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CO NTE NTS
06 Profile: cover artist
Hülya Özdemir
08 NATURE
10 Nature notes
14 Birth flowers and
gemstones
18 Pull-out calendar
20 Botanical painting
24 Inspired by: wilderness
26 Rewild your life
32 Create a forest glade
vignette
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36 MIND & BODY 5
38 Wellbeing notes
42 Our fascination with
the moon
46 Listen to your intuition
50 Your own oracle cards
52 The Hawaiian practice
of forgiveness
56 Boundaries around
forgiveness
59 Forgiveness worksheets
63 A second chance at life
66 HOME
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68 Home notes
71 Home is where the art is
102 TRAVEL
104 Travel notes
108 Get creative and stay
connected with family
112 Inspired by: mail
114 The beauty of mail art
120 Revisiting places with
fresh eyes
124 Explore more:
train journeys
126 Listen to our playlist
128 Susannah Conway’s
column
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Paintings and photographs: Hülya Özdemir
TI MELESS PO RTRAITS
Tu r k i s h a r t i s t H ü l y a Ö z d e m i r c r e a t e d o u r s t u n n i n g c o v e r a r t w o r k t h i s i s s u e .
She talks about her portrayal of beautiful, strong women.
When did you realise you wanted to be an artist? myself is that when people see one of my paintings, they should
I can say, literally, I was born this way. I realised I would say, this is Hülya Özdemir.
be an artist when I was at high school, when I was a teenager.
What have been your favourite projects to work on?
You portray beautiful, exotic women, often with Last year I worked on a special project for Penguin Books
flora and fauna. What inspires your pieces? inspired by International Women’s Day – the Sisterhood
I’ve always loved painting portraits, especially female portraits. Collection. Another favourite project is a series of seasonal
Any woman can inspire me. My first portraits were of Tibetan posters for a shopping centre in Osaka in Japan.
women. Their colourful, traditional clothes, dark red cheeks
and accessories influenced me a lot. What are you reading and listening to?
I’ve just finished a book of Sabahattin Ali’s stories. I’m
Can you describe your creative process? listening to Damon Albarn – Strange News From Another Star.
Most things happen spontaneously while I’m painting;
I do not sketch beforehand. I draw directly on paper, and start Does your art carry a message?
to paint. I rarely know what will happen next. I like Shel Silverstein’s quote: “Never explain what you
do. It speaks for itself. You only muddle it by talking about it.”
What is the best creative advice you’ve received? If I have to say something, I would only say “women exist!”.
Be yourself and create your own style. My advice to Follow Hülya on Instagram at @huliaozdemir
Left: Hülya’s
covers for the
Penguin Sisterhood
Collection – six
classics about
fearless women
written by women.
Right: “I feel most
calm when I finish
drawing and start
painting.”
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W i l d e r n e s s i s n o t
a l u x u r y b u t n e c e s s i t y
o f t h e h u m a n s p i r i t .
N AT U R E
Rewilding: the word conjures up great forests,
huge meadows with grasses as tall as your
knees and animals running free; nature taking
care of itself. Our regular nature writer, Tiffany
Francis-Baker, delves into this hot topic of
modern conservation and asks how it can
also take care of us. Follow her tips for how
we can rewild on a personal and local level.
Elsewhere, wild flowers provide some of
the inspiration in artist Harriet de Winton’s
watercolour lesson this issue, and we turn
to birth flowers, and gems, to inspire a year
of natural gifts with an illustrated pull-out
birthday calendar to match.
Quote: Edward Abbey; illustration: ArdeaA / Getty Images
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Photograph: Smith Scott Mullan
N A T U R E
N O T E S
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sapplings and a sip of the
w o r l d ’s m o s t d e c a d e n t
coffee (made in a very
i n t e re s t i n g w a y… ! )
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Fo r c e n t u r i e s , f l o w e r s a n d
gemstones have been associated
with particular months. Julia
W i l l s i n ve s t i ga t e s M o t h e r N a t u re ’s
perfect presents and discovers
some surprises.
Illustration: Esther Curtis
gods to military victories, by garlanding
their towns with roses, violets, lilies and
laurels. It’s likely they gave flowers on
birthdays too, leading historians to believe 15
that the Romans may have seeded the idea
of birth month flowers.
Having a January birthday, my flowers
are the carnation and snowdrop. While
Humans love making connections. Of I can see the snowdrop as a foot soldier
course, it’s in our nature to seek out of the floral year, the carnation was a
similarities with one another, but we surprise. But, digging deeper, I discovered
choose to look for shared traits in the those Romans had been cultivating
natural world too. Owls may be wise and carnations over 2,000 years ago and, months around the globe. December,
wolves wicked, but few alliances have true to their endless ingenuity, building being winter in the northern hemisphere
endured longer than our fellowship with greenhouses to nurture flowers through and summer in the southern, has three
flowers and gemstones. Throughout the colder months. Could my January flowers – narcissus, holly and poinsettia.
history artists, poets, royalty and religion carnation have flourished back in the Months, too, often boast more than
have endowed them with human quirks Roman Empire? one stone with, yes, December again,
in a shorthand that remains alive and well It seems reasonable to imagine that hitting the jackpot of turquoise, tanzanite
today. Shrinking violets, rough diamonds. geography, as well as history, may lie and zircon. However, when it comes to
But where did these traditions come from? behind the different flowers picked for gems, their differing prices and recently
And why are they still so popular? discovered stones add to the choice.
Think of the meanings of flowers and When it comes to traits, flowers tend
you’ll probably think of the Victorians. to speak modestly – of faithfulness,
However, the tradition is thought to be patience and love. Gemstones, being more
much older, starting with the Greeks and expensive than flowers (tulip fever and
Romans. While the Greeks wove flowers other historical floral obsessions aside!)
into their myths – like Narcissus, the
vain youth who fell in love with his own
reflection and faded away leaving the
blooms that bear his name – it was the
Romans who were the true florists. They
celebrated everything, from festivals of the
and lasting lifetimes, tell tales of royalty,
power and protection. Scholars believe
that the tradition of birth stones may have
arisen from the Old Testament and the
twelve stones in Aaron, the High Priest
of the Israelites’, breastplate. But despite
their different origins, do they speak the
same language?
At first glance May’s emeralds, July’s
rubies and September’s sapphires seem
to have little in common with their
16 floral twins, lily-of-the-valley, larkspur
and asters. Yet, look closer and there’s
communication. The emerald may have
been Cleopatra’s favourite sparkler, but
it also carries the humbler meaning of
renewal; lily-of-the-valley’s Latin name,
Convallaria magalis means ‘belonging to
May’. Renewal and May, the lushest of
spring months, seem on speaking terms Diamonds may be forever, but the
to me. July’s ruby, ancient India’s ‘king of longevity of all gemstones made them
precious stones’ epitomises passion while precious talismans. Aquamarine, March’s
larkspur whispers ardent attachment. And stone, derives its name from the Latin for
September? It’s the most harmonious of seawater and was carried by sailors eager
all, agreeing on what nurtures domestic for a safe voyage. March’s daffodil stands
bliss – the aster meaning patience, the for hope too. August’s peridot brings the
sapphire, deep emotional love. wearer power and luck. And the gladiolus?
Back to those Romans again, who called
this bloom the gladiator’s flower and
wove them into winners’ wreathes, as
trophies of their power and, some might
say, luck. And my carnation? Both it
and the January garnet mean devotion,
particularly religious. The stone was one
of the medieval church’s favourites while
the flower’s other name, ‘dianthus’, comes
from the Greek – ‘dios’ (god) and ‘anthus’
(flower) – literally, God’s flower.
April’s diamond and sweet pea talk of
passion and sensuality; June’s pearls and
roses chatter about innocence and passion,
as befits the wedding season. October’s
opal and November’s topaz, thought to be
named from the Sanskrit, ‘tapas’ meaning
Illustration: Esther Curtis
such as Solomon’s Seal, Jacob’s Ladder
and Euphorbia, hand-tied in a dreamy
haze of green and white. July’s dazzles
with flowers the pinks and purples of
glimmering rubies, while September’s
asters are complemented by sapphire-blue
flowers.
Meanwhile, Catherine Hills
(catherinehillsjewellery.com), having
designed the jewellery for the Harry
Potter films, knows all about the magic
of ‘philosopher’s stones’. Renowned for
her bespoke birthstone ball pendants, she
attributes the stones’ continued popularity 17
with precisely that otherworldly sense
of protection and good fortune. In her
creations, inspired by the sun and moon,
each stone sits inside like a secret message
to the wearer.
‘fire’, both rekindle brightness in the Enduring. Personal. Distinctive. Birth
darkest months. Similarly, the marigold stones and flowers remain as captivatingly
and chrysanthemum are floral sunbursts special as they were thousands of years
carrying messages of renewed optimism. ago, connecting us to nature, to ourselves
December’s turquoise and narcissus and the past. Which, in a modern world,
suggest palettes of wintry skies and snow, beguiled by every latest gizmo and trend,
and both stand for hope and peace. makes them more precious than ever.
And then there’s February. Rather a
puzzle since the violet stands for modesty
and the amethyst for power. However, the
amethyst’s name comes from the Greek,
‘amethystos’, meaning a remedy against
drunkenness; Renaissance lovers carried
amethysts to cool their red-hot ardour.
The stone, it seems, warded off their
different intoxications, perhaps returning
them to the violet’s modesty, after all?
