Phubbing Connected The World But Disconnected Humans

The development of advanced technology, has provided a lot of influence and ease for human
beings to conduct communication and access to information. When before lot of people
communicate by verbally and face to face, but now in the digital and Technology era like this
moment, one is no longer required to meet a simply convey a message or information. Therefore,
communication tools such as mobile phones or gadgets become devices capable of delivering
messages in a short time. Moreover, the presence of new media such as internet and social media
today has offered access to information easily, broadly, and freely. It then spawned a new
virtual-shaped reality called cyberspace. The existence of cyberspace that facilitates the freedom
of expression and sharing of information without realizing has resulted in a pattern of human
interaction in networking in real life changed.

The smarthone……

A smartphone that can be enabled similar to a computer. The menu are generally available on
smartphones, no longer just for calls. With Internet access and can be taken everywhere,
someone even feels gripping the world when the smartphone is in his hands. With a smartphone,
messaging to others can not only be done personally. With a single status update on one of the
social media, one can send messages to millions of people all over the world.

Unfortunately, with the all facilities on offer, someone often forgets the negative impact…….

For example Phubbing.....

If the old saying, goes deep in the eyes close to the heart, and what is happening now is the
behavior of phubbing is just the opposite. When someone is eager to use a gadget when involved
in a conversation, it is often ignored the existence of his opponents. Ironically, Phubbing is often
the case when togetherness is in progress. Instead of establishing a relationship, the gathering
time is precisely the event of a bow and finger gymnastics. Likewise in the family environment,
the view of the phubbing is also often found. Phubbing shows how social media users nowadays
have become self-absorbed humans. Phubbing indicates imperfect communication between two
interfacing parties.
Phubbing…..

Phubbing is the act of snubbing someone you’re talking with in person in favor of your phone.
Quite simply, it’s phone snubbing. Phubbing was first coined as a term in May 2012. An
Australian advertising agency created this word to describe the growing phenomenon of people
ignoring their friends and family who were right in front of them and instead scrolling through
their phones. Soon after, the Stop Phubbing campaign was launched.

The phenomenon that occurs when someone is sticking to the person who is next to him, because
it is too busy with his gadgets. Many happen not only at home can also happen in the social
environment, when we sit at the café but all busy with the gadgets or when the lecture was even
everyone busy with his gadgets......

This is actually a very predictable phenomenon to happen considering that this gadget has
become a necessity, let alone a very basic need for everyone, because this gadget is already a
source of the most major information, the source Bersosiliasi because there is sosmed then
become a source of our boredom relievers because there is a game, then become a source of our
selfies to be able to photograph.

"There is no phone (Internet) then it is not able to live", referring to the theory of social ecology
that an individual's behavior is influenced by perception, then the perception of the internet needs
are already embedded deep in one's mind Since smartphones and the internet are already in use.

According to data from Ware social in 2018 The average smartphone user spends 8 hours 51
minutes on Internet, 3 hours 23 minutes for social media, 2 hours and 45 minutes for video and
streaming, as well as 1 hour 19 minutes to listen a music.

The impact that will happen to a phubber is

 will be the addiction of gadgets

 can be anti-social to
 and destroy the relationship.
Actually phubbing is part of the negative impact of the use of Smatphone.... phubbing is much
more bad impact. From the results of the research it is known that one's social relationship will
be affected if phubbing continues, as well as a study indicating that phubbing can increase
conflicts that could indirectly impact the satisfaction of relationships and also depression in a
person . In addition, other studies suggest that using smartphones can reduce a person's sense of
empathy and one's understanding or caring for their opponents. Smartphones interfere with social
connections as evidenced by an experimental study that the presence of smartphones when
interacting or chatting with someone will lower the quality of the relationship/conversation and
the trust of the interlocutor.
It is common nowadays that everybody, young or old, is equipped with a Smartphone wherever
they go. However, Smartphone‟s not only bring convenience but also cause problems. While people
enjoy the innovative device to the fullest, it is wise to stop awhile and ask themselves whether they
are “phubbing” for fun consciously or ”phoning” for things important. As long as people start to
reflect on their behavior while slipping their Smartphone‟s, the word “phubbing” was not created
in vain. Though most people don‟t think phubbing wrong or evil, they admit it addictive and
offensive. Once people are aware of the problems caused by phubbing, they will more or less try to
ward them off by limiting their time of using Smartphone‟s.

In conclusion, when people use their mobile phone during a social conversation it has a negative
influence on affiliation. Also such behavior while interaction makes a person feel the person is not
interesting in conversation and in relation to the listener a person can‟t be able to pick the body
language which is important component of our communication.

