with life (FCSRT) functioning
MEN r(p) Affect Affect Scale
-.25 -.45 .53 -.05 -.54 -.35 .71 .33 .06
Marital --
(.03) (<.001) (<.001) (.74) (<.001) (.008) (<.001) (.02) (.63)
satisfaction
CES-D -.49 .10 -.30 -.30 .25 .61 -.31 -.09 -.09
--
(<.001) (.40) (.01) (.04) (.07) (<.001) (.02) (.49) (.53)
Daily
disagreements -.50 .26 -.24 .06 .39 .19 -.37 -.27 .12
with partner x 8 --
(<.001) (.03) (.04) (.67) (.005) (.14) (.005) (.05) (.38)
days
Daily mood x 8 .38 -.31 -.16 .12 -.46 -.32 .49 .10 -.03
days --
(.002) (.01) (.17) (.38) (<.001) (.01) (<.001) (.44) (.81)
PANAS Positive .25 -.45 .04 .39 -.21 -.47 .21 .05 .13
Affect --
(.05) (<.001) (.75) (.003) (.14) (.002) (.14) (.76) (.38)
PANAS Negative -.36 .23 .21 -.13 -.17 .39 -.35 -.18 .19
Affect --
(.006) (.07) (.11) (.32) (.19) (.007) (.01) (.19) (.17)
Geriatric -.17
Depression -.49 .63 .21 -.37 -.50 .57 -.42 -.40
-- (.21)
Scale (<.001) (<.001) (.09) (.004) (<.001) (<.001) (.003) (.006)
Satisfaction .46 -.39 -.05 .05 .28 -.26 -.39 .34 .08
with life --
(<.001) (.003) (.71) (.68) (.04) (.05) (.003) (.02) (.57)
Memory .001 -.13 .17 .05 .02 -.18 -.12 .18 .17
(FCSRT) --
(.99) (.31) (.19) (.71) (.85) (.17) (.34) (.17) (.23)
Executive .14 -.15 .05 .11 .26 -.07 -.18 .19 .16
functioning --
(.27) (.24) (.69) (.39) (.05) (.59) (.16) (.15) (.21)
*Correlations for men are on the bottom-left, and correlations for women are on the top-right
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Table 3
Pearson Correlations between Security of Attachment and Psychosocial Functioning
Security of Attachment
Men Women
r (p) r (p)
Time 1 Assessments
Marital satisfaction .61 .73
(<.001) (<.001)
Time 2 Assessments
PANAS Positive Affect .20 -.01
(.11) (.94)
Table 4
Regression Analysis Predicting Memory Scores
Women Men
B SE B β R2 B SE B β R2
Age -0.11 0.06 -0.21† -.02 .08 -.04
Security of attachment -3.92 2.21 -1.12† .40 1.61 .20
Frequency of marital
-28.37 10.80 -1.51** 4.43 8.76 .35
disagreements
Security of attachment X
frequency of marital 4.06 1.71 1.52* .33 -.39 1.28 -.27 .03
disagreements
†
p < .10 * p < .05 ** p < .01 *** p < .001