Tales of gladiators’ flowers and sailors’
lucky charms still fascinate us today,
while the traits associated with the blooms
and gems make us feel connected. Hardly
surprising then, that they inspire creatives
and artists too.
The Real Flower Company (realflowers.
co.uk) recently debuted its range of
birthday bouquets, themed around both
the flowers and stones. May echoes lily-
of-the-valley and uses seasonal flowers
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This any-year poster is the perfect
place to record friends’ and family’s
birthdays, plus you’ll get a heads
up from Mother Nature herself on what
could be a suitable gift or colour theme
for your present, card or wrapping:
their birthstone and birth flower.
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F R A M E
I T I N
F L O R A L S
Artist Harriet de Winton shares her love
o f c a p t u r i n g f l o w e r s i n w a t e r c o l o u r, a n d
her favourite decorative techniques.
I
like breaking the rules a little bit. I’m naturally messy, have always
coloured outside of the lines and I’ve never met a wobbly stem or
wonky flower that I didn’t love. No two plants are identical, so the
same should be said for your paintings. 21
This style of painting combines the detail found in original botanical
studies and the energy of loose watercolour painting. It appears effortless,
but requires a relaxed confidence both in the painting process and in yourself.
Flower painting is a bit like being a florist: you’re building an arrangement
from scratch.
My life and work revolves around flowers. I’m an artist and stationer who
paints almost exclusively in watercolour, and I am commissioned to paint
flowers more than any other subject matter.
The only thing I love more than a single flower is a whole bunch, complete
with wild, overflowing greenery. Foliage is a thing of beauty all on its own – in
fact, my husband and I even decorated our wedding venue exclusively with
houseplants and greenery.
I am a self-taught watercolourist with a patchy memory for flower names
– it is safe to say I’m no traditionalist! My short time working in a florist
introduced me to the seasonal swell of new blooms and colour palettes.
I would take this inspiration home with me every night to work on my
watercolour commissions.
Being trusted to build a bouquet from the assorted buckets of blooms (and
the pressure of assembling it under the customer’s watchful gaze) provided
me with both the inspiration and confidence to put together painted floral
arrangements.
Flowers and watercolours are the perfect partners; like getting lost in the
spiralling petals of a rose, the more you explore watercolour, the more you will
discover its subtle surprises.
I am still making discoveries after all these years, but the freshness of
colour racing across a wet page, triggered by a single dab of the brush, gets
me every time.
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technique on
your mail
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You can use negative space to create crisp,
contemporary shapes for your abundant blooms to be
placed against. Painted borders can be achieved either
by drawing a pencil outline or using low-tack washi tape
to mask out a shape. Here we try out both techniques
and see what painting opportunities each one offers.
P E N C I L
22 B O R D E R S
I have chosen a vivid palette, rich with colours of palms, proteas and
peonies. Each step works towards creating full borders, but you
can also use this as a handy guide for creating corner details by just
following the first three steps.
Drawing a pencil border allows you to overlap plants over the front
of the shape, you just need to be extra careful when painting close
to the outline. It is difficult to fully erase pencil that has been painted
over, so keep your lines faint.
In the bottom corner, paint a cluster of flowers and stems over the
3 top of the pencil shape. If you just want to create border accents,
this is a really nice place to stop.
LINE BORDER
This technique can also be used to create long lines of painted borders and is
just as effective with a less loose style. When painting spaced, thin stems along
a masked line, it is important to pack them together fairly tightly and paint a few
leaves and thicker lines across the masked line. If you have too much negative
space, you will lose the sense of a crisp border line when the tape is peeled away.
Extract taken
from New
Botanical Painting
by Harriet
de Winton,
published by Ilex.
ilexinstant.com
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Back to
nature
Rewilding is a hot topic in modern
conservation, but can it help save the
p l a n e t ? T i f f a n y Fr a n c i s - B a k e r e x p l o r e s
why the world needs more wilderness.
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Illustration: Esther Curtis
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ewilding is a word that ignites the imagination.
It conjures up tangled forests, murmuring
wildflower meadows and wolves running free
through the Scottish mountains. But what does
rewilding actually mean? The logistics are recent studies have shown, time spent in nature is vital
simple. Rewilding means leaving nature to take care of for our own wellbeing, health and creativity. A wilder
itself rather than enforcing a human-based management world can teach us all to let go of control, observe the
system. The word first appeared in American print in the natural flow of things, embrace the unknown and enjoy
1990s, but the philosophy behind it has since taken hold the surprises life has in store for us.
around the world, with many people now believing it to So how can we start to welcome in the wilderness
be a key part of the fight for a sustainable future. for ourselves?
28 Behind it all is the idea that nature knows best. For
years, humans have interfered in the rhythms and
cycles of the natural world, polluting the air, earth and Rewilding at home
oceans, and causing ecosystems to be completely tipped According to the Wildlife Trusts, private gardens in the
off balance. Places that were once rich in wildlife and UK cover an area bigger than all the nature reserves
greenery have become barren, and we are now facing a combined, estimated at over 10 million acres. These
huge ecological crisis that could, at worst, lead to our own spaces can often be concrete wastelands, but if they
extinction. Nature thrives through balance, and if this were to become safe, healthy spaces for wildlife to thrive
balance is lost, everything suffers. instead, they could also help connect other green spaces
So what does rewilding involve? Well, nothing. Or to create ‘corridors’ for wildlife to travel.
almost nothing. Rewilding is about leaving a natural A world without bees and butterflies seems impossible
space to grow and develop on its own. The natural world to imagine, but a recent study suggests that 40 percent
has evolved over millions of years to exist in harmony of global insect species are declining and a third are
and balance while also providing everything we need endangered. One of the easiest ways to rewild your
to survive – fresh air, food and clean water. But with a garden is to encourage pollinators by planting pollen-rich
recent UN report suggesting that one million species flowers with a range of flowering periods to ensure they
now face extinction worldwide, it’s more important than never go hungry. Wildflowers are particularly suitable
ever to not only protect the wild spaces we have, but start as they’ll look after themselves and keep reseeding year
bringing more of them back. We are all part of nature, after year. Wildlife gardener Kate Bradbury suggests
and without a healthy ecosystem all life on earth is at leaving swathes of long grass and flowers – they might
risk of extinction. seem less tidy than neat border plants, but that’s exactly
The good news is that nature is resilient. Research what wildlife needs. Ponds also provide a great water
has proven time and again that with a little space and source for insects, amphibians and small mammals, and
time, the natural world is capable of recovering quickly. one of the best things you can do is cut a CD-sized hole
Rewilding can mean anything from growing wildflowers at the bottom of your fences to allow hedgehogs to travel
in a corner of your garden, to reintroducing wolves in the between gardens.
Midlands. The more we can commit to, the fuller our You don’t need to live in the countryside to rewild your
ecosystem will be and the healthier it becomes. And as garden. Nature is everywhere, and the smallest garden or
balcony can still help local wildlife stay nourished. Plant a
window box with nectar-rich plants like lavender, chives,
thyme, marjoram or Mexican fleabane, or sow night-
scented stocks for moths. Hang bird feeders from the
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windows, pop a bird box on the wall, and make a balcony
bee hotel to provide a home for urban bees and insects.
Visit wildlifetrusts.org/gardening for more tips on creating
your own urban wildlife garden.
reduced. So far, the beavers have settled happily into
their new forest, giving birth to two kits in early 2019.
The wider community
The more land dedicated to rewilding, the more
successful it will be, and for farmers and landowners Around the world
with a few acres under their control, the results can Beyond the British Isles, other countries are discovering
be extraordinary. The Knepp Castle Estate in West the benefits of bringing nature back to heal our
Sussex was once an intensive farm that rarely made a landscapes. In northern Ethiopia, a 30-year regreening 31
profit. The owners, Isobella Tree and Charlie Burrell, project has turned degraded wasteland back into a forest,
decided to take the plunge and transform their estate which in turn has had a positive impact on water supplies
into a rewilding project, allowing natural processes to and wildlife. The infamous famines of the 1980s were
take over rather than aiming for specific business goals. due to a range of factors, but one of the big contributors
Their free-roaming grazing animals such as cattle, was deforestation. Without trees, the light hilly soils
ponies, pigs and deer are helping to nourish the degraded were unprotected from the sun, wind and intense bursts
soil, as well as creating a mosaic of different habitats of rain, and it became almost impossible to grow food.
across the land. They now specialise in organic meat Today, the landscape is completely different. Mekele
and eco-tourism, and are turning a profit for the first University in Tigray has been at the forefront of a
time in decades without the use of intensive pesticides rewilding project that has been restoring woodland, and
and fertilisers. Even better, they have seen astonishing Sarah Tewolde-Berhan, one of the forestry specialists,
results in biodiversity, and are now a breeding hotspot for explains why it has been so successful: “Nature has this
rare species like purple emperor butterflies, turtle doves tendency to heal itself, and we just need to harness that.”
and nightingales. For more information on the Knepp In the US state of Montana, the American Prairie
transformation, read Isabella’s book Wilding. Reserve project is stitching together three million acres
Rewilding can not only benefit food production. In of public and private lands to connect fragmented spaces
Yorkshire, Forestry England reintroduced two Eurasian and create a huge, healthy prairie ecosystem. Prairies
beavers into Cropton Forest to see whether their presence were once one of the most ecologically rich landscapes on
could reduce flooding. Ecologist Cath Bashforth calls earth, but they are now one of the most threatened and
them “natural habitat engineers, restoring complex globally impacted habitats.
wetland habitats and providing habitat for declining One of the reasons for this is the disappearance of the
species whilst slowing the flow of water downstream.” wild bison, which almost vanished from over-hunting
Flooding in Yorkshire reaches catastrophic levels every in the 1800s. As the continent’s largest mammal,
year, and the project managers are hoping that by bison were crucial in shaping the prairie ecosystem, as
bringing beavers back to their natural habitats – 300 prey for wolves and bears, carcasses for animals and
years after they were hunted to extinction in the UK – plants, mosaic habitats created by grazing patterns,
the ecosystem will be rebalanced and flooding will be and wallowing in mud to create small waterholes. The
project, like many others, will take time and patience,
but the outlook is already looking positive and will help
inform the wider perspective behind rewilding our
precious natural spaces.
