In a family, the role of parents is very important in paying attention to their children's

relationships. Every child will need attention from their parents. If a child lacks attention or is
not heeded he will impact on the association, promiscuity that is increasingly free without
anyone advising when wrong and it also affects the child's psychic.

There is one family with an economic situation which is arguably more than enough. Consisting
of a mother who is always busy working and rarely at home and a father who often comes home
late at night without any purpose. Pasa ngan has a daughter. Who is sitting in 1st grade of high
school education . With her parents busy , this daughter's association is not controlled . It is this
situation that makes women often leave and there are no social restrictions .

Angel : hy, are you okay?

Ovi : P using me , at home there is no one who can understand me , bak often come home early,
mom is busy at work. I was at home at Omelin Mulu. I'm bored ...

Dina: Already laaa, do n't bother .. let's follow us ... I guarantee you will be happy.

Ratna: Yes, that's right ... We guarantee you will be happy. Trust me...

Meri: Don't be weird, guys ... all problems can be solved calmly ...

Amel: well that's right ... you're not crazy ...

Ovi: ahhh ... bullshit ... you don't understand how my father and my mother ...

Rika: yeah right vi ... all problems can be solved well the point is you have to talk from heart to
heart with your father and mother ...

Dina: Ahhh the important thing is to be happy first ...

Amel: happy ... happy but what if it's the wrong way?

Dina: amel .... what's important is happyyy .......

Ratna: Well betull tu dina ......... the most important thing is to be happy and have fun ...
uuuuuuuuhhhhyuyyyyyyy ..............

Amel: Ah give it to you ... the important thing is we've reminded ...

Dina: canteen let's go hungry

Ratna ovi: ayukkkk

Amel, rika, angel: no thanks ...

Ovi : where is the place that can make us happy? What did you say just now?

Suddenly the Sara Liza Ratih gang came

Saraya: eh poor but pretentious to be rich ... (while pushing ovi's shoulders)

Dina: eh relax brooo ... why nii ... can you just do it, you don't need to push it too ...

Liza: shut up

Ruth: hahahah belagu but poor style ... pretentious you think you're beautiful huh ... don't need to
be pretentious beautiful

Ovi: What the heck am I not bothering you guys ...

Saraya: Seeing your face makes us hurt ...

Ratna: lah ... it's your own fault it's not one of our friends, we're weird ...

Saraya: Already guys ... Enough ... hahahaha let's go ...

The Saray gang and Ratih and Liza left ...

Dina: You are weird ... just like to disturb people ...

Ovi: What the heck am I wrong ...

Dina: don't need to think about it ...

Ratna: Just forget about it ... we will be finished tonight, right? I swear it's really cool ... I
guarantee you are happy you can forget all your problems ... as long as you know I'm happy,
because of that ... hahaha, right, dina .....

Dina: yes vii ... I'm sure you will be happy ...

Ratna: Oh my God, I'll be able to pick you up later ...

Ovi : ok

Dina: yeayyyyyy ......

(and the clock also shows 8:00 a.m. friends come and they immediately go to the place they want
to go, it turns out that place is a discotheque)

ovi : what is this place ? seriously invite me here ..

dina: already .. you just come with us, I'm sure you will be happy

(and they entered the discotheque, ovi saw a friend talking to a man. Suddenly the man
approached Ratna, and took Ratna into a room. Ovi was forced into and an unwanted thing
happened. Because of rice has become porridge, so Ratna decided to continue this act because he
had felt his own happiness.This went on from year to year, until he was in high school at one of
the private universities in Jakarta, but all had changed when ovi met with a man who realized
that his habit was wrong, he was named rakes, Ovi and rakes had an affair for 2 years and were
all full of happiness. At that time there was something strange about ovi , had experienced
diarrhea , but was only given anti-diarrhea medication and multi vitamins and in the following
weeks there is still diarrhea accompanied by weight loss and a drastic reduction in appetite tis.

Ovi's parents are concerned with the state of ovi

mama ( rahmi ) : ovi , you mama noticed lately getting thinner. I'm worried about your condition,
let's go to the health center.

Ovi : No need, bro, I'm fine, the lying down will also recover soon

Rahmi : you have had diarrhea for weeks, son, you have to go to the hospital .
Ovi: Alright ma . Tomorrow ovi goes ...

