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Foreword
I’d like to start by not just warmly welcoming you, but congratulating
you for expressing your interest in making investment in my “Instant
Addiction Formula”. No jokes, I’ve spent months meticulously composing
and rewriting the killer contents in this book, ensuring that every breathing
word is not even a stone’s throw short of molten gold. It’s the habit of a
perfectionist.
Every piece of information is ready for implementation and fulfills the secrets
to keeping a woman addicted to you; and at times, irrationally inseparable
from you. Whether you’re single, dating, or already in a relationship, this
potent formula does not discriminate; it will make any woman within your
radar go on an emotional override in love and lust. That’s why I’m excited to
let you exploit this.
Firstly, I’ve always wanted to tackle one of the biggest weaknesses and gaping
hole in every modern man’s dating repertoire, and that is to keep a woman
highly interested in the long run. Sweat not, as the solution is now right
before your very eyes, and I look forward to listen your feedback after testing
my formula yourself. As you’re a valued VIP member of my circle now, I’ll be
here to guide you further if you need my assistance. My personal e-mail’s
available below.
Secondly, guys see me all the time with the hottest women with brains, thus
coming up to me seeking and bugging me for dating advice. Rumor then
spreads that I have the miraculously gift to change dating lives, -- although I’d
prefer the term ‘improve’ – and eventually I’ve earned the stripes as a credible
go-to dating instructor, a role I that I am honored to play.
However, after being a full-fledged hip hop artist and CEO of street wear
fashion and music label LUXLIVIN in 2007, I no longer have the luxury of
time to dedicate myself entirely on coaching men 1-by-1; let that be in person,
instant messaging, or via e-mail.
Note: My private coaching sessions are still available; spots are more limited
and you still get your money’s worth, if not more.
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Fast forward a few months of heavy duty planning, writing, and wrestling with
the perfectionist in me, I now proudly present to you my Instant Addiction
Formula (IAF) -- possibly the closest ‘one size fits all’ guide to making you
“dangerously irresistible.”
I didn’t just employ that slogan for no cause. If the dating scene’s a jungle,
this is the key to crowning the kingdom.
I’m talking about real attraction that stays boiling hot even when you’re
absent from her. How would you like it if she melts in the afterthought of
you? I’m sure you would.
The formula you’re about to digest will also alter the dynamics in
your social stratosphere. Your friendship circle will broaden – though
some may become fickle, strangers you come to contact with will find it
difficult to dislike you, and you may potentially impact the lives of many
positively without knowing.
Just like picking up any new skill, this will require discipline, patience, and
practice before you can comfortably evolve into this “new irresistible you.”
The more you sharpen your knife, the better it will slice.
You will also learn how to control the heartstrings of not just women, but
people in general. I am going to recondition you – not brainwash – but
nurture you with new life behavioral patterns that will dramatically bolster
your level of likeability and personal status.
You see, the reason why most men fail with women is because we grew up pre-
conditioned with feminist-induced expectations. That’s why you witness so
many guys bowing down to women and drooling in their presence. We’ve now
become rigid creatures confined to counterproductive beliefs and behaviors
imposed by our cultural society, which have imprisoned our inner-alpha
male’s survival.
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Remember, everything herein is field-tested and the beauty of it all is, they’re
all fail proof.
Real attractive men don’t just attract women, but genders of all humankind.
You’ll notice how drastically more favorable people will react towards you.
This is real social rewiring to increase the value of your life.
Real talk. If you want to truly improve your game, you must build on your
strengths, and dare to tackle your weaknesses, not continue to harbor them.
2. You will detach from your old reality you are comfortable
cushioned in, and walk into
As you’ve already made the decision to access my formula, a bad news ensues.
There’s no turning back. The good news? There’s no need to try undoing
your past, and your future is about to grow blindingly brighter – with women,
social life, and work career.
It’s time to detach, grow, and march forward courageously. Mark this as the
official new chapter to your life right now.
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It may feel surreal during the initial phases – your first 14 days – but once
your new reality structure sinks in, you will eventually adapt. I want you to
internalize everything in increments. Don’t’ just rush to the very bottom
of this guide, but stop, assess, and fully absorb every detail before proceeding
to the next cornerstone.
= Instant Addiction
With this formula, I am highly confident that you won’t just hit home runs
with women, but excel phenomenally in other fields of life. Don’t forget,
consistency in exercising this formula is the name of the game.
Let’s begin.
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The problem is, how can you actually live and project these traits?
Did you know… every event in your life and experiences you've
been dealt with are the results of what you choose to allow in your
life.
Many people refuse to believe this, as it implies that all negative events were
what they sought for. For example, you may not have asked to be mugged or
experience a car accident, but something within you allowed that to happen.
You may not be capable of identifying it now, but time will tell.
Your mental energy can affect your physical surroundings more than you
expect. If you release nothing but positive emotions outwardly, which most
people confuse for as being nice, you will skyrocket your irresistibility
factor.
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From now on, start aligning your attitude, focus, and worldview with
positivity, despite how negative times may seem. This is what every attractive
human being – salesmen, celebrities, and spokesmen – all intuitively
understand and take heed to.
When your mind remains positive, peaceful, and poised, it will permeate into
your aura. Your aura helps the people around you determine the type of
character you are without you even having to talk about it.
Keep yourself and anyone you come into contact with in a constant
positive loop.
Yes, we will all die some day; In fact, today may just be someone’s last day.
And yes, there are still possibilities that you will still be rejected on your next
100 approaches even after mastering this formula.
But once you’re armed with an undying positive mentality, you’ll start
embracing these rejections and take them more lightly. In fact, the chances of
you being rejected will also diminish significantly. (Getting rejected is all part
of the game, there’s nothing wrong it.)
You’ll start thinking along the lines of… “Ain’t nothing wrong with
being rejected, too bad, she’s missing out on all the unmatchable
fun. “
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What you tell yourself, you recreate that reality every second. If you keep
telling yourself that you’re a shy dude, then by ‘thinking’ about being shy, you
increase that reality.
In our mind’s memory, every recall is a reframe. This means that our
mind is always trying to reclaim that past experience from our previous
emotional state.
When you’ve become a person that teems with positivity, you’ll notice that
when talking about a negative situation with a friend, it won’t last that long.
Why?
You: “I know how it feels man, but don’t let this take over and ruin your life.
There are plenty more fishes out there, and trust me, even better ones that will
suit you better. You’re going to find someone that will appreciate you more
than she did. She’s a fool for that one.”
A positive mentality suggests that you are confident enough to take matters
into your own hands. It communicates to women that you’re a man that’s
got his life together.
A positive guy will embrace challenges, while normal men would find it
stressful. Being an attractive adult also means managing your emotions so
that people feel uplifted when you’re around.
This is the golden secret amongst pick-up artist – although I don’t advocate
that you should base your whole life on picking up women.
When you feel positive, you infect people with positive energy, and when you
feel negative you infect people with negative energy.
This psychological fact ring true especially with women, whose minds are
wired with the ability to mirror and empathize with whatever it is that you
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feel; that’s why whenever a guy is funny, women are the ones to verbalize or
commentate on it first. “Wow, you’re so funny!”
If you see good in the world, you’ll find good in the world.
Imagine if you’re with a girl that complains and whines all day about the
burdens in her life. Well, that’s exactly what she’s going to get, regardless of
how hard you try to sooth and comfort her verbally. You’ll only be left to
suffer. That’s why you should always avoid spoiled brats.
If you are feeling tired, don’t attempt to mask your energy state by telling your
date that you could do push up for hours.
Avoid saying negative things to anyone, and to do so, you have to first STOP
thinking about negative things. People want to come back to people that give
them hope and good spirits; not someone that gives them the opportunity to
wallow in self-pity.
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Are you not in a happy mood? Don’t blame the world for the misery for not
making things right. Only blame yourself, but never admit self-defeat.
Staying in a bad or heated mood isn’t going to help anyone. Nor will it help
yourself. Next time you’re pissed off, calm yourself down consciously.
Tell yourself… “Ok, feeling this way isn’t going to improve anything. I need to
cool down to avoid clouding my judgment and taking others down.”
Most people are so wrapped up in their own negativity that they inadvertently
make excuses to not want to change; to change for the better.
This explains why people get stuck in the rut as they propagate this mentality,
and the vicious cycle of ‘depression’ holds them by throat.
Don’t let this negative energy fester inside you. You can easily overcome it.
These feelings of anger, resentment, “Why the world doesn’t treat me well”
need to go. Life doesn’t suck if you work to improve it.
Learn to congratulate, celebrate, and to BE happy when you see that others
are HAPPY.
Man, the only competition is nobody but you. You are at a battle with
yourself for wit and growth.
1. Express your gratitude. One of the leading reasons why most people
aren’t happy is because they feel like their life is ‘missing’ something. It’s the
greed and selfishness that drains the life out of our inner happiness.
Start showing appreciation for being alive. Be grateful you have your
hands, feet, and senses intact. Be happy that you’ve got a roof over your head.
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Be happy you’re not facing imminent threat from local terrorists. If you are,
consider relocating.
Be grateful for you already have, not what you lack thereof. Think of
all the people living in dire circumstances -- impoverished, handicapped,
paralyzed. Think of the people battling a chronic case of cancer, HIV, or a
severe financial crisis.
This should help you STOP moaning about not having a girl. This
should be the least of your problems. Jay Z said it best… I got 99 problems but
a bitch ain’t one!
AFFIRMATIONS
Give everyone a brief genuine smile whenever you meet him or her. Make that
moment of their day better. Don’t discriminate – treat everyone just as
equally. That’s the secret of becoming a people’s people.
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When women see you “smile”, they won’t slap a mental “Warning” sticker on
you. You present yourself as non-dangerous, but amiable. She’ll then be more
receptive and comfortable being around your presence.
Your eyes too can influence a woman’s emotions in seconds. Look into the
girl's eyes with your own twinkling eyes that indicate fun and
mischievousness. Let your eyes promise the girl that good times await her in
the future.
Most men fail to realize that they project multiple “negative body languages”
daily. When you shove both your hands into your pockets, or cross your arms
when speaking to women, they feel like you’re safeguarding or barricading
yourself from them.
I’ve seen many guys who are shy and nervous around women, resulting in
poor body orientation: Facing their shoulders or body in another direction;
not meeting eye-to-eye etc.
Sit parallel to a woman. Keep your face and eye contact steady. Let your palms
be face up. Leave your hands to the side or gently clasp them together. This
shows that you’re genuinely interested. Eye contact is known to boost
physiological arousal, thus preventing you from being perceived as boring.
Think of yourself hanging out with the boys. How would you position your
posture? How would you feel?
Note: Always move with precision. Precision equals confidence. Women are very
observant, and will pick up even the most mildly quirky gestures.
The trick: Think before you move. Before you lift a pink, unleash a sneeze;
think of what may happen then.
Trial 1:
With your right hand, pick up your mobile phone on the right side of your desk. Now,
place it somewhere to the left side of your desk. Place it anywhere as long as it is to
your left.
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Trial 2:
Repeat the same action as Trail 1, but this time, decide or plan EXACTLY where you
will place it. Don’t pick up your phone until you decide where to place it. Now, pick
up your phone and place it directly at the predetermined spot.
Visualize the action before carrying it out. When it comes to dating, put this
practice to play.
When you nod in response to what a woman says, she will start to feel
“Understood by you”. Nodding is what I call a stealth-empathizer. You guys
are traveling on the same wavelengths with your interests in congruence. In
more contemporary terms, it’s what we call as “Vibing.”
When you don’t nod, notice how people become tenser and grow less
enthusiastic with their words. If you come across as a someone that can’t
harm, you’ll be a lot more accepted in ANY social circle.
However, if you’re in India, then you’ll be shaking your head instead. This
reminds me, always try to gain insight into other cultures. You never know
when you might start dating an Irish or Chinese descendant.
It can always work to your advantage when you know where the
woman is coming from.
For example, if a woman sprains her ankle, then obviously, you should go
ahead and “touch” by lifting her up.
If you’re out playing pool and your date is a virgin with the sticks, then it’ll be
appropriate to hold her hands and arms to adjust her aiming posture.
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Imagine yourself walking into a room full of people. If you assume that
everyone dislikes you, then that’s what the reality is going to be. You grow
defensive, isolated, and unwanted.
If you reprogram your thinking into believing that everyone likes you, then
that will most likely be your reality. Allow no friction in between and there
won’t be any. You’ll be more honored, robust, and attractive. You will start
behaving in ways that will springboard the likelihood of people liking you.
Learn to control the self-image that you project by pushing all self-limiting
belief about yourself out the membranes of your brain.
Next time you enter a room, stay calm, hit your stride and walk into it proudly
while assuming yourself as the life of the party.
Whenever interacting with women, already assume that she’s attracted to you.
This way you won’t even HAVE to try building attraction with her. Assume
that she’s already addicted to you, but don’t be forward about it.
Assume yourself making her day when you meet her. Assume her world
brightening. Mentally frame all your behavior through your ideal character
and it will automatically become second nature.
A positive guy also earns an incredible amount of trust, because people see
they can speak well of you without you talking trash behind their back when
they’re not around.
A positive guy always sees the best in other people, not just what they choose
to perceive to fulfill their own expectations. This is similar to giving people the
benefit of the doubt. There’s always a good to someone that appears seemingly
evil or full of spite.
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In a classroom, you’re ‘framed’ to be silent, obedient; ears wide open for your
professor. This is, given that you were an astute student.
We live in a time where most women are glorified as the prize. That’s why
there’s a huge population of shy guys who shake and break down when first
exchanging a few words with women.
