My Flaws To Be Aware Of: 

1. I tend to seek attention in an unhealthy manner. 

2. I tend to judge others for what they could be doing, but are not. 
3. I tend to try to advise or control others when I can’t even control 
myself. 
4. I tend to fear silent judgement. 
5. I tend to be inconsistent. 
6. I tend to be a slave to my emotion. 
7. I tend to not work hard enough. 
8. I tend to wait for motivation. 
9. I tend to shy away from productive hobbies that I would love to 
do and know I would enjoy in the name of work, when these are 
things I’d like to do as well. 
10.I tend to shy away from dating, sex, and relationships in the name 
of work, when these are things I’d like to do as well. 
11. I tend too much time engaging in value-vapid activities. 
12. I tend to not spend enough on ALL of the things that I love. 
13. I tend to not save or invest any money whatsoever. 
 
How To Fix These Flaws 
1. I tend to seek attention in an unhealthy manner. 
a. Unless it’s for ​marketing, branding, or PR​ p
​ urposes, do it 
because you think it’s a good use of life and because YOU 
like to do it. 
b. Don’t overvalue criticism ​OR ​praise. Keep your focus on the 
process and the internal rewards it brings. 
c. Pay attention to yourself so that you don’t have to be so 
“look at me all the time.” 
d. STOP​ sending demos and other things that should generally 
be kept private to others for approval and opinion. 
2. I tend to judge others for what they could be doing, but are not. 
a. Understand that other people have different viewpoints, 
values, priorities, and goals in life. 
 b. Focus on what you ​can ​control ​ALWAYS​, which is ​not ​other 
people. 
c. Turn that judgement of others into ​motivation ​for yourself. 
3. I tend to try to advise or control others when I can’t even control 
myself. 
a. Say something if you feel an ​unselfish ​urge to, otherwise it’s 
none of your business. 
b. Say something if you’re ​asked ​to, otherwise it’s none of your 
business. 
c. If you are going to say something, say it with an air of 
suggestion​ rather than ​elitism​. 
d. Everytime you’re about to try to advise someone, gauge 
whether it’s advice that you ​genuinely ​think they want or 
advice you’re giving for the sake of ​attention​ and the “ooh 
look how smart I am” feelings. 
4. I tend to fear silent judgement. 
a. Know your values and priorities and understand that you 
don’t know everything, but make the ​BEST ​decisions you 
can based on what you ​DO​ know and who you ​KNOW ​you 
are. 
5. I tend to be inconsistent. 
a. Motivation is garbage. Work even when you don’t ​feel​ like it 
but you know you ​should​. 
b. Break goals and aspirations into daily habits and routines. 
c. Remember the tendency you have to be ​inconsistent​. 
d. To make a difference, you ​MUST ​be consistent. 
6. I tend to be a slave to my emotion. 
a. Feel your emotions, but don’t ​EVER ​let them rule you or get 
the best of you. 
b. Meditate. 
c. Leverage sublimation. 
7. I tend to not work hard enough. 
a. Be ​consistent​. 
 b. Remember that one day you will die, and your way of coping 
with that is to have ​NO​ regrets. Leave ​nothing o ​ n the table. 
c. Make new friends who you want to aspire to be like. 
d. Find mentors. 
e. Structure life for positivity and creative/inspirational 
stimulus. 
8. I tend to wait for motivation. 
a. Motivation is garbage. Work even when you don’t ​feel​ like it 
but you know you ​should​. Because you will ​NEVER ​feel like 
it! 
9. I tend to shy away from productive hobbies that I would love to 
do and know I would enjoy in the name of work, when these are 
things I’d like to do as well. 
a. Trade in lower-quality activities like watching TV and 
playing video games for interests such as: 
i. Learning ​Portuguese​. 
ii. Learning how to dance ​really ​well. 
iii. Learning ​martial arts​. 
iv. Learning about ​gardening​. 
v. Learning how to ​surf​. 
vi. Learning how to ​play guitar​ better. 
vii. Going out on more ​dates​. 
viii. Going out to ​seminars, conferences, and workshops​. 
ix. Travel​ling and ​visit​ing ​beautiful places​. 
10.I tend to shy away from dating, sex, and relationships in the name 
of work, when these are things I’d like to do as well. 
a. Learn how to be ​sexy​. 
b. Start ​dating​ and having ​sex​! 
11. I tend to spend too much time engaging in value-vapid activities. 
a. Trade in things like excessively scrolling social media, 
watching mindless TV, and playing video games for ​higher 
quality activities ​such as reading, watching ​aesthetically​- 
or ​conceptually-inspiring​ films and TV shows, etc. 
12. I tend to not spend enough on ALL of the things that I love. 
a. Implement Ramit Sethi’s ​Conscious Spending Plan​. 
b. Spend on: 
i. Close​ family. 
ii. Close​ f​ riends. 
iii. Smart ​business opportunities. 
iv. Investments. 
v. Clothing. 
vi. Coffee. 
vii. Educational materials (books, online courses, 
conferences, seminars, etc.) 
viii. Grooming. 
ix. Design. 
x. Branding. 
xi. Beauty. 
xii. Health and wellness. 
13. I tend to not save or invest any money whatsoever. 
a. Implement Ramit Sethi’s ​Conscious Spending Plan​.