At the hospital ...

Doctor : please sit buk, with whom Buk?

Ovi : I'm Ovi Buk

Doctor : Is the blood pressure measured? (talking to the nurse)

Per adm: already bukk 120/70 mmhg buk .. How much weight buk?

ovi : I don't know because I haven't been there for a long time ...

Perwat (diamond) : if that is the case, we should weigh it first, Buk

ovi nodded

Nurse: 69 kg, do n't you weigh it

Doctor : ok ovi book can I help you?

ovi : like this, after 2 months I have coughed, I haven't healed, I keep phlegm sometimes,
sometimes I have shortness of breath. And now I get diarrhea easily, do you sometimes have an
appetite, Dokkk?

Doctor: How long have you had diarrhea?

ovi : about 3 months doc

Doctor : If that's the case, let's check the laboratory first, sir, so we know about Buk's disease?
Are you ready? (doctor starts to get suspicious)

ovi : good doc

Doctor : You bring this letter to Labor Nnati when you get the message back, come back to my
office

ovi : good doc

In the labor ...

ovi : excuse me buk

Nurse labor: yes please come in ..., can I help you, sir

ovi : i want to check labor buk ..

Peraawt : OK , wait a minute, OK ... (busy with a letter), OK, let's get the blood first, OK, put
your hands on the book table ... (ovi while putting his hands on the table) Permisis, we take it
from him, yes, sir it hurts right, buk

ovi : nod ......

Lab nurse : OK, OK , sir .

ovi : when can I get the lab results? then I guess I'm sick or not

Q nurses lab : later 1pm ibuk here again if the problem was the father can menannya directly to
the doctor right ya buk

ovi : good buk ...

At 1 o'clock in the afternoon

ovi : excuse me, do you have a lab on behalf of ovilia zulita ?

Nurse lab: a moment! Thump I see duluu .... please sit down buk ..

ovi came in and sat down

Nurse lab : ibuk ovilia this result , silanhkan first tanngan sign here

Ovi : good book with a signature (finished) thank you bukkk

The nurse nodded a smile,

ovi went straight to the doctor's office to take the lab results when he arrived in the lab room

ovi : excuse me this book is the result bukkk

Nurse adm: yes buk please enter buk

Ovi gives to the doctor's book

Doctor : I lihaat ibuk diagnosed hiv aids ibuk I will refer to the VCT poly (while a letter of
referral) there you will get more information from the father to the disease .. what ibuk willing?
(smiling)

ovi : WHAT DOES MY DOK HAVE HIV ... it's not possible, ..... no dokkk

Doctor : ibuk must remain calm patient

Ovi termneung ...

Alright, thank you doc with a slow tone, ...

The doctor smiled

Ovi also runs to poli vct

Tok ... Tok ... Tok

Ovi is in

Vct (nadia) : yes please come in ...

ovi : the doc that the doctor Elsa referred to was the letter (while giving the letter)

Vct : good mother please sit down ... introduce my book my nurse Nadia here as a VCT or
voluntary consultants specially patient with HIV / AIDS or so-called PLWHA

anamnesa

Vct : baikkk .... according to the book, what do you know about HIV aids, what causes it, what
are the signs and symptoms, and how do you handle it? Smile

ovi: penykit turn off buk, can not recover

Vct ... keep going

ovi: the cause is because of the free struggle bu jalau symptoms i don't know bukk ...

Vct: that's right what you said, OK, Buk, I will explain about HIV / AIDS, HIV / AIDS is a
sexually transmitted disease that causes the body's immune system or immune system to
decrease due to HIV or the human immunodeficiency virus. Transmission through sexual
intercourse use of drugs that use injections continue to inject non-streill or alternately usage and
can also be through the mother and baby or blood transfusion that has HIV virus

ovi: is there really no medicine that can make the disease heal? With a sad tone

VCT: Until now there is no vaccine to cure HIV but to prevent further infection I will give you
ARV medicine to prevent the development of the virus so as to improve the quality of life of the
father ... but the father must routinely drink it if the father is perforated to drink it today the
medicine will not go into action, but then the virus will be immune later ...