Now, vow this to yourself. Do not let anyone ever impose a frame of
emotional state on you again, especially women. Discipline your mind and
protect yourself from being framed. Stop giving sexual validation to attractive
women. Reverse the tables. Make her qualify for you.
Don’t just settle with any girl who’s got an ass and face but no brains; make
sure that she matches your interests and personality type. Quit selling yourself
short for women with looks but no substance. Even if she’s got it all, don’t
treat her like a goddess.
When you get used to screening, more options actually COME to you. You
actually start meeting women that have the potential to complete you as
opposed to just ending up as a quick meaningless cheap fling.
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This is the same fundamental attitude you must adopt in the dating field.
When you’re out your date, assume or expect her to respond favorably to
your advances.
If you tell a girl you “Love her”, but you’re emotionally devoid of such feeling,
Women will sense it and call your bluff.
You can say that you’re a “Shy guy”, but if your vocal tonality and body
language is overloaded with a playful and cocky demeanor, you’ll actually
come across as an amusing guy.
Even if you’re in a sulky piss-poor mood, you can still control how you
feel. After acknowledging that you’re in a bad mood, don’t let it undermine
your performance level or soundness of your character when you’re around
others.
If you’re out with a woman and you keep telling yourself that your mood is
damp as an excuse to fail at keeping her interest level highly perked, then
that’s what it’s going to be. You can only blame yourself.
You see…
Your behaviors will eventually start to mirror what you expect out
of yourself. This is amongst the top-secret laws of attraction.
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For example, when my friend first saw a dog as a kid, he was unluckily chased
down and bit by it. This incident resulted in a lifetime trauma.
Today, even in his adulthood, he’s scared shitless by the sight of a puny
Chihuahua.
Every time we see a dog, my friend reacts in a way congruent to his inner-
negative belief and scurries to hide behind my back. This is a reality he
constructed for himself, and supports the impact of self-prophecy.
Now, there are also appropriate times where it’s ok to experience negative
energy. Perhaps you are experiencing financial woe, or your closest friend
slept with your girlfriend – which is absolutely unacceptable.
However, you should never dwell too long into this negative black hole,
otherwise you only wind up locking yourself inside your room caught in a
depressive whirlwind. It can only stress you further and compromise your
ability to climb back on track.
This is the exact same black hole that’s taken a toll on many single guys who
struggle to attract women. Our self-limiting conviction disables our drive and
desire to change our life for the better.
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Artists, computer designers, song composers aren’t only the people that
visualize. Athletes do too. Even Michael Jordan does it. People with a trained
mind all visualize, as they are conscious of its powers.
You see, your mind has an eye, and that’s where everything starts.
We want to visualize ourselves as simply irresistible, in demand, and a
woman's object of desire.
Visualize not just on the ‘visuals’, but tap into all senses. You also want to
‘heighten’ these sensory motions as well. When you see light, go deeper. How
bright or dim is it? What color? Where are the shadows? does that moment
feel?
The powerful effect of this is: Once your mind has lived in that moment – even
though it was imaginative – you’ll more likely perform more comfortable and
smoothly the second time round.
Even if the sequence of the visualized date doesn’t pan out as you imagined,
your mind and body would grease itself to whatever you have already
introduced it with. If you visualize your hot date speaking, laughing, smiling,
smelling infectious, you’ll be more immune to the awe of it all.
We have to be realistic however. You can't visualize a world full of green lights,
when there needs to be a balance of red. You will not grow wolverine claws by
visualizing it every night when you go to sleep. Also, grudgingly hating
someone and wishing they’d drop dead isn't going to happen either.
There is a fine line between craving, hoping, and wishing how your mind can
bring you your goals.
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When you begin the process of visualizing yourself “getting with the girl” of
your desire, your thoughts are not just whims in the mist, they are concrete
and real.
Your thoughts are shifting the state of the environment, which then affects the
girl. Everyone in this world has a relationship with the environment. We both
vibrate at the same frequency (7- 9.5 cps).
Next time you walk into a room stocked with women, broadcast your invisible
frequency. They may not react to it, but they will receive it.
SPIRTUAL DIMENSIONS
Note: What I’m about to share with you may sound like spiritual
mumbo jumbo, but let me assure you, this is the physics to how our
world functions.
The world that we breathe and live in now is what people refer to as the 3rd
dimensional world. A drawing on a paper is a 2nd dimensional world. The 4th
dimensional world is where our higher self resides.
For example, if you're listening to Power 106 FM, you can’t tune into 104.5
FM. This applies to you too. If you want to be irresistible, you need to tune
into this frequency of thought. You need to liberate yourself from any
compounding negative thought activities inside your mind.
The 4th dimension is also referred to as a world where you have lucid dreams.
Drug addicts who’ve taken ecstasy and hallucinate transport themselves into
the outer layers of the 4th dimension.
The 3rd and 4th dimension is tied hand-to-hand. If you see something
in your mind's eye, your higher self will go about and manifest it for you.
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you get from a first person’s view: Your hands, sleeves, and sneakers
when you peer down etc.
Note: Visualizing does not require intensive effort. In fact, you should be at a
relaxed state when visualizing.
Don't just see it happening. Feel it. Touch it. Taste it.
Whenever I tell myself that I'm going to get 2 numbers within 5 minutes – this
was during my hardcore sarging days – my mind starts the process and gets
the ball rolling before I actually do it.
Watch the scene before you make the scene. This simple effect is powerful.
Now, I’d like to discuss with you three different types of telepathic
transmission, which can radically help you understand how to
alter the state of your social dynamics.
INSTINCTUAL TELEPATHY
Have you ever encountered a situation where you and someone close; perhaps
your best friend shared the same craving at the same time? You guys may have
wanted to go to the same club, eat the same food at that moment. That’s when
your instinctual ethetric telepathy communication is working.
Instinctual telepathy occurs when the energy from one etheric body hits the
other person's etheric body.
Your telepathic messages flow through your etheric message and it reaches the
other person’s solar plexus -- which is known as the recipient’s invisible body.
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Basically, the recipient can easily intercept every movement and emotional
thought that you produce, where they then act in congruence to your thought
direction.
You’ve seen it in the movies where a couple suddenly fling themselves at each
other and wildly makes out at the heat of the moment.
When you are trying to make a mental thought based connection with
someone, you create a non-physical link between you and the person.
When you overly desire for someone, or fear failure, the reality of you reaching
that level of success will take longer to unfold.
Detach your intense desire, and you will be in tune with more favorable
results.
THE HERMETIC PRINCIPLE
Note: I want you to isolate this principle from all everything you’ve learnt for
this part, especially with the power of ‘visualizing’ it may create some
contradiction. However, the hermetic principle is a very crucial factor to
follow at the same time as it contributes to shifting the reality in your favor.
The Hermetic principle is one that operates in the present. If you want to
become someone irresistible, think of it as being fulfilled already. This ties
in with the notion in the power to assume.
Now, to make your desire reach your subconscious mind successfully – which
is connected with the universe – your conscious mind must cease to
exercise the desire.
You see, when your conscious mind wants something, the very act of wanting
implies a future tense in regard to the fulfillment. This may sound a bit
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confusing, but in simpler terms, if you think you have ‘nothing’ now, then
you’re leaving room to fill that void in the future.
Since your subconscious only deals with the present moment, any idea offered
to it NOT in the present moment will therefore be ignored when requested.
Have you ever noticed how things that you’ve desired for
sometimes come to you unexpectedly? That’s because you stop thinking
about it.
When you text message a girl knowing that she will respond, you stop
looking forward to it. The probability of her responding also increases
significantly.
“What if people are watching and I get rejected when I approach her?”
I’m sure you’ve shared this experience before. Well, this is a process of “self-
imposing limits.” I want you to stop doing that. The universal mistake men
make is focusing too much on yourself, rather than her.
So what’s the fix? Well, to avoid the “nervous rush”, start placing your
attention and focus on her.
Next time you see your potential girl of interest, take action. Talking to women
is not a sporting competition that you either win or lose. She's a real person
who's giving you an opportunity to get to know her.
“Just make the move”. You won’t know whether she’s single, interested in you
or not if you don’t find out first-hand.
Hot Tip: When you do approach her, try your best on getting to
know her first. Forget about her phone number and email.
If you have no idea what to say first, just look for an “object” around her, and
use it as a conversational bridge. This is what I call a “Contextual opener”. For
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instance, if you’re meeting her in a bookstore, ask what she thinks about the
book she’s reading. That should help break the ice.
Introduce yourself with a pleasant smile and a slightly firm handshake, a hug,
or a nod of the head depending on the situation. Don’t easily be flustered.
Then, move on to introducing yourself and exchanging names. Keep the talk
short. Just when you turn around and leave, turn back and ask if she’s got an
e-mail. Most the time, women will giveaway their e-mails without hesitation.
Then, you can ask for her number right after. But if you’re really
confident that her interest level is high, then go directly for the digits.
You see, when you express that you are genuinely interested in the woman you
talk to, the phone numbers and emails will follow.
Your constant need and desire for women is a backfiring and self-destructive
behavior. Most men who are still single and lonely tend to grow increasingly
more depressed and frustrated with their status. This causes you to feel
worthless, or below the average. Stop relying on women as a source to fuel
your dignity and pride.
You must free yourself from the attachment of results, and rather, focus on the
moment of pursuit instead. This corresponds to “living in the moment”.
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When a competitive guy learns something clever, you’d feel a need to unload
it. When you learn a new conversational opener, you’d want to use it when the
next opportunity arrives.
However, when you’ve rise to the top of your game, you start realizing that all
these techniques and opening tactics aren’t necessary at all! Your natural
game eventually nears flawlessness.
This has probably occurred to every one of us. Our ego leaks into our self-
projection and we are shunned as braggadocios. The solution? Stop having to
boast about who you are. Give the gift of discovering who you are to her.
As men, we cannot play the passive role. You must be the initiator, the leader.
You must take action and shoulder the responsibility to make things happen
before things can more likely, or unexpectedly happen for you. Life can be full
of surprises when you’re constantly seeking to grow.
To truly succeed in life, you must not constantly worry and try to wrestle with
your weakness. They’ll never vanish if you’re consciously trying to ridden
them. The trick is to dilute them with the power of your strengths.
When you focus too much on what weaknesses you have, you succumb to
them.
Take that with a grain of common sense. Desire is a part of human nature. But
in the end, you will only be as successful to the degree that you LET GO, not
cling desperately to your 'style' or your 'techniques' or your methods – which
explains why pick-up techniques can only last so long.
Remember, long after all the clever lines and approaches have been exposed,
your authenticity and real character will never be out of style or a liability.
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You tried your best to track down your friend, but had no luck after searching
online, in phone books etc.
You’ll find it amazing how this joyful experience starts a remarkable chain
reaction in your body. It creates a subconscious softening of your eyebrows, to
the positioning of your toes, and everything in between. You will have the
confidence to approach.
Another crucial factor is to never make her think like you have ‘sex’
on the agenda. And please, don’t try convincing to her that you two
are actually old friends by rambling on some fabricated story.
It’s a sight that can burn its way into her eyes and stay emblazoned in his or
her memory forever. Almost every aspect of a person’s personality is shown
through their appearance, posture, and movement.
Before she develops any rational thought in pertaining to you, her sixth sense
will kick in first.
Many studies have revealed that the emotional reactions occur before the
brain registers what’s causing the reaction.
How? Start walking with a great posture, a heads-up look (chin parallel to
floor), a confident smile, and a direct gaze whenever you see women. This is
exactly the manner in movement, which a “somebody”, “celebrity” adopts.
Start by visualizing that you are a well built, world-renowned acrobat and
successful businessmen. How do you think these people walk? Follow suit.
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The core values you send out to others have the potential to spread
virally. It has a crazy domino effect. If a woman thinks you’re amazing, so
will her friends. Imagine approaching a group of women, you’ll notice how
they’ll look to each other for validation in regards to how special you are.
If you appear to be as a sleazy guy at first sight, all it takes is one person’s
reaction to infect the others. Girl A tells Girl B, who spreads the news onto Girl
D E F G and so on.
Now, the message that you always want to create is one that projects yourself
as a man of distinction: An individual with bulletproof game, charm,
influence, leadership, and irresistibility. How can you become that discernible
man? That’s what you’re about to find out.
Be Bold. Learn to take risks, not cringe at the sign of them. Stop being shy
about the actions or reality you want to create for yourself.
When you behave boldly, you will get RESULTS that you never had before,
because you’re doing the things you’ve never done before. Stop being
entrenched in your old routine behavior. Break out the mold. The rewards will
far surpass your expectations.
Transforming into a man with great audacity at a lightning fast pace can be
accomplished easily like adding numbers.
Hold conversations with the store assistants, barista, gardener. I usually like
to talk to people who rarely get a chance to hold a healthy quick conversation
during their day job.
For example: The security, janitor, anyone that doesn’t get to socialize much.
Truth is, you’re actually making their day by talking to them.
A sincere “How’s your day” is a perfect opener and can go a long way to
making their day more enjoyable. Plus, it always works beautifully and
generates a favorable response.
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See a girl you like? Approach. Just do it. There’s a reason why the Nike
slogan sells. It is life changing. Don’t be fazed or let your confidence level be
compromised by her looks.
After all, it’s only her external surface that’s handicapping your inner charm
and confidence isn’t it? It’s always the looks that knock your
confidence down.
If you saw a girl that looked plain and normal, you wouldn’t feel approach
anxiety waiting to grip you by the throat would you?
The Secret: Treat every woman like your sister (if you have one). Tease her,
but never fall short on showing respect.
