“Boyfriend Destroyer

Patterns”
How To Completely Annihilate Boyfriends Using Five Little-Known But Devastatingly
Powerful Covert Patterns That Work Like Magic!

By Benjamin Damien

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Pattern #1: “The Vanishing Anchor”

Pattern #2: “Extreme Polarity”
Pattern #3: “Future Projection”
Pattern #4: “The Annihilator”
Pattern #5: “The Rollercoaster”

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Pattern #1: “The Vanishing Anchor”

T his is the most effective pattern to use to overcome the “I

Have A Boyfriend” objection.

The idea is that you create an “anchor” of her boyfriend and then
immediately associate that anchor with negative emotions. It’s
actually pretty simple to do – here’s an example which shows you
exactly what to say and do. (My commentary is in italics):

Her: I would go on a date with you, but I have a boyfriend.

You: Oh. Well, thanks for being frank. I really appreciate it. And even
though I am interested in you, I still respect relationships a whole lot.
It's interesting, though - how people can be in a relationship one
day and then the next day, it's gone. (This is where you plant the
idea of a breakup in her mind so that it lingers in her brain in the
remaining of the conversation). Have you ever experienced that?

Her: Yes, actually. (Get her to say “yes” early on in the conversation
would increase compliance later on)

You: It's kind of like, things are going so well and suddenly things get
uncertain because you have no idea where it's going anymore, right?

Her: Yeah, I guess. (Another compliance inducer statement)

You: So what's your boyfriend's name?

Her: Ken.

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You: So, you're dating Ken (point to your left hand – this is where you
anchor the boyfriend) and it's fun and everything... but then you break
up for one reason or another. Have you ever broken up with somebody
(point to your left hand again – this will associate the boyfriend with
the idea of a breakup) and gone through a period of depression and
you suddenly realize why your relationship got ruined? Or have you
ever started looking at a guy differently and he starts to look
unattractive to you? (The last two questions are to incite negative
emotions associated with a breakup. At this point you’re already
planting three thoughts in her mind: (1) her boyfriend, (2) the idea of
a breakup, and (3) the negative emotions associated with a breakup).

You: It's just so strange how our minds work. However, I do want to
know what would happen if this whole process happened in a mere
instant (snap your fingers right in front of her face) in somebody's
mind. It would kind of be like his image has vanished (wave your
hand in front of her face). And each time you attempted to bring that
image back, it just vanishes again. Well, that definitely means that
you have started to get over him since you pushed him down your
priority list.

You: Or maybe you've gone out with somebody before but you've
completely forgotten about him already... you probably haven't even
given him a single thought in ages. So, where’s his image to you now?

Her: (Points at a spot on her body)

You: Is that where his image is? How interesting. So, if you wanted to
completely forget him (place your palm onto the spot that she pointed
at), it would make him stay in one place forever. Now, what if Ken is
in that place? If you look at him that way, you won't like him
anymore... you might even end up breaking up with him.

You: Yeah, breaking up can be quite sad, but it can also be great
because you'll have a chance to open up to somebody else for a
change. Like me. (point at yourself – associate yourself with the
OPPOSITE of the negative emotions / her boyfriend).

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Here are the steps in summary:

STEP 1: Plant the idea of breakup in her mind.

STEP 2: Ask her boyfriend’s name, and plant anchor.

STEP 3: Incite negative emotions associated with a breakup.

STEP 4: Associate the negative feelings with the boyfriend’s anchor.

STEP 5: Perform the “vanishing” routine.

STEP 6: Associate yourself with the OPPOSITE of the negative

emotions you induced in Step 4.

It could take a couple of practices before you nail this technique – but
once you have this in your arsenal, then you’ll have something that
other guys will fear you for.

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Pattern #2: “Extreme Polarity”

T his pattern is designed to “suggest” to a woman that her

boyfriend is far from ideal and covertly get her to imagine
an ideal scenario with a new boyfriend (i.e. you!).

This isn't exactly a destroyer; however, it can make her think about
how boring her boyfriend actually is (remember that being boring is
the cardinal sin of dating!)