Ovi: oh that's how it is bukkk ... guess what do i have to do without just taking enough
medication?
Vct: yes you have to do a lifestyle that is like exercising eating nutritious food, getting enough
rest, jam is the most important thing is personal hygiene ibukk ... ibuk should pay more attention
to cleanliness because earlier I explained that there was an increase in the weakening of the
immune system so it was possible You will get an infection more quickly than those who don't
have problems in your immune system ... do you already know how to wash your hands
properly?

Ovi: haven't you?

Well buk my friend will teach mom how to wash my hands properly ...

Nurse (nesty): well, my nurse, nesty, this time will teach you how to wash your hands properly
and correctly ... well, ok ...

.................................................. .................................................. ..................................................

............

Suddenly ovi menanngisss ..

Vct: ibuk why mengangiss?

Ovi : I'm going to die, ok, dear, I'm a sick human, I don't deserve to live anymore, I'm just a
lowly human right now because I suppose I didn't do it then ... (while crying)

Vct : thump what is terjad i now we still run it bu k, do not need menysalinya ibuk should remain
strong menjalnai time period buk suapay more helpful to other people and get closer to god dam
ynag best ask god ..

Ovi : yes, buk

In the heart of a drunk sad ovi, mixed with despair began to come but he realized this was the
result that I got because of his past in his heart he had to be strong and accept what was
predestined ... but this painter made himself ashamed and hancurr. ...

Ovi: Rakes, I want to see you now? in the usual place?

Rakes: What's wrong with you? Are you OK?

Ovi turns the phone on

At the cafe ....

Rakes: sorry honey I'm late !! what do you want to say?

Ovi: (nod, cry)

Rakes: What's wrong with you? Are you OK? If you want to cry, just cry later when it's calm
you can tell ...

Ovi: I hiv ............

... rakes suddenly went silent as if the atmosphere was suddenly quiet ...

Rakes: what !!! You are kidding? Seriously? You no longer prank me right?

Ovi: shake your head

Rakes: No ....... I can't possibly live and marry someone who already wants to die like you ...
that's impossible ... you listen to me yeah ... I don't want to live with someone like you, don't ever
contact me again ...

Ovi: but rakess .... but you love me .. said you want to marry me, always there for me ...

Rakes: No ... that's the first ...

Rakes left Ovi ... with a really chaotic feeling ... and he could only be silent, ......

After the incident had made ovi feelings that have been destroyed more and more destroyed
because the person he loved is now leaving him ... ovi increasingly worse, and he was confused
to tell with anyone except with his mother who can accept all the circumstances ......... ....

ovi went home, tears flowing and walking slowly ....

Mama ; why is your ovi? what did the doctor say? How long have you been back? Ovi answer
mama, please? Do not like this? Mom is confused.

Ovi: crying and hugging mommy ...

Mama: why are you ovi ....

Ovi: said doctor ovi hiv ma ...

Mama: what? You do not lie, you do not joke huh

Ovi: no problem ..

His mother was hugging her tightly and stroking her back while crying.

Ovi: Are you not disgusted with me?

Mama: ovi, no matter how you mama will still love and no parents would want their child to be
injured ovi ..... now you have to be closer to God you have to repent ya nakkk .... mom sure you
will get better ... mom love you ..... now you have to be strong and you have to take advantage of
the time available to make it more useful for people .....

Ovi: yes maa ........

Drinngggg ......... the sound of a telphone

Dina: hello vi ... why?

Ovi: I want to meet you ...

Dina: when ...

Ovi: I'm going to your house now

Dina: ok .....

Arriving ovi at home dina ovi immediately hugged dina ...

Dina: why are you vi?

Ovi can only cry and hug dina

Ovi: I hiv din ..

Dina: hah ... seriously how come?

Ovi: do not know din a ....

Dina: be patient ... I don't know what else to do, I can only just wait for you ...

Ovi: cry and hug dina ...

That afternoon ...

Dina: ma ...... ma ...... you don't know ... ovi .. hiv

Mayang: hah serious? Hah, I never thought ... oh so embarrassed ... you can't really family, you
can't be friends with him anymore, you get infected again ...

Dina: yeah maaa ...... just calm down ...... right mama mama good boy ...

Suddenly

Besly: sayoooooooooorrrrrrr ........................... sayorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ..............

M ayang : already ... mom wants to shop first ...