Start doing everything you were ever afraid of. Get the kick out of
it. If you don’t take action guys, you’ll only wind up waiting forever on the
sideline.
NOTE: Women want to be around men who seem larger than life. They want
to be around someone more unique and interesting than they are.
Before you open your mouth and speak, gaze into her eyes. Make sure that
you’ve locked onto her attention, and imagine your eyes already whispering
words to her.
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Let's say you're at a bar and you see a woman you want to approach. She's a
beautiful French equipped with the whole package. Usually, you’d feel that
shaky, nervous, jittery feeling vibrating in your guts after.
The next thing that oft-happens in your head is: you try to come up with
ways to validate yourself.
"Damn, she's hot, incredible. Argh, but I doubt I’m going to have anything to
offer to her or a reason for her to talk to me…”
Tell yourself, “Hey, she’s not any better than I am, and I know she’ll
want to get to know me. I’m going to be the most special guy she’s ever met in
her whole life.”
Keep practicing this amazing technique and you’ll eventually stop placing
women above you. “She’s not better than me”.
Tell yourself things like “I got what she needs”. Stand behind your words
and start believing in them.
Repeat it over and over. Loud and assertively. The more you do
this, more confident you’ll become.
Remember, this woman that you fell in love at first sight with does
all the nastiest, crass, and disgusting things you can imagine. She farts, poops,
scratches her armpit, and picks her nose. She’s not a goddess. She’s human
just like you.
It appalls me when I hear other guys call women ‘divine angels’, or things
along that line. This type of women idealization is very common and the
culprit for approach anxiety.
Women know that the one thing they can use to their advantage is their sexual
desirability and looks. Women with a rare beauty are also held in higher
regards and demand. Don’t let these facts and statistics undermine your game.
Remind yourself that you are also a man that’s high in demand. In
fact, you’re a whole lot more fun and sophisticated to be around than any
other guy she’ll meet in her lifetime.
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You don’t need any validation. Instead, you want her to prove to you that
she qualifies for your time, and also as a girlfriend. You want to learn whom
she is on the inside, not outside.
Men have become so shallow nowadays where the only factor that lures them
or compels them to approach is based on a woman’s physique.
How often do you hear another man admit first to enjoying a woman’s
company and personality and not just her breast or ass?
There’s also a reason why men only surrender helplessly to a 9 or 10. Never
let an appearance paralyze you and never bow down to it.
When you get a hot girl’s number, don’t go “Woo hoo!” or get eager and over
excited to call her the next thing. Instead, take a deep breath and collect
yourself. Getting the number is only the beginning. Learn to separate your
emotions from the big picture.
Let a woman know that you can easily see through them and that you won’t
be submissive and weak like other regular horny dogs. Once you get this part
of your life handled, things will dramatically shift.
You will find yourself more at ease when it comes to approaching women, any
woman. Remember, your thoughts can influence your action, and even more
on your performance.
Your level of confidence isn't something hard coded and inherited by genetics.
Your self-esteem isn’t something you are born with. It is something you
can build and develop. It’s all in your head. Take control of your thoughts.
If you have the intent to a getting a woman’s number, chances of you getting
them will lower, hence the Hermetic Principle.
Instead, you should approach with a mindset that says “Hey, she seems
interesting, I’m going to find out what she’s really about.” If she truly meets
your interest, then number-close.
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Women are not born perfect, as much as you think they are ‘perfect’ for you.
Don’t throw away your life trying to please them.
You know what’s another similar common reoccurring issue most men face?
Self-infliction of blame when they are the ones NOT at fault. The result?
Further weakening in self-confidence. It’s like digging a hole for yourself. Such
disquieting evolutionary curse needs to be quelled.
Consequently, most guys become paralyzed by the analysis of “what the hell
went wrong?” Was it my tone of delivery? Incorrect order of words? Wrong
timing?
You’ll always come across women who are ungrateful, dry with humor, and
self-centered. This is nothing to be surprised of. There are tons of empty-
headed, uneducated women out there; just as there are with men.
In the face of such time, you must not shell out any tolerance, regardless of
how fine her skin texture and gracefully built her body is.
Tell yourself this… “Your looks ain’t shit to me.” Leave the superficialities
aside.
You see, the stare is a way in which leaders assert their authority.
Subordinates are intimidated and look away when confronted by a superior.
I know, we were all taught that staring is rude. But try to unlearn this etiquette
for the sake of this practice.
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Next time you’re out in public, stare at a stranger and refuse to shift your gaze.
Your aim is to make that person look away before you do. Don’t break the
gaze.
Once you’ve mastered this, try it on your friends or co-workers. This time,
stare into their ‘third-eye’, which is located right above the bridge of their
nose.
Gaze into it until your eye rays pierce through the person’s skull. With such
intensity in magnitude, they will start feeling uncomfortable and look away.
Be open and approachable. Develop the habit of asking, “What do you think,”
before declaring, “You will do this,” or even, “We will do this.”
You see, people are naturally inclined to support what they help decide.
Quite often, when people realize they have little influence on the decision-
making process, they withdraw from active participation. They are usually
reluctant to participate actively in a process, idea, or system that they were
never consulted on.
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Be Controversial. Ask for opinions, but don’t try to agree with everything
the woman says if you don’t believe in it. On top of that, make sure that your
point is logical and valid. You don’t want to sound ignorant or naïve.
One of the leading reasons why women get bored of their dates is when they
readily agree to everything she says. If there’s no conflict or opposing
thought, there’s no challenge. A woman will always want a man that she finds
challenging to control. Try playful verbal sparring with her while holding your
ground. Be solid, but friendly. Listen and you will receive.
You would be surprised how much women will want you if you stop caring
about getting them in the first place. Most men (which I reveal later) are so
pent up and obsessed with bedding beautiful women that it shows in their
tone of voice, body language, and words. You’re therefore giving women more
weight and authority, which leads to unnecessary intimidation.
The cure?
If your body language suggests that “It’s her loss”, then this is what she’ll
subconsciously pick up. Don’t get bitter just because she turns you down.
Remain cool & calm instinctively knowing that she’ll regret it.
Destroy the fear of not-having women; and paradoxically, that will help
you attract more women.
1. Stop being so desperate. I’ve stated this before, but I’ll need to state it
again. Spend less time daydreaming about women, but place more effort on
improving yourself.
Kill that inner shame right now if you don’t have much experience with
women. Shatter any belief of yourself not being worthy of a woman’s time.
There are millions or more men out there stuck in the same predicament. You
however, will be climbing out this hole.
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Day 1
Ask for directions (even if you know where you’re heading), Ask for the time
(tuck away your watch).
Day 2
Repeat what you did in Day 1, but increase the numbers to 5 random
strangers. Again, transition smoothly. Don’t bunny hop in front of someone
and say “Hi”.
Day 3
Now, we’re going for women today only. Hit up the mall, coffee stores,
restaurants and talk with 3-4 different employees. Practice using 1-2 different
openers.
Day 4
Repeat Day 3’s activities. However, this time, extend your conversation.
Try to get a bit more personal, ask for her name, and look for external cues as
a lead for conversation. Your objective is to stretch the interaction.
Day 5
Today, it starts to get exciting. You’re going to approach 3-4 women and strike
up a healthy conversation. Now, the objective is to be the first to excuse
yourself – because you have an arrangement to tend to.
Before parting ways, tell (don’t ask) her to give you her e-mail so you two can
keep in touch. “Hey, it was great talking to you, we should keep in touch,
what’s your e-mail?”
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You may encounter times when women put up some level of resistance, which
is also known as the shit test. Don’t let this throw you off guard. Expect it.
Embrace it. Welcome it. Women test approaching men to gain more clarity
and insight on WHO you really are. Are you a loser or a guy with worthy of
getting to know?
When a woman rejects a guy, it’s not because of who you are, but how you
approach them.
Most men only get rejected when they convey too much sexual intent.
Women hate it when guys are too forward as it comes across as sleazy. You
need to approach like you’re a guy that naturally enjoys meeting new people.
Remember to advance into talking about HER after the first 30 seconds.
Eyes Opener:
Collision Opener
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When you see your target walking down the street from a distance, you want
to accidentally get right in front of her so you two suddenly come to a
screeching halt.
That’s when you want to say “Ah, no problem. You would have stopped me in
my tracks even if you weren’t blocking my way.”
If she smiles or laughs, great. If not, it only shows that her humor sucks.
In the case that she laughs, tell her “You know, it’s good you laughed, it shows
that you’re mind is sharp and your humor is great.
I actually just wanted to see if you had more going for you than just your
looks.
“Hey, sorry, I noticed you here and I realized that if I don’t say hi, I won’t ever
get to know how great you are in person. My name is Andrew. (Reach out for a
handshake.)”
Women love this. Keeping it at a minimal and indirect. That’s sincere flattery
that pierces right into the center of their heart.
If your mind drifts away when holding a conversation with a person, your
listener will notice that you’re ignoring them. On the other hand, when you’re
fully engaged in the moment of interaction, you will become more interesting
in person.
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Don’t be afraid to this when your date is around. Live the moment to the
fullest. Do you feel like dancing on the spur of the moment? Even when in
appropriate? Don’t be afraid to do so. Wild out, just know when to REALLY
stop.
Never should you be tense, walk or sit with a poor posture. Never should you
fake a laugh. Just behave in a laid-back fashion. Be someone that’s secure with
themselves. Pretend she’s a long lost friend of yours.
This will inform the girl that you are pleased to see her and will also make her
emit similar signals.
Leaning toward another individual suggest that you are happily disposed
toward the person and to what he or she has to impart. Never stoop or slouch.
When sitting across your date, rear your body straight.
Hot Tip: You should always appear 2 inches higher unless you’re dating a
giant.
Try to tilt your head, face, and eyes in the direction of another person – this
creates a magnetic impact.
Advanced Eye Contact – I’m sure you’re aware already how important eye
contact is. Receivers more favorably read any messages accompanied by eye
contact than messages without eye contact. Here’s a secret. Whenever your
eyes meet another person, try to emotionally emulate it. Then, escort it with a
smile. This can yield a tremendous effect on bonding.
Eye contact is also a form of respect and affection. To most people, profound
eye contact signals trust, knowledge, and an “I’m here for you” attitude.
When you look intently at someone, their heartbeat pumps an adrenaline like
substance, which gushes through their veins.
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This is exactly the same physical reaction people have when they begin to fall
in love. A drug-like substance rushes into our nervous system called
phenylethylamine. This is exactly the hormone responsible for feelings of
erotic excitement.
Hot Tip: Give her the sticky eyes. Warm eyes. Don’t break the contact before
she finishes speaking. If you must look away, do it slowly. Act reluctantly as if
it is hard to let go.
Your eye’s attitude should be saying, “I can’t take my eyes off you.”
The way you move and look comprises of 80% of the first impression you set.
Seriously, loosen up the tense muscles and chill out. You’re only dating a
woman, not holding a public service announcement for the world or packing
your bags to go to war. Stop trying to be a perfectionist, quit memorizing
canned openers. They belong in the waste bin.
Most men tend to also cautiously watch what they are saying, but also observe
the subtlest movement their date is making. They become over dependent on
other’s reactions.
If their date was laughed, they think they did a great job. If the feedback
response was poor, they go on a buzz-kill.
You’re only shoving yourself out the picture and bordering yourself on
insanity.
Don’t’ become distressed if you didn’t get to kiss her on the first date, or if she
cancelled on your proposed date. Continue to stick to the formula.
Chill out and stop caring so much. A laid back man is a sexy man. One who
does not care whether or not the hottie he is talking to will be coming home
with him.
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A woman’s tolerance level is higher when she sees high superior value in
you. It is also so much easier to engage in sexual communications.
Whenever I’m about to approach a girl, I know I will get her speaking
receptively to me. I know she will hand me her e-mail or number when I
request for it.
The concept of “knowing the endings” is very powerful, and can shift the
reality in your favor.
If she refuses to give her number away, at least you know you don’t have to
waste time pursuing her. Don’t despair guys, there are plenty of other of
women who may potentially be more worthy of your time.
Believe that you are the man any woman would want. If you only believe that
you can succeed, but you have no faith in yourself, things will never fall to
place. When you believe that “You” are desirable, irresistible, advice, then
women will expect nothing less. A man’s conviction is THAT contagious.
Warning: Do not be lost entirely in the character you want to become. Don’t
wind up wrapped in the mythological you. Don’t envision yourself as someone
flawless. After all, you are still human. You will still make mistakes.
Now, be honest with yourself. When a woman first meets you, what do
you think runs through her mind?
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When you think of Pepsi - You think of cool, dynamic, refreshing. When you
think of Gucci, you think high-end, luxury, expensive.
What values can they pick up from you? What do they see you amazingly great
at doing?
You must strategically plan, build, and reshape your brand to gain a positive
image of the minds in public (women), and rise above the noise (other men).
Women love to hear the fact that their guy “works out”. Try to invest at least
30 minutes to 1 hour daily in the gym guys. When you are intensively working
out, your confidence naturally increases. Now, that’s just your external
appearance.
Groom Yourself
When out in public, women are concerned with their man’s look. It’s no
surprise, we as men want the same. Do you to out with a girl who can’t dress?
Or one that looks like she hasn’t showered for days?
The tip here is step up your hygiene game and to dress clean, fresh, and smart.
Personal Hygiene
Keep your hygiene game in check, always. Got acne? Visit your local
dermatologist for treatments. Usually, topical creams will suffice. For more
severe cases, opt for laser.
If you have a crooked grill, yellow teeth, foul breath, dandruff problems,
greasy hair, get them treated. Don’t let these problems get away or pretend
that women will overlook them.