Illustration: Esther Curtis
Into the
wild woods
Use your crafting skills to bring nature into your home.
This verdant vignette of a forest glade, designed by
Esther Curtis, will rewild your room
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Photography: Dave Caudery
CREATING YOUR SHADOW BOX
Pull out the cardboard insert over the page and gather together your
k i t : c r a f t k n i f e , c u t t i n g m a t , s a f e t y r u l e r, g l u e , a n d s t i c k y f o a m p a d s
Step 1
Using a cutting
mat and a scalpel
or craft knife,
carefully cut out all
the elements of the
vignette according to
the instructions on
the sheet. For fiddly
areas you might find
it easier to rotate 33
the card around the
scalpel, rather than
moving the blade.
Step 2
Using a ruler to keep
your lines straight,
score along all the
white dotted lines
around the edge of
the sheets (as well as
on the smaller pieces
such as the bear).
Using a scalpel and
ruler, cut along the
solid white lines to
create tabs at the
corners of the scene.
Step 3
Fold the card sheet
in on itself along
the scored lines,
with the river scene
at the back on the
inside and the flower
scene at the front
on the outside. Tuck
in the tabs and fold
34 the longer flaps over
them, and glue in
place (or you could
use double-sided
sticky tape).
Step 4
Arrange the smaller
cut-out elements – the
flowers, clouds and
animals – on
the different layers
of the vignette and
fix in place with
sticky foam pads
(you could use glue
but sticky foam pads
will add extra depth
to the scene).
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I F YOU
GO DOWN
TO T HE
WOO DS…
The illusion of depth
created by this scene
gives the impression
of standing in a lush
forest, watching a
river snake off to the
horizon. Keep this
vignette on your desk
to inspire thoughts of
the great outdoors and
weekend expeditions.
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T i f f a n y Fr a n c i s - B a k e r e x p l o r e s
how we can use the power of the
moon to fuel our creativity and
ground us in modern life.
I
first started noticing the moon when I was writing
my third book about nature after dark. Not that
I hadn’t noticed it before; on a clear night when the
moon is full, it’s almost impossible not to be drawn
to its glow as it hangs in the sky like a cold, white
cheese. The moon has been a constant companion
throughout my life, but like so much of the natural
world, it’s been easy to take this constancy for granted
and forget to pay it the attention it deserves. Our
ancestors were different. They worshipped the moon 43
and sun as powerful deities – particularly the sun, which
gives life to every plant and creature on Earth. The
moon’s power is perhaps less obvious, but ancient people
still believed in its sacred connection to our planet. Today,
that power is still felt by those who choose to see it – we just
have to know where to look.
Beyond our atmosphere, the sun is thought to be the most
important cosmic body for life on Earth, warming our seas,
generating weather patterns and fuelling the plants that give
us food and oxygen. But scientists also believe the moon has
helped stabilise Earth’s orbit and reduce polar motion, which
has aided in producing our planet’s relatively stable climate. In
this way, some would go as far as to say that the moon, not just
the sun, has helped shape life as we know it.
Elsewhere, the moon influences the 71 percent of the Earth
that’s covered in water. As the moon orbits the Earth, its
gravitational pull causes the closest side of the ocean to rise up
in a tidal bulge; at the same time, the Earth spins and creates a
centrifugal force, the same force that pushes us away from the
centre of a playground roundabout, causing a second tidal bulge
on the farthest side from the moon. This is why we have two
tides each day – one is pulled up by the moon, the other pushed
away by the Earth. Tidal power has now become a major
renewable energy resource, particularly in places like the UK
where we are never more than 70 miles away from the sea.
In Australia, the full moon is a crucial part of one of the
greatest mating rituals on earth. One November night each
year, more than 130 species of coral simultaneously spawn in
the Great Barrier Reef. These species must release their sperm
and eggs at exactly the same moment to ensure successful
reproduction, so they use the light of the full moon as a reef-
wide signal. Around the world, birds have also been shown
to alter their behaviour during different phases of the lunar
cycle. A study involving Leach’s storm petrels suggested the
birds assessed predation risk before flight. On nights with
a full moon, the petrels remained on their nests to avoid
No matter what chaos
comes our way, the
moon will always be
there, a guiding light
through the seasons.
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nest predation from gulls that could see them better in the
bright moonlight.
The relationship between the moon and humankind is less
scientifically proven, but a cultural link to lunacy has existed
for centuries in Western civilisation. In Shakespeare’s Othello,
he writes: “It is the very error of the moon. She comes more
near the Earth than she was wont. And makes men mad.” Both
the Greek philosopher Aristotle and Roman historian Pliny the
Elder suggested that the brain was the “moistest” organ in the
body and therefore, like the oceans, susceptible to the influence
of the moon. Even today, many people believe the powers of
the full moon induce erratic behaviour, and in 2007 several
police departments in the UK added extra officers during the Whether you believe in werewolves or enjoy meditating
full moon to help cope with presumed higher crime rates. But beneath the moon, the lunar cycle is something we can all use
is there any scientific truth behind these beliefs? In a word, no. to ground ourselves. No matter what chaos comes our way, the
While some studies claim to have found links between the moon moon will always be there, a guiding light through the seasons,
and mental health, most of these have been debunked. sometimes hidden beneath the dark clouds, but always waiting,
Women have always nurtured a close connection with the just out of sight. Observing the lunar phases is not only a great
moon. Each month, a woman’s body cleanses and rejuvenates way to form a deeper connection with nature’s rhythms, but it
itself through her menstrual cycle, and although it’s unlikely can also be used as a template for our own energy and creativity,
that each of these cycles will synchronise with the moon, there ebbing and flowing as we encounter different people, places,
is a symmetry between the lunar cycle and the female form. hormones, ideas, triumphs and obstacles.
While some patriarchal cultures associate menstruation with Under the next new moon, write down your intentions for
social taboo, many consider it to be powerful. In pre-Christian the coming month. Think about what you want to create, the
Hawaii, menstruation was a sacred time for women, who were projects you’ve been putting off, or simply a better lifestyle
seen to have the most spiritual power. It was believed that a you’d like to embrace. As the moon waxes, focus on the
bleeding woman was so powerful that if men came too close, decisions you need to make to improve your life, so that when
their soul energy would be sucked out of them. For more on the moon is full you are able to take action and channel your
menstruation, cycles and female empowerment, I recommend energy with determination. As the moon begins to wane, reflect
Maisie Hill’s book Period Power (Green Tree, 2019). inward and focus on gratitude, forgiveness and surrender.
Before you know it, you’re ready for another month, another
new moon, and the start of a new cycle of opportunity –
eternally inspired and encouraged by the natural world, of
which we are all a part.
Artists inspired
by the moon
STEVIE N IC KS
The singer gives gold moon necklaces to women she
feels close to, calling them ‘sisters of the moon’, a phrase
taken from a 1979 Fleetwood Mac song. These women
“deserve to have that inspiration,” she says. “You can
have it all if you want it.”
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Painter, sculptor and ceramicist Miró painted dreamy,
imaginary landscapes exploring humanity, nature and
the cosmos. His famous collection ‘Constellations’ was
Photographs, from top: Richard McCaffrey / Getty Images; Art Institute Chicago; Michael Putland / Getty Images; xxxxxx; Stock Montage / Getty Images; Michael Ochs Archives / Getty Images
DAVID BOWIE
Released just five days before the launch of Apollo 11
in 1969, Bowie’s Space Oddity was originally inspired
by Stanley Kubrick’s 2001: A Space Odyssey. The song
weaves the atmospheric tale of an abandoned astronaut
orbiting Earth. “Thematically, I have always dealt with
alienation and isolation,” observed Bowie.
P INK F LOY D
The eighth studio album The Dark Side of the Moon
was inspired by the darker side of humanity, including
conflict, greed, the passage of time, death and insanity.
Roger Waters reflected on the album’s use of “the sun
and the moon as symbols; the light and the dark; the
good and the bad.”
C RE AT E S PAC E BE CR E AT IV E
Make time for meditation, yoga and Creativity is liberating and it allows
relaxation. Allow the noise to be us to express emotion and feeling. By
loud, then quieten down until you are being creative you allow your intuition
left with yourself and your calm and to naturally flow, so dance, paint and
peaceful mind. This will then help your be free.
intuitive voice to be clear and true.
T RUST
BE HO NEST You need to believe in your intuition,
Be honest with yourself, ask yourself dreams and ideas. Move through life
how you feel about something and intuitively and make the best of life
note down your response. If it feels a bit you possibly can.
confused try journalling, sometimes this
can bring out your true feelings. Train
yourself to trust and use your intuition.
