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3. Stop nagging.
If you think nagging will help your husband become a better person and make your marriage grow,
you are thinking it wrong. A nagging wife is every husband’s nightmare. If you want your husband to
do or change something, stop telling him constantly and forcing him to do it. Your nagging will only
make him feel like a hopeless person. It will only make him worse and your efforts will be wasted.
If you want your husband to change, make him happy instead of irritating him. Make him happy by
giving him hope. Trust him and let him do his own way. Just continue working on yourself in silence
to be a better partner for your husband and hope that you inspire him to do the same.
4. Respect him.
Treat your husband as a man and the father of your children. Do not belittle him in front of your
friends, kids, and other people. Seek his advice when you make a decision. Listen to him when he
says something and appreciate his ideas or opinions.
Respect is one of the most important things that will keep your marriage alive and healthy. Hence,
don’t let anyone (including yourself) disrespect your husband. Always respect your husband and
your marriage vows.
To make your husband happy, be considerate with him. Be his best friend who knows and
understands him the most. Be generous with him, not only with material gifts, but also with
patience, love, and understanding.
7. Forgive him.
Forgive him for breaking your heart, especially if he sincerely asks for your forgiveness and shows
that he will never repeat the same mistake again. And for petty offenses he has made, learn to just
forgive and forget them even before he asks for your forgiveness.
When you forgive your husband, you do not only make him happy but you also heal your heart and
make yourself happy. You prevent yourself from planting hatred in your heart and you keep the
relationship in harmony.
8. Don’t let pride comes into your heart.
Do not create walls that will block your husband from communicating with you when you are mad at
him. The walls you build will only make the both of you suffer and experience misery. If you want
your husband to be happy every day, always be open to him and talk to him about your complaints
and problems.
Pride is one of the top culprits why relationships fail. Do not be overcome by it. Get rid of pride by
embracing humility. Be humble to forgive, admit your own mistakes, and approach your spouse first
no matter how hurt you are. Remember that humility comforts everyone who receives it. It also
blesses everyone who gives it.
9. Be a responsible wife.
Fulfill your marital duties to your husband. Give him the affection he needs. And above all the
physical and sexual things he needs from you, give him the spiritual things he needs, such as love,
faith, loyalty, trust, and respect.
Pain and suffering will normally come into your marriage. It is not easy to make someone happy,
especially your husband. There will be a lot of challenges. Sometimes, you will feel that he is being
unfair and he doesn’t deserve your complete love. Sometimes, you will forget about making him
happy since he’s only causing you misery. However, remember that marriage is not about how your
spouse makes you happy, but how you make him and yourself happy.
As a wife, you are responsible for your husband’s happiness. And as a soul, you are responsible for
your own happiness. Yes, your husband is responsible for making you happy, but it’s not your
responsibility to force him to make you happy.
You cannot control him to make you happy, but you can control yourself to make him and yourself
happy. Therefore, just focus on giving happiness to your husband, your children, and yourself. That’s
what true love meant to be. Love your spouse as you love yourself. Always be the first to love and
produce happiness.
If your spouse will not love you back or make you happy in return, at least you have produced
enough love and happiness for yourself and for your children.
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