Look not just like a million bucks, but feel like it.
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Clothing
Bear this line in mind. Fashion is an extension of how you view yourself.
Wear stuff that compliments your body frame and structure. Look at how the
male celebrities are dressed. You don’t need a personal stylist or high-end
branded clothes and accessories.
Women don’t care about the brands; they just care about your
overall presentation.
If you can take care of yourself, it sub communicates to women that you can
take care of a relationship.
Don’t be disheartened if you don’t consider yourself good looking. Looks really
are overrated, and you can still look drop-dead attractive in a woman’s eyes if
you can dress right.
The obvious tip is to dress smartly would be purchasing garments that suit
your body structure. What might be hot in the current fashion world might
make you look like a monkey, so it would be better to stick to clothes that suit
your body frame.
Of course, smelling good and having a haircut that makes you look chic and
macho at the same time can also be a big plus.
You want your look to compliment your image, your desire character. Be
consistent with your look. Define your character clearly and stick to it.
You have the ultimate authority and power to decide what kind of person you
wish to be taken for, so dress the part!
Things may feel a bit awkward at first, but you’ll adapt soon
enough.
Michelangelo said that each slab of marble contained a statue inside. Apply
this philosophy to our life and career. Decide exactly how you want others to
see you, and carve away the parts of your life that no longer fit your new image
of yourself.
On another note, fashion can be negated when you truly have a recognizable
social status and reputation. That’s why Brad Pitt gets away with wearing a
tight fish net t-shirt, or gladiator wear in his movies and still melt the eyes and
hearts of women. He manages to maintain authentic masculinity in his verbal
and non-verbal projections.
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This is a great demonstration that all forces that attract are interconnected
and can be applied in different facets of pertinent to our life.
1. All customers are not created equal. Give or take a few percentage points,
80 percent of repeat business for goods and services will come from 20
percent of your customer base.
2. The most important order you ever get from a customer is the second order.
Why? Because a two-time buyer is at least twice as likely to buy again as a one-
time buyer.
3. Maximizing direct mail success depends first upon the lists you use, second
upon the offers you make, and third upon the copy and graphics you create.
Translation: It all starts from within. Your core behavioral patterns, your
attitude, your inner game. Whatever pick-up tactics or openers you know is
analogous to the ‘copy and graphics.’
Translation: Learn to understand whom you’re dealing with and you’ll more
likely ‘get more out of them’. That’s why I strongly urge you to try Sync
Dating if you haven’t done so.
5. The “Take rate” for negative option offers will always outpull positive option
offers at least two to one.
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Translation: If you continuously ‘agree’ and slave for women, your failure
rate is likely to double. Be a challenge. Build some healthy resistance. Don’t
give in too easily.
6. Time limit offers, particularly those which give a specific date, outpull offers
with no time limit practically every time.
Translation: Give your time a price and value. Instill value in every date and
make the occasion rare. This will drastically build her attraction level higher.
7. You will collect far more money in a fund-raising effort if you ask for a
specific amount from a purchaser. Likewise, you will collect more money if the
appeal is tied to a specific project.
Translation: Looks really don’t matter. It’s who you are, what you’re made
of, and how you can rock her world emotionally and sexually that really
counts.
9. The longer you can keep someone reading your copy, the better your
chances of success.
Translation: Looks really don’t matter. It’s who you are, what you’re made
of, and how you can rock her world emotionally and sexually that really
counts.
10. The timing and frequency of renewal letters is vital. But I can report
nothing but failure over a period of 40 years in attempts to hype renewals with
“improved copy.” I’ve concluded that the “product” — the magazine, for
example — is the factor in making a renewal decision.
Translation: Looks really don’t matter. It’s who you are, what you’re made
of, and how you can rock her world emotionally and sexually that really
counts.
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Translation: You can date any women, but learning how to control they way
they feel towards you is another story.
13. You will get far more new catalog customers if you put your proven
winners in the front pages of your catalog.
14. Assuming items of similar appeal, you will always get a higher response
rate from a 32-page catalog than from a 24-page catalog.
Translation: A little extra effort in creativity and work can go along way.
16. Telephone-generated leads are likely to close four to six times greater than
mail-generated leads.
You’ll often hear complaints and whining on how the world’s devoid of real
gentlemen. Sadly, most women only live to see it in the movies.
Here are some quick acquirable principles that’ll get you started to
showcase your gentlemanly characteristics.
Strolling on the street? She better be walking in the inner lane. Keep her
away from the moving cars, traffic. Make her feel safe.
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Out on a lunch or dinner? She better be seated first, but you don’t HAVE to
pull a chair out for her. The fraction of a second when you stand a bit longer
before sitting down reflects respect.
After the date, you should always walk her home, or offer to drop her off
home. This is very crucial to keeping your gentlemanly image intact.
You want to make sure she gets home safely. However, if she tells you she can
manage to return home herself, insist one more time and let go if she declines
again. Never be pushy.
This demonstrates that you are a very thoughtful guy, and is VERY addictive.
There’s one condition however. Don’t ever use a word too big for your own
tongue. Before you add a word to your arsenal, make sure you know how to
pronounce it, spell it, and distinguish what context or situation you should use
it so it’s appropriate.
You can start expanding your list of rich vocabularies easily. Get a thesaurus,
and study synonyms for words like “smart, nice, pretty, great”. Make it a habit
of learning a few new words everyday. Think of it as a self-improvement step
to all fields of social communications, not just with women.
Language is power.
When your date is looking real good, don’t just spurt out a mediocre “Wow,
you’re looking really good”. What you should try say is “Wow, you look classy
with a punch of elegance”. Or… “Hey, you look ravishing tonight”.
Learn to be more descriptive. Words can work wonders and influence the state
of a woman’s bubbly emotions.
This can potentially make all her girlfriends (when around) go limp and crazy
for you. Words can melt a woman’s heart.
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When you use richer words, she’ll perceive you as more creative, educated,
and respectful. Substitute a word a day for two months and you’ll soon find
yourself sweeping the feet of women merely with words.
Now that we’ve established the impact of words, imagine the power of
phrases. They’ve helped politicians get elected “Read my lips: no new taxes”.
Also, get defendants acquitted “If it doesn’t fit, you must acquit”.
Neat phrases make powerful weapons. Start learning phrases that have visual
impact. Instead of using cliché lines like “Happy as a lark”, try “Happy as a fat
kid with cake”… or “Happy like hitting the jackpot”.
Blend in some humor and this will even get a good laugh out of her.
It’s a fact that most professional speakers and comedians all glean through
books for quotations and look online for lines of humor.
Make them rhyme. Keep it funny. Keep it clever. Most importantly, keep them
relevant.
Unless you got shot, then it’s understandable for you scream your lungs out.
Avoid using any profanity when you take a woman out on dates.
Even if you’re really pissed, don’t cry like a baby about it. Watch what you say.
You should not only pride yourself on sounding articulate, well mannered,
classy, and also be capable of expressing yourself without having to resort to
using shallow words.
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This is why you need to dispose any pick-up lines; it’s what the amateurs and
insecure men without real game do. A pick up line serves as a clutch – and a
source they can blame on when they get rejected.
The person must feel like it’s his or her own idea, not someone else’s. It is
more effective, real, and long lasting. However, someone else (you) can
influence it.
Girls can readily sense when a guy is running some pre-canned or pre-
rehearsed material on them. There is an underlying sense of sexual
communication, which becomes cautionary to them.
Now, what we’re about to discuss is a method I use to tap into her hot-button
sex regions of the brain that are known as the medial, lateral septal nuclei, and
preoptic areas. They are the ‘nuts and bolts’ of reproduction that controls the
release of hormones and irresistible urges such as thirst and hunger
What’s the fastest and fluid method in getting her comfortable in having sex
with you? It all starts by talking about the subject itself. Don’t make the
transition into the subject a rocky-road either. Talk about it like you’re talking
about your favorite sport.
When you talk about sex comfortably without sounding like you’re walking
through a landmine, she’ll actually appreciate it and find it relieving.
By releasing the tension off this weighty subject, you’re doing a huge favor for
both of yourself.
I usually enjoy asking for her opinion on sex. Don’t brag about how delightful
you are in bed, or how powerful your abdominal thrust is.
Let her talk about it, put her into the driver’s seat while you wing her. Ask her,
“I need your opinion, what do you think women enjoy most in bed, what’s
every woman’s little dirty secret? I call this exercising her desire, and pushing
her to the edge of being a straight shooter – which means, no skirting her
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sexual wishes. The footsteps into tapping her inner sexual psyche is not
difficult.
Once you’re on the other end of the comfort spectrum, it becomes so much
easier to have initiate in casual or pre-heated sex with her.
Whenever I’m at a local coffee shop with my girl, she always browses through
their complimentary high fashion magazine and Elle magazine, I’d then ask
her which one she’d like to ‘sleep with’, or ‘keep’ as a personal longtime
significant another.
The point?
To make her open in discussing about her sexuality. The more you freely and
casually talk about sex, the more she’ll be screaming to hop onto you.
You’ll be more adept in integrating your personal skills into the real world –
and to help develop the world. Be a visionary. Think creatively. Get analytical
when necessary, and be mindful of others. Bottom line is, knowing more can
always give you the edge.
Moral
Use your wisdom to differentiate the good from bad. Live ethically – and
remain disciplined. Treat others like you want to be treated. Be as honest as
you can be, and start appreciating the value of life.
Social
Now’s the time to be more involved with public affairs, which is an incredible
way t strengthen your social communication skills. Learn to give back to the
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community and not just take, take, take. Develop a sense of social
responsibility. There’s always someone out there that can always use some
form of help.
Broaden your skill horizon. Veer from your mother tongue and be a multi-
linguist. Study more about different cultures and learn to live in one when you
get the opportunity – travel. If you are an athlete, learn to play a new sport. If
you’re a designer, learn to utilize new software. It can never hurt to learn
more.
What distinguishes him from Joker beneath that mask, costume, gadgets, and
pimped out bat mobile is that he, at his core, is a man who is armed with a
definitive moral boundary.
The guy embodies the characteristics of an ‘ideal man’. He’s physically ripped,
financially fit (being a successful entrepreneur), and academically poised.
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Now, you don’t need a multi-million dollar estate or the body of Adonis – the
Greek God, but you owe it to yourself to constantly improve yourself to get
more out of life.
Those who spend their time wisely and productively are the ones awed at how
fast time really flies by. If you happen to stare at the clock in disappointment
at how slow time elapses, then you have work to do.
Fulfill that need first, and everything else will magically take care
of itself.
Whenever I go out and prioritize the need to have fun with my friends and me
first, other women will pick your social proof, independence, and circle you as
a guy that’s safe to be approached by.
Start to click together proactively with people are congruent and incongruent
with your personality type. Give everyone and yourself the opportunity to
greet and meet each other.
If you’re going out for a night, look forward to having fun. Picking up woman
should run secondary, as it’ll come pre-requisitely with the “having fun”
process.
All you’ll need is a simple visual prop that is interesting, that will tickle a
woman’s curiosity.
Wear something that draws attention and inspires people to ask you, “What’s
that”?
I have a trucker hat that features the word “DORK” in rhinestones, and
women always come up and comment about it.
Hot Tip: Like wise, this is also a great way to approach women if they too
have a “WHAT’S THAT” factor.
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Carefully observe for anything interesting she might be wearing. If it’s a bag,
say “Excuse me, I couldn’t help but notice that attractive handbag, I like it. I
think my sister would like it, where can I shop for it?”
Believe it or not, we are all multifaceted renaissance men. It’s time to unchain
your inner uber-cool, and let it fly high. Now, charisma is not something
everyone is born with, but we can sure develop it.
This is one of those “mysterious” human traits. You may even learn by
thinking of people you think embodies charm, and emulate it in your own
way. Don’t copy their lifestyle or movement, but modify it until it becomes
part of you.
To be a modern day renaissance man can have many benefits. You become an
all-around person, not necessary a know-it-all.
For example, I have a habit of studying a la carte names on the menu when
I’m dining out. This way, when I recommend my date a dish without having to
cast a glance over the menu, she will be flushed.
Experience gives you conversational fodder. The more experience you have,
the more you can sound like an “Insider” when meeting all sorts of women. It
can never hurt to know more right?
Now, right below I have provided the ingredients (for your inner game) to
becoming a charismatic person, and also a short but detailed guide to
awakening your inner charm.
Be Enthusiastic? How?
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Whatever subjects you’re speaking about, just remember: the listener will
always model their response to your behavior. If you describe that the
movie as boring, in lifeless voice, she’s going to buy that.
Be enthusiastic in your voice and action, and she will believe it is important.
Men that have experience with women have advantages over men who don’t.
Those that do can pick up on subtle cues women transmit to telegraph their
interest, and use that cue to progress with to getting women in bed.
The more experienced men are usually more observant. Those who are
confident with who they are focus less on themselves. They become more
mindful. They don’t have to worry about whether they’re appearance is good
enough, or think to themselves... “What should I say next?”
With more experience, you start placing your attention more on where it
belongs – the woman you’re pursuing.
When you’re confident, you are more comfortable in your skin, and inside
your environment. Your whole body will communicate a stronger message
about who you are.
You see, when you’re uncomfortable, or struck by tension, women will sense
the uneasiness. This causes them to also become uneasy as they feed off your
negative energy like a sponge. When this happens, women will want to get
away from it.
By being comfortable, suave, and relaxed, women will find your company a lot
more enjoyable. You’ll also perform better in terms of delivering humorous
remarks, witty comments, and forking out engaging conversations.
