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With so much abundance all around us, why are so many people
living in poverty? Why do so many feel they are helpless? Why do so
many believe there’s no way to escape their situation? Deep in my
heart I believe no one is predestined to be poor. There’s no
circumstance over which we cannot prevail...no situation or
circumstance we cannot rise above. If these statements are true, then
why do so many people live in despair? Why do so many people
endure such desperate and desolate lives?
For years I’ve meditated and obsessed over these questions. There
was a time in my life when I was searching for answers and then,
suddenly, the answers became obvious. It wasn’t a gradual
awakening; it was more like being knocked over by a bolt of lightning.
It was an epiphany…a stream of consciousness realization. Suddenly
it became crystal clear why so many people were missing pieces of
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the puzzle. Why so many never quite put it all together. I called this
revelation The Prosperity Equation.
Look around. Most people are not living their dreams. No matter
where they are at this point in their lives; it hasn’t turned out the way
they thought it would. And now, for many of them, time is quickly
running out. It amazes me watching so many people suddenly waking
up somewhere around middle-age as if they’re emerging from a coma;
in a panic, they suddenly realize they’re facing a financial crisis. If
they’re ever going to make it happen, it had better happen quickly.
Even as I am writing these words, I’ve got Fox News Network on the
television here in my office. Just a few minutes ago there was a panel
of experts debating ‘new’ research concluding that more Americans
fear dying in poverty than fear dying as a result of terrorism. Our
financial future is the foremost thing on most people’s minds,
regardless of their age or situation.
If you believe the headlines and the six o’clock news, the Baby
Boomer generation is on a collision course with financial disaster. How
much of the news is ‘hysteria’ and how much has substance is
questionable. I always have to step back and consider the motivation
of the story’s source. Unfortunately, ethical journalism is dead. There’s
no recognizable integrity, professional ethic or honesty in today’s
media. Liberal reporters with personal agendas are reporting
fabrications and fiction that we gullibly believe to be unbiased news
reporting. And, always remember politicians are liars…basically, it’s
part of their job description. One political party or the other has an
agenda to spin their slant on the news in order to push their party’s
agenda and to bash the other political party. It’s not about truth. So
don’t believe everything you see and hear in the news.
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In other words there may be a hidden political agenda driving all of
those reports that Social Security is going to go bust.
It’s true; most of the Baby Boomers are going into their senior years
with a severe shortage of funds. Unfortunately, because of modern
medicine and technology most seniors are living longer…many of
them are going to live longer than their money. Personally, I do believe
Social Security, in its current form, is going to collapse, or at least,
drastically transform with reduced payouts. In other words, I’m saying
Social Security is not going to be there for you…and you can’t count
on your children, they’ve got their own lives and they’re probably not
going to be there for you either. You’re on your own. Nobody is going
to carry you to the end. The price of medicine is already obscene, and
now, we’re hearing predictions of a 500% increase in the cost of
healthcare and medicine over the next ten years. Futurists are
predicting a single pill will cost hundreds.
The fact that social security may or may not collapse before I start
collecting really doesn’t affect me, and; it shouldn’t affect you either
unless you’re planning to go into your twilight years living like a rat.
Personally, I don’t envision myself sitting in darkened rooms without
heat to lower my electric bill and eating cat food. Seniors I’ve spoken
to who are living entirely on Social Security benefits are living
miserable, impoverished lives.
By the time most of us arrive at the minimum age to qualify for Social
Security benefits, the age limit will have been moved up. It’s already at
sixty-seven. We’ll already have one foot in the grave before we reach
eligibility.
Another ingredient in the soup is the fact Social Security recipients are
one of the most powerful voting blocs on the planet. Very few
politicians are brave enough to tangle with ‘the gray panthers’.
Looking forward to the next ten years there will be nearly one hundred
million seniors reaching retirement age. Comparing that with
approximately thirty million retirees today, there’s no way the system
could ever possibly absorb everything that’s coming at us.
Something’s going to break.
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The organization conducting the most accurate research about the
future of retirees is the AARP (I am a member). According to AARP
published research, over the next decade, Baby Boomers stand to
inherit a minimum of $10 trillion; other research estimates go as high
as $50 trillion.
As the World War II, Great Depression era generation is rapidly dying
off, (my parents) they’re passing on substantial wealth to their children
and grandchildren. Unfortunately, most of them haven’t protected their
money from the government. Their heirs will only realize a fraction of
their inheritance.
Now , understand I’m not a lawyer, don’t pretend to be, but I will say
this; if you have aging parents, you need to approach them about
setting up some sort of a limited partnership or revocable living trust
with their heirs participating in ownership of their cash and assets
while they are still alive. This will protect you from having the
government’s hands picking your pockets after your parents pass
away. It may change, but as I write these words the ‘death tax’ is
taking as much as 50% of most people’s cash and assets before their
heirs receive the first nickel. The sad part is that it is totally avoidable
through legal and ethical financial instruments your attorney, banker,
or accountant can set up now. But, it must be done while the person is
still living.
It’s a delicate subject but it needs to be addressed and handled now,
before they pass away. There are phone books filled with names of
attorney’s and accounting firms who specialize in setting up these
limited partnerships, trusts, and other legal financial shelters.
And, let’s face it, you really already knew the answer before I asked
the question, didn’t you? The majority of the people reading this book
or listening to the audio just said no. The truth be known, you probably
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said ‘no’ too…didn’t you? I suspect that most people who bought this
book probably bought it because they are nowhere nearly financially
prepared to make it all of the way to the end of their lives.
Truthfully, if you have fears about the future, it’s probably because
those fears are justified. Up until now, if you’re like most people, the
answer has been to put it out of your mind and think about something
more pleasant. You’ve elected to take the Scarlett O’Hara
philosophical approach to financial security into the future. You’re
telling yourself... “I'll think of it all tomorrow…After all, tomorrow is
another day.”
Well, I won’t let you off of the hook that easily. You can’t change it if
you refuse to deal with it. We’re going to start thinking about it right
now.
Even though I’m moderately wealthy, the truth be known, I would not
be able to retire right now unless I’d be willing to reduce the quality of
my lifestyle. In other words, even though I have a lot of money right
now…substantial cash and assets…I do not have enough to last all of
the way to the end of my life (my wife’s life) at our current standard
and lifestyle. We live extravagantly. I live an abundance philosophy.
There will always be more than enough. Of course, my wife and I
spend a lot of money on the frivolous things we love to do and have.
Of course, I would be able to retire for life…right now…and live
extremely well until I die…but…it wouldn’t be as good. We’d be
forced to cut back on something. Sacrificing just ain’t my style.
I’ve actually begun writing some chapters for a future book I intend to
title… ‘Get Rich, Live Rich, Die Rich…Secrets of the Cash Flow
Millionaire’
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The theme is centered on conceptional thinking about how we all must
create income streams with enough legs to get us all of the way to the
end of our lives...without sacrificing our standard of living. The truth is,
most people, even if they actually do have adequate retirement funds,
what they really have are minimal ‘bare bones’ survival funds. Plan to
live abundantly forever. Don’t get all of the way to the end of your life
eking out an existence.
Is it too late?
Is it too late for you? Absolutely not! If you’re under funded and
undercapitalized, you need to start immediately. You can catch up. A
successful life is a plan and, unfortunately; many people started
planning too late…well, almost too late. When you’re young, you’re
invincible. You’ll think about all of the serious stuff when you get older.
