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Opposing Voice Essay 19503

They say stay at home mothers are better at nurturing their

children, I believe working mothers raise responsible children.

They say stay at home mothers raise better children as they share special bond. A child is vulnerable and

requires love and attention, who else other than his mother can fulfil this requirement. Mothers who do

not go out for work are always around their children, catering to their needs and looking out for them.

She is more involved in the child’s life hence can guide the right way and correct their mistakes this

develops a sense of security and it’s less likely that the child will be involved in unsuitable activities.

People believe that the man is the provider while the woman is the backbone of the household, and that

it’s her sole responsibility to concentrate her efforts towards the wellbeing of her family. Mothers invest

all their time and energy towards the development for their children, a research from the Washington

University School of medicine revealed that children whose mother nurture them are smarter than

others.They also say that children are less stressed when their mothers spend more time with them,

because of the connection they have. When stay at home mothers were asked about their favorite part

of the day, many replied that it’s when their child shares every little detail of their day, be it a day at

preschool or after a hectic day at work and when their child consults them in their decisions .People also

argue that mothers who stay at home make sure to instill moral values which helps to keeps their off

springs closer to the family. Children of stay at home mothers grow up to be social adults with high

morals and understanding of their role in the society.

Opposing Voice Essay

I believe that working mothers raise individuals that are self-sufficient and responsible. Mother is the

first role model in the life of her child, she is the person they look up to. Women who pursue their

career have high self-esteem, and they set an example for children to follow their dreams and not settle

for less. This motivates them to work hard, and makes them career orientated. A research by Harvard

further proves daughters of working women earn 23% more than their peers. In my opinion working

mothers put in extra effort so that their child does not feel neglected, therefore they maintain work life

balance. At times when mothers are only spending time at home looking after others, they feel socially

isolated and frustrated at times which in turn has negative impact on the child. While a mother who

works might have less time but will give her entire attention and love in that little time period. Working

women are financially independent and can take up or share responsibility of the provider for the

family. Therefore children do not grow into predetermined gender roles and are not reluctant to break

stereotypes. Harvard research also states that sons of working mothers can pitch in household chores

and are not dominated by the patriarchal traits of society. Children are like oft clay and can molded into

any shape. Mothers who stay at home cater to all the needs of her child making him depend on her for

everything as he knows that mom can take care of everything, on the contrary working mothers

organize and allocate responsibilities which makes the child less reliant on others. I strongly believe that

working women are superheroes without capes as they nurture their children to gain long term benefits.