ULTIMATE CONFIDENCE
Ultimate confidence stems from having a strong emotional foundation. You
want to be capable of showing that you are confident, not just feel confident.
They must both go hand to hand.
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You can be very confident, but if it doesn’t reveal in your actions, then she’ll
never know.
What is confidence? Simply put, confidence is the feeling of not having that
dreadful feeling of being held back.
Raise your personal standards and values. If a woman pleas and pouts
at you unreasonably, do not tolerate with it. Do not every put up with such
bullshit. If a woman cheats on you, do not withstand such indecency and
disloyalty. Man up, and stop being defeated, manipulated, and walked over
like the red carpet.
Here’s a scenario that happens to a lot of guys. The guy shows up on time, if
not earlier on the meet up spot for the first date. His date arrives 30-60
minutes late. The guy shrugs it off and tries to retain his cool while the girl
profusely apologies, though not meaningfully.
If this ever happens to you, do not put up with it. Punish her, not physically of
course. Tell her that it’s strike one, and if she strikes twice, she owes you a
double-dinner date.
It’s utterly disrespectful, and it proves that she doesn’t respect you enough for
your time; unless of course, there was an emergency reason then it may just be
ok to let it slide. Don’t fall for her lies though. Once is ok, but don’t let history
repeat itself.
Only you can set the tone and framework of your relationships. If
she blames you for something you didn’t do, or irrationally throws a fit at you,
don’t accept such nonsense. Otherwise, you’re selling yourself to her childish
and devilish behaviors.
Take charge. Through time, she’ll stop testing you when she knows you’re in
full control of a dominant behavior. Girls are pleading for men to
dominate.
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When I’m not around my girl and busily working, sometimes she’d ask me out
of insecurity – “Hanging out with another girl?” I’d sarcastically tell her “Yes, I
am partying it up with 5 different girls from 5 different countries, with 5
bottles popping… oh I almost forgot, 5 more ladies to join. Care to join? It’ll be
fun.” – Obviously, this is all said jokingly.
Your personal boundary safeguards and protects yourself from being abused,
manipulated, or taken advantage of unjustly. It prevents you from losing self-
respect and dwindling into deep-insecurity once you learn NOT to allow
others to take away your dignity.
You stop wanting to conform and oblige to the outer world, but instead, one
that you would rather cherish.
Quit being so sensitive to what others think of you or expect from you. When
you’re out meeting new women, the truth is, they don’t really bring you into
consideration, as they are obsessed with themselves.
If you try too hard to impress your date, it will raise a red flag and foul smell.
Women will know you are trying to hide or overcompensate for your
insecurities.
Imagine a girl who can’t stop complaining or bitching about her ex. Compare
these women to one that preserves her cool, and leaves her ex to the past.
Which one would you rather date? Hopefully, it’s not the one causing all the
drama.
We are literally living a test everyday. Stay true to who you are, and what you
believe in. When you’re out on dates, women will always test to see how far
they can push you. Stand firm on your feet.
Women are drawn to men who have courage to speak aloud, and express
themselves.
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If you’re still at a phase where you compare yourself to other men, you’re still
not comfortable with who you are. Don’t criticize others unless they ask for it.
Don’t judge anybody but yourself.
Everyone applauds skill. Are you a computer genius? A juggler? Be proud of it,
not ashamed. Any display of skill confirms to the onlooker that you got the
goods to deliver. When people witness greatness, they feel inspired. They feel
good.
You’re gifted, and others are going to hate on it. That’s life.
Make your girl feel good, and it will ignite a wave of addiction.
Cardinal Rule: Keep your ego in check. Never brag on and off just to be
pleased at your own craft or talent. Don’t ever try to “impress” people. Let
your actions do the work.
Follow the Japanese proverb: The clever hawk hides its claws.
Only reveal the skills you got when the opportunity presents itself. Your date
will be a whole lot more curios about what other secret abilities you may have.
Learn, learn, and learn more. Yes, I can’t help but address the need of striving
for daily growth. This is the key foundation to exuding attraction.
Be open to new ideas, and constantly evolve. It’s true, when you stop growing,
you die. On a similar note, if you cease to grow, you’re lacking in “life”.
Women can see a “healthy spark” in you when you are someone that aspires to
learn. Life is a journey, not a destination. Just because you’ve mastered one
trait, it doesn’t mean you’ve come to an end. Enjoy all moments of challenges,
embarrassments, and rejections.
Guys, this is also the secret to making yourself more relatable to someone else.
This is when a feeling of rapport sparks.
There really is something to learn from someone else, regardless of what their
profession or IQ level is. There is value to be found in the most unexpected
times.
Always have a curious and open mind. Take a proactive approach when it
comes to learning as you’re adding value to your personal knowledge bank.
The healthy and powerful approach to life is just to see the value in people,
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ignore what’s of no use, and reap the benefits that come with a positive
outlook.
Rinse, lather, wash, and repeat that cycle and you’ll soon boost your self-worth
infinitely.
You know you’re working with charm if you can capture the attention of
people around you simply by smiling. It’s in your “swagger”, the stride in your
walk, the tone of voice, and the expressions that you make.
With charm, you can get any woman you desire, and attract very successful
people around you. Charm is indeed, very powerful in the corporate world.
You know how there’s that one person everyone loves inside their job?
Check the stats. The art of attracting people consists of 10% projection of
success, 10% appearance, 10% intelligence, and 70% charm.
Some people were naturally born prince charming. Some had to learn the
ropes through social communication. And… I’m sure there are many that still
have no clue on how to be charismatic.
Well, the good news – which most men don’t know is – we all have a built-in
inner charisma; it’s only a matter of springing it back to life.
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7 COMMANDMENTS TO WIELDING
AUTHENTIC CHARM
The following principles should help pump up the blood volume and bring a
lightning pulse to your inner charm.
You can easily compliment someone simply by what they wear. Doing this also
suggests that your date has a great “fashion sense” – which consequently
makes them “feel good” about themselves.
If you enjoy the presence of her smile, tell her you “you have a beautiful
smile”. That line alone makes any women melt!
7. Charm at its simplest just says, "You are terrific. Thank you for
joining me." – in a non-submissive manner.
Well, it’s time pull the blankets off your inner charm and get it to shape.
Start practicing with the list now so you don’t come across as rehearsed – or
simply putting up a front.
Who can you practice your charm with? Simple. Your parents, siblings, dog,
neighbor, friend.
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In short, charm is like a butterfly's touch on a rose petal. The key is to not
overdo it. It can be a VERY fun and a profitable tool in interpersonal
relationships and the dating stratosphere.
Make her feel like you and her on the same team. When you’re out on
a date, get her involved in your activities. Play verbal games. Sync date. Ask
her who she thinks will be ‘getting some’ tonight. Take turns, and explain
your reason behind your answer.
Another great chemistry inducing game is to ask what she thinks of other
people that are around you guys. The state of emotions you want to feel is:
YOU+HER AGAINST THE WOLD.
Once a woman becomes emotionally invested, she’ll convert these feelings into
indicators of comfort around you.
You know how everyone has at least one role model? Become your date’s role
model. Better yet, BE a role model to the world, starting with your
neighborhood. Women will be deeply drawn to your well-defined qualities.
All women want a man full of life. People are vicariously living other’s people
life. You want her to be in yours.
Role models are very addictive people to be around as they enlighten you.
They add value to people’s life and give inspiration. Learn to inspire others
with a sense of greatness. Push others to elevate into new heights.
The secret: People are drawn to people who have things that we wish for
ourselves. Health, power, success, energy, drive.
THAT’S WHY YOU MUST GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GET BUSY.
If you’re living your learning how to attract women, or win over their
approval, stop immediately. What you want to do is make women
FIGHT to live with you.
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that you should undervalue the importance of your sexual needs; I just think
it’s silly to spend half a day fantasizing about women, or how to preparing to
impress them.
When you think less about having to impress women, they become less of a
priority. When something’s less of a priority for you, you lose that sense of
nervousness, or chances of “freaking out” when it comes to dealing with it.
You see, the more you want something badly, the more emotionally
involved you become. When dating women, you can’t let your emotions
overwhelm you.
When you believe that you need a woman – again, I’m not saying that you
don’t – you become more frustrated and angry when you are deprived of
having a girl in your life. This then disrupts and weakens your calm and cool
demeanors, which are pillar emotions during the process of creating
attraction.
Women are not attracted to men who fall for them too easily. They
have guys falling for them left and right so stop blending in as a blur with the
rest that are trying to “qualify” for her. Stand out by making her “qualify” for
you.
One very powerful and coveted skill I think most men should learn
is SARCASM. In short, sarcasm is making light of a negative situation for
comedic effect. Trust me, despite what you’ve been taught about other dating
coaches about sarcasm, it’s VERY powerful and can streamline the process of
creating heavy attraction.
However, be careful how you use it. Why? Because it could make you come
across an insensitive jerk, or actually hurting someone’s feeling if you can’t
play it right.
Sarcasm is kind of like a doctor’s scalpel, it’s a razor sharp tool that should be
used with extreme skill and precision. If you slip when you’re using it, you
could end up slicing yourself or the person you’re using it for.
If you are capable of handling sarcasm, WHICH I know you have the potential
to, the results can be extremely rewarding! I am actually a master of this
subject and known for shooting healthy doses of sarcasm into your system.
Here are a few examples to how I put sarcasm to work. It’s really easy.
Imagine this.
When a woman sneaks up behind in attempt to scare you, tell her “Ohh...
that was almost as scary as walking in the dark” Then, pretend to
shake the fear off.
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If you notice her walking at a fast pace, playfully cough and tell her “Ahem,
are we in a race? You’re walking kind of fast.”
If she’s trying to sing to a song – and her voice just isn’t vocal coaching
material, playfully tease her. Tell her: “Hey, I think you should be signed
by a record label.” All you’ll suffer is a punch to the shoulder.
For example, if you see an oversized jean on display in a store, joke about how
you can “fit your whole family in there.”
Warning: Stay away from sarcasm when you’ve come to a tragic accident –
plane crash on the news, child abuse etc. You don’t want to see a car crash and
go “how lovely”.
I advise you to test sarcasm with your close friends or people who know you
already. This will help refine your skills before anything is really on the line.
The easiest yet solid way to perform this feat is by giving a woman the gift to
miss! This may sound paradoxical, but the more you are absent from her, the
more curious – thus interested – she will become in you and your schedule.
This is what most men hardly do, as they are blind to the logic behind it.
Present the fact that you have a high social value, worth, and you
can’t kill her curiosity since there’s just so happening to share.
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Don’t allow yourself to be an easy catch. Keep yourself preoccupied with other
areas of your life. Distancing yourself can truly make the heart grow fonder.
When she doesn ‘spend time’ with you, it then translates to ‘quality time’
where she values the moment ten times more.
Note: Don’t ever get arrogant. Always treat her like an equal. Never assume
that someone is better than you, or you’re better than others.
If you're dealing with an attractive woman, please remember, you're not the
first guy who’s showed her interest. She probably had clusters of dates and
guys approaching her from all corners.
She knows she’s a hot commodity, and that men would “hustle hard” to get
with her. Instead, you want to flip her reality’s script and make
yourself the one in demand.
2. 99% of the men she meets and dates wind up following her around like
puppies; either right from the beginning or eventually falling slave to her.
3. When a guy acts "too nice" and does it "too soon", she sees this as a sign of
neediness and weakness. She becomes repelled and will ditch him. There’s a
reason why telling a girl you “love” her within the first 3 to 6 months can draw
major consequences – the girl leaving you.
The trick to keeping a woman’s attraction level is to “push” her away from you
gently in order to bring her back to you.
Let the bird out the cage. If she comes back, she’s there to stay.
As humans, we appreciate and value things more when it’s not easy to
access. When a woman is subjected to this treatment, she won’t feel exploited.
Rather, you are giving her a legitimate reason to develop a growing sense of
attraction towards you through emotional arousal.
If something just falls into your lap without you exerting any effort for it, there
isn’t much worth in it. You start taking it for granted. In order to be attractive
and irresistible, you need to be worth more than you can ever imagine.
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You know how when a woman tells you she wants to tell you
something, but right after, you ask her what the matter is, and she
says “Na, forget it”.
When a woman leans in and places her soft moist lips only inches away from
yours, and suddenly retreats herself from the kiss, that’s a pull.
It’s very similar to playing hard to get, except you’re doing it on the spot and
can be executed with the command of words.
Now, it is your turn to create a pull. Imagine if you are an expert in fixing
computers, and a girl calls for your help because her computer crashed due to
a virus infection.
To create a pull, tell her “Hey, because I think you’re a great person that
doesn’t just download porn all day, therefore resulting in this virus
contraction. I’m going to fix this for you free of charge.
At this instant, you’re pulling her in. She feels indebted to you. She’s likes you.
Usually, this is when you want to pause for effect.
After around 2-3 seconds, skeptically say “But how do I know for sure that you
don’t surf porn sites all day”? Now that’s getting a woman hot and
bothered.
You’re pulling her closer to you so she doesn’t just take you for granted.
A portion of her melting chocolate didn’t pass between her lips but dripped
onto her chin.
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What’s a Push?
A Push is when you’re pushing her away – an act that appear counterintuitive
to showing desire – yet it instills attraction within women. A push implies that
you are not desperate and can be happy without having her around.
However, you don’t want to come across as a jerk, otherwise you’re really
going to push her away.
Many times, when I’m with a hot date, they like to test my reaction by saying
things like “They (other men) keep looking at me.” Or, they’ll start bragging
about how men “hit on me” left and right.
