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PROGRAM INTRODUCTION
OBJECTIVES:
General Objective
Specific Objectives:
SWO III
Objectives:
Loving Thankfulness
Faith Worship
Praise Humility
Trust Dedication
Resourcefulness Courage
Responsibility Perseverance
Cooperation Purposefulness
Commitment Prayerfulness
compassion Goodness
Repentance Conviction
Forgiveness
I. Goals of Parents
Raise a healthy, happy family
Give children proper education
Train children to be good and responsible citizens
Provide security to the family
Practice Godliness at home
Learning Points:
- you have the capacity to think and recognize what is right and wrong
- capacity to improve yourself
- you have rights as a person
- you have the freedom to fulfill your aspirations and goals
- you know your responsibilities toward yourself
1. You are a rationale being. You have the capability in honing your qualities. You
have the right and freedom to act and improve and fulfill your aspirations in
life. But this right and freedom has accompanying responsibilities towards
yourself, others and God.
2. Your values personality traits, childhood experiences personal and family
goals affects one’s characteristics as a person and more important of your
role as a father. You are a unique person and able to relate with others.
3. You have specific purpose and mission in life and that purpose and mission
provides meaning and direction in your life. You may be more of spiritual, you
may be a man of knowledge, you may be a man of values and you may be a man
of love. All these dimensions in life affect your course of action in life.
Defining that purpose and mission in life provides meaning in one’s existence
as a person and as a father.
4. Knowing yourself and knowing your strengths and weaknesses is your first
step in becoming an effective father. Realizing your own limitations helps you
consider things that will affect you in performing your roles as a father. You
build yourself by enhancing your strengths and working on your limitations
and weaknesses.
SWO III
I. DEFINITION OF FAMILY
Your family serves as the basic unit of society. Your membership
in the family is acquired either by blood, marriage or adoption.
II. IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY
The main function of your family is to provide total care for the
children; prepare them for adult roles; provide discipline and order;
and maintain high morale and strong motivation.
The way you relate with your children, spouse and other people can
be traced from your family origin.
These patterns of interaction include role performance, relational
status, communication, ability to cope with stress, decision-making,
socialization and leadership in the family.
Your values become the values of your family- including the positive
and negative values. Examples: close family ties, high regard for
elders, obedience, independence, strong sense of saving or “hiya”,
etc.
Your family is very important to you
The highest value in
A. Physical maintenance and care
B. Procreation/adoption
C. Socialization
D. Social Control
E. Social placement
F. Maintenance of family morale and motivation.
The rights of the child can be clustered into four (4) categories:
LIABILITIES OF PARENTS
Article 59 - CRIMES
CHALLENGES OF PARENTING
My Role as a Parent
Objectives:
PARENTING STYLES
A. Permissive – Indulgent
- This means that your child can manipulate you because you always follow the
desires and whims of your child.
- You are easily carried away when your child cries, you feel angry and
depressed if she rebels.
- Usually becomes impulsive and aggressive, low in self-reliance and
achievement orientation domineering.
B. Authoritative - domineering
- All your words and rules must be followed without complaint by your
children.
- you don’t listen to their words and feelings
- Obedience is of prime importance to you.
Your child usually becomes fearful, moody, unhappy, passive, hostile,
withdrawn and irritable.
C. Democratic
- This means you practice open communication with your children
- You don’t easily get mad at their misbehavior
- You try to find meaning and reason in the acts and ways of your child
- You listen to their opinion and feeling.
- You discuss rules and conducts that should be observe in the house.
- Child usually becomes friendly, self-reliant, cooperative and
achievement oriented
D. Neglectful
- you perceive your children to be of secondary importance in your life.
- You don’t give so much care and concern to your children.
- You usually entrust the needs and problems of the children to
themselves or to other members of the house.
- You have trained your child to give time and attention to material
things, career, friends, hobbies, vices and other interest.
- They are emotionally immature, easily influenced by others.