CL EAR THE DEC K
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S P REA D LOVE
When you use your cards,
try the following ‘spreads’
and ask an open question, such
as ‘What do I need to know about
this situation?’.
A popular spread is the three-
card draw, representing ‘past’,
‘present’ and ‘future’. Allow the
words and images to guide your
thoughts. Alternatively, try a
two-card pull: ‘what I need to
receive’, and ‘what I need to
let go’, while you ask an open
question. With practise, you’ll
find the answers are already
within you.
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Photography: Peter Vanosdall
H A V E Y O U
H E A R D O F
H O ’ O P O N O P O N O ?
S a y i t o u t l o u d a n d H o ’o p o n o p o n o ’s r h y t h m i c r e p e t i t i o n s
are an unusual tongue-twister to the non-Hawaiian. An
ancient tradition, it offers a modern-day approach to
forgiving and letting go, as Carole Berger explains...
Sooner or later in life, a choice emerges for each
of us: to forgive or not to forgive – and, above
all, for what? Whether it’s for the little things of
everyday life or for the biggest, most painful ones
that have left a deep impression, forgiveness is
Hawaiians have an advantage over us: they’ve Like a stone, the child will no longer be able
learnt since childhood to clear out the to grow and flourish, they’ll no longer be able
thoughts and actions of each day that could to make any movement, they’ll be cut off from
disrupt the flow of life. To ensure that children the flow of life. But if the child becomes tired
are raised in this spirit from an early age, their of being a stone, all they have to do is forgive
elders tell them a tale that’s been handed that part of themselves that filled the bowl
down from generation to generation for with stones. In doing so, they turn the bowl
centuries: the bowl of light. upside down so that the stones fall onto the
Every child is born with a bowl of perfect ground. The light will then be able to return
light. If the child learns to cherish this light in and shine once more.
love and respect for life, they will grow up to This analogy from ancient times was used
be strong, powerful and in communion with to teach young children to take responsibility
the universe. They will be able to swim with for their actions and thoughts. Unfortunately,
sharks, sing with birds and they’ll have a good the practice has become increasingly rare
understanding of all things. But each time a as the modern world takes the place of old
child turns to fear, worries, doubts or negative customs. The story reflects true human
thoughts, they have to drop a stone in their nature but also the power of forgiveness and
bowl of light. And in doing so, they lose a little of the abandoning of past suffering. In the
of the light, because light and stone cannot tradition, each of us must learn to make pono
occupy the same space. choices or accept the consequences of the
If the child continues to add stones to the alternatives.
bowl, then eventually it will become full, it will Some grandparents would give children
no longer contain any light and the child will a bowl every day. At the end of the day, they
become stone. would call them and ask them to bring their
bowls. They would then look to see how many
stones had been placed in the bowl. On good
days, there may have been only one or two.
The child would then be asked simply to turn
the bowl upside down. With help from the
adults, they would become aware of their
thoughts and actions that day and would
promise to be more attentive the following Every situation in life can become a chance
day in order to accumulate fewer stones. If, for you to practise. An aggressive colleague:
on the other hand, the bowl was full, the child will you play their game and become
would be asked to go swimming in the ocean, aggressive, too – or get defensive? How 55
to meditate and clean out all the negative do you react? You’re in a long queue at the
thoughts and actions of the day. According supermarket and the girl at the checkout is
to this tale, change requires slow: what emotions do you
simply that you admit to find rising up in you? Do you
“According to
being tired of being a stone. get into an internal tirade of
Perhaps even today, we
this tale, change judgment and criticism or
could use this ancestral requires simply do you accept the moment
practice to help us become that you admit without emotion?
increasingly aware of our to being tired of If you don’t have your
thoughts and actions. being a stone.” bowl with you, visualize the
Choose a bowl you stone that you’re putting
find beautiful then collect there because you let
together some stones. They will symbolize negative thoughts or feelings invade your
thoughts, emotions or behaviours that heart and your head.
you know are negative. Play this Hawaiian At the end of the day, take a moment
children’s game for a few days. Become to review your day. Adopt the neutral
aware of your interactions with others perspective of an observer, detached from
and with yourself. the issues. Replay the film of the thoughts and
actions that marked your day. Is your bowl full
of stones? Half full? Almost empty?
Ho’oponopono:
The ancient Hawaiian
practice of gratitude and
forgiveness by Carole
Berger is out now,
priced £14.99, published
by Eddison Books,
eddisonbooks.com
But first,
tend to your boundaries
A l e x a n d e r Po p e s a i d ‘ To e r r i s h u m a n ; t o f o r g i v e , d i v i n e ’.
S e l f - d o u b t c o a c h S a s Pe t h e r i c k b e l i e v e s s e t t i n g h e a l t h y
boundaries is the more enlightened path.
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All major religious and spiritual traditions are This expectation to forgive is very often a
jam-packed with homilies urging forgiveness, gendered experience that sits at the intersection
and a squillion inspirational quotes on Instagram between Western Christian conditioning (even
would have you believe forgiveness is the only those of us who aren’t Christian are influenced
emotionally mature, spiritually enlightened, by its ethos, because Christianity sits at the heart
morally preferable response to being wronged. of Western legal and moral values) and gender
I don’t buy it. conditioning that trains women to accept and
Obviously, there are instances when the most forgive, rather than complain and accuse.
logical, ease-filled path is to make room for any You may believe you ‘should’ forgive someone.
slight, forgive and move on. But forgiveness is Perhaps there is an unspoken expectation from
always optional and often others that forgiving
entirely unnecessary. “Because genuine will make life easier for
Not forgiving someone forgiveness is all involved. Or maybe
doesn’t mean you walk difficult to muster you wish to escape the
around with a chip on your discomfort of being
at will, you may
shoulder, wishing only bad caught up in someone
things happen to the other
find unconscious else’s hurtful behaviour.
person. It doesn’t make you resentment leaking out But there’s no hurry.
less empathetic, kind or disproportionately” Rushing to forgive
‘good’. It just means you’re too quickly may leave
deciding to take a stand against the kind of any sense of resolution feeling incomplete.
behaviour that diminishes your spirit. Because genuine forgiveness is difficult
Forgiveness is never the end, but the means. to muster at will, you may find unconscious
The goal is almost always to achieve emotional resentment leaking out disproportionately and
equilibrium, a level of peace, some sort of inconveniently – anger, impatience, judgement
resolution for being wronged. But you don’t and emotional distancing are common
need to forgive anyone to reach this end. You experiences. These can be symptoms of
can choose to honour your experience and not unresolved hurt that persists even after we have
forgive someone. ‘officially’ forgiven someone.
If forgiveness is the ultimate goal, this puts There are few shortcuts to the peaceful
additional pressure on the wronged person. resolution we often believe forgiveness will bring.
Spending time and energy processing thoughts But if we make an effort to understand the other
and feelings about someone else’s shoddy
behaviour is compounded by the assumption
that you will also ‘do the right thing’ and extend
forgiveness to your offender.
Illustrations: Matilda Smith
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person’s experience, forgiveness not only becomes easier, in
many cases it’s just not needed.
Any behaviour, whether it’s annoying, hurtful or enraging,
has a reason behind it. Attempting to understand that
reason, particularly when the unwelcome behaviour is
perpetrated by someone you love, can help to understand
the impetus behind it. This has an additional benefit
in that you can see who has responsibility for the
behaviour.
For example, you might learn that your housemate
spends money wildly in order to feel less anxious,
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driving is a result of never feeling listened to at work.
Whether their behaviour is just annoying
or a potential dealbreaker for the relationship,
understanding the reasons for it will leave you better
positioned than simply forgiving it.
In cases where the responsibility for unacceptable
behaviour lies at someone else’s feet, it is entirely
legitimate to decide that instead of forgiving someone you
will instead take responsibility for your boundaries.
A boundary is an approach to relationships based on the
premise ‘you can do whatever you want, and when you do, I
will do this to take care of myself’.
It means that you can love your housemate as a friend, but
choose not to live with her. It means that you can feel deep
empathy for your partner going through a difficult time at
work, but decide you won’t get in the passenger seat when they
are driving.
Having intentional boundaries means accepting that we
cannot control anything that someone else thinks, feels,
says or does. Boundaries are not about ultimatums and
perfectionism and judgement; rather they’re what happens
when we accept that no one else has to change so we can
feel better.
Deciding to forgive another human can be an
incredibly healing and generous choice. But it is not
always desirable, possible or called for.
If you feel guilty, less than or somehow bereft
because forgiveness feels out of reach, there is no
reason to pile additional burdens on to yourself.
You absolutely can be happy and carry on with life without
forgiving those who have hurt you. Forgiveness is a nice-to- “Boundaries aren’t about
have experience, but not necessary for living a big, full life.
ultimatums, perfectionism and
judgement; rather they’re what
happens when we accept that
no one else has to change
so we can feel better”
Illustrations: Matilda Smith
SI X RE FL ECTI ON S O N TH E
PAT H TO FORG I VE NESS
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Anger is the emotion related to justice and fairness so it’s completely understandable to feel some
anger towards your offender. But just because your anger is justified doesn’t mean it’s always helpful.
You can learn to validate your anger without feeding it. When you notice yourself feeling angry, pause
briefly and acknowledge the anger. For 90 seconds notice where you feel the anger in your body,
notice how this shifts and then dissipates. Notice how your body has got you.