Instead of reacting jealousy like most men would, I remind her that the guy
must be interested. I then insist the girl to give her number out to whoever’s
pursuant. This implies that I am not afraid of losing her.
Here’s another scenario. If she tells you that she only digs men who have deep
meaty pockets, give her the opposite. Tell her you don’t have any money in
your bank savings, and only a few 5-dollar notes in your pink piggy bank and
it’ll never work out between you and her.
There is one word of caution however. Never come across as “Trying” to play
hard-to-get. You want women you come in contact with to recognize you as
someone with a busy schedule, outgoing life, and are actually “hard-to-get”.
Imagine dating a super star artist. With all the tour bookings, mini-concerts,
guest appearances, recording sessions, the artist is “hard to get” by default.
Don’t allow yourself to be an easy catch. Keep yourself preoccupied with other
areas of your life. Distancing yourself can truly make the heart grow
fonder.
When she’s around you, she will value the time by ten times more.
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Note: Don’t ever get arrogant. Always treat her like an equal. Never assume
that someone is better than you, or you’re better than others.
Before she values you for your time, you need to value your own time too.
This increases your mating value dramatically.
You want a woman to keep on guessing where she stands with you.
SPONTANEOUS TEASING
One of the most potent ways to ignite attraction with women – if executed
correctly – is to tease women regularly.
Teasing women really isn’t calculus-difficult. It’s as simple as a-b-c. What you
really need to do is just practice, just like all comedians do everyday. In no
time, you’ll eventually become a natural.
You know why men who act like jerks score lots of women? It’s
simply because they TEASE. Now of course, you need to be able to spot the
fine line between being a tease and being an ass.
My girl and I were in the car, and her favorite song comes on the radio. She
starts singing along – her voice isn’t Mariah Carey material of course.
5 seconds after she started singing, I sarcastically told her “Not bad...I think
they should feature you in the song.”
What I could also have said was: Wow (pauses)… your body sounds a bit out
of tune today! I would then massage her as if I was tuning her body.
At that instant, I said “Wow, that was lovely”, and rolled down the window.
This behavior may get you a light punch to the arm, a slap on the back, but it
really is powerful in building attraction.
Another time when my girl was trying to throw her used tissue into the trash
can, which she missed when trying to shoot it literally from one foot away, I
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told her how “that was impressive, she should join the national
basketball team”.
Girl: (while holding a can of coke): I think the coke can got smaller.
That’s a non-insulting way to tease women. Note: This only works if the girl
OBVIOUSLY isn’t fat. Teasing also requires an ounce of empathy. You do not
want to throw this punch line on an obese chick, or you’ll really be a jerk.
Another scenario…
This other day when I was heading to the bathroom at the Culture One’s party,
I caught a hot girl mistakenly walking into the men’s bathroom.
Every guy was surprised. When she noticed, I playfully stood in front of her
and said, “Hey, your welcomed here if you really want to be.” – suggesting that
she should rethink her entry.
Girl: (Laughs)
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You: WOW, you must be the coolest girl right now. (Enthusiastically)
Her: (Laughs)
Being cocky and funny not only aids in strengthening the rapport, but also
loosens up her muscles and makes her more comfortable being around you.
You: We just started seeing each other, I barely even know you. Touching me
costs $20. It’s only free when you’re my girlfriend.
To really sharpen your humor, you need to develop the capability to respond
immediately and spontaneously when the opportunity arrives. Don’t try to be
funny. Wait until a bounty situation arises.
SWEET TEASING
This is where you say something sweet – to tickle her ego – but
tease her right after. The effect is similar to my advanced Push &
Pull method.
Around 7 P.M my girl was debating whether she should shower before heading
out for dinner.
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“If you hit the shower, you might not smell as good as now.”
Me: “But that small burp that suddenly erupted out of you almost killed it.”
Her: (laughs)
Note: Never freeze up as you are leaning in for your first kiss. Assume already
that she’s screaming for it! Women love kisses, just don’t fumble with
sloppiness.
Shield up. Here’s how you can defend yourself when a woman playfully teases
you.
My girl attempted to “tease” me the other day when I was pretending to act
out a scene after watching the movie “YES Man” by Jim Carey. She
sarcastically comments on how I should be “featured in the sequel,” since
I’m quite a “YES” man myself.
Tip: Whenever a woman tries to tease or poke fun at me, the best way to is
“play along.”
My response to her comment was: “Yea, I agree. I knew I always had a movie
star in me”. Or I could have said, “No, I don’t think the directors can afford
me”
I was trying on these new pair of Ray Ban shades the other day, and I thought
it was a bit oversized my face. I asked my girl “Don’t these look funny on
me?”
Ouch, you may think that I’d have started gritting my teeth and taken it
offensively. Instead. I did what was best to defuse any impending anger. I
reacted coolly.
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I simply told her “Yea, that’s kind of old news, I was hoping to find something
that’ll look good on me for once. What a shame how these shades can’t
manage?” (Shakes head)
Notice what I did? I agreed with her, and blamed the shades without taking
her remark offensively. I swiftly squashed the insult without overreacting.
Never ever react negatively when a woman or anyone in general says
something that may seem hurtful. Men who are secure with themselves would
never have to resort to a hostile response.
1. Most of the things that people "want" aren't for the most logical reasons.
2. It’s human mature. We "want what we don't have” Once we get what we
want, we become satisfied and eventually get bored of it. The novelty value
fades to oblivion.
If she ever asks you a personal question, don’t just give in right away. Ask her
what she thinks. Women love to share their opinions. AND…when
you do provide her an answer, don’t fulfill the question entirely.
Keep her hanging on the cliff. Keep her questioning. It’s what
reporters in news programs do. They’ll throw you a cliffhanger right before a
commercial break so you’ll return to watch their program afterwards.
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Whenever a woman asks something about you, you can create mystery by
being indirect with your answer, or, play hard to get by replying with
“You’ll find out soon”
For example, if she asks you, “So what kind of girl do you like?”
Your ideal answer would be… “What kind of girl do you think I like”?
If she persists with “I don’t know, you tell me”. Hold on to your guns, and
repeat “Come on, take a guess, what kind of girl you think I’m attracted to?”
At this point, she will take a stab in the dark. And when she does, you want to
respond to what she said. Tell her whether she was right or not. Only after
should you tell her exactly who your ideal main squeeze would be.
Your answer should always sound mature and genuine. It should set a
standard for her to follow.
For example, my answer would be: “I like a girl who has standards, knows
how to take care of herself, has a beautiful personality, and won’t call me 20
times a day”.
You’ll notice how she’ll be absorbing every word, and get a good laugh out of
it. And that’s how a moment of addiction ignites.
Too much circulation makes the price go down: The more you are seen and
heard from, the more common you appear. If you are already established in a
group, temporary withdrawal from it will make you more talked about, even
more admired. You must learn when to leave. Create value through scarcity.
Remember, women do not feel attraction towards men that are needy,
desperate, and not independent. Women only feel attraction towards
men with challenge.
Whenever you give a woman a little bit, and take few steps back, you create a
"Hey, I want more of that" emotion. If you keep showering her with
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attention or giving her your time whenever she demands it, she’ll
consequently render you “uninteresting” and “too easy” to get.
When a woman thinks, miss, and anticipates on your next date, it is often even
more powerful than the actual EXPERIENCE of "the next time.” Let your
actions be unpredictable by not acting routinely.
There is a certain attractive power that unpredictability holds over both men
and women in the courtship process, and by showing her too quickly how you
feel, you become exposed.
The reality is, most men often grow insecure and think it is a daily
requirement to keep track of their women all the time. They go on a full-court
press and barely let the girl breathe.
They’re trapped in the illusion that by being more attentive or spending more
time with her, it would only go to prove that he truly cares for her. Now
that is a huge, huge mistake; one that can only backfire.
Things that are unpredictable, on the other hand, require a LOT of thought.
Unpredictable things are fascinating to people, especially women.
In summary, here are the secrets to make her want you BAD.
1. BE a challenge.
2. Give her a little, and then take a step back. Let her experience the
withdrawal symptom.
4. Be unpredictable.
Be confident, be cool. Play a little hard to get. It can’t hurt but help.
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Talking for hours on the phone suggests you have too much free time, and that
you’re readily accessible. You don’t want to give her the liberty of being able to
call you and getting conversational time whenever she wants.
You want to her to think twice before she calls you. “Is he busy?” “I better have
a great reason to call him, not waste him time with fluff talk.
Save your conversation for the dates. Don’t be so eager to talk to her.
Concentrate on building your career.
This makes it a whole lot more valuable when she does speak to you.
When you send an e-mail to her, stick to the same principle. Keep things light.
Don’t drop an essay-length message on her. Your time is valuable.
GAMBLING
Before we get into how you should please, tease, and excite women
(emotionally), we must fully grasp an understanding of why “gambling” is so
addictive and how the concept can be seamlessly woven into the dating
stratosphere.
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Now, I’m going to show you how to command the exact same tidal influence
this activity has on our human minds and habits.
It’s very simple. All you really have to do is “Place bets” whenever an
opportunity arrives. In order words, compete! Women love competition,
which explains again why they love a challenging guy.
For example, if you’re going on a bowling date, compete for a free 10-minute
massage. Lay down your own rules. For example, the first person to reach 3
strikes gets a 10-minute free massage from the other person.
The prize should be in any form that’s realistic, affordable, and rewarding.
Why massages? Because they are a non-alarming request that always works.
Women will readily accept to any activity that’s relaxing and safe.
Bonus: Incase you don’t have the Midas touch of a masseur; here’s a quick
tip on sensually massaging a woman, and possibly into a “Welcome mood”.
I’m sharing this with you since knowing how to massage a woman a very
important and useful skill to acquire.
Rule #1 Take it indoors where you will be free from any distractions. Play
some soft-music in the background; preferably R&B. Your choice of music
itself can work wonders in pulling her into a “welcoming” or receptive mood to
get down and dirty.
Rule #2 When massaging, begin on her neck, then to her back shoulders.
These are the safer regions. Then, slowly and sensually trail your fingers
down to her lower back. Take your fingers skiing down the slopes. At the same
time, lean in a bit closer and let her feel you inching near her. This creates a
sensational tingle that can instantly turn a woman on.
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Why not constantly ride at the top? That’s when things become too
predictable and monotonous. Remember, having too much of something
compromises its emotional value. Imagine a movie jam packed with John Woo
action sequences but no meaningful plot, people will eventually become numb
to the stunts regardless of how creative it is.
Women in general need to take breaks, reset, and refocus their thoughts.
First, you have to get accustomed to “Touching” her. If you still have a
hard time trying to apply “Kino”, you can easily break the ice by touching the
least unsuspecting sexual regions first. Here are some great scenarios to take
advantage of:
1. While opening the door for a woman, grace her back as you give her
a gentle push forward.
2. Give her your hand while you help her out the car.
3. Offer your arm while walking across the street.
4. When she’s unhappy or had a bad day, give her a bear-like hug.
5. Things will bubble up emotionally inside her.
6. When an opportunity such as a “hug” presents itself, whisper
in her ears too.
This is one of the most erogenous zones of any woman’s body. Speak slowly,
soothingly, and allow your lips to lightly brush against the skin of her
earlobe.
Then, exhale faintly. This will immediately send a wave of pleasurable shiver
down her spine.
Now, here’s a hot advice that’s a bit off-topic, but will definitely help you
transition into her mind state into a sexual mood.
What I mean by bringing her to both side of the fence is enacting the roles of
your alter-ego, or behaving on polar-extreme habits. Have a downright nasty
side to you during nighttime, and be a supportive shoulder when times
become excruciating for her.
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By engaging a woman’s five senses – sight, hearing, touch, smell, and feel, it
compels her to be more involved in the experience built around you. She will
remember everything more vividly, and with more value.
Imagine drinking a beer. Most men that enjoy drinking and can probably
recall the sight of seeing the foam, scent of hops, taste of the beverage, and
cool moisture on the side of the glass.
Then, there’s the clink and room of “cheers” from your peers. Kind of the like
the sound of the popping open a champagne bottle, or the sound of the swish
when you hit nothing but net in basketball.
These are moments you will never forget, and are addicted to – since you
love to “live that moment” again.
When you’re out with your date, LIVE the moment. Stop thinking about the
crumbling economical state, or allow yourself to be mentally adrift. If dating
was a sport, you want to be the player of the game, not the spectator.
There’s a stark difference between the two. Players live inside the game. They
are fully immersed. They are focused, determined, driven, and passionate.
They make things happen. The player literally forgets the rest of the world.
Time seems to fly as it dilates and contracts as he pours his soul into the game.
The spectator on the other hand, just watches indifferently. They cheer when
points are scored, and jeer when fouls are committed.
When you make a woman happy, you are instilling feelings of deep security
inside her. It serves as an emotional cushion, and will subconsciously make
her want to continue being around you. This is an evolutionary concept.
It doesn’t matter what it is that you do. As long as it makes her smile – and I
hope you’re not provoking a fake smile.
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Keep it sweet, short and simple. Avoid writing anything overly personal. The
goal is to express your gratitude for having her as company.
She’ll melt at the sight of your handwriting. Trust me, this always works.
Whenever I’m with a date, or even with my girl, I only channel positivity in the
present.
Ask yourself, but truly brings happiness? These are the factors you
want to integrate into your game.
Play the massage or backrub card. These are the most non intrusive methods
to create physical interaction.
This is a great cue to take before you give her a gentle but firm backrub and
reassuringly say “Hey, everything is going o be alright. I’m sure we can figure
something out”… “I’m sure we’ll see it through”.
The objective is to make her “Feel good” when times are pressuring.