Here’s the line:

"You're taken? Well, I sure am disappointed. However, I do know that

it's great to have somebody around who can make your every wish
come true and fulfil all of your needs, not to mention somebody to talk
to all the time. That's probably pretty clear with you guys, so when do
you plan on getting married? I mean, if he fulfils all of your desires
the way you need them to be fulfilled, you have probably already
planned your wedding, right? You must want to be with him forever -
how sweet.”

When you deliver this line, you’re planting these thoughts in her
mind:

1. Is it true that my boyfriend make all my wishes come true?

2. Does he fulfil all my needs?

3. Is he available to talk to me all the time?

4. Are we getting married?

5. Do I want to be with him forever?

Your objective is to make her feel increasingly doubtful about her

relationship. I know this sounds really insidious, but hey, nobody says
it’s gonna look pretty...

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In the end, when the girl starts mumbling about there not being a
wedding, move to a close.

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Pattern #3: “Future Projection”

T his pattern is a little “light” when compared to the

previous two patterns, but it’s designed to be used in
situations where you’ve just met the girl (and told that
she’s taken).

The trick here is to be light in commitment and make it “natural” for

her to agree to see you again despite having a boyfriend. This is done
by appearing “harmless”, and using a technique called “Future
Projection” to fire up her imagination on future meetings with you.

Here’s the line:

"So, I had a lot of fun and would love to talk again. Can I get your
number? Oh, you're taken, huh?

Well, that's disappointing. But I guess I need to respect your

relationship. Can I ask you something, though? Would you be
surprised if you actually wanted to spend more time with me, too?
Can't you imagine us having coffee together and laughing - having a
great time and just being comfortable in each other's presence? While
imagining this, wouldn't it seem utterly natural to go have coffee with
me this weekend?"

By saying that you “need to respect her relationship”, you’re

appearing to be harmless and unaffected. Then, using the “imagine”
trigger, you’re “projecting” her to the future – an experience that she
shares with you.

Again, for women that you’ve just met, you want to appear light-
hearted and harmless. Save the “heavy duty” patterns (Extreme
Polarity, Vanishing Anchor) for later – when you have developed
some rapport with her.

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Pattern #4: “The Annihilator”

T his pattern is a slight modification of the “Extreme

Polarity” where you first incite a negative emotion inside
her, intensify that emotion, remove that emotion, and
then “anchor” that experience to her boyfriend.

This pattern is good and easy if you compare it with “The Vanishing
Anchor”.

Here’s an example -

"Isn't it amazing how the mind works? I mean, you might never notice
how much you can control your feelings, but it's actually really easy -
trust me... Follow my lead...

Think about a time where you felt extremely embarrassed... where you
simply wanted the ground to eat you up when the whole world laughed
at your expense... do you remember how that felt? (wait for a bit)
Alright...

Now imagine that I have the power to take those feelings into my hand
(wave a hand at her chest and pretend to gather air into it) - all of
them - and squash them all... imagine all of your bad feelings locked
in this tiny space and me taking them away (swipe your hand away). I
bet you feel much better now, huh?

At this point, she would be inclined to agree.

See? There's nothing to making people feel great. It's actually quite
natural for me to do. Does Ken (wave your hand filled with her bad
feelings around) have that power?

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Pattern #5: “The Rollercoaster”

T his pattern is the most powerful of the lot – but it’s only
effective if you have talked to her before, and she is
already liking you to a certain degree. Use this pattern to
seal the deal.

This monologue may seem endless, but if she happens to be a good

listener, you'll be just great, so don't worry. You don’t have to
memorize this routine word-by-word: use your own variations once
you understand the rationale behind each line.

Here’s your opener line:

“I know you've got a guy and I respect that. In fact, I appreciate it.
You know, it's so rare to find somebody you want to spend time with,
so it's cool that you have found that.”

As with the previous patterns, it’s important to first

ACKNOWLEDGE the boyfriend, but appear unfazed about it.