Allow yourself to rant – put on paper every negative thought, judgement, fantasy and destructive
impulse! It’s healthy to give your anger some space on the page. Allow your anger to share its wisdom
– write from the perspective of your anger: ‘I am anger and I want you to know…’.
One of the reasons we find anger difficult to be with is because it is so powerful. Consider the
ways your anger empowers you to advocate for yourself – write a list!
4. Forgiveness and acceptance
Those of us who struggle with forgiveness have usually been given the advice that we need to ‘accept’
what’s happened and move on. Acceptance doesn’t mean endorsing or condoning someone’s
behaviour; it doesn’t mean that you’re somehow okay with what happened. Acceptance is the
willingness to stop arguing with reality. You cannot change what happened, but you can choose what
you decide to make it mean about you.
Write what happened as if you were a reporter – remove any story, emotion or justification,
and allow it to be a neutral, factual experience. List all the choices you have about what you
make the event mean. What do you want to choose?
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HOME
A house turns into a home when you get your
pictures on the wall. We could all do with a
little nudge to get our snaps off our phones
and into frames. Lottie Storey speaks to
women who are taking a different approach
to family photos – perhaps it will spark your
next project? Maybe you could use some
of your pics in a collage? Momtaz Begum-
Hossain takes an in-depth look at the art form
this issue, and we encourage you to have a
go yourself, with our 14-page collage kit of
patterned papers and bold images. There’s
no right or wrong, just lots of fun. Be inspired
by mixed media and collage artist Julie Liger-
Belair, from her beautiful Toronto studio.
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N O T E S
Make your home a haven
with natural finds, wooden
tableware and soy candles,
plus ideas on how to lead
a more sustainable life.
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Photographs: Dom Davis / Francis Shannon (Love Audrey) / James Balston / Emily Quinton
From the very first photograph taken
back in the 1800s to the inescapable
snaps ’n’ selfies of millennial life, Ward (@house.of.wards) explains: “I commissioned Victoria
photography remains the best way to to make this portrait for my other half’s 40th birthday. The
capture the moments and people that whole piece is so beautiful and is covered with gold leaf and
make up our lives. And those captures Swarovski crystals!” Victoria knows the Ward family really well
endure, with 33 percent of us opting to and felt she could go for it, knowing their style and taste. The
save our photo albums in the event of a house portrait hangs in the family’s stairwell. “I love all the colours
fire, according to a 2019 AA survey. It’s an understandable and textures next to the bare plaster walls,” says Helen, who
choice, as those precious prints would’ve been impossible to even made a miniature version of the portrait to hang in her
replicate until recently. Digital photography – reserved for daughters’ doll house!
wealthy early adopters at its inception – is now a part of most Emily Quinton, founder of creative community Makelight
of our lives. Every day, we walk with our smartphone digital (makelight.com) can’t not photograph her family. “Life
cameras in our pockets and bags, thinking nothing of taking moves so fast and I love how family photographs help me hold
photos of anything we fancy. onto the little moments that can whizz by too fast. For me,
Back in the day, the restrictions and expense of print photography is a visual gratitude practice and nothing makes
photography meant changing lenses, lugging bulky equipment me more grateful than my children.” So what does a home full
about, and having limited shots. While the ease and instant of photographs mean to Emily and her four children? “Having
gratification of digital might avoid this, there is something to be photographs displayed in our home helps us all to talk about
said for the old way. Much like those of us who prefer paperback the images regularly. I think it’s helped my children to hold 73
to Kindle and vinyl to MP3, aficionados of print photography onto memories of their younger years because the photographs
enjoy its tactile qualities. Fujifilm, the enable them to replay them regularly.
makers of the popular Instax instant The photographs are great conversation
camera, saw a big revenue spike in 2018 “Life moves so fast starters.” And the ones that start most
that it attributes not to its digital camera and I love how conversations? “I really love images that
sales, but to sales of the film-based Instax are taken in the same spot year after year.
camera. In 2019, Kodak brought back its
family photographs It may not feel really creative but when you
Ektachrome 100 film, a professional-grade help me hold onto have many years of the same photograph it
slide film that was used for years in National is such a wonderful thing.”
Geographic before being discontinued
the little moments One woman who’s taken this idea and
in 2012. This renaissance for the art of that can whizz by run with it is Frances Shanahan (love-
photography is heartwarming. Shooting too fast. For me, audrey.com), whose Platform 9 photographs
film photography is a mindful process. The have become a regular series on her
ritual of setting up your shot and the time it photography is a Instagram (@loveaudrey83). “I took the
takes to compose and shoot are part of the visual gratitude first photo in May 2014,” explains Frances.
appeal. This is craft. And the end product? “I was travelling with my son and we were
Something tangible. Holding photographs
practice.” early for our train, so I let him perch at the
in your hands, framing them for the wall or edge of the thoroughfare below Temple
adding them to an album is what it’s all about. Meads station. I noticed he was beside the large number 9 and
But keepsakes come in many forms. Dominique Davis I thought of Harry Potter and Platform 9 ¾ at Kings Cross.
of All That Is She, a lifestyle blog, began documenting He looked so cute with his teddy bear and little backpack that
her family life in the most creative of ways. Her Instagram I decided to take a photo. I’ve always liked recreating the same
account (@allthatisshe) has made a regular series of Dom and image again and again, so I took another one when we travelled
daughters Penny and Amelia in images that are creative and by train a few months later. It quickly became a tradition and
full of humour. “Although our images differ slightly from the I’ve now taken almost 30 versions.” What does Frances love
traditional family photo, we still use them to capture a moment most about the series? “They’re not glamorous or overly posed.
in our life,” Dom explains. “Our #allthatisthree images are still I’m never aiming for perfection. I love looking back at them
my favourite photos to date. They’ve helped to document the and seeing how much the children have grown and changed.
growth and changing faces of Amelia and Penny over the years, When you keep everything else about a photo the same, you
but they also show the fun and loving relationship between a really notice the little things that are different about them. Lots
mother and her daughters, and two sisters.” And how do the of the pictures mark the beginning of a trip or weekend away,
images translate from Insta-grid to the family home? “We so they’re tied to lots of happy memories too.”
have to be selective when it comes to choosing which photos we And how does Frances organise her photo
display,” Dom laughs. “But usually, the ones I decide to print collection? “I make softback albums of our
are the ones that the internet doesn’t get to see. The candid holidays and trips so the Platform 9 picture
moments that are almost an inside joke among the four of us.” always features on the first page.”
One of the most creative family portraits this writer has However you choose to shoot and show
seen was made by artist Victoria Topping (victoriatopping. your family photographs, make sure you
com) of the Ward family (see it on page 71). Fellow artist Helen do. The joy is twofold – both in making
your memories into lasting artworks and the
infinite times you then glance upon them.
C A N D I D
C A P T U R E S
Fa m i l y p h o t o g r a p h e r A l i c e H e n d y
( f a c e b o o k . c o m /a l i c e h e n d y p h o t o g r a p h y )
shares her practical tips to get good shots
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regardless of age or enthusiasm!
1 UN POS E D
Often the most treasured photos are natural
and unposed. In years to come they have the
power to conjure up a pocket of time you used to
inhabit – the stuff of daily life that takes up the most
time, not just the ‘big’ moments.
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RE FRAM E
Reframe your idea of a family photo.
Not everyone needs to be looking into the
lens with their cheesiest grin in spectacular scenery.
If you’re quick and take a surreptitious snap on a
normal family day you just might hit gold.
3 M OV E M E N T
Get yourself moving rather than your subjects.
Teens may balk at the idea of having to pose for
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G E T C LOSE
Take a close up of a detail that sums up
the character of your loved ones – their
shoes strewn around by the front door, their
possessions or their hands playing a game.
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HUMOUR
With posed shots, start with the largest
group first and then peel back to the smallest.
Time is of the essence so keep up the pace. Adding
a bit of humour helps keep expressions natural and
relaxed – I ask the youngest kid to say BUM! after
the count of three!
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When and why did you decide to become it and I just say ‘collage/painting’ and that’s it. I’d say it’s a bit
a professional artist? surreal and a bit dreamlike.
I don’t believe there was ever really a decision, it was just kind
of a natural progression. In terms of just doing art, I always did Were you a creative child growing up?
it and I went to art school as well. I had a lot of other jobs, and I grew up in a very creative environment. My mother is
then I had my kids and things kind of slowed down, but I still an artist and my father was an architect and photographer. So,
worked. It was just a few years ago when I really started doing I grew up with art books and my mother always did art projects
art full-time. with me and my siblings.
How would you describe your style? What about the materials that you use?
Oh, that’s a really hard one! I get asked that all the time I use acrylic and gouache and a lot of Japanese paper just
– you know when you meet people and they say, ‘What kind of because I love pattern and colour. And then I have a collection
art?’ I’d say, ‘Well, it’s mixed media, collage, you know.’ I used of old photographs that I scan and print so I don’t actually use
to do more assemblage style, more boxes and three-dimensional the original. I also manipulate the photograph to add pattern
things but always using collage as well. Now I’ve minimised and colour to the clothes.
collages for 20
years. Right: The
serious faces of
Victoria era photos
“provide an ironic
counterpoint to
the humour and
levity I try
to inject into
the work.”
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Tell us about the characters in your work. They I don’t know, it all just percolates into my brain, mixes up and
have such strong and intriguing personalities. then comes back out in my pieces.