Ini adalah umum saat ini bahwa setiap orang, muda atau tua, dilengkapi dengan smartphone
mana pun mereka pergi. Namun, smartphone ‟ s tidak hanya membawa kenyamanan tetapi juga
menyebabkan masalah. Sementara orang menikmati perangkat inovatif sepenuhnya, adalah
bijaksana untuk berhenti sebentar dan bertanya pada diri sendiri apakah mereka adalah
"phubbing" untuk bersenang-senang secara sadar atau "menelepon" untuk hal yang penting.
Selama orang mulai merenungkan perilaku mereka sambil tergelincir smartphone mereka ‟ s,
kata "phubbing" tidak dibuat dengan sembarangan. Meskipun kebanyakan orang Don ‟ t berpikir
phubbing salah atau jahat, mereka mengakuinya adiktif dan menyinggung. Setelah orang
menyadari masalah yang disebabkan oleh phubbing, mereka akan lebih atau kurang mencoba
untuk menangkal mereka dengan membatasi waktu mereka menggunakan smartphone ‟ s.

Kesimpulannya, ketika orang menggunakan ponsel mereka selama percakapan sosial memiliki
pengaruh negatif pada afiliasi. Juga perilaku seperti itu sementara interaksi membuat seseorang
merasa orang tersebut tidak menarik dalam percakapan dan dalam kaitannya dengan pendengar
seseorang dapat ‟ t dapat memilih bahasa tubuh yang merupakan komponen penting dari
komunikasi kita.
The impact that will happen to a phubber is the first one will be the addiction gadget, the person
who is the gadget addiction because he feels that the thing that is in the virtual world who is on
the pawn is more important than the reality of the consequence what??? He will later be difficult
to work difficult to socialize, it is difficult to live the function of the day life because it is more
focus on the gadgets..... Could be anti-social lho, because he will feel that his social needs are
fulfilled from the gadget and eventually release his social interactions directly with the
environment, people who have a social problem from the beginning that could be Train himself
for more socializing in the end so will fully alienate him from the social environment and will
focus on his gadgets because it feels that what is on the gadget is much more comfortable than
directly interacting with the environment Social....

We must have a commitment to not put gadgets in comparison to social interactions.... So for
example when we are together with family and friends we have to commit to the no gadgets on
ourselves.... change your habit day by day Being the former gadget first used to do the other
thing now to be doing something first new gadget... A simple example is when we wake up the
morning we are usually directly looking for gadgets... Now we change

Fenomena yang terjadi ketika seseorang mencueki orang yang ada di sampingnya , karena terlalu
sibuk dengan gadgetnya. Banyak terjadi tidak hanya di rumah bisa juga terjadi di lingkungan
sosial, ketika kita duduk di café tapi semua sibuk dengan gadgetnya atau ketika kuliah malah
sibuk dengan gadgetnya……

Ini sebetulnya fenomena yang sangat bisa diprediksi untuk terjadi mengingat gadget ini sudah
menjadi sebuah kebutuhan, apalagi kebutuhan yang sangat mendasar untuk setiap orang, karena
gadget ini sudah menjadi sebuah sumber informasi yang paling utama, sumber bersosiliasi
karena di situ ada sosmed kemudian menjadi sumber rasa penghilang bosan kita karena ada
gamenya, kemudian menjadi sumber narsis kita untuk bisa foto – foto di situ

Dampak yang akan terjadi pada seorang phubber adalah yang pertama akan menjadi adiksi
gadget, orang yang adiksi gadget karena dia merasa bahwa hal yang ada di dunia maya yg ada di
gadgetnya itu lebih penting daripada realitanya konsekuensinya apa??? Dia nanti akan sulit untuk
bekerja sulit untuk bersosialisasi, sulit untuk menjalankan fungsi kehidupan sehari hari karena
lebih focus pada gadgetnya….. bisa jadi anti sosial lho, karena dia jadi akan merasa bahwa
kebutuhan sosialnya sudah terpenuhi dari gadget dan pada akhirnya melepaskan interaksi
sosialnya secara langsung dengan lingkungannya, orang yang punya problem sosial dari awal
yang seharusnya bisa melatih diri dia untuk lebih banyak bergaul pada akhirnya jadi akan fully
menjauhkan dirinya dari lingkungan sosial dan akan focus pada gadgetnya karena merasa bahwa
apa yang ada di gadget itu jauh lebih nyaman daripada berinteraksi langsung dengan lingkungan
sosialnya….