Hot Tip: When you give a backrub, either swipe your hand up and down, or
pretend you’re washing a plate with your palms.
When you a liberate uneasiness or tension from a woman’s life, they will
remember it at the end of the night before sleeping, and will henceforth
become even more drawn towards you.
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HER: Hey, I just won the free giveaway dining vouchers from SUPERFLY
magazine!
POOR VIBE:
HER: Hey, I just won the free giveaway dining vouchers from SUPERFLY
magazine!
When you fail to generate a good vibe, it usually serves to mask your
insecurity to qualify your own social intelligence. Stop reacting selfishly when
it’s not you who gets to bask in the glow of glory.
Have you heard about Ivan Pavlov? He’s discovered one of the most
essential principles in the world of psychology.
Pavlov discovered that he could teach dogs to salivate at the sound of a tone, if
he repeatedly paired the tone with the presentation of food. The dogs then
learned that “tone” was associated with food (which they liked and therefore
“elicited” a salivary response).
By repeatedly pairing the tone and the food, the dogs learned to salivate to the
sound of the tone, regardless of whether or not food was present.
A great example is the emotion of fear. People often learn to fear things
because of previous unpleasant associations. For instance, a person may come
to fear dentists (or perhaps the sound of a drill) because of their past painful
dental procedures.
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Now, let’s think on the positive side. Think about an old girlfriend that you fell
in love with. Hey, I’m sure everyone has at least one they messed up on. You
may have been so crazy in love with the girl that you would do anything for
her. You may have done a few things you didn’t really care about.
For example, she may dig Chinese food, but you don’t. Gradually,
you end up going to Chinese restaurants “just for her”.
As a result of pairing Chinese food with the girl you “love”, you NOW love
Chinese restaurants.
You see, your feelings for her were transferred to various other
objects, situations, or people as a result of being paired with her.
Now that we understand the basics of classical conditioning, the question is,
Let's assume the object of your affection (your girlfriend, or someone you’re
attracted to) is always either in a: Good mood, Neutral mood, or Bad mood.
The goal is to associate you with her GOOD emotions and dissociate yourself
from her BAD emotions.
Be the man that gives her the “unforgettable good times.” Again, anchor
yourself to emotions of happiness. You don’t want her to associate your
presence with feelings of depression, anger, and anxiety.
So, the trick is, BE around her when she’s in a good mood, and avoid her like a
bad flu when she’s in a bad or downright nasty mood.
Yea, this sounds like common sense, but a lot of guys simply don’t know this.
What do they do? They start doing unwanted favors. They hang by the phone
sympathizing. They drop by her place with a basket of food or flower, just to
cheer her up.
Yes, her friends may think your sweet, but try not to do this. And no, you
aren’t being ass. By being around when her mood is bad, you are disrupting
her pre-designated emotions she associates you with.
Keep things simple. Just stay away. Unless you want to be her punching bag
and hear her vent, then I’ll leave that up to you.
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If this is the case, be there for her. She’ll need to draw strength from you and
need a shoulder to lean on or cry on. She’ll emotionally be venting at you, but
don’t ignore her. Just be understanding. However, if she’s not your girlfriend
yet, then you have the rights to remain “away”.
INCITING A LAUGHTER
Getting a woman to laugh with you – not at you – is one of the safest and
surest ways to vibe with women. Not only is laughing a stress relief
mechanism, it’s also a social one. There’s a magnetic vibration to someone
who can make other’s laugh.
The trick to getting someone to laugh is NOT to try or worry whether they’ll
respond favorably or not. Stop being so sensitive about it. If you’ve got a joke,
be consumed in the joke and deliver it as enthusiastically as possible. The
laughs will eventually follow.
GET CREATIVE.
Creativity in this dating scene is a rarely played card. Most men are just
sluggish in the creative department. Usually, when a guy comes up with a
creative thought, they fail to deliver it as they continue debating whether it
would be too clichéd.
Truth is, as long as you deviate from “What’s already been done”, the coast
will be clear to surf.
Flex your creativity and you not only earn her respect but interest.
I made an e-mail account for my girl, and inside, I wrote a series of notes on
how I felt about her on the first 10 dates.
Note: I only gave her the user name and password 2-months later.
If it’s your girl’s birthday, write a short note and stuff it inside the balloon
before you inflate it.
The goal is to come across as totally original, and be the FIRST to ever do such
things for her.
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Women are daydreamers. They love to drift away from reality and relish
in their own ideal world. Well, this actually applies to men too. So, how can we
create such state? Easy.
“I Wonder…”
The key is to let her tap into her imagination when you’re around. Better yet,
put yourself in the picture. This creates a powerful effect in positioning you
inside the circle of her fantasies.
For example, “I wonder what it’ll be like if you and I were the last person on
earth”, or “Have you ever wondered what it would be like if me and you were
the world’s richest couple, what would our responsibilities be”
“I wonder what more will we both want, when all our needs are
fulfilled”
Being funny in front of others proves that you are confident to command the
attention of a group. That confidence suggests to women that you’re a man on
top of things. It eases tension and takes the bite out of tough situations.
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If you don’t consider yourself a funny guy – don’t worry, I didn’t start out as
one too – BUT you can very easily become one. The most crucial step is to
eliminate the self-limiting belief of “I’m not that funny”.
Don’t worry about never getting jokes, not remembering funny stories, or not
spinning a good yarn. Humor should occur spontaneously; and just like
typing, the more you practice, the more adept you become.
Now, I don’t expect a comedic side in you to spring to life right away, but I’m
sure you’ve probably made someone laugh before.
What was it about? How did you deliver it? Whatever you did, bank on the
idea and reenact what works.
It helps to be quick-witted, and that’s something everyone can also be. You
don’t have to be Chris Rock or Russel Peters-funny; there are many ways to be
funny without using punch lines.
One general rule of thumb is to never sound forced! You don’t want to
consciously remind yourself to be funny. It needs to happen spontaneously
and naturally.
For example, when I saw a giant human sized teddy bear plopped on a bench
outside the mall during the afternoon I didn’t ignore on impulse or simply
acknowledge it by saying “Hey, it’s a giant bear”
Instead I told my date to “Check out that bear getting a free tan.” This is
actually an act of personification, which works like miracles.
While walking in the mall the day before valentines, I see a woman wearing a
costume made of heart-shaped pink balloons. She was literally a walking
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heart. At this time, there was a small stylist band make up crew preparing her
with her for the press.
She caught the attention of every passerby in the mall. Some even stopped to
take pictures.
Well, when me and my girlfriend saw, I went over and asked the crew, “Hey,
how much for that dress? I’d like to wear it for my date on valentines.
I’m sure there are many odd things that pop up unexpectedly in life. Even if
you’re in the middle of the forest, use your creativity and you can come up
with something funny.
Once walking past a female security that was busy peeling her nails off
(disturbing I know), I jokingly told my girl
“I don’t think peeling her nails off in public will give her a raise in salary”.
Note: Don’t make fun of her if she actually falls to the ground though. That’s
just insensitive and twisted.
The other day when I saw a poodle posting up besides the ATM machine, I
told my girl to “Check that poodle out, he needs to withdraw some cash”.
Remember guys, a good sense of humor will go a long way in keeping any girl
happy in your company.
Being witty with your remarks really help. Girls love a guy with
good wit.
Here’s another.
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She then tells me online that she mistakenly sent me a blank text.
I reply… “ Yes I just got a blank message from you, how sweet.”
Her: hahaha
If you can come witty with your responses, or with your everyday remarks
woman will love it.
Sometimes, I’ll ask my girl “What are you thinking of?” Whenever she says
“nothing”, I reply with a half-sincere look: “Well, that’s very interesting”.
You guys may think that sounds offensive or insensitive, but WOMEN love
sarcasm. Contrary to what other gurus may claim, sarcasm does not make you
petty if you execute it correctly. The trick is to do it in small amounts. Don’t
just fire a row of sarcastic remarks.
Once, this girl tried to creep up behind to scare me after she was out mall’s
bathroom. Just before she reaches to pounce at me from behind, I turn around
(having spotted her with my peripheral vision already), and faked a cry
“Ohh, that was shocking. Actually, saw you the second you got off the toilet
seat.”
Once, I had to wait literally 15 minute for my date to get out from the
bathroom. When she returned, I told her, “I think I just grew a bit older
waiting for you.
IMAGINARY HUMOR
I asked my girl the other day “What do you think you were in your past life?”
She goes “An owner of something VERY valuable”.
Then, I pride fully tell her with an I-can’t-help-it-look.. “Well I was the king of
China”.
While waiting for the red light to go green in the car, I caught a mosquito on
the windshield. I then pointed to the mosquito and said “Hey look, he needs a
ride, I think he had a tiring day.”
Hot Tip: Women love it when a man personifies animals or inanimate objects
as humans. It makes them go “Aww. He’s so sweet” while still being
considered as imaginatively funny.
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You may be scratching your head wondering if this really works. It may sound
peculiar for now, but I guarantee you it works miracles.
Before going to sleep, I tell my girl (who snores in sleep whenever she’s
exhausted from the day) “I bet you’re going to snore tonight.”
REPONSIVE HUMOR
Simply restating what someone else said, with a different tone or with a link to
another idea, can cause a chuckle or create another round of humor.
“I felt the same way the chicken did when it wanted to cross the road. I just
had to do it.”
A great sense of humor will always go a long way in keeping any girl happy in
your company.
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I will reveal to you several methods on how you can transfer more value into
daily interactions with women, and what you could do to escalate it
further.
If your date’s profession is a writer, tell her “You heard she’s good with the
pen”. Or, sincerely express that you’d like to see some of her “Written
masterpieces”.
As people, we all love it when someone else genuinely makes us feel special by
reminding us that we are competent, skilled, admired. Everyone loves to have
their egos stroked, as much as they hate to admit it.
This is essentially the foundation to adding more value into a woman’s reality,
especially when people in her social circle aren’t mindful of her skills, or never
acknowledges it.
How you can inject further excitement with a few simple words…
Women, or people in general, can’t refuse to listen to secrets. Next time you’re
about to tell a girl something, say: “Let me tell you a secret.”
Other great alternatives are “I shouldn’t really tell you this, but...”
Try to come up with many variations. Don’t over do this, otherwise the
inherent value in each secretive disclosure diminishes.
By implementing this method, you insinuate that you have their best interest
at heart, and you trust them.
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Now, don’t get me wrong. You’re not required to have an ivy-league brain or
eat up the entire Encarta archive. Just simply be a street-smart, well-versed
and rounded person.
Hot Tip: Read the newspaper daily, learn a bit about history, and write down
your thoughts daily instead of letting it resonate inside your head.
Warning: Avoid over-enlightening women as you may dig yourself into the
hole of self-righteousness. Never discriminate her and don’t be judgmental.
Don’t think that schooling her about a subject makes you any more intelligent
by landslides. This behavior will push you to the edge of arrogance.
Give her what she wants, and needs. I don’t mean the material things like
Gucci purses, lingerie from Victoria Secret’s, or latest make-up kit from Bobbi
Brown.
When you take her somewhere she’d only expect to go with a close friend, it
bonds you even deeper.
You can easily squeeze an accurate answer out of her by asking what some
things she always wanted in life are.
When adding more value into a woman’s life, you should never
expect anything in return. Expecting something in return only renders
you as selfish, and defeats the purpose of this blueprint. She should never get
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any slight idea that you are forcing her into a situation only to be compensated
later for.
Complete half a day’s chore with your girl. Help her complete an assignment
she isn’t so poised in.
Note: When working with her to solve a problem, don’t stress out and make it
seem comfortable. Always stick to the key characteristics that are attractive.
Be a tease, be funny, and be confident. Keep your game intact at all times.
Inadvertently, these are words women will start associating you with once
you regularly use them around her.
Ever had a friend who likes to use the word “Relax?” You probably perceive
him as a laid back dude.
Simply using the word “And” doubles the value of your words.
For example, if your date just about to purchase a new necklace and you want
to compliment how it looks on her, try this.
“Wow, that looks great on you. I believe you two were meant to work out
together.”
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If you’ve ready my “20 Dating Secrets”, all women have their own set of
insecurities. Therefore, it is important to know what titivates her inner
wavering esteem. It’s true. Women are emotionally vulnerable and fragile.
Make her feel beautiful. Women are creatures that are constantly seeking for
sexual validation too, not just men.
Trust me; a range of insecurities nowadays arrests women. This explains why
so many women are shallow and superficial. They complain about their nose
bridge not being high enough, breast size a cup too small; or perhaps
something more deep: loss of life direction to feeling mentally incapable at
times.
Eventually, she’ll be voicing them to you when she becomes more attached,
and you will have to deal with it. This is a great opportunity to make her feel
accepted for who she is. According to Maslow’ hierarchy of needs, every
human’s basic need is to feel belonged.
Listening ranks amongst the top-tier values that women are attracted to.
When you prove that you can listen, it communicates to her that her thoughts
are valued and inputs are significant.
You give her a sense of importance. Women want to feel important, and
such need of feeling can be addictive.
How would you feel? Disregarded, ignored, not so good. It’s as if you
are taken for granted and that your share of story isn’t all that important.
It’s as if no one is listening to you and you do not matter. It signifies that your
thoughts, concerns, and ideas are not accepted.
Additional Tip: Your eyes too can impress any girl within seconds. Look
into the girl's eyes with your own twinkling eyes that indicate fun and
mischievousness. Let your eyes promise the girl that good times await her in
the future.
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the
more common you appear, and the less in control you’ll have. Even if you are
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saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open-
ended, and sphinx like.
Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the
more likely you are to say something foolish.