- Experiences in your own family values and beliefs and quality of marital
relationship of parents.
HOME MANAGEMENT
MANAGEMENT
- is the process of planning the use of resources in order to get the
desired output. These resources include time, energy, money, material
goods, knowledge and skills. Beyond these basic needs, family goals may
include, among others, the maintenance of health, education of
children, security for the future, and the full development.
MANAGEMENT ACTIVITIES
Management activities of the couple begin from the time they wake
up to the time they go to bed.
It can possibly increase their performances and their productivity
at work and in the home. This will help reduce stress.
The best place to start is to manage the couple’s time better.
Problems in activities management usually come from poor work
habit.
FINANCIAL MANAGEMENT
Budgeting of Money
BUDGETING
Budgeting should be a joint decision-making between husband and
wife. This will provide a constant consultation and communications
regarding matters that will affect them and their family.
Budgeting not only the money but also the time together.
Buy Wisely. Wise buying is the art of getting goods which satisfy
one’s needs at a minimum amount of time, energy and money. It is
getting the most out of limited resources.
Learn to say “no” to sales, people who encourage “hulugan”. Establish
priorities and resort to “hulugan” only for very important items.
Avoid smoking, drinking liquor, gambling, junkfoods. Aside from
helping one to be healthy, it can also allow savings.
Learn to recycle food, clothing and other items. Be creative in
cooking; learn how to sew and other means of reusing other waste
materials at home.
Walk instead of taking a ride when a destination is a short distance
away. Aside from saving, the walk will provide exercise which is
good for the health.
Plant vegetables in the backyard/pots. Vegetables will always be
fresh and the excess can be sold for extra money.
Include savings in the budget items.
Conserve energy and water.
If there is a baby, breastfeed him/her. This is good for the baby’s
health and for closer bonding between the mother and the baby.
Learn to live within the means.
Do not overcook food. It is a waste of fuel. In case of illness, get
medical care on time to prevent complications. Complication means
greater expense.
A fiesta, birthday or family reunion as an establish tradition may be
celebrated but not lavishly. Simple but attractive meals may be
served.
Avoid getting near to things that will tempt you to spend. Stay away
from stores except when there is absolute need to buy. Avoid “just
looking”. Browsing can lead to buying. Make a list and stick to it.
Plan shopping with a purpose in mind. Use that list. Extras that are
not really needed can add to the total at the cash register.
Limit the number of trips to the store or to the market.
Shopping when one is hungry, tired, or depressed can be a tendency
to over spend. Before spending money, think through the decision-
making process.
SWO IV
LIST OF WISHES
LIST OF WISHES
CONCLUSION:
Money is just a means to attain good relationship with your spouse or with
your children, but it is not the best and ultimate means.
REMEMBER:
Psalm 127:1
Children are blessings from God and parents should treasure those blessings.
The best way we can show our gratitude for these blessings is to take
special care of them.
Here are 10 simple tips for enhancing the bond between parent and child
1. SAY I LOVE
Tell your child you love him/her everyday no matter his/her age. Even
on trying days or after a parent-child disagreement, when you don’t
exactly “like your child” at that moment, it is more important than ever
to express your love. A simple “ I love you “ goes a long way toward
developing and then strengthening a relationship.
2. TEACH YOUR FAITH
A Teach your child about your faith and beliefs. Tell them you believe
and why. Allow time for your child to ask questions and answer them
honestly. Reinforce those teaching often.
LOVE
OBEDIENCE
Obedience to parental authority should be inculcated during infancy
and cultivated throughout adolescence. Even early in life, children
should be taught to obey their parents, to respect their word, and
show respect for authority.
Children are not to be indulged and allowed to think that they can
follow their own desires without asking the advice of their parents.
RESPECT
It is important for parents to respect children’s choices as they
reach out for independence at a young age, as this signals the start
of the decision-making stage. Parents can help foster these
decision-making skills by being supportive and respecting their
children’s attempts to achieve independence and in establishing
their own identity.