Then suddenly its here, now you’re older and you’re not prepared.
I didn’t have the luxury of being born with wealthy parents. And,
fortunately, I wasn’t cursed with an advanced education. My education
came from the streets. The first thirty-five years of my life I had no real
focus or direction. Taking whatever came my way, the entire plan was
to wake up another day and see happens.
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many others I desperately needed that catalyst to light the fire. I
needed a reason to become focused and motivated.
You’ve probably met many people who are wealthier, smarter and a
whole lot better looking than I am, and; you’ll also have to admit there
are many extremely rich people who are uglier, stupider, and less
charming. Who ever said any of this was supposed to be fair or
logical? It’s not so much about who you are as it is about what you’ve
done. It’s not about where you started as much as it’s about where you
are and where you’re going.
I’m told Bill Gates has amassed more than forty-six billion dollars.
Think about it. That’s incredible. One guy has more money than two-
thirds of the world’s population combined. Personally, I’ve decided to
allow him to win. If you bought this book to learn how to become a
billionaire; you’ve got the wrong book, I don’t know how to do that yet.
So, you see, I’m not misrepresenting myself to be the ultimate mega-
millionaire. You bump into people every day in the supermarket who
have more money than I do. It’s not about me. Like you, I’m also still
on the journey. No one should ever become so smug and arrogant to
the point where we begin to believe we have arrived.
What this book is about however is how people like me…people like
us…people with limited education and poor parents can become
millionaires. I’ll never misrepresent myself to be the absolute highest
example of success. Everyone has to be positioned somewhere on
the food chain of prosperity. By this measurement, I’m doing fine, so
much better than most. If the net worth of every human being on the
planet were listed in ascending order, you’d have to place me squarely
at the top fraction of a percentage. This is important for credibility. I
feel compelled to point this out because there are hundreds of books
out there about How to Get Rich which were written by people who
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obviously weren’t, never have been and probably never will be. Well, I
am the real deal, a working millionaire.
Back in the seventies, Rod Stewart had a hit titled Every Picture Tells
a Story. Well, in this case, Every Story Tells a Picture. Every example
illustrates events and struggles we endured, back when my wife,
Debbie, and I were bringing the business off of the kitchen table.
Every one of these stories has a purpose to clarify a point I’m trying to
hammer home.
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to change the world, then you’re already destined to be wealthy and
famous. Maybe you’ve discovered a medical breakthrough, found the
answer to the world’s food shortage, solved the energy crisis, or
developed a pill that will cure cancer. If that’s the case, then you’re
going to be rich anyway. It’s automatic. Put the book down. Relax! The
game is over. You won! Forget about it! Go play!
As for the rest of us, most of us are not great actors, singers, boxers
or ball players. There are only so many Tom Cruise’s, Britney Spears’,
Tiger Woods or Michael Jordan’s out there. There’s only one
Muhammad Ali for each generation and The Beatles phenomenon
only happens occasionally.
Okay, let’s paint the whole picture for you. Make no mistake about it;
The Prosperity Equation is about how to achieve success by starting
and growing your own business. It’s a formula to achieve freedom. It’s
about making personal choices and taking control of your destiny. It’s
all about dramatically improving the total quality of your life.
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throughout the fabric of The Equation, I’ll be discussing marketing,
sales and networking; business techniques and interpersonal skills.
Through the years I’ve studied thousands of hopefuls who started new
businesses and ultimately failed. Even though they had the desire to
succeed, the truth be known, they just didn’t get it. There were pieces
missing in their puzzle. If you really pay attention, and read it with an
open mind; this book will put the puzzle together for you.
The Prosperity Equation is a road map to guide you along the route to
financial success, a blueprint for building wealth. Along the way, I hope
you’ll discover personal freedom and a great abundant quality of life
as well as self-satisfaction.
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The Prosperity Equation is complex. It’s more than a formula for
achieving the quantifiable goals of wealth and success; it’s also about
the freedom wealth affords to achieve security, a great lifestyle and
peace of mind.
The Prosperity Equation is about the nuts and bolts as well as the
philosophical shifts and psychological preparation it takes to start and
grow a successful business. Since the core focus of The Prosperity
Equation is directed toward owning and operating your own business
and being your own boss, we’ll be spending a lot of time discussing
these nuts and bolts business processes and the basics of wealth
building.
If you were a soldier fighting in a war, you wouldn’t go into battle if you
were untrained and out-of-shape. You’d be killed. Well, guess what?
This isn’t any different. It’s a war out there and, once you decide this is
what you really want to do, you must be prepared, focused and well-
trained. It requires study and planning as well as psychological
preparation to start and grow a successful business. If you’re not
emotionally tough, don’t even think about it. An Entrepreneur has to
have a high tolerance for dealing with stress and frustration. As you
read on, I want you to think of me as your personal trainer, pushing
you hard, stretching your personal limits and expanding your
boundaries as you move toward your destination. Maybe I’m a drill
instructor and this is a boot camp. Regardless, my goal is to push you
through your personal barriers and lead you to achieving your
personal goals of wealth and prosperity. I intend to be tough on you.
As you read deeper into these pages, you’ll discover this theme will be
repeated many times, in many forms, hammering it into your head
until it sinks deep into the permanent recesses of your subconscious
mind…The Prosperity Equation is all about mindset. It’s about
developing an attitude and a philosophy; it’s about developing a
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unique philosophy leading to your personal growth and business
success.
I’m not necessarily talking about becoming filthy rich either. There are
many levels of personal wealth and success. The underlying theme
continually recurs and echoes throughout these pages, success is a
thought process. Getting your mind right is three-quarters of The
Equation. Failure in life and business is the end result of defective
thinking. My observation is that people who fail have weaknesses of
character, attitude and determination.
This was an extremely difficult book to write. I’ve struggled with every
word you’re about to read. When I first began writing The Prosperity
Equation I was just sitting there in a darkened room staring at the
computer. I sat there motionless for hours assembling my thoughts
before the first words began to flow out of my mind and onto the
screen. There was so much I wanted to say to you and I wanted to be
sure I said it perfectly.
When you were in school, they were always the same ones who were
always most popular. You just liked being around them. They seemed
to always be voted ‘most likely’ or “homecoming royalty’…you know
what I mean.
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And, did you ever meet a salesperson you really liked doing business
with? Or, a waiter or waitress you always asked for by name?
The answer to all of those questions is, of course, we all have met
those people. They have repeatedly come in and out of our lives.
What are the habits, traits, and qualities that make people successful
in their lives and businesses? Why are some people destined to
become millionaires while others can barely survive with cash on hand
until the end of the month?
Well, hang on. I am about to share with you an incredible formula for
realizing your hidden unlimited potential.
You can have wealth and success beyond your dreams if you’ll master
the concepts ahead. But, don’t expect to immediately appreciate the
awesome power of The Prosperity Equation even after I’ve described
it to you initially. I’ve taught The Equation to thousands of people over
the years and very few people really get it on the first pass. It won’t all
come together for you immediately either; the message won’t be
totally clear until you’ve read the last word of the last sentence of this
book. Now, don’t go reading ahead at the back of the book expecting
a major revelation; when I made that statement I was assuming you’ve
read all of the pages in between. Somewhere in there you’ll
experience what I call that ‘Aha’ moment as the light switch is turned
on. This is one of those books you’ll find yourself reading and
rereading. Every time something new will come of it.
