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Table of Contents
1. Introduction
2. Understanding Trance States
3. Stacking Stories
4. Double Binds
5. Being Vague as a Neuro Linguistic
Tool
6. Tag Questions
7. Embedded Commands
8. Gaining Rapport
9. Observation, Mirroring and
Matching
10. Emotional Mirroring
11. Deliberate Rapport Breaking
12. Neuro Linguistic Persuasion Tips
and Tricks
13. Conclusion
1. Introduction
There is a general
misunderstanding among the
uninitiated as to what a trance-
state actually is. Too many
Hollywood movies involving evil
men swinging watches and turning
people into robots who will do
anything the hypnotist orders have
bought much of this misnomer
about.
In reality you fall into a trance state
naturally several times every day.
Although the term 'trance' is
something we naturally associate
with stage hypnotists or the stuff
from movies it is in fact a normal
state of limited conscious
awareness.
Have you ever been in a meeting or
lecture and you find your mind
wandering off? Maybe you've been
in that situation and then someone
has asked you a question and you
have instantly snapped back to
reality. Often when you snap back
to full attention you won't even be
able to recall what it was you were
thinking about just moments ago
while your mind was wandering.
This is a mild form of the trance
state.
You can detect when are in one of
these trance states if your attention
is limited and your thoughts have
become repetitive. When you reach
the state of deep trance your
attention will become so limited
that your focus is only on one thing
and everything else your
environment has become irrelevant
and shut off to you.
Many cultures and belief systems
practise meditation and often use
the chanting of a mantra which is
usually the repetition of a single
word or sound in order to focus the
mind. This process helps induce a
deep trance state.
Another common place example is
when you have a song stuck in your
head and you can't help singing it
over and over. This too is an
example of a trance state.
It is always important to
understand what motivates them.
Vocal Matching
Everyone has their own unique way
of speaking; some of us talk slowly
and some speak very fast. Some
have a very low pitch to their voice
and others have a high voice.
When we match the tone, pitch and
speed of someone else's voice we
will be in a greater degree of
congruence with that person.