PRIORITIZATION
Children need to know that they are top priorities in parent’s lives.
Parents need to pay attention to their children’s needs.
LOVE/FEAR OF GOD
This involves teaching children how to love, respect and obey the
commandments of God. Parents who are God-fearing need to teach
their children that everything comes from God. It is the
responsibility of the parents to bring their children closer to the
Almighty. Parents may lead or encourage their children to
participate in church activities.
COMMUNICATION
Frequent communication or constant dialogue with the children will
help in inculcating the values of love, happiness, and sacrifice.
Parents are reminded to teach children that emotions should not
control them (especially the feelings of sadness, fear, anger, pride
and embarrassment) but that their children should be the one to
control their emotions.
Past mistake may also be shared with our children. This can help our
children in learning from our mistakes, and in the process, they can
avoid committing the same mistakes, too.
DISCIPLINING CHILDREN
Studies shows that punishments like hitting, slapping and cursing
are not effective. While such punishment may seem to get fast
results, in the long term it is more harmful than helpful. This can
discourage and embarrass children/teens and develop low self-
esteem. Instead of hitting and slapping and cursing to correct
behavior or discipline children, our children need to be taught what
behavior is acceptable or not and why is it so.
1. Educate them
2. Listen intently to your children
3. Make them feel good about themselves
4. Never use put-down words
5. Praise them for their efforts and accomplishment
6. Do not dwell on failures
7. Be a model for your kids be being vice-free and morally upright
8. Support your kids especially when they are faced with peer
pressure
Remember:
SWO III
INTRODUCTION
OBJECTIVES
SYNTHESIS
Both physical growth and developmental changes of the children are
important. If you neglect one aspect of the other, the child will be physically
abnormal, unhappy or unsuccessful as a person
SYNTHESIS
All children are different from one another. They have different
personalities, potentialities, temperamental dispositions, reaction,
and rates of development.
Children are generally the same in the way they tend to follow same
sequence of development. However, gender and living condition will
significantly influence development.
Within the family and in the community, the basic requirement for
the child to develop fully as a person, living in a stable environment
with predictable events and people by adults providing the basic
needs of growing children.
INTRODUCTION
Children are wonderful creatures. As they grow up, they develop
certain behaviors that help meet particular needs at different stages.
As their behaviors change, you will witness them forming into their own
individual selves.
OBJECTIVES
Infancy (0-2)
Needs foods, love, rest, recreation, security
Develops trust in others, feel valued, feels a sense that life
is good (hope)
Adult (40-65)
Discovers his life with others. Has grand children, enjoys and
reaps benefit of parenting and working.
Develops generosity. Make positive contribution to life process
(care)
Mature age (65-death)
He had what he wanted in life. Feels content and satisfied.
Develops integrity, a sense of getting old, coming to terms
with death, life is worthwhile (wisdom)
1. Providing proper training for the young child to act inappropriate ways.
Children are like vacuum. They need to be taught properly and
patiently the appropriate ways of behavior.
2. Communicate with them. Talk to your children with respect and treat
like very young adult. Listen to their thoughts and feelings. Never
force your views. Never belittle them.
3. Giving proper attention to their needs. Always be there for your
children. Be attentive and listen to them.
4. Loving them. The most basic and the most important is to love your
children with all your heart, words and deeds. You cannot just say you
love them and be out of sight.
LANGUAGES OF LOVE
1. Affirmation
2. Touch
3. Bonding
4. Service
5. Gift
6. Legacy of faith
HE LEARNS TO CONDEMN
HE LEARNS TO FIGHT
HE LEARNS TO BE APPREHENSIVE
HE LEARNS TO BE SHY
HE LEARNS TO BE CONFIDENT
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH TOLERANCE
HE LEARNS TO BE PATIENT
HE LEARNS TO BE APPRECIATE
HE LEARNS TO LOVE