When I first read the book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, I
learned the dynamic concept of studying the characteristics of
winners, and then modeling myself after them. Somewhere in my
quest it occurred to me that all of the successful people I have known
or studied had four basic common characteristics.
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Not exactly like The Seven Habits of Highly Effective people by
Stephen Covey; The Equation centers on four dynamic concepts. I call
these the four cornerstone pillars of prosperity.
They are…
1. Attitude
2. Desire
3. Work Ethic
4. Competency
That’s all there is to it. It’s simplistic. There isn’t anything else.
And, if you are not already a millionaire; I suggest that at least one of
those pieces is missing from your puzzle. There is absolutely no way
for anyone to have all of those concepts totally mastered and still
remain poor.
Now relax. I’ve only given you part of The Equation…there’s more.
Okay…okay, I know. I just finished telling you that was all there is and
now I’m telling you there’s more. Well, sort of.
You are not expected to fully grasp the significance of these concepts
right now in the early stages of the experience. It is however important
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to lay them out early in the book so you will recognize them as they
appear, over and over again, in the text and stories ahead.
Study ‘the peripherals’ listed below and think about how they might
relate to the cornerstone pillars of The Equation, which are Attitude,
Desire, Work Ethic and Competency. Spend some time with this
conceptual thinking before you move on.
The ‘peripherals’ are…
• Gather people
• Define your vision
• Leverage other people’s experience
• See change as a challenge
• Make quick and accurate decisions
• Have a lasting and meaningful relationship
• Saturate you mind with success
• Know God
• Have honor
• Invest your money back into the business
• Invest in your personal development
• See each person as an individual
• Embrace technology
• Manage multiple projects
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Finally, the last part of this book deals with advertising, promotions,
and selling your products or services. No matter how great your
service or product is, you will be doomed to an early bankruptcy if you
lack the expertise to sell and market your business. I’ve known many
talented business people who had an aversion, even a distain for
sales. Even though they had a great product, actually a better product
or service than their competition, their companies are gone and they
have returned to the workforce. If you don’t like sales then you have
no business starting a business.
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If you fully understand and apply the principles and the philosophies
I’m about to share with you, your life is about to explode. Wonderful
things are about to happen for you and for your family. Truthfully, the
information in this book is worth several hundred thousand times what
you’ve paid for it. Sadly enough though, let me slap a little cold water
in your face here, the truth of the matter is that most people who read
this book will never get it. Most people have been raised and
conditioned all of their lives for failure and conformity. Statistically, the
odds are stacked against you. If you’re like most people, you haven’t
got what it takes to be a success in life. Before you even begin you’ll
have to radically adjust your thought processes to defeat and conquer
a lifetime of negative programming.
What is prosperity?
Although the concept of Prosperity does involve wealth, money is only
one part of The Equation. Money alone cannot buy happiness. The
Bible tells us, the love of money is the root of all evil. Pay attention, it
says ‘the love of money’. When I think about those words I think about
Ebenezer Scrooge in Dickens’ Christmas Carol. Scrooge amassed a
fortune and he lived a frugal, self-centered life. Scrooge loved his
money and nothing else. Although he was a wealthy man; his soul
wasn’t liberated until he actually spent his money. In the end his
money made a lot of other people happy. Of course, in the process of
spending his money, old Scrooge himself received a great deal of
pleasure because he experienced the good things his money did for
others.
You see money in and of itself has no value. Money only becomes real
when you’re spending it…when it’s in motion. That is one of the main
reasons most of us are not able to save more money than we do.
When you see a balance on your bank statement, it’s just a bunch of
numbers on a piece of paper or a computer screen. It only becomes
real when you draw it out and when you’re actually buying something
with it.
If you’ve ever spent any time in the gambling casinos in Las Vegas or
Atlantic City did you ever stop and wonder why they play with plastic
chips instead of making bets with real cash? The basic psychology
centers around the idea that the players lose sight of the fact the chips
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are actually real money. Psychologically, it’s easier to lose plastic
chips than to lose real money…or at least that’s the illusion it creates.
Although money won’t buy your good health, it certainly will make the
finest physicians and medical services available to you. The
skyrocketing cost of medical services is rapidly outdistancing most
people’s financial ability to have quality healthcare.
It will certainly give you the time, resources, and the freedom to
pursue your dreams.
Although you don’t have to be a criminal to become rich, it’s true that
many rich people did amass their fortunes because they were ruthless
and aggressive by nature. I have always heard that Joe Kennedy built
the famous Kennedy family fortune when he was an alleged kingpin in
the Bootlegging industry during the prohibition years.
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Everything you’ll read here is centered on integrity and ethics. My
philosophy has always been, there’s never a need to lie or cheat or
sneak or deceive to become wealthy or successful. It’s true, however
that you must develop what I call a business mindset. What I mean is
you must learn to be straightforward and direct in matters concerning
business. Business decisions are rational and seldom emotional. You
must be able to see things clearly, as they actually are.
Even though I have a lot of money, I’m not what I would call filthy
stupid stinking rich. There are literally millions of millionaires in the
world today. There are probably several hundred millionaires living
within a just few miles of your home. You probably rub elbows with
millionaires every day at the supermarket, in the mall or at the car
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wash. They go to your church and their kids probably play with yours.
It just isn’t such a big deal anymore. Frankly, in today’s economy, a
million dollars just ain’t what it used to be. Even so, it’s still, it is an
awful lot of money. If you’re reading this book, chances are you’re one
of those people who would like to have a million dollars.
Personally, I’ve never even reached for those lofty levels of personal
wealth of a Bill Gates or a Warren Buffet. Could I do it? I don’t know
I’ve never taken a shot at it...yet. Someday in the future I might
actually become a billionaire …but then I’d have to write a new book.
Money is freedom
It ain’t just about the money.
BUT, that’s only part of it. Prosperity also involves having the ability to
provide everything for your family and those people you care about.
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Prosperity is all about having choices without restrictions and making
your own decisions without limitations because you don’t have enough
money. It’s about not worrying about the future.
Prosperity is all about your spiritual peace of mind and your personal
health.
Revelations
The most incredible revelation came to me somewhere along the way
in my quest for wealth and security. Following the breakthrough
concept that success is a thought process. It occurred to me that The
Prosperity Equation takes place almost entirely in your head.
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Most people have these negative programs running constantly in the
background of their mind. Like malicious computer viruses they’re
screwing up the programs and nothing’s running the way it’s supposed
to.
I’m convinced many people struggle throughout their entire lives just
wishing they could regress back to the security and safety of the
womb.
These same people waste their entire lives looking forward to the
future hoping someday they’ll stumble upon some kind of magic cure
for everything that’s wrong with their lives. You see them lining up at
the counters of your neighborhood convenience store every Friday to
buy their lottery tickets…just trying to buy themselves a little hope.
They’re dreaming about instant prosperity with no personal
investment. They drudge through the present, enduring their
uneventful day-to-day lives. They act as if right-here and right-now are
just burdens they’re forced to endure until the good times return.
Accept responsibility
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You can’t blame other people and circumstances for your personal
failures. And, you cannot allow others to take credit for your
successes. You’ll never win in life or business until you personally
accept responsibility for your own successes and your failures. In
other words, nobody did it to you and nobody did it for you. One of the
keys to prosperity is to accept total responsibility for your life. It is the
way you’ve designed it…and what you’re getting out of life is what
you’ve chosen. If you don’t like what you’re getting, then choose
something else.