Yes! And they all have the same expressions because
they couldn’t smile much while they were sitting [for the You’ve mentioned before that you make ‘sacred of
photograph,] although there are some smiles, which is the mundane.’ How can readers also use this kind
interesting. You can see the smiles in people’s eyes a little bit. of approach in their own art?
When I was producing my assemblage works, I did a whole
What role do colour and pattern play in your work? series called Sardine Saints. I was using sardine tins and
It plays a big role. Often the colour and pattern of a recycled objects. They were a play on the different Greek gods.
Japanese paper will dictate the direction a painting will go. It’s I liked the idea of using ‘mundane’ everyday objects and making
hard to say how I start – sometimes I start with a photograph, them into these precious little altar pieces. And I also feel that
sometimes I start with a piece of Japanese paper. I love bright old photographs are seen almost as a sacred object because
colours, as you can tell [she laughs and gestures at the yellow they’re people’s ancestors.
and aqua walls of her dining room]. And I guess because
the photographs are always sepia or black and white, almost Do you use any mindful practices to promote
colourless, I’ve always wanted to put the colour back in! Colour calm and creativity?
to me symbolises life and because it is missing out of their Just doing my work. For me it’s like meditating because
photographs, you don’t have any kind of idea about what life when I’m lost in a piece of work, I don’t even have a sense
they led. Because these things are a bit of a mystery to me, of time anymore.
I enjoy imagining a new story for these characters.
Do you have any rituals before you start a
Where do you find your inspiration? new work?
Inspiration comes from so many places! Dreams, books Not really. If I’m not in the middle of a painting, I like to warm
I read, music, other artists’ work, conversations with my kids. up by drawing and collaging in my sketchbook or making a
small piece. And I always listen to podcasts in the morning and What are you currently working on?
to music in the afternoon. I have two different series that I’ve been working on.
The first is of smaller, strange landscapes on little wood panels,
When are you most productive? called Time Travellers. These are about the elasticity and
Any time that I can be. I’ve become ten times more perception of time, and how our experience of time changes
productive than I ever could before kids because you just have from childhood to adulthood. I’ve been playing with that idea
to. Before, I could ponder over something for a long time, but for a while. The other series that I’m working on is In the
I don’t have that luxury anymore. And for me the time that my Rooms of My Mind. These larger collage/paintings are all done
kids are in school, really is the most productive time. Sometimes on older, unfinished or unsatisfying pieces that I have in my
I have to do a lot more to warm up, and other times I already studio. There is nothing more gratifying to me than re-using,
have something on the go and I just launch into it right away. recycling older pieces and giving them whole new meanings
and stories. I’ve left elements of the older pieces peeking
I understand you have opened the doors of your through, almost like a little glimpse into the previous ideas I was
studio to share it with the rest of your family. grappling with – a little window into my mind.
How do you make that work?
It’s hard sometimes, actually [she laughs], because when I’m
in the middle of working on a series of paintings, I take over To learn more about Julie’s
every space available. But if one of the kids wants to work, I work you can visit her website
will always make room on one of my tables. I don’t ever want julieligerbelair.net or her Instagram
to discourage them from creating. All three kids love to draw account @julie.liger.belair
and make things. We love to collaborate on projects as well. I
also have art supplies just for them, so that I don’t have to share
mine too much!
Julie creates
mixed media works
using paint, wood,
papier-mâché,
polymer clay, metal
and found objects.
Recently, she’s
been working on
larger pieces that
combine painting
and collage on
wooden boards.
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Collage has the ability to blur the lines between the expected and
unexpected, questioning what we perceive to be reality and fantasy;
presenting a world that’s familiar, while inspiring our imagination. Surreal,
dreamlike visuals are a feature of Larisa Murariu’s work, a Romanian collage
artist who goes under the Instagram name of @morysetta.
Space and sci-fi imagery are constants in her work and she uses collage
to express herself: “I feel it’s given me a voice without making a sound.
I’ve always done arts and crafts and tried drawing, modelling, sewing,
calligraphy and scrapbooking but one day while working on a planner for
myself I needed a picture for the cover. That was my first piece of collage.
I can’t describe how it felt other than something literally clicked and
everything fell into place as if the stars had aligned.”
Illustrator James Daw (@jamesdaw_illustration on
Instagram) agrees that paper and digital collage
opened up the possibilities for his practice
too: “I started using cut-up paper that I
had previously made with random marks
and textures and these became my paint
strokes.” He then used Photoshop to speed
up his process. “I could manipulate my images
by enlarging, shrinking, and piecing them together
until I was happy.”
Digital design has also allowed collage to have
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CUT TO T HE C H AS E
Try these different collage techniques and see which one you'd like
to focus on to develop your skills.
PAPER COLLAGE
The classic cut and paste method. Experiment with different
weights, textures and colours of paper.
DÉCOUPAGE
Stick your motifs over a flat surface such as an object or
furniture then seal with varnish.
3D
Add depth to your designs by layering up cardboard. Using 3D sticky
pads to affix them creates a raised effect.
PAPER CUTTING
A technique made popular by artists like Rob Ryan and Paper Boyo, use a
scalpel to cut out an intricate illustration then apply to your surface.
DIGITAL COLLAGE
Use a program like Photoshop to manipulate, mirror or
duplicate patterns and designs.
C U T & P A S T E
Use the papers over the next 15 pages to create your own collage art.
Cut them, tear them, scan them, stick them, layer them… Be inspired by
the artists in our collage feature to generate something unique.
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Step 1 Step 2
Cut out the collage pages with Take one of the portrait
a sharp scalpel. Alternatively photographs. Produce a sketch,
you can photocopy the pages. planning the areas to be cut
Or, visit bit.ly/PC17papers and out and which patterned papers
download and print out the to use where. Cut out the areas
pages on paper of your choice. and papers with a scalpel.
Step 3 Step 4
Start collaging by carefully When you’re happy with the
gluing your cut-out papers arrangement, frame your
together. You can also create completed artwork and hang
three-dimensional elements like it on the wall for all
flowers and leaves. to admire!
TRAVEL
We all feel the benefit of time with loved
ones, and there’s no substitute for meeting
in person, however far we need to travel.
But in those in-between times, there are so
many creative ways to show your love, beyond
WhatsApp and Skype. Helen Martin has lots
of lovely examples in her emotional piece
about far-flung family and friends. Naomi
Bulger then shares with us the joys she takes
in handwritten, thoughtfully-decorated
mail – “It’s the next best thing to a big hug”.
Elsewhere, Tracey Ellis explores how to travel
with fresh eyes to places you’ve been to
before, and Sian Meades praises the creativity
to be found in a long train journey.
Quote: Phyllis Theroux; image: Flaming Pumpkin / Getty Image
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Photograph: Tim Street-Porter
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T R A V E L
Photograph: Tim Street-Porter
N O T E S
Rejuvenate at a yoga
r e t r e a t i n Yo r k s h i r e , t r e a t
yourself to a luxurious
body oil, and escape into
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its palm trees, sofas and gouache illustrations before summer’s setting sun. Golden
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scene. The restaurant pins, totes, embroidered jasmine and mandarin,
and spa have a Moroccan badges, tees and temporary uplifting and rejuvenating for
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Yorkshire for over a decade countryside, The Pig at donor in 2009 that the
and to great acclaim. Named Bridge Place has a unique Story Museum gained the
one of the top retreats in collection of accommodation lease on a collection of
the world by The Times options and a restaurant dilapidated buildings around
newspaper, The Tree runs its with a kitchen that opens a courtyard on Pembroke
regular relaxation and yoga out. The seven bedrooms Street in Oxford. A number
weekends using a variety of in the main house and 12 of the buildings have since
techniques to soothe and in the Coach House, plus become the Story Museum;
rejuvenate; including guided lodges, romantic barn and a place that celebrates story
meditation and Qigong. seven Kentish Hop Pickers’ in all forms, both magical
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breaks and relaxation days all decorated in warm and An exciting development
available and a bi-annual earthy colours, with plenty is the new gallery spaces,
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T H IS I S US
by NBC
NBC’s This is Us flips between the present and past, so when you
travel back to the 1970s, the start of the Pearson family story, you know
some of how it ends and you find out more details on the beginning.
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by Netflix
Netflix’s The Let Down is an Australian comedy drama
that tells the story of early parenthood with honesty and
feeling. It focuses on the adjustments to daily life, identity,
expectations and relationships, as well overwhelm and the love
for a new baby that grows and grows.
3 PA R T Y O F F I V E
by Freeform
Party of Five follows the five Salinger siblings after the loss of
their parents in a car accident and is considered to be one of the best
Photograph: Mathyas Kurmann
DOWNTON A BBEY
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Photograph: Getty Images
FRAI SE R
by NBC
This celebrated, long-running American TV show celebrates
bonds between family members, though they may not be obviously
adoring. Fraiser and his father and brother think and act very
differently, but their love is strong.
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CATA S T R O P H E
by Chanel 4
Catastrophe’s protagonists Sharon and Rob become a
family unexpectedly and together they work out what this means to
them, how to parent, grow and continue to love each other.
A powerful and brilliant UK comedy.
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I N S P I R E D
B Y M A I L
1. The humble envelope, but fashion.
Vegetable-tanned leather clutch, kraftspace.
co.uk. 2. Special deliveries need protecting in
a fancy postbox, gardentrading.co.uk. 3. Wax
seal greetings cards are a timeless, generous
gesture. sleepybeestudio.co.uk. 4. Scattered
vintage postcards make pretty privacy windows
– peel and stick this design from purlfrost.
com. 5. Make a display of treasured notes with
this metal post holder, melodymaison.co.uk.