M ayang : sayorr sir ...

Besly: Yes, bro ...

Vina: eh Buk mayang, what's shopping?

Mayang: This is just going to buy fish ...

Vina: ohh ..

Mayang: eh you don't know ... ovi hiv

Vani: seriously ah

Tita: cook yeah ....

Fina: I already thought bukkk ... I used to remember how naughty the ovi went out at night
always ..

Vina: It's the same as before your child may ... naughty too ....

Mayang: eh, my child is a good kid huh ...

Tita: jan bro don't your child live too ... while laughing ...

Mayang: just good ... you cheeky ...

Besly: oh, ladies don't gossip, it's not good / ....

Vina: We're not gossiping, sir, aren't we really ...

Mayang: that's right

Vani: Yes already, Ah ... don't need to talk about it, now the important thing is we take care of
each of our children ... so that no one gets hiv

Tita: well that's right ...

The news that Ovi was infected by HIV had spread in the area of her house ... so that she was
excluded from her community environment, this made her feel worse and worse.

That afternoon ...

Ovi walks suddenly

Sherin: eh that's the one who got hiv !!

Shindy: which one?

Sherin: That one ... that just passed ...

Tesya: eh, what are you still doing here? We will catch it again later ...

Shindy: ouch .... I'm afraid ahh ...

Sherin: Especially me ..... I hope we don't like him huh ...

Tesya: ihhhh ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Shindy: Amen please Buk ...

But she realized that if she continued to suffer and this would make her health decrease, so she
got up and joined the HIV organization, where she thought more about how she could be useful
for others.

Nia: 1,2,3 action ...

Deby: hy guys .... now I'm with Indonesian PLHAs, where we are now in a settlement to teach
children here to learn to read, write ... learn English, count and much more ... kids here very
enthusiastic and happy because of the arrival of friends of PLHAs who really helped them in
learning ..... well ... now I have been with Feby ... one of the founders and members of
Indonesian PLHAs .... hy feby ....

Feby: yes ... ...

Deby: Are learning activities always on the agenda of friends of PLHAs?

Feby: Yes, that's right ... this activity has indeed become one of the programs of Indonesian
PLHAs, besides Indonesia, cares and there is much more to do ...

Deby: And this must be very helpful ... for the children in this settlement ...

Feby: Very well ... this is very helpful and the people here are very accepting of us ... and this is
our honor ... even though we are like this but we can still be accepted ......

Deby: thank you to Feby, who was willing to be our guest speaker, I thank you ... (greetings)

Nia: okeyyy cut ....., thanks feby ...

Oktami Gina: Thank you Feby while shaking hands.

Feby: Yes, you can play here ...

Gina: seriously sis ... I'm very happy with this kind of activity ...

Oktami: Are you sure it's okay, why?

welly: yeah it's ok ... with a smile

wenty: why are you afraid of being infected ... (cynical)

felmi: husss .... (nudging wenty) it's okay ...

oktami: not mbakkkk not mbakkk .... sorry I don't mean that I mean .... I mean yeah I'm just
reluctant like that ..
feby: HIV is not out of hand because we shake hands, use the same equipment, kisses, HIV is
transmitted through sex, from mother to child, and from syringes infected with HIV virus ....

oktami: hehe yeah mbakk ...

feby: yok, sis, i am familiar with friends of PLHAs here ...

while walking.....

feby: introduce this friend to our friend who will often liputin us about our activities ...

deby: good afternoon everyone, introduce us from my narration tv deby ..

all: noon ...

Okami: I'm Okami ...

nia: i am nia

gina: i'm gina

ovi: introduce me ovi

Felmi: I'm Felmi

wenty: i wenty ....

ulfa: I'm ulfa

welly: introduce me welly ...

mesi: my mesi (while coughing) looks a little pale

ulfa: are you okay mes?

Mesi: Yes, it's okay, it's just really dropping lately ...

Ovi: medicine is still active right mes?

Mesi: still vi ...

Welly: just take a break at the base camp ...

Mesi: Never mind I don't ...

Wenty: it's so complicated ... resting ... (cynically) quickly I help ...

Welly, wenty and ulfa help mesi go to base camp ..

Ovi; it goes like that .... don't be offended ...