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Stop whining
Me, Personally, I’ve been knocked down hard, many times. As a
matter of fact, I’ve been knocked down recently. So what! It’s all about
how you react to it. Getting up and not giving up have was always my
only option. I never whine. Nobody wants to listen to it anyway.
Nobody wants to hang with whiners except other whiners. Whiners
attract other whiners but they never listen to each other. Whining is a
one-way communication.
People who are not totally winning in life have their priorities out of
order. They waste valuable productive energy on nonproductive
things, spending countless hours obsessing about unimportant
molehills until they become the mountains and kill their spirits.
Let me ask you to stop and think about something for a moment. If
what you were extremely upset about yesterday cannot even be
remembered today, then it was probably never important in the first
place and it drained away your time and energy needlessly. Can you
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recall a recent major crisis that took you totally out of your game and
caused you to lose a lot of productivity? The question is did it really
have a major ongoing effect on the rest of your life? Or, most probably,
did it actually have very little lasting consequence on what’s
happening now? The key is realizing the insignificance of the event as
part of the big picture as its happening.
Success is a decision
In the Prosperity Seminars, we dedicate a lot of time to discussing just
exactly what The Prosperity Equation means. One thing I can say with
absolute authority is if you are ever going to have prosperity, you must
first make a concrete decision to become a success. This decision
itself is multi-faceted and requires many additional smaller decisions.
One of the most important decisions you must be willing to make is to
eliminate negative, petty trivia from your life and concentrate on those
things that really matter and focus on the goals at hand. You’re going
to have to realistically examine your life and strip away all of the
excuses you might be hiding behind, those things which are holding
you back. You must make a conscious decision to achieve focus. I’m
talking about right now, as in like immediately! Make the first decision
of many I’m going to be demanding you to make as you read through
these pages. Make a commitment to become the ultimate success.
Another one of the bedrock principles of The Prosperity Equation is to
achieve focus.
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Let’s see if I’m getting this right? I’m going to assume you bought this
book because you’re thinking about starting your own business. You’re
dreaming about the day when you can step out there on your own?
Looking forward to the day when you tell off the boss, clean out your
desk, quit your job and never look back. Does that about sum it up?
It’s incredible; so many people tell me they hate their jobs. One thing I
can say with great certainty is very few prosperous people are
employees.
Most of the people who are dissatisfied with the amount of money
they’re making on their job are probably being paid more than they’re
worth to their employer. Sorry about that but it’s true. I would go so far
as to say you might even be a morale problem.
So, if you’re one of those people who are dissatisfied with your job,
that’s fine. All I’m pointing out here is your employer is not to blame. If
you’re unhappy, that’s probably not their fault either. They gave you a
job…told you what the rules are…and they told you what the amount
they choose to pay for that job is. You agreed to it. If you didn’t like the
rules or the pay plan then whose choice was that? You accepted the
job. You can always choose to leave. But, as long as you choose to
stay and work there...keep your agreements. Stop whining and make
a plan.
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In my Prosperity Seminars we have several exercises where we
attempt to get people attending the seminars to get in touch with a
concept I call Your Personal, Marketable Value. This is a concept
quantifying what you are worth monetarily to other people, your
employer, and the consumers of your goods and services.
Okay, okay you’ve cleared all of the hurdles and jumped through all of
the hoops I’ve put in front of you so far and you’re still with me. I
haven’t run you off yet with all of this tough talk and you still want to be
your own boss right? The plan is simple, you’re going to start your own
business and set your own hours. Work when you want to. Maybe
you’re planning to start one of these fabulous home-based
businesses. You’re dreaming about sitting around the house all day in
your underwear, making the big bucks with the computer and the
telephone, orders coming in over the FAX machine and your e-
commerce enabled websites. Your mail carrier’s going to get a hernia
stuffing your mailbox with all of those checks. You’ve read thousands
of articles about how to do it. It’s easy! Millions of people have done it.
You can do it too, right?
Chances are you’ll never even try to start your own business; and if
you do, you’re probably going to fail anyway. Mathematically,
statistically, you’re doomed before you begin. If you’re like most
people, you haven’t even got a quantified, measurable, written goal.
Where’s your business plan? That’s pitiful. Look at you sitting there
reading this book while you’re hanging on to some flimsy pipe dream.
Maybe you haven’t got any real substance at all. Maybe you’re just all
talk and smoke. It’s takes a lot of nerve to jump out there and start a
business on your own; and, as of yet, you haven’t proved to yourself or
anybody else for that matter whether or not you’ve got what it takes. If
you’re getting angry now, remember, I’m just holding up a mirror here.
If you don’t like what you see, are you honestly willing to do what it
takes to change it? Before you quit your job and jump out there
without a parachute it might be a good idea to do a little honest,
realistic self evaluation. If none of this applies to you, then excuse me,
I just had to run it by you to see if it fit.
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I want everything
If you really knew my history, the complex reasons I am successful
would be obvious to you. Growing up financially challenged in a rough
neighborhood, at the bottom of the middle-class, with only a high
school education; I was one of three children, the son of an enlisted
man in the U.S. Navy. Continuously employed since I was fourteen
years old, I have always held down two or three jobs at the same time
for most of my life. Early on, I realized if I was ever going to have
anything in this world I’d have to work hard and go out there and get it
for myself.
My salvation was in the fact I really did want all of those things I didn’t
have. I lived in pain because of my parents’ ‘lack mentality’. It was
painful dressing in the kind of clothes we could afford, I felt left out and
‘uncool’. There were so many times I was ashamed or embarrassed
because I wanted to have all of those things the Preppy Kids and their
families had. This pain became a powerful motivator.
Today I have all of those things and more. One of my favorite sayings
is… I am where I am in my life because I am willing to do those things
that other people are not willing to do to get what they say they want.
My dad
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His name was James Edward Ziegler; we always just called him Chief.
My father, Chief, only had an eighth grade education but, even so, he
was one of the most brilliant and educated men I’ve ever known. He
read voraciously and was conversational in many deep, intellectual
subjects. He inspired me to learn.
An enlisted man in the Navy with a wife and three children doesn’t
make any real money. It’s a national disgrace that so many of those
who risk their lives to protect all of us, are forced to live in near
poverty.
On my honor
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Even though we didn’t have a lot of money, we were rich in many other
ways. Chief was an honest and honorable man. He taught us morals
and strong values, the meaning of right and wrong. I have to admit
that many times I’ve strayed from true north and lost my way, but, no
matter how far off-track I strayed, Chief’s influence has always
prevailed and brought me back to dead center. Very few people today
have the guts and conviction to stand up for what they believe.
The night I was awarded Eagle Scout was one of the proudest
moments in Chief’s life. Closing my eyes now, I can still see the Old
Man sitting out there in the audience smiling as I stood on the stage
with the others and raised my right hand in the Scout Sign and said
those words…“On My Honor”.
I really loved that old man. No matter where I was, even when I started
traveling heavily, I called him every day of his life.
It was the end of an era in my life when Chief passed away. Those
value lessons I learned from him are still engrained. The greatest
lesson of all was the last one he taught me. You’ve got to go for it.
Don’t wake up at the end of your life wishing you’d done it differently.
Personally, I will die still stretching out and reaching for that ever-
elusive next level.
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You’ll never hit a home run if you never swing at the pitch. Don’t be
wimping, whining and complaining to me because you hate your job
and you’re not getting those things out of life you’d really like to have.