6. A letter organiser too classy for bills and
statements, limelace.co.uk. 7. For complete
romantics, Mineheart’s loveletter wallpaper,
limelace.co.uk. 8. A place to pen your thoughts.
4 Writing bureau from cuckooland.com. 5
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Brush Lettering by Rebecca Cahill Roots is published by Batsford. Photograph by Michael Wicks.
Last year, my husband bought me one of those Ancestry DNA is not about how many relationships you have (or how many
tests for Christmas. It didn’t tell me anything about my heritage Facebook friends or Instagram followers you have). It’s about
that I didn’t already know, but I did find the timeline map quite how meaningful your relationships are.
fascinating. The map pinpointed a distinct period in history Enter you, a pen, and a sheet of paper.
when the world opened and expanded for my ancestors. After Today, a handwritten letter carries a special kind of 115
venturing no further than a cross-channel marriage here and significance. For most people, the arrival of something
there for hundreds of years, all of a sudden, curved, dotted handwritten in the letterbox is an occasion: something to
lines represented my forebears soared across the globe, to Asia, be savoured and saved. You don’t skim the subject line of a
America, the Pacific Islands and Australia. handwritten letter and then hit ‘delete.’
Of course, this story is not unique to my family. The doors A chatty letter represents the gift of your time: you can send
to adventure that were opened by the inventions of steam, a text message or double-click to ‘like’ a status or photograph
motor and air travel have been immeasurable. But as our world in mere seconds, but writing a letter is a slower process. It
has expanded, the communities and connections that hold us forces you to be mindful: there is something about the action
together have been stretched thin. Staying in touch is no longer of writing with pen and paper, rather than typing or texting,
a natural, daily occurrence, but rather something that requires that compels your brain to focus more fully on the story you are
deliberate thought and dedication. telling and the words you are forming. This mindfulness comes
We are fortunate that digital technologies have made it easier through for the reader like eye contact and the squeeze of a
to stay in touch with the people we love now than at any time in hand, woven into the lines. Your thoughts and attention, for the
the history of humanity. Yet we, as a society, are lonelier than duration of this letter, are on them.
we have ever been. Researchers believe that social isolation and And a handwritten letter, received from someone we love, is
loneliness are approaching epidemic proportions throughout the deeply personal. The way their personality and emotions flow
Western world, creating a public health crisis. like ink through the pen: the neat, up-and-down strokes of a
Studies have found that many people who say they are lonely measured and careful friend; the hurried scratches and half-
are either married or living with a partner, and this backs up formed letters of excitement and enthusiasm; the corrections
something that I firmly believe: the key to combating loneliness and revisions and notes in the margins of stories, thoughts and
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ideas that overflow in abundance. When I write to my friends expression of love for those I’m writing to: a visible, instant
and family, I like to let that personality spill over onto the declaration – right there in their letterbox – that I care about
envelopes themselves as well as the letters, by covering the blank them and think they are worth my time, thought and effort.
space around the address and stamp with little drawings and It doesn’t matter if I paint an elaborate scene or doodle a stick
pretty decorations. figure, stick some pretty washi tape over the corners, pepper the
And I have discovered the simple formula that a warm and envelope with ink stamps, or pour a wax seal onto the back, the
chatty letter, plus a thoughtfully decorated envelope, equals outcome for my correspondent is the same: joy.
happiness.
People have been decorating the mail they send since there Colour in one of Naomi’s designs and make your own envelope,
was mail to send. Over the years, decorated envelopes (known opposite. Naomi has more templates in her two downloadable
as mail art) have been used for political gain, artist movements, colouring in books, available at naomiloves.com/shop
counter-culture statements, and community building. But I
decorate my envelopes for a much simpler reason: to spread joy. Naomi is a writer and illustrator from
Melbourne, Australia, on a path towards a
For me, taking the time to paint and decorate my envelopes is life that is slower, more creative and more
a way to slow down and narrow my focus to this one task: it is a personal. She teaches courses that help
gentle act of mindfulness. It’s how I express my creativity, and I women find the confidence, inspiration
and practical tools they need to share their
taught myself to draw and paint by practising on the envelopes creative work and stories, and find their tribes.
I made for family and friends. But most importantly, it is an naomiloves.com I @naomibulger
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Give fresh eyes to the familiar and discover a whole new
t r a v e l e x p e r i e n c e . Tr a c e y E l l i s e x p l o r e s h o w r e t u r n v i s i t s c a n
deepen and enhance our love of a place.
120 For many, travel is all about broadening your you’ve been before allows you to dig a bit deeper
horizons and discovering something new. But and uncover the layers of an area you may not
have you ever been drawn back to a place you’ve have noticed the first time round. A place you
visited before, somewhere that resonated with visited as a child perhaps; where you lived or
you deeply, and felt the urge to return and travelled through your university years; a job
explore more? relocation destination; all can be potential new
When we travel, sometimes there are places travel adventures waiting to happen. After all,
that stay with us more than others; perhaps it we repeat destinations in our daily life when we
was the delicious smell of coffee brewing in a go to the same cafe we love for our cappuccino
riad in Morocco, the purple haze of lavender every day or go on the same country walk, so
from fields in Provence, or why not apply this principle
a defining moment at the to our travels too?
top of an epic hike in the
“The 'been there, When you have a certain
Canadian Rockies – all of done that' mentality amount of familiarity
these adventures, however towards travel is already, you know how to
small, can linger in our get around, the landmarks
minds and memories, changing... Ticking stand out more, and your
making us yearn to return off your travel basic local knowledge can
and experience it all over take you further than you
again, or rather, discover
bucket list is not think. As soon as you leave
it anew. Revisiting an the best way to get the airport you feel more
enduring place with fresh confident about where
eyes and an open mind
the most out of you’re going which starts
offers a possibility of your excursions” your trip off on the right,
another extraordinary relaxed foot. You can skip
adventure that is only enhanced by the the famous sights. There’s a certain relief in
familiarity of being there before. knowing you can explore freely without feeling
With so many places in the world to see, you the pressure of seeing a famous monument.
might wonder how can you justify revisiting Ambling or cycling down a familiar street
somewhere you’ve been before? The ‘been there, without having to beat the crowds can give you
done that’ mentality towards travel is changing a whole new perspective.
to quality over quantity of destinations, and Every place changes during different times
that’s not a bad thing. Ticking off your travel of year, and though you’re not likely to visit
bucket list is not the best way to get the most out a beach destination during its rainy season,
Illustration: Akemi Hara / Getty Images
of your excursions if you are unable to immerse exploring a city in a different clime can be much
yourself in the heart of a locale instead of just more interesting, especially if there are seasonal
skimming the surface. Going back to a place festivals or events which can instantly change
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the vibe compared to quieter times. From your change the dynamics. Went backpacking by
first visit, you may already know the best coffee yourself through Asia? Take your partner or
houses, where the locals like to eat and drink, children with you and give them the advantage
if it’s better to take a bus or taxi, all those little of a familiar tour guide in a foreign place (but
details that make it daunting the first time round go off the beaten track this time). Did a group
become so much easier on a return trip, and the tour through Europe in your youth? Go there
feeling of familiarity will allow you to relax and solo next time and see it through your own,
engage more in the resident lifestyle. You get a more mature eyes.
taste of what real life there is like, and may end Repeat destinations can hold that perfect
up falling in love with the place more every time. balance of being familiar but still special. When
So where should you revisit? At the risk of you travel differently to places you’ve been
being unadventurous, try not to choose a repeat before, you are more able to absorb yourself in a
destination out of convenience only. Though place so it leaves an imprint on you, and perhaps
there is a sense of relief and relaxation with you leave a mark there as well. As they say, it’s
122 complete familiarity of a place, go somewhere more about the journey than the destination,
for a reason, whether it be nostalgic, spiritual, or so make your repeat journey count. Instead of
creative, and focus on that reason when you go spreading yourself thin over many cultures and
back. A memorable place such as a honeymoon countries, try immersing yourself more deeply
destination, a sentimental place like a childhood in familiar places. You may have an overall more
family vacation spot, or even somewhere you calm and therefore fulfilling experience second
just had a glimpse of, whether on a school or time round, and that alone should be worth a
work trip, can be a great choice. The key is to second chance.
H A P P Y R E T U R N S
Revisiting can still be adventurous. Here are a few examples
of h ow to m a ke a fa m i l i a r p l a ce f res h a n d exc i t i n g .
