Figure 5 shows the result of parents view themselves about having a homosexual son.

There are 7 out of

25 participants said that they are proud of having a homosexual son and that is 28%. And there are 5 out
25 participants said that they supported them and it is 20 %, 5 out of 25 participants said that they are
disappointed 20 % , 7 out of 25 participants said that they accepted 28% and 1 out of 25 participants
said that she is hoping and that is 4%.

Among the participants who are proud of having a homosexual son said that " I am proud as a mother
because he knows his limitation", Based on the participants, he explained that his son knows what he is
doing. Also, he know where to stop and where to go. and other said that " I am proud to myself that I
have a gay son because he help us handling our families by finding work. Participant explained that
because of his son, they could eat 3 times a day and can buy dress. Another, I am proud to myself
because he gain a big achievement in my territory. Because of my communication with him, he achieved
a big achievement like, He knows how to find a good work, and good manners.

Among the participants ther are 7/25 or 28% parents who accept their homosexual son. Some of them
said that "it's okay for me that I have a gay son atleast he should not do it too much that he woul look
like a girl" this idea explains the perception of a parent who accept their son for bein homosexual. The
other one said "its okay for me that i have a gay son because we have gays in our side. And lastly, "for me
i think I do the right thing and that is to accept my gay son be its my responsibility to do it. Accepting him
no matter what happen" and this expains the side of a parent which accepting his gay son for being gay
no matter what happen.

Among the participants who are supported to their gay son, said that" I supported him as a mother
because the thing that I just want is for him to be successful. According to the participants, he doesn't
care if her son is gay, he only want his son to become successful. Another, Sometimes, I'm already happy
just by watching him. Also, he is always helping me by giving money. She always compliment his son
because of his help. Last, I have equal traetment to all my child. I would support him from his
wants.According to the participants, he would give all the wants of his son if that's the case.

There is one( 1) out of 25 respondents said that she was hoping about the changes of his son. She said
that having a homosexual son is a sin and she didn't accept her son until now. She was hoping that one
day her son would change.

Among the participants who are disappointed to their gay son, said that "I'm dissapointed to myself
because why is it he becomes gay? I even raised him well and give his wants. Based on her, he doesn't
have failure in raising him but why is it he becomes gay. Another is that, "

I'm dissapointed that I have a gay son because there are many people who is judgemental and I know
that they would criticize him. In that's case, the participants never accept her son because she thinks
that it would create a misunderstanding if they have one. Next is " I'm dissapointed to myself because I
didn't thought him well on behalf of living. The participant thinks that it's her fault why her son becomes
gay. Last is" I'm dissapointed to myself because we thought that he would become a real man but the
result is different. I felt dissapointed that I blame myself that I didn't raise him well.