If you’re stuck in a rut and haven’t got the nerve to take the risks and
chances success demands, then you deserve not to have all of those
things you don’t have…and all of those things you’re never-ever going
to get.
Personally, I would hate to know I’d struck out in my life while I was
standing at the plate, never taking a swing at it, watching the pitches
go by.
Many people try and more than that fail because they don’t understand
the basics of what they’re getting into. Face the facts. The truth is the
majority of people who work for someone else haven’t got what it
takes to do what it takes to be an entrepreneur. Most people are
destined to be employees…not owners. You see, to become an
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independent businessman or businesswoman, you’ve got to put it all
on the line. There’s no sticking your toe in the water to see if you like
it. Once you’re in it, then you’re committed and there’s no turning
back.
And, above all, have you got the guts to take the Leap of Faith
required to be a success? In my mind it was never a gamble. I have
always believed in myself. The only reason Indiana Jones stepped out
into the great chasm is because he knew the rock would appear. Do
you have enough faith in yourself and step out there believing the rock
will appear?
Have you got the guts to burn all of your bridges before you start?
You’ll never be prosperous if you are not willing to take substantial
calculated risks in life. Once you’re in it, you’re in it. As I said before
there’s no turning back. Now, might be the last opportunity to re-
examine your self-doubts or insecurities. If you’re certain there’s
nothing holding you back, then read on.
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little sidetracked down memory lane here. Oh yeah, the original point I
was building up to is that Life is like a bucket of crabs.
If you put a live crab in a bucket, you must put a lid on the bucket
because the crab can climb out, but, if you put two crabs in the
bucket, there is no need to put a lid on it because neither crab will
allow the other one to escape. They will latch onto each other tightly
and keep pulling each other back down into the bucket.
Life is exactly like that. There are many negative people out there who
hate your success and they will do and say everything possible to pull
you back down. They don’t want to be successful themselves but they
don’t want you to break out or succeed either. If you’re trying to
become successful or if you have a positive attitude, they’ll latch onto
you and try to drag you back down to their level. They’re the first to tell
you why you are going to fail, why it won’t work, and why you shouldn’t
do it. They’re convinced the whole world is against them and all of
their own failures and disappointments are someone else’s fault. I
estimate at least one-third of the people on this planet are Crabs.
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Sometimes people who genuinely love you and care about you will
accidentally and unintentionally pull you down. My parents were
working class people with limited educations. Growing up during the
Great Depression era of American history, they were always
conservative, overly cautious and traditional. They were always afraid
about money...they were not risk-takers in any way. Needless to say, I
was one of the reasons they went prematurely gray. You really couldn’t
expect them to understand my desire to be my own boss or my
penchant for taking risks. They interpreted it as being wild and
irresponsible. Mom and Chief always played it safe. Here they were
looking forward to their own retirement and worrying about my future.
This was during the Vietnam War. We were working ten hours a day,
six days a week, repairing aircrafts that had been damaged in combat.
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Averaging more than twenty hours a week of overtime pay for nearly
four years, the money was fabulous...at least according to my frame of
reference in those days…I thought it was fabulous.
It was a great job by many people’s standards but it just wasn’t me. It
was like being in prison. Every day was a drudge. There was no way I
could picture myself doing this for the rest of my productive years.
One night, somewhere around ten o’clock, I was welding this big
aircraft assembly and I was thinking...really thinking. If you’ve ever
done any welding, you know the feeling of solitude when you are alone
with yourself inside the welding helmet. It’s totally dark except for this
bright flame, serene and surrealistic. Welding is a hypnotic
experience, a lot like meditation. You really have a lot of time to think
about a lot of things. What I was thinking about that night was how
much I really hated this job. There was this incredible struggle
happening, my mind was in turmoil. Within an hour, I walked up to the
shop supervisor, turned in my name badge and my toolbox, and went
home. It was as if the shackles had disappeared and the prison gates
were opened wide. I’m outta here. Of course, my parents never
understood. This was major disappointment to them and there were a
lot of emotions.
A career in radio
I went into the radio business full-time. I was hungry and willing to do
whatever it took to get ahead. Starting out as a disk jockey, I worked
my way up to a position created specifically for me. I became the
Promotions Director at WAPE. Basically, what the title meant was, in
addition to my air shift, I was also in charge of setting up and
coordinating all of the radio station’s listener participation promotions
like The Great Rambling Raft Race and The Great Frisbee™ Fly-in
and various station-sponsored rock concerts when the big rock groups
of the sixties came to town. I met all of them from The Monkees to
Led Zeppelin. My job was to coordinate the promotions and make sure
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we raised large crowds. I was also doing a lot of live appearances and
remote broadcasts. I was one of the judges for The Miss Jacksonville
Pageant one year and was one of the celebrity judges along with
actor, Richard Boone (Paladin) at the Fernandina Shrimp Festival,
there were also appearances at a lot of local events when the station
needed to have representation. Even though I was unaware of it at the
time, my experiential education was driving me toward destiny at warp
speed. I was doing a lot of onstage speaking on behalf of the radio
station.
The owners of the station were Stan and Sis Kaplan, two of the
greatest innovators and promoters in the history of the radio industry.
Their names are legendary in the broadcast industry. Stan Kaplan
passed away in 2003; I will be eternally indebted to him for the breaks
he gave a street tough kid from the Westside of Jacksonville and the
lessons he taught me.
Being a rock jock in the sixties, trust me, it doesn’t get any better than
that. I have incredible memories of things we did back that other
people can only imagine. They say if you can remember the sixties,
you weren’t there. Well, all I can say about that is somehow I got
through it all with at least one or two brain cells still firing.
These were the years when I was really beginning to pay my dues,
working hard, paying attention, learning about advertising and
promotions and public speaking. Little did I know I was developing
skills that would help me to achieve my goals later in life. Most
importantly, for the first time in my life I was being paid for my talent
and my creativity instead of my physical skills and labor. My
intellectual contributions were being recognized and rewarded. It was
always my dream to be paid more for what I knew than for what I was
doing with my hands.
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were bar-fighting and drag racing, not exactly the image he wanted
representing the station in the business community. He said no. I was
disappointed but I wasn’t done.
Over the next three years I worked for WPDQ-AM and WIVY-FM as a
salesman and on-air personality. From there I went on to the number
one adult station in the market, WVOJ, a country radio station, where I
set records in radio advertising sales in Jacksonville for the sheer
volume of spots I sold that have never been broken. I sold a quarter of
a million dollars radio adverting two years in a row at eight dollars a
spot. Eventually, I even worked my way up to sales management. In
the radio business, as with most businesses, selling is where the
money is. To me, selling is a profession, and this was when I began to
learn my trade. I am a professional salesman.
By this time I was making more money than I ever could have
dreamed of making as a welder or even as a supervisor or shop
foreman had I listened to my parents and ignored my dream. What if?
What if I had listened to Mom and Chief and never took chances? I’d
probably still be a welder on the night shift.
Who are you listening to? Never allow anyone else to tamper with your
dreams.
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As we dive deeper into The Prosperity Equation, I’ll specifically explain
these techniques as I have employed them and why they work.
Eventually, we’re going to get into the nuts and bolts of creating and
building a business but before we get to that, we need to talk about
first things first.
Thinking back, countless times an older person has said to me, “If I
knew only then what I know now, I would be a millionaire.”