The secret: When you shift the focus on them, people will remember their
experience with you as a positive one.
Instead of basking in her compliment and patting myself on the back for
having a great taste, I directed the attention to her.
Indeed, it’s a turn-on for women when they feel understood. Most men are
usually caught guilty for not really listening. What’s the trick circumvent this
problem?
However, sometimes that just isn’t strong enough. You don’t want to come
across as a guy that’s overly agreeable with your constant ‘Right... yess… uh
Huh’s”
Kill the usual grunts. Don’t be slave to “Umming”. Use complete sentences.
She’ll be impressed that you’re actually listening, and feel more encouraged
to-share more about her. Remember, the more a woman reveals about herself,
the more she trusts you.
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NOTICE HER
Whenever you’re out with a girl, even if you’re not interested or just see her as
a friend, take mental snapshots of her. Observe how she talks, the expressions
she frequently makes, the way she speaks, and how her skin wrinkles etc.
Practice this habit.
Watch out for noticeable features. It becomes second nature when you
practice. Then, tell them what you’ve noticed. This is a powerful technique in
building a bond between two people.
It’s the sweetest sound in the world. People love to hear their own
names being called. Always mention her name in the beginning or end of a
sentence when meeting women.
1. It demonstrates that you care about her, and she will subconsciously
notice this like the sound of “Ka-Ching” to the cashier box.
2. It triggers a feeling of completeness, albeit temporary, since answering
a question she readily knows about herself is a form of assertion,
which makes her feel confident.
3. You’re giving her the “Spotlight”, and I don’t mean her 15-minutes of
fame.
Guys, regardless of how great a woman looks, don’t forget, she still has own
flaws and insecurities. For example, if your date is heading off to a job
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interview, have faith in her. Tell her “I have confidence in you”, or “You’re
going to make the other applicants look bad!”
Out with her friends? Compliment her unique skills in front of them. “Jane
makes the best chocolate cake!”
Don’t confuse this with smothering a woman by not giving her personal time
and space to herself. A trick is to make her feel secure without being there.
How?
After a couple dates, buy her a teddy bear. Before presenting it to her, tell her
that you’ve hired a personal bodyguard. Give her the bear after.
You know how when you come out of the theaters from an inspirational movie
and you feel a raging surge of motivation to do-things you’ve kept on the
backburner right after?
Make her feel like a better person when she’s around you.
Rejuvenated. Renewed.
Teach her things that will contribute to her life goals. But first, you have to
identify what her personal goals and objectives are.
From example, a lot of women, just like men, want to make earn a
lot of money.
Now, imagine me telling you the secrets to making money, especially online.
You would definitely be inspired, granted that the secrets are perfectly sound
and logical.
Do you know why women adore or literally love male R&B singers?
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When you watch any music video featuring an urban R&B artist today, you’ll
see that they embody the sexual manifestations with lyrics voicing their
sensitivity to a woman’s need. Bobby Valentino, Omarion, J Holidays, Chris
Brown etc.
I’m not telling you to go all out with vocal training and learning new dance
routines, but what I’m saying is, you can also create fantasy tinged moments
also.
This may sound clichéd, but become the sound track of her life.
Whether she has a hectic schedule or stressful lifestyle, become her getaway.
Maximize the quality time spent together. It may be a bit hard if she’s a
workaholic, but it can easily be done.
What you want to do is make the investment to book a trip, or VIP movie seats
without telling her. Assume she’s interested. By human nature, it is very
difficult to pass up such offer. She will greatly appreciate the effort you put in.
You see, women don’t usually expect men to prepare much in advance. So,
prepare to dazzle and surprise them. Simple romantic gestures will make her
swoon over you. Make her eyes sparkle and gaze at the surrounding of your
scenery of choosing.
This is a factor that not only distinguishes you from other men, but draws her
even closer to you. Create new memories that she’ll want to keep!
Once you give away too much of something, it loses value and meaning.
Ask yourself the same question before you enact the date: “Will I remember
this day for as long as I live?
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Don’t get caught in the “talking trap.” Get out there and do something
physical. Throw in some action. It doesn’t have to be ESPN extreme sports
active, you can just take a walk in the flea market, or visit a local park.
Every now and then, pretend the date as the last day you two will be on earth.
What would you do?
Kick the romantic level up in you. Don’t ever let it fizzle. Consistency is the
key. I know it’s hard to keep your romance momentum strong, but a little
extra effort can go along way.
They think being romantic is being nice. They fall into the trap of becoming
her personal slave. You can be romantic without being submissive. Strike the
perfect balance by behaving a bit aloof.
Here are some overrated and saturated romantic ideas most men take their
significant-another on: Moonlight walks, beachside walks (with bare feet
dipped into the sand), fine dining.
Those are wonderful, and I’m not discounting them. However, with
more creativity and originality meshed into your date ideas, you can easily
create magical times. Don’t let the night fade away in vain.
Instead of taking moonlight stroll, bring your digital camera together and take
photos of the two of you capturing over 100 emotions. Make sure you use
flash.
Instead of walking on the beach, sit her down on the shores and offer her a
back massage.
Whenever she has sort of problems with life, help her solve it, but only
when you think she’s totally incapable of remedying it herself.
Be a crisis management expert. If she talks about how her girlfriend’s are
having problems with their boyfriends, feel free to offer advices. The key is to
give her a sense of protection. Is it going to be raining on your night out?
Prepare an umbrella.
TACTICAL EXAGGERATION
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Yes, this may sound controversial, but exaggerating at times can contribute to
making her feel good about herself without doing so slavishly. This works like
magic when it comes to the smaller-things. For example, if your date just had
a car wash, exaggerate the results. Wow it’s “Looking super speck-less.” …“I
don’t think I should touch it, it won’t be as clean.”
It doesn’t necessarily have to be directly about her, but could also be subjects
closely associated to her.
Let me explain. When we were infants, we were selfish beings and thought
we were the center of the universe. Nothing else mattered more than yourself.
Our brains were wired to these self-serving questions:
Don’t be surprised, and don’t deny. This thought process is still in us.
It’s the same thought as “What do I get out of it?” “What’s in it for me?”
For example, if you ask your date out for dinner… “Hey, want to head to this
famous Chinese restaurant tonight? I heard they’ve got a sumptuous selection
on their new menu”
Your date will first think to herself “Sumptuous? Could I possibly enjoy
it?”
“Hey, want to head to this famous Chinese restaurant tonight? You will love
the sumptuous dishes they have in their menu.”
When you phrase it this way, she will be more likely joining you. You’ve
subliminally answered her question. You’ve actually done the thinking
for her.
This is how most people get favors done, and how powerful advertising
messages are written. By putting the “You” at the start of the sentence, it
pushes the asker’s pride button.
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His thought process will be translated as “Can I do without this employee for
Friday?” This makes it hesitant for him to say yes.
However, if you ask “Boss, can YOU do without me this Friday?” You’ll already
be deciding for your boss. Your new wording made managing without a
matter of pride for him.
When two people are merely acquainted, often they’ll discuss facts. “You
know, Kate, I think this is part is going to be bananas.” Or, “Yeah, I can meet
you up at time square”.
When people become friends, they often express feelings to each other. Even if
it’s about the weather, they’ll say, “Hey Jane, I just LOVE sunny days. How do
you feel?
Now, when two people have reached a level of intimacy, this level is based
more on rapport. It’s where the two use “we” and “us” statements.
Lovers will say “We’re going to have a great time at tonight’s party”
Simply use the “We” word prematurely. Use it not just on your date, but
clients, prospects, or stranger you feel are friend’s material.
The word “We” fosters togetherness. It makes the listener feel connected. It
sends out a subliminal feeling of “you and me against the cold, cold world”.
It suggests to them that you and her are already friends. It subconsciously
brings her closer to you.
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This will keep you busy on your mind. Again, revise what I taught you about
shaping unforgettable moments. Those are the times that will forever find it’s
cozy estate in her memory street.
Internalize, practice, and refer back to this guide until you everything becomes
second nature.
Consistency is the key foundation to molding the new you, a new persona, and
this new self-shaped reality.
As you consistently live up to this formula, the people around you will all be
subject to influence. There’s no escaping your presence. Get out there, and
make the world feel intrigued, curious, excited when you’re around.
How long you want to carry out this formula is subjective to your liking. You
don’t want to falter in the steps by thinking you’ve ever done too much.
Growth is an endless journey.
There really is no threshold to how much woman can tolerate your new
pattern of behavior, or how much your friends and family is willing to see you
change.
When elephants born in captivity are restrained by a chain that attaches one
leg to a metal spike driven into the ground preventing them from roaming,
they become accustomed to the fact that, as long as the chain and spike are
next to them, they are unable to move.
The same applies with women. Once they register your dominance and
newfound identity, it’ll be hard to escape it unless you permit her so.
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CLOSING WORDS
Take Action. Make It Happen.
From this point on, vow to yourself that your life will forever never be the
same. Your pattern of living must change. You will now take action and apply
what you have learnt. You can have an abundance of knowledge, secrets and
strategies to dating women, but if all you do is sit there and do nothing, the
information acquired is worthless. Don’t take this patronizingly in anyway. It’s
just an enforcer, which everyone, including me, needs every now and then.
Pool your efforts into one area until you have mastered it. Build credibility.
Come to a point where you no longer need to prove yourself, as you are well
rounded, grounded, and insanely astounding.
The successful guy asks, "How can I make this work for me?"
The guy who failed says, "it won't work for me, because..."
Once a woman feels the impact of your new code of behaviors, you
will have them in the palm of your hand.
Behave accordingly to your desired character – Mr. Cool & Irresistible DAILY.
People will start talking about in the water cooler at work, or throw you into
their conversations… “Hey this cool guy I met…”
You will no longer need to act flamboyantly, obnoxiously, or brash to win the
attention of others.
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Start setting both short to long-term goals for yourself now. Be aware of
yourself setting this goal, right at this moment. Imagine what it would be like.
Feel, hear, and see your luminescent future crystal clearly. See it all
happening, as you’d wish. Think towards this. Forward think. This is a very
powerful contributor to shifting your reality.
I wish you nothing but soaring success, and I’m confident that you will soon
find yourself an amazing woman in your arms; someone that truly appreciates
you for who you are and is one that you will nurture a long-term loving for.
If you have any questions, concerns, or need clarity on any matter, never ever
hesitate to e-mail me. You can reach me at: syncdating@gmail.com
Respect,
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BONUS SECTION!
LEARNING HOW TO READ WOMEN WITHOUT A TEXTBOOK AND
COUNSELOR
Truly charismatic people have the ability to turn the tables and focus on other
people. When you demonstrate that you can read your date’s mind, she will
feel understood and taken care of.
When it comes to your dates, tell your woman what you “notice
about her”.
Go to a park, or any other space. Try to walk a hundred steps straight ahead
without bumping into anything. Walk with your eyes closed.
You can start by dividing it into ten steps, so the steps don’t seem as daunting.
Every time you reach ten steps, open your eyes, and look around. Try
remembering everything you see around you.
Keep doing this without disturbing the rhythm of your walk. Think of your
eyes as a camera shutter. When opened, try to remember every detail. Is there
a bird flying by, a tree to your left?
You will start noticing things you never saw before. This will help you
enormously when it comes to remembering women. Like a designer’s eyes,
you’ll be more sensitive to the small details.
Everything around you will appear more vibrant, clear, exciting. The more you
practice, the more your memory bank becomes broader.
Observe. What’s her watches brand? What colors are on the face of the
watch? What other accessories does she have on? What are the shapes?
Try to look for brand names, or any words displayed on her belonging.
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Now, I want you to stimulate them into feeling a certain way – happy, excited.
Take a mental snap shot on how they react. Note the facial movements, noises
they make etc. Learn to pair specific emotions with the physical motions. Pay
attention to any reoccurring patterns.
This could be about a past break-up, run-in with the law, stolen wallet etc.
Watch again how their facial coloration reacts to the tension and upsetting
memory.
The more you know, the more power you will yield, and the closer you’ll bring
yourself to the person’s inner state.
When a person is pissed, they generally flare their nostrils, crinkle their
forehead, or lower their eyebrows. I’m sure you’re aware of this.
My girl for example, puckers both her lips when unhappy, but she remains
really calm looking and silent. It’s kind of cute.
Remember, these are observed responses which helps calibrate the other
person’s through process.
When you embed these mental photographs into your head, you can predict
right away what the other person is thinking before they even open their
mouth.
Soft and silky hands suggest an office working, someone who’s more in
door. Of course, women also buy hand lotion.
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When you can read people’s mind, people will be hooked to your
magnetic charm like they are to a world-class magician.
Before taking any action, they will think about how that person will
perceive their action. This is to avoid “loosing face”, or embarrassing
himself or herself or the other person.
Next time you’re out in public, a restaurant, or the park, select a person who’s
relatively far away and imagine what’s on their mind. How fast are they
moving? How fast are they breathing? What are their eyes focusing on?
The more you practice this method, the better you’ll be in predicting other
people’s behavior.
My girl for one is always taken by surprise when I literally speak for her
mind. It’s like taking the words out of her mouth. I am able to tell what
she’s thinking when certain expressions she make cue for it.
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Guess what? Women are entirely unaware that they send subtle messages
with their eyes.
Here are some things to take note off, which are part of Neuro linguistic
programming:
Tell him/her to “Imagine yourself walking in the park, and you see an eagle
flying high above you. Visualize a family of apes to your right, and baby trees
sprouting from, the ground”
Next, tell him/her to imagine on a scene that excites the hearing senses.
“Imagine yourself hearing the pulsating bounce of hip hop in your car, then a
wailing siren closing in.
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