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The man you have in your sights really can’t argue with
your logic here: if you’ve got secrets that you would
only tell to someone you felt completely comfortable
with, it would be wrong to try to persuade you
otherwise. He might try, because intrigue is a powerful
motivator, but you can refuse with a laugh and a
come-hither grin. This sentence throws up an air of
mystery about the hidden depths he has yet to uncover –
it tells him that he doesn’t yet know nearly everything
about you there is to know. And as I’m sure you’ve
guessed by now, that’s going to make him ravenous to
find out more. Slip this one into a conversation about
your past, when the timing seems right. It works during
that very first conversation or later, when you’re getting
to know each other on a first date.
Despite the fact that pretty much any man you meet is
hoping to one day settle down, put on a tux and walk
down the aisle, maybe have his woman pop out a few
kids to play behind the white picket fence, you’ll have a
hard time convincing most of them that’s the case.
Because men are contradictory creatures, they
simultaneously want these things and fear them. This is
because they are terrified of being “caught” and pinned
down, and will naturally balk at any suggestion this is
about to happen. If you can slip this sentence into the
first conversation, you’ll set his mind at ease even
though it was you who got the conversation going in the
first place. You’ll also present yourself as someone
intriguing and interesting, who he could potentially have
a whole lot of fun with. That, I assure you, is something
he’s going to want to hear more about.
Sounds too good to be true? I’m pleased to say that it’s not.
There really are a few simple sentences that will attract
his attention and make him fall in love with you. I’m
going to tell you what they are and why they work, so
that you can take them with you into the dating game
and prepare to use them to your advantage.
Ready to unlock your secret weapons? Here goes...
For Me?”
If there’s one cliché that holds true in the dating game, it’s
that your man will start to get pouty if he thinks he’s
being banned from spending time with his group of
buddies. If he mentions that there’s a sports game
coming up, that a guys’ night out has been planned or
that his buddy from work has tickets to a gig, seize the
opportunity. Tell him straight out that you don’t mind if
he goes – that you aren’t the ball and chain that old
cliché is telling him you are. It won’t just free him up to
pursue the activities he’s wanting to do – which, in and
of itself, is something he’ll adore you for. It will also tell
him that you’re confident and strong enough not to feel
threatened by the types of things that typically happen on
a guys’ evening. Strip club? No problem. Porn? No
worries. You trust him and know that it’s perfectly
natural for a man to spend time with his friends. He will
love you for understanding that.
Ever noticed that guys say the three magic words a lot less
often than women do? When a man tells you he loves
you, it’s usually in response to you saying it first. But
that doesn’t mean he isn’t thinking it or doesn’t want
you to know it. Actually, he’s showing you how he feels
about you all day long, in a hundred different ways.
When he fixed the headlight on your car. When he made
you a snack while you watched a movie. When he found
your favorite magazine at the grocery store. A man
shows his love through his actions far more than his
words and a lot of women completely fail to notice it
when he does. If you acknowledge his efforts and let him
know that he’s appreciated, he will feel the gratification
that we all enjoy feeling when we make our loved ones
happy. He will also feel as though you really, truly
understand him – and a woman who understands her
man is an easy woman to fall in love with.
17. “I Love the Way Your Skin Feels Against My
Fingers”
You can modify this sentence if you want to, just as long as
you pay attention to its construction. Read it carefully
and tell me how it makes you feel. Does it light up your
senses and get your imagination working? Imagine what
it would do if your lover whispered it to you. Any
sentence that conjures up your man’s senses is going to
have an immediate and profound effect on him. You can
use it to appeal to any of his senses: this example works
on his sense of touch, but you could talk about how good
he smells, how much you love running your eyes down
his body, the sound of his breathing in your ear or the
way his lips taste when he kisses you. The key is to bring
in his senses, which in turn will stimulate those senses.
This also works like a dream when the two of you are
apart. If you really want to stir up his libido and make
him think about you all day long, slip a few sensual
sentences into your conversations. A woman who can do
this is a woman he will want to spend time with – now,
and well into the future.
Again, I can’t complete this sentence for you, but this time
it’s because it depends on the context. When and where
you choose to utilize this magic phrase will decide how
you should end it. Essentially, what I am suggesting you
do is watch out for little affectionate actions and
moments that are unique to how he treats you. Maybe
your guy likes to run his hand through your hair as he
kisses you, maybe he holds your hand in front of his
family members. Whatever it is, make sure you let him
know that it melts your heart. The effect it will have is to
validate his behavior – to let him know that it’s been
noticed by you and approved. Especially in the early
days of dating, he has no real way to confirm whether
you like the things he does for you, so this is a great way
to intensify the bond between you with a simple
sentence. It’s a reward for his thoughtfulness, which in
turn makes him excited to see how else he can please
you. Never forget: a man wants to please his woman and
make her happy, so he will always be thrilled to hear that
his efforts are working.