Feby : don't take it to heart

Nia: yeah it's okay, sis, we understand ...

Feby: OK I'll go there first ... if anything, just say okay ...

Gina: OK miss ...

Deby: Thank you sis ...

Feby smile ...

Nia: sorry sis how long have you been diagnosed with HIV? Sorry ...

Ovi: only 2 months ago ...

Nia: It's new ......

Deby: Are you excited, sis?

Ovi: Yes, of course it is ... have to be enthusiastic ......

They smiled at each other ...

Suddenly screaming .....

Wenty: guys ........ mesi guysss ...................

All PLHA friends ran towards the mesi at the base camp .............
It turns out that the condition of the mesi is getting worse and getting worse so that even the mesi
is rushed to the nearest skit house ...

Doctor: Sorry if I died ... we did our best but God said differently ...

The whole family cried and immediately ran to see the dead body ...

Doctor: Nurse commits to death.

Nurse (ririn): good doc ....

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After the death of one of their friends this does not make them dissolve in sadness, instead it
makes them eager to be together to live and to take more time out

That afternoon the atmosphere at the base camp ....

Feby: Hy guys ...... we're coming new friends ..... please ...

Munzir: good afternoon everyone ... introduce me munzir ... nice to meet you guys ...

All: afternoon ...........

Felmi: I'm Felmi

wenty: i wenty ....

ulfa: I'm ulfa

welly: introduce me welly ...

ovi: introduce me ovi (with a smile)

suddenly there was a strange feeling when Munzir looked at Ovi's face ... like the feeling of
falling in love ...

feby: guys, we will study our ruitn at 4 in the evening

all: sippp .... comandan ...

all friends come out runagan as well as ovi and munzir ....

munzir: ovi ...

ovi: yes munzir ... why?

Munzir: Do you want to go straight home? Where is your house ?

Ovi: hmm seems like yes ... my house is behind Alfamart .. (with a smile)

Munzir: wow, just happened to be with me ...

Ovi: It's okay, I can do it myself ... thanks ...

Munzir: Yes, I have done it ... then I'll go first ...

Ovi: okay ...

16 o'clock

Noveldo: assalamualikum wr. Wb

All: waalaikumsalam wr.wb ..

Noveldo: good friends all this time I will deliver brief study about heaven for sinners, KNOW
that one it might just do sin , but he eventually enter heaven because of his sin was . Did you ,
how things that could happen ?
That so it could only happen because he did something deed sin , but he regretted it , cry for
action was , and he was ashamed of the Lord , sat head in the presence of his Lord with a heart
that is broken. Sin so this is what makes the happiness of a servant and his luck , even could be
more useful than the various kinds of virtues , because the repentance of sin have been making it
entered heaven. O lovers of heaven , O people who fear going to the punishment of hell , this is a
bunch of stories of people who have repented . Are there any you would walk in behind them ?
This is a group of people who have repented , is your heart with them ? This is the person who
begs for forgiveness whose tears run down their faces . Is there a face too wet by water eyes that
make you a party with them? Brother , this is an honest invitation from God, who has said ,

"And repent to Allah, you who believe, that you may prosper ," (An- Nur : 31).

So excuse any more that delay us to repent ?

Such is the brief study that I have presented assalamualaikum wr wb

All: waalaikumsalam ..

With the passage of days making the relationship between ovi and munzir more intimate ... they
already know each other's nature ... so that the solid munzir to propose ovi to be his wife ...

That morning....

Munzir: hello ovi ..

Ovi: yes munzir? Why?

Munzir: Can we meet or not?

Ovi: can, when?

Munzir: How about the afternoon at an ordinary place?

Ovi: okay ...

Munzir: See you later ...

Afternoon at the cafe

Ovi: what do you want to say?

Munzir: You don't want to order a drink or food first?

Ovi: I didn't have to eat at home earlier ...

Munzir: oh I see ... this is how we already know each other, I already know your family and you
already know my family .... I'm comfortable with you .... I want you to be my body ....

Do you want it?

Ovi: are you serious?

Mmunzir: I'm serious ... (while taking out the ring)

Ovi: but we are right ....

Munzir: why don't we have the right to be happy? So, how is it?

Ovi: cry teary while nodding ......

They eventually married happily and had negative children hiv.

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