“However, I know that it's possible to switch significant others from

one minute to the next, as well - even if you had no plans of doing so.
Yeah, I've been through it. I’m sure you’ve been through a similar
experience. That's what I thought. “

Here you’re planting the idea of considering alternatives in her mind.

Next, get her to think about breakups by saying this

“Well, imagine there's this guy (make a pointing gesture to one of

your palms at this point), and imagine you're dating him but you end
up breaking up. Have you broken up with a boyfriend before?”

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“Well, what if you suddenly start thinking about your relationship and
realize there are so many things about him you couldn't actually
stand? Maybe he never puts the toothpaste cap back on or he never
listens to what you say. Or what if he generates feelings of letting you
down, boring you or disgusting you? Has any of that stuff made you
break up with a guy before?”

With this line, you’ll get her to imagine negative experiences with her
current boyfriend.

“Sometimes, you might even reminisce about an old relationship and

obsess about every little thing you hated about the guy until you start
asking yourself what you ever saw in him. Did you ever think such
thoughts about an ex before?”

At this point, bring the boyfriend back into the frame and then reduce
his “value” –

“The point is: the whole process could take ages, but what if it took
place in a mere instant inside your head? Like, what if you tried to see
an image of him inside your mind (try to wave your hand in her face
at this point), but you just couldn't bring that image out? It would
seem like something random was just breaking him into little pieces -
like you simply couldn't injure his image anymore. That's actually the
very first sign that he is no longer your top priority (cover your palm
at this point).”

“Yeah, it can be quite sad to give somebody up, but it also has its
perks. See, when you give someone up, you can meet somebody new
and let somebody else get to know you and your thoughts for a
change. I think that's a great thing - making a connection and feeling
good for the moment.”

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This is where you start to introduce yourself into the frame and then
present yourself as the “fresh new experience” – especially when
compared to the current boyfriend.

“Whenever you connect with somebody new, it's kind of like a light
beam transfers from you onto them. Then, while it glows with the new
connecting warmth and when the depth reaches your goal, you can
open up to pleasure and desire and connection, right? Do you even
remember the last time you were with somebody who really knew how
to touch you and satisfy you? Wasn't it awesome? You might be
surprised that images are starting to jump into your head right now -
don't worry; I won't ask about them because they're probably personal
- but while these images get bigger and more vivid, sounds might start
to go with them. You might notice that something is lacking in your
life and that you need something else, as well. Do you wake up
sometimes with an intense desire in your being? What does that feel
like to you?”

Now, alternate back to the boyfriend and then covertly suggest that he
has been nothing but a disappointment –

“At times, somebody might anger you and you might decide that it
would be best to just forget them. So, where do you think that person
goes when you forget about him or her? Like those people you knew
back in high school or even things that you wished you could be when
you got older that just never happened? Did you ever use old
Windows computers? Are you good at throwing things away? Think of
an ambition you had as a kid. Was there anything you wished you
would become or would have? (The girl might say "model" or
"actress" or "superstar".) Well, you can still make that wish come
true, but where do you see that particular idea at the moment? It's
kind of like a Windows Recycle Bin, really.”

Finally, present yourself as the better alternative to the boyfriend and

seal the deal:

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“All you have to do is take certain thoughts about a guy and put them
in there. As a matter of fact, you might be lucky enough to get all of
his images somehow that have snuck themselves into your brain and
stayed there for so long. (Point to the location where the thoughts
should move to in her brain.) If you look at things this way, you may
notice certain feelings - like that you were wrong about him. See,
sometimes you might think you love somebody and then one day, you'll
suddenly realize out of nowhere that you actually love somebody else
more than that. This is sad, too, but again, also a good thing...”

Again, you don’t need to memorize these patterns word-for-word –

you just need to notice the structure behind each pattern and the
techniques (acknowledge the boyfriend, then plant idea of breakup,
incite negative emotions, remove negative emotions and increase
affinity to you). You’ll soon come up with your own routines and
patterns and execute them effectively.

Good luck!

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