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T REASU R E H U N T T H E END OF TH E L INE
Plan to explore different areas in your Create your own walking tour; take a
repeat destination, either by car or by bus or train line that you’re familiar with
foot, and create a travel treasure hunt. Aim to the very last stop, then make your way back
to seek out a place you’ve never been before by walking the stops (keeping a map at hand!),
to eat, have a drink, shop, walk or visit a new leaving you the option of hopping on public
cultural spot. Try to engage in something transport again if you want.
completely new, every day. Done the bus tour
in Lisbon taking you to all the famous sites? Try
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a street art walking tour to see some places off TRAVEL JOURNAL
the beaten path, or take a graffiti workshop. Repeat destinations are the perfect
opportunity to start a travel journal,
as you have more time for reflection when
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CO OK I N G U P A STO RM you’re not consumed with navigating your way
If you return to a place because you love around. Focus on the senses in your reflective
the cuisine, consider taking a cooking writing, sketch a scene, or record new things
course there and learning how to create your you have discovered since the last time you
favourite dishes by the locals. were there.
lasting
memories
Three women share their revisiting stories
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I returned to Florence ten years after My first visit to Paris was awful. We were Our first holiday abroad with our small
I had visited with a group for my friend’s on a tight budget, it rained incessantly, children was to Pollenca, a town north
wedding. Attending a yoga retreat on we seemed to get lost every day and of the island of Mallorca. It dates to the
my own this time, I was dropped off by waste so much time that once we finally 13th century with a beautiful church in
Ponte Vecchio, the busiest tourist spot arrived at the Eiffel Tower, the queues the town square, and it was this square
where everyone seemed to be enjoying were so big, we gave up. Not a great that made it something special for us.
the sights with someone else. Though first experience, why should I go back? On that trip, we didn’t navigate the
I was happy to be here again with the A few years later a friend moved pushchair and toddler up the 365 steps
sun shining, I felt lonely, with no one to to Paris and suddenly we had free to the chapel at the top. However, each
share it with. But then I got a gigantic accommodation and a tour guide. With year we have visited since, we have
gelato and found myself in the same her local insight, we breezed through walked to the top and taken a family
square that my friend was married in, the metro and bypassed the Louvre, photo with the view of the town below.
and those lovely memories instantly only to see more incredible sights that I know people say they never go back
came flooding back. I took a photo I didn’t even know existed. Being able to the same place twice. But for me and
with my ice cream in a place she would to escape the tourist traps was a huge my family, this place feels like going
recognise and sent it to my friend, and plus as we ate at charming places only home. I fall in love with it just a little bit
we shared a lovely, nostalgic moment locals frequented. I was surprised to more every time. So much so that last
by text. see the Eiffel Tower was enclosed in a summer we rented a town house, and
From then on my perspective glass wall, and though I still didn’t go enjoyed close at hand all the joys the
changed; I no longer felt lonely but up it, I enjoyed eating my chocolate town has to offer.
more peaceful and observant, watching crepe under its glittering lights. When returning with our children,
Italian life flow around me, reminiscing On my frequent trips thereafter, I remember how they were all those
about the wonderful wedding there, I was determined to explore each years ago, and it’s a reminder how
observing other people’s interactions, arrondissement in detail. On each trip they’ve grown up. Our last visit was so
noticing the little details I didn’t see I discovered or experienced something special, our children now 19 and 17,
before in architecture, feeling the relief different. My most magical moment and perhaps the last holiday we will
of no pressure to do anything but what was in a cafe in the 13th, an area I never all be there together. We reminisced
I felt like doing in a place that was would have visited on my first trip. As a about our first trip, where Jack had his
familiar and full of fond memories. man walked out the door he dropped first birthday, and we bought a large
a piece of paper at my table. It was a chocolate pastry from one of the many
receipt for his beer, but when I turned it excellent bakeries. We remembered
over it was a sketch of me he had done some of the characters we have met,
at the bar which is now framed in my and some of the villas we have stayed
bedroom. Such a special memory, I will in, memories we will treasure forever.
forever return to and be enchanted by
this city.
SIAN
MEADES
Yo u r g o - t o t r a v e l a g e n t
Virginia Woolf once wrote that “a woman must have money rail route less travelled. By choosing slower train routes, he
and a room of her own if she is to write fiction”. I have come was able to show a very different side to the world. We can
to learn that a room of one’s own does not necessarily have read all about dusty train stations and dots of towns that we
The issue’s themes switch tracks and overlap through a selection of our songs in this eclectic mixtape. The
Guillemots’ jaunty 2006 hit Trains To Brazil explores living life to the full, while Heather Nova’s brand new Rewild
Me speaks of acceptance and forgiveness, as well as a return to nature. Join us in following the tracks back through
time too, with Vashti Bunyan’s 1966 single Train Song, which received little attention then, gathering cult status
much later on – a second chance in itself! And Collage by The Three Degrees, released in 1970, is a melancholic
melody full of colour, the passing of time and unfinished business. From revisiting moments, to revisiting a classic:
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1. Trains To Brazil – The Guillemots 2. Second Chance (Intalekt Remix) – Lucy Rose
3. Collage – The Three Degrees 4. Harvest Moon – Poolside
5. All The Pictures On The Wall – Paul Weller 6. Intuition – Feist
7. Forgiveness – Made in Heights 8. back again – flor 9. Rewild Me – Heather Nova
10. Rose Bouquet – Hamster, Wit Blu 11. Train Song – Vashti Bunyan
12. Gem – Daughter Of Swords 13. The Wild – Mumford And Sons
T H E S TO RI E S B EH I N D T H E M U S I C …
Underpinned by a laidback bassline, Singer-songwriter Feist is lauded for Train Song was originally released in
with soulful piano and brass to round her solo work as well as her output with 1966, but found a new lease of life
out the sound, this is a cover of a the band Broken Social Scene. This over 40 years later thanks to its use on
1969 song by rock band The James track, from her third solo album, The commercials and in TV shows such as
Gang. Originally formed in 1965 in Reminder, is a haunting meditation on True Detective. The lyrics speak of a
Philadelphia, The Three Degrees have ‘what if’: “It’s impossible to tell / How journey of hope and uncertainty,
seen many personnel changes but are important someone was / And what you all delivered in Vashti’s beautifully
still performing and recording today. might have missed out on.” ethereal style.
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FO L LOW YOUR INN ER GUI DA NC E
We f e e l o u r i n t u i t i o n i n o u r g u t a n d h e a r t . I f w e l e a r n t o r e a d t h e s i g n s ,
i t ’ l l s t e e r u s i n t h e r i g h t d i r e c t i o n , s a y s S u s a n n a h C o n w a y.
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Intuition is a natural part of being a human being, the sixth around. “There is no logical way to the discovery of these
sense that steers us around the roadblocks and keeps us elemental laws. There is only the way of intuition, which is
headed in the right direction. I think of my intuition as a radio helped by a feeling for the order lying behind the appearance.”
station that’s broadcasting on a frequency only I can receive. That quote’s been attributed to Einstein, no less.
Some days the connection is stronger than others; some So how do we know it’s our intuition speaking and not
days I don’t remember how to switch the radio on! And yet just our mind making stuff up? Simply put, intuition feels
even when I’m at my most unconscious, my inner guidance emotionally neutral and exists squarely in the present moment.
whispers to me when I need it most. It’s not future-tripping about something that might happen
Our intuition sends information as a knowing or a feeling, or wringing its hands about the past - our mind/ego does that.
and as we experience the world through our bodies it makes Our intuition is focussed on the here and now.
sense our bodies are the receivers (and interpreters) of that Mind/ego chatter sounds like: “But what if it doesn’t work
vibration. Most people pick up intuitive feelings in their heart out? I shouldn’t have said that. I can’t do this! I’m an idiot.
or their gut. Over the years I’ve learned that my heart is the What shall we have for dinner?” and on and on. Intuition, on
place I feel intuitive hits that are expansive and encouraging, the other hand, sounds like: “This person is trustworthy…
while in my gut the guidance feels more like a redirection. In Ask if there are any houses to rent… This isn’t right for you…
my heart I have a good feeling about someone new I’ve just Take a left here...”
met. In my gut I get a sinking feeling that tells me I need to Our intuition communicates with us in words, knowing and
take another route or turn down something that’s not in my feeling but it’s also very adept at using signs and symbols to
best interests. catch our attention and steer us in the right direction. A sign
Usually when I feel butterflies in my tummy it’s just could be something in your environment you notice like a
excitement (or anxiety) but sometimes I know it’s my inner song, a book cover, a snippet of conversation or a heart-shaped
guidance trying to get my attention. You might experience pebble. It could be jaw-droppingly literal – a stop sign, an
chills down your spine or a wave of excitement that feels arrow, the exact word you need – or sweetly figurative like a
unquestionably like a “yes!”. It could be a distinct feeling of photo of a seedling that represents a hopeful new start.
peacefulness, a calm that descends upon you. It could also be One of my most inspired intuitive hits in recent years was
a stomach ache. When you start to pay closer attention to your to move to the last house I lived in. I’d decided I wanted to
intuition you learn how to distinguish between a message from get a dog and to do that I knew I needed more space. I got an
your body – something is not working! Feed me! – and a nudge intuitive hit to look in Hampstead, somewhere I’d never have
from your inner guidance. considered, and found a listing for a tiny cottage that had
Sometimes my intuition sounds like my own mind saying gone online that day. When I got there it FELT right and I
words but I hear them just underneath my normal thinking immediately paid my deposit. Then life happened and a family
volume, like a whisper that’s been translated by my brain but member became ill and getting a dog didn’t seem wise when I
didn’t come from my brain. Steve Jobs, a man who arguably needed to be away at a moment’s notice.
had an amazing brain, said: “Intuition is a very powerful So I shelved my pet-owning ideas until one day, 14 months
thing, more powerful than intellect, in my opinion.” Our after I’d arrived, a stray cat decided to climb through my
intuition plants creative seeds that take root as we water bathroom window and move in with me. Becoming her owner
them with our imagination and inquisitive minds. Even some has been one of the greatest joys of my life and it made me
scientists – the people you’d think would be the furthest away see that I was drawn to that house so she could find me. My
from anything as unprovable as intuition – bandy the word intuition steered me to exactly the place I was meant to be.
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