Unfortunately, that’s so painfully true. Life plays many cruel jokes on
most of us. By the time you figure it all out by yourself, it’s too late.
There just isn’t enough time for most people to get there before the
final curtain falls on their lives. Don’t waste any amount of that
precious time reinventing what already exists and figuring out what is
already known. Build on the knowledge others have given us.
Could you imagine where you would be if you had to discover the
principles simple math or had to invent the written word all by
yourself? I am sort of glad someone else invented the automobile
before I was born so I didn’t have to do it myself. In other words, to be
a success you have to leverage other people’s knowledge. We all go
through life flipping light switches although very few of us could
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actually make a light bulb or create electricity...nor do we want to have
to do that. We just appreciate the fact we can thoughtlessly flip a
switch and light happens. The invention of the light bulb and the
production of the electricity, I prefer to leverage the experience of
whoever did that for me and just flip the switches. It frees up my time
for more important stuff. So it is in business. You don’t have to
reinvent the wheel. How many times have you heard that cliché? Find
out who’s already done it, whatever it is, and use their experience to
go to the highest level.
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The reason you paid for this book is because I am sharing secrets and
techniques that made me successful. You are paying for the meat and
substance of what I’ve seen and done, what I have been, where I’ve
gone, and what I’ve touched in my life. You’re not paying for some
ethereal theories I learned in school, read about, or heard about, but
never actually experienced first-hand in real life.
When people find out that I am often paid more than ten-thousand
dollars plus first-class travel for a one-hour speech they are often
shocked or amazed. People often comment that’s a lot of money for
one hour’s work. When I hear that I always smile and explain that I am
not paid ten-thousand dollars for the one hour I stood on the platform
speaking, but rather for the thirty years of self development it took for
me to learn what to say.
As a professional speaker or an author people are paying for the value
of your experience regardless of the time it took to deliver the
message.
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I haven’t got a lot of patience when I’m dealing with the intelligentsia.
Those snooty self-absorbed denizens of the snobby elitist world of
academia usually make me want to throw up. I can’t tell you how many
times I’ve been forced to interact with overly-self-impressed, non-
functional people with huge superiority complexes based solely on the
fact they’ve lived their entire lives in an artificial academic
environment.
We’ve all heard the old joke that PhD really means Pizza Hut Delivery.
I take great pride in the fact that I haven’t been handicapped with an
advanced formal education.
Perhaps you’ve heard the expression Thinking Outside of the Box? In
my travels I’ve met so many people who lack the ability to create
anything original because their college education bred conformity and
rigid thinking. Their advanced education took away their ability to go
outside of the box. Excuse me; I’ll say this repeatedly... your school is
the box.
If you really want to impress me, tell me about the events, the skills,
and the experiential knowledge you’ve gathered over the course of
your life. Personally, I judge a person’s value by the depth of their
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personal character and the value of their personal experiences. Don’t
be whining to me about why life isn’t fair because here you’ve got this
advanced degree and you still ain’t getting any cheese.
A welfare mentality
So, you’re not getting all of those things you want out of life? It just
doesn’t seem fair, does it? So what!
The world doesn’t owe you a living, much less prosperity. The United
States of America only guarantees Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of
Happiness. Happiness is not a constitutional right; you only have the
right to be allowed to go for it. Nobody owes you happiness or
success. And, if you’re a failure, it’s neither my fault nor is it my
responsibility. Don’t stack your wimpy baggage on my doorstep.
Road kill strewn across life’s highway! Yes, the highways of our lives
are spattered with flattened carcasses of wimps and whiners and other
varieties of assorted losers who will envy your successes and
automatically assume they’ve got a right to what you’ve legitimately
earned. Remember this; you have a constitutional right to be
successful, happy and prosperous. There’s always going be those
nasty small-minded crabs lurking in the shadows of life waiting for an
opportunity to take a shot at you. They don’t want to succeed
themselves or to better their own lives. It is their sole purpose and
primary mission to drag you back down. Misery loves company.
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What is…is
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Doctor Frederick S. Perls was responsible for another quote I’ve
stored away deep in the back recesses of my mind. It’s one of those
remnants left over from all of those get-your-stuff-together self-
awareness seminars in the big hotel ballrooms that I sat through back
in the seventies.
I’ve always called this particular Fritz Perls quote the theory of reality.
Life isn’t perfect but it is what it is and it ain’t what it ain’t. Period! End
of discussion! You can’t change ‘what is’ by wishing that ‘it wasn’t’.
Things are the way they are. Change only takes place in the future,
never in the present.
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quickest route to failure is conformity. Don’t expect to become wealthy,
prosperous, and successful doing what everyone else is doing. Some
things should be obvious. If you really want to become wealthy, do
things differently.
Sometimes making the right decisions are painful and you must be
prepared to do the right thing even if it is unpopular.
Have no envy
I don’t want anything you have and I will waste no energy trying to take
it away from you or bring you down. There’s no time in my life for those
petty intrigues and jealousy. I genuinely want you to achieve the
ultimate levels of success. Nothing would please me more than if you
were to read this book and, as a result, become extremely wealthy,
prosperous and successful. Actually, it would make me extremely
happy if your achievements in life and prosperity were to surpass
mine.
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and will be enthusiastically happy for you when you have it. I will
always be your greatest cheerleader!
Think about it. In the movies, television and literature wealthy people
seem to always be portrayed as scheming, conniving and devious…
downright evil people. The best example might be the programming
most of us were exposed to in the movie Titanic.
In Titanic we saw poor Leonardo DiCaprio partying down with the fun-
loving virtuous ‘good people’ down in steerage while that evil rich
bastard so-sadistically well played by Billy Zane was doing despicable
and rotten things…as in he couldn’t be trusted, had no honor, and his
word was no good. Remember when he grabbed a child pretending to
be the father so he could get on the lifeboat when men weren’t being
allowed. The carefully crafted subliminal message throughout the
movie was that rich people suck…and it’s good to be poor.
Politicians have a field day with their Tax the Wealthy platforms.
Religious zealots try to make you feel guilty for having it, while, at the
same time, they’re picking your pocket.
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part of a race, nationality or group, it was one of the most important
revelations of my life. It’s an essential element of The Equation.
We live in a diverse world, and, whether you like it like it not; you have
to be able to interact with a broad variety of different people of different
races, religions and nationalities. This was really hard for me. Growing
up in Jacksonville, I’d developed an extensive, long laundry list of
exactly what type of people I didn’t like. I’d even developed priority
categories of which kind of people I liked less than other kinds.
This was among my most difficult challenges. It was a major mind shift
for me when I made a conscious decision to evaluate each individual I
meet on his or her own personal qualities and values instead of seeing
them as part of a larger group. Sometimes when I am making a
judgmental decision about someone, I just look at them and think to
myself, “They’re just doing the best they can.” Everyone is just trying
to be happy, and I can’t begrudge them the opportunity to go for it. I’ve
learned to celebrate everyone’s victories and to reach out to them.
Now, don’t get me wrong. There are losers in every group, every race,
every religion, and every nationality. I still reserve the right to dislike
people who have criminal values. I still have no use for wimps and
whiners and losers of any description, no matter what their race,
nationality or religion happens to be. It usually makes me angry when
people tend to be clannish. If people of a particular religion or group
exclude me as a person, I have a big problem with that. Most of us
generally have a tendency to dislike people who dislike us. In other
words, I have learned to despise racists, no matter what race they
happen to belong to themselves. My newfound desire for tolerance is
all about genuinely giving everyone a chance as an individual, instead
of blindly categorizing him or her by stereotype as part of a group.
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mind open and make a sincere commitment to understand where
other people are coming from and to see every situation in life from
their point of view. Until you’re able to crash through your personal
barriers, you’ll never be able to move on to achieve the greater levels
of success. Dedicate all of your energy toward positive goals
eliminating barriers and distractions.
The bottom line is all about the bottom line. In today’s world chances
are you’ll never be prosperous or successful if you’ve built walls
between you and other people. Reach out and embrace diversity and
you’ll find out those people are really not much different than you are.
I have many personal friends who fall into some of the categories and
mentalities I’m describing in this book. There’s nothing wrong with
anyone choosing to be any way they want to be as long as they
respect my right not to be like them. A simple philosophy left over from
the seventies still guides my judgment...You have the right to do
whatever you want as long as it doesn’t interfere with the rights of
others.
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or Newsweek, the news is the same. The one thing most of those laid-
off people have in common is they trusted and depended on their
company and their government to take care of them for the rest of
their lives. They have what I describe as a retirement mentality.
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The one thing in that article that jumped off of the pages and grabbed
me by the throat was on the last page. The author(s) quoted an
outplacement job counselor from Dallas, Texas, John McDorman. His
recommendation was for these corporate executives to consider
abandoning their job searches and investigate the possibility of
acquiring or starting their own business.
Here in the early years of the new millennium, most of the work force
will consists of people in their late twenties through their early forties…
Generation X employees…these people can expect to experience
multiple job changes over the course of their lifetime. In the modern
workforce, neither the employees nor the employers view their
employment contract as a lifelong relationship. For most of the people
who are still running in the twenty-first century rat race, it’s going to be
a bumpy ride. You must take control of your destiny. Even if you’re
young and optimistic, chances are the retirement income you were
counting on will never materialize. That’s why it makes so much sense
for younger people to grab hold of their destiny and start planning to
own their own business now.
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There’s no security
There are no guarantees in life. Don’t count on Social Security. It
probably won’t be there for you. Politicians have gutted the Social
Security fund. They’ve borrowed trillions against your money to fund
other programs.
Personally, I’ll never retire. I’m having too much fun. The very concept
of retirement horrifies me. What a repulsive idea. I already have a
Gold Watch and, if I really wanted another one, then I’d just go out and
buy one, or two, or three, or four more.
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at the crowd, soaking up the applause and then, suddenly, a weird
confused look will appear on my contorted face…I’ll grab my chest
and go…“Argh-gh-gh-gh”…my eyes will roll up in my head ... then I’ll
fall straight backwards...thud…one last wheezy exhale and then…
curtains…the end! I intend to go out with style.
Retirement is only a goal for bored people who hate their work. People
who genuinely love what they do would never want to retire. I prefer to
die working, vibrant and alive rather than to die miserable, sitting
around waiting for death. One thing you can be sure of is I’ll be alive
until the very moment I die.
It all boils down to priorities. Some of us are destined to grab for the
golden ring while others are destined to play shuffleboard at the home.
Personally, I intend to die while I’m still making a significant difference.
There are those people who may be content to retire and get a part-
time job handing out the carts at Wal-Mart. Well, if that’s what you
want, go for it. I suppose that’s a beautiful thing too.
Vacation mentality
Have you been infected with the disease I call the vacation mentality?
If you live to play, if you’re one of those people who are continually
planning your next vacation, forget it!
Vacation mentality people are always looking for a day off and can
hardly wait for five o’clock to roll around. They’re still lobbying for the
four-day workweek. Every Friday by two o’clock, they’re already down
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the road off for the weekend. Vacation mentality people always show
up late and leave early.
This is experience talking now. I’ve known many people who just jump
out there and start a business because they think it’s going to be easy.
Believe me; whatever you are doing right now is probably a whole hell
of a lot easier than starting and running your own business.
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for them. They weren’t prepared, they didn’t have the right
temperament, and they went into it for all of the wrong reasons from
the offset.
Owning your own business and being your own boss is not for
everyone. It takes a certain type of person. Regardless, if you buy into
my observations about this or not, this chapter should be insightful
when you are dealing with others. Through the years of interacting
with my fellow human beings in assorted situations and
circumstances, I have developed the nasty habit of categorizing
everyone I meet. After I have gotten to know them, I can usually
categorize just about everyone’s personality into to one of these
niches... stuffing them into one box or another.
Read this next chapter with a fully opened mind and see if you can
spot yourself and some of the other supporting actors in your life.
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To me, money is important but it’s just one of the ways winners keep
score.
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Of course you might be one of those leadership motivated people.
This is a close relative of that recognition motivated wimp I described
in the previous paragraph.
There is clearly a need in this world for the artists and the entertainers.
I sincerely love these people! It’s perfectly wonderful. They dance to
their own music. If this is the way they’ve chosen to live their lives, I’m
in total accord with them. I am only pointing out the obvious. They
rarely make good business people. It’s something about which side of
the brain their life is operating out of. Anyway, I don’t have anything
against them and many of them actually do become wealthy. They just
don’t fit into the entrepreneurial profile described in this forum.
Average people
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Success motivated people will have the money, the recognition, and
the quality time those other shallow, frustrated, personalities only
dream about. Success motivated people are true leaders because
success draws others to you. There’s even a little artistic side to them
because you must be extremely creative to achieve. Success
motivated people are naturally charitable and giving. They’re always
reaching out and helping others to achieve. Success motivated people
have strong ethics and morals, ideals and loyalty. They’ve no time to
become ensnared in petty intrigues and other insignificant distractions
in their lives. They’re totally focused on goals and principles. And, as
you may have already guessed, success motivated people are the
leaders, looked up to and recognized by others. And yes, they’re
artistic and imaginative.
Real winners in life are sensitive and caring about those who have
less. Remember, poverty is not a virtue and being poor is not noble.
The best way to help the poor is not by supporting them for the rest of
their lives or, worse yet, by becoming one of them. Now please, don’t
misinterpret what I’m trying to say here. I’m not putting down poor
people. And, yes I do have compassion and there’s charity in my
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heart. I clearly make a distinction in my mind and I am always ready to
help those who truly are in need.
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My personal opinion of the public school system is admittedly
negative. Excuse me; I feel our young people are being systematically
deprogrammed. Our public institutions train children to become just
another ant on the anthill. Our ‘alleged’ educational system injects our
children with ever-larger doses of conformity...systematically
assassinating young competitive spirits.
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children, Tee-Ball is beginner’s baseball for five and six year-old
children (mostly boys). Instead of having a pitcher, the little kid stands
at the plate and hits a ball off of a tee.
Those games are hilarious. At that age, children are not yet
completely focused and, one might guess, they tend to be somewhat
uncoordinated. Truthfully, if one of the kids were to hit the ball directly
to the pitcher, the kid who stands where a pitcher would have been if
there was a pitcher, it would probably be an infield homerun.
Well, the year Zach played; they threw this big pool party for the team
at the end of the season. All of the little kids and their parents showed
up and had hot dogs and Cokes® and party games. Basically,
everyone said his or her good-byes until next season.
Then the coach gathered up the team one last time and conducted a
little ceremony where he said something memorable about each one
of the kids…and then he gave each kid on the team a trophy. He
even gave a trophy to the little kid who urinated right in the middle of
center field during a Saturday game. You heard me; he urinated right
in front of all of the parents and spectators. We’re talking about the
same little kid who liked to sit in center field during a game and fill his
glove up with dirt and throw it up in the air.
Watching the coach give that particular little kid a trophy sent me into
orbit. You will rarely ever see me as angry as I was on that occasion.
My kid was a fairly good little Tee-Ball player; he worked hard and
practiced a lot to earn it. He certainly deserved his trophy. But why
were we giving a trophy to this little kid? I’m sorry. I just don’t get it. I
never will understand the concept of rewarding losers just because
they showed up.
Excuse me, I really don’t care, take this anyway you want...little loser
kids don’t deserve a trophy. What kind of message is that? Did that
child learn anything about teamwork or winning? Twenty years later
he’ll show up in the work force, still goofing off, still losing and still
expecting a free trophy. I’m sorry.
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Did you ever wonder why so many young people aren’t able to
function in today’s society? They’re not being taught pride in personal
achievement and personal accomplishment. Could it be because
they’ve never been taught to respect winning? Is it any wonder so few
people develop the entrepreneurial mindset?
Then again, a few years later, I refused to let Zach play soccer in the
community soccer league because some of the mothers had gotten
together and voted not to keep score during the games. I interpreted
this message we were sending to the kids to mean... “We endorse
losing.”
It’s sad. These kids will go through life with minimal accomplishments,
aiming at low goals. No one kept score because we didn’t want to
embarrass the little loser kids. They’ll never realize the feeling of
exhilaration for being a winner at anything. If you’ve ever wondered
why more and more kids today appear to be low achievers, well,
maybe you’re right. They’re systematically programmed to accept that
losing is okay. That’s the way we raise them these days.
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line to challenge the wall. Sometimes it may be more than two hours
after you signed up initially before you even get a shot at it. Young kids
and adults, men and women, boys and girls, very few people make it
even half way up before they become fatigued. One after another, they
fall off of the wall and are lowered down by their safety harnesses.
When he was only twelve years old I’m proud to say my son, Zachary,
made it to the top of the wall and rung the bell at the top on four
different occasions; which, by the way, is every time he ever attempted
it. They gave him a tee shirt that says, I Climbed the Wall. That shirt
was like a trophy, one of his proudest possessions. He wore it until it
virtually fell apart. I would doubt if even one person out of fifty who
sets out to climb the wall ever makes it to top even once in their
lifetime, much less four times. Zach was not particularly athletic then
but strength alone is not what gets you to the top. My son got to the
top of the wall four times because there was no other option in his
mind but to make it all the way. He willed his way to the top when
others gave up. There were many people who made an attempt to do
it, who were physically able, but they weren’t committed enough and
their character was not strong enough to get there. They could have
done it but they gave up. I have taught my son to have heart.
Eagle Scout
I’m fairly certain most of you are not going to lay this book down right
now and run out and join the Scouts. If you have children, I strongly
advise you to get them involved in Scouting.
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Sometimes during my seminars I’ll ask for a show of hands. “How
many of you were in scouting when you were a kid?”
At that point it is rare that even one hand will remain raised.
You see, many people get into Scouting when they are young but very
few see it all of the way to the goal.
Ross Perot, Sam Walton, Gerald Ford and many others; some of the
wealthiest and most successful people of our time, some of our
greatest leaders, were also Eagle Scouts. I am proud to be associated
with this often maligned fraternity of achievers.
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Imagine that, just as I was writing this chapter about winning and
competition, Rocky II comes on the television and Adrian tells Rocky
to go for it. Of all of the movies that could possibly enhance the mood
as I am writing a chapter about the importance of winning and the
competitive spirit, Rocky II has got to be the epitome of metaphors.
You know, this may sound funny to you, but right now, at this very
moment, as I am writing these words; tears are rolling down my face
and I’m laughing out loud.
I’ve seen every one of the Rocky movies at least a zillion times and
still, it never ceases to affect me this way. Right now, I’m still watching
the movie as Rocky is training, lifting weights, doing one-arm pushups
and running through the streets of Philadelphia. The Rocky theme
music is playing and here I am, sitting at my desk, in front of the word-
processor, emotionally involved…cheering and laughing out loud. This
is the same incredible feeling I always feel when it gets to this part of
the movie. I love winners, especially underdogs. Winning feels good!
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Know God
If you’re ever going to be truly prosperous, you’ve got to believe in a
power bigger than yourself. Yes, it’s true; many rich people do not
have a relationship with God. None of this will make sense to you until
you realize that Prosperity means more than money and material
wealth. This concept is a key philosophy, a requirement; you must
have a relationship with God before you can unlock the vault. It’s a
basic non-negotiable element in The Equation.
Prosperity is spiritual
I believe everyone has to have a fundamental Spiritual Base. There is
a God. Personally, I choose to be a Methodist but no matter what your
religion is, I believe it’s probably all about the same God anyway. I
could not envision my God, the Supreme Being, the all-knowing, all-
powerful, all-seeing, all-loving God would have created all of these
different religions. Religion is the creation of men and is the result of
men’s schemes and attempts to dominate and control other men
(women). It’s a shame to think men have created so many different
religions in an attempt to separate and control each other but,
unfortunately; that’s the way I see it. If you are to truly enjoy the
freedom of religion, you have to respect others right to believe in
whatever they choose without interference. Regardless of your
religion, whether you are a Christian, a Jew, a Muslim, or of any other
faith, I am saying you must believe in something. If you are to ever
become totally successful and prosperous, there must be a higher
source in your life. In this complex and diverse world, there are
thousands of different religions and beliefs. I will never interfere with
your right to believe or not to believe in whatever you choose and I
demand you respect my right to believe and live according to my
beliefs.
The Equation demands tolerance and respect for the beliefs of others.
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It’s always frustrating to see and hear the same old tired,
sanctimonious crowd of modern day Pharisees trying to sell the rest of
us to buy-in on the guilt trip that there’s something unholy, sacrilegious
or unChristian about becoming a financial success.
For the first twenty-five years of His life, I’m told Jesus was a
carpenter, which was among the ultimate high-tech professions of the
day. If you’ve ever visited the Holy Land, you may have noticed there
is a very noticeable scarcity of trees in that part of the world.
This short chapter is the only reference I will make to religion because
I believe your beliefs are personal to you. I’m positive you didn’t buy
this book to receive a sermon about my religion, so I won’t give you
one.
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A meaningful relationship with another person is essential to realizing
the full payout of The Prosperity Equation.
Work ethic
Time management, discipline, intensity and focus; these are basic
elements of the Equation. As I mentioned at the very beginning, when
you first picked up this book and opened it, at the exact point where
the relationship between us (you and I) was just beginning; this book
is written for those people who are willing to do those things others are
not willing to do to get what they say they want. In my experience most
of the people who say they want to be wealthy, in reality, are not willing
to pay the price.
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hard or as long as it takes. Achieving prosperity and an abundant
lifestyle requires dedication and sacrifice. Most people would rather
wish upon a lottery ticket than to take their destiny into their own
hands.
Unless you’ve read the first part of this book with an objective mind,
you’ll never be able to grasp the mechanics of prosperity and personal
wealth, which I am about to outline in the other parts. Success is more
about the philosophy and the mindset than it is about the mechanical
techniques for attaining wealth.
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