Body Language In Business

Has it ever occurred to you how much you are saying to people even
when you are not speaking? Unless you are a master of disguise, you are
constantly sending messages about your true thoughts and feelings whether
you are using words or not.

Studies show that your words account for only 7% of the messages you
convey. The remaining 93% is non-verbal. 55% of communication is based on
what people see and the other 38% is transmitted through tone of voice. So
think about it. In the business setting, people can see what you are not
saying. If your body language doesn't match your words, you are wasting your
time.

Eye contact is the most obvious way you communicate. When you are looking
at the other person, you show interest. When you fail to make eye contact,
you give the impression that the other person is of no importance. Maintain
eye contact about 60% of the time in order to look interested, but not
aggressive.

Facial expression is another form of non-verbal communication. A smile sends

a positive message and is appropriate in all but a life and death situation.
Smiling adds warmth and an aura of confidence. Others will be more
receptive if you remember to check your expression.

Your mouth gives clues, too, and not just when you are speaking. Mouth
movements, such as pursing your lips or twisting them to one side, can
indicate that you are thinking about what you are hearing or that you are
holding something back.

The position of your head speaks to people. Keeping your head straight,
which is not the same as keeping your head on straight, will make you appear
self-assured and authoritative. People will take you seriously. Tilt your head to
one side if you want to come across as friendly and open .

How receptive you are is suggested by where you place your arms. Arms
crossed or folded over your chest say that you have shut other people out and
have no interest in them or what they are saying. This position can also say, "I
don't agree with you." You might just be cold, but unless you shiver at the
same time, the person in front of you may get the wrong message.
How you use your arms can help or hurt your image as well. Waving them
about may show enthusiasm to some, but others see this gesture as one of
uncertainty and immaturity. The best place for your arms is by your side. You
will look confident and relaxed. If this is hard for you, do what you always do
when you want to get better at something - practice. After a while, it will feel
natural.

The angle of your body gives an indication to others about what's going
through your head. Leaning in says, "Tell me more." Leaning away signals
you've heard enough. Adding a nod of your head is another way to affirm that
you are listening.

Posture is just as important as your grandmother always said it was. Sit or

stand erect if you want to be seen as alert and enthusiastic. When you slump
in your chair or lean on the wall, you look tired. No one wants to do business
with someone who has no energy.

Control your hands by paying attention to where they are. In the business
world, particularly when you deal with people from other cultures, your hands
need to be seen. That would mean you should keep them out of your pockets
and you should resist the urge to put them under the table or behind your
back. Having your hands anywhere above the neck, fidgeting with your hair or
rubbing your face, is unprofessional.

Legs talk, too. A lot of movement indicates nervousness. How and where you
cross them tells others how you feel. The preferred positions for the polished
professional are feet flat on the floor or legs crossed at the ankles. The least
professional and most offensive position is resting one leg or ankle on top of
your other knee. Some people call this the "Figure Four." It can make you look
arrogant.

The distance you keep from others is crucial if you want to establish good
rapport. Standing too close or "in someone's face" will mark you as pushy.
Positioning yourself too far away will make you seem standoffish. Neither is
what you want so find the happy medium. Most importantly, do what makes
the other person feel comfortable. If the person with whom you are speaking
keeps backing away from you, stop. Either that person needs space or you
need a breath mint.

You may not be aware of what you are saying with your body, but others will
get the message. Make sure it's the one you want to send.
 Reading & Interpreting Body
Language
Kevin Hogan, Psy.D.
Now, I will give you the key to understanding what people are saying when they don't
speak...using their body language...

You Will Discover The Science Of

Reading The Minds Of Those Around
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Every person that sees

you is speaking to you
without opening their
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From: Kevin Hogan

Motivational Speaker & Body Language Expert

Reading Body Language means you know what their unconscious mind is thinking and
what they are going to do next....because you can see what their body is manifesting...and they
can't!
I have spent over two decades studying the research of the world's most respected and effective
nonverbal communication experts. I've uncovered the secrets to making you into a body language
expert and will teach you how read the body language of anyone, while sending messages to get
people to do what you want them to do.

Here are three closely held secrets about body language:

In this article I'll show you some of what many corporations have paid me tens of thousands of
dollars for (and hopefully you won't mind if I don't give it all away!)

3 Secrets of Body Language That Get to the "YES!" Response!

Each person's body language is a bit different. Keep in mind that certain body language
signals might mean something to one person; and they might mean something entirely different
to someone else. And body language differs culturally, which adds to the soup.

Just like we don't all speak English, we don't all speak the same body language.
Intentional gestures like raising your middle finger is a ...well you know... in the United States. In
some other countries it means, "good job." In at least two countries the O.K. sign is the equivalent
of the American middle finger.

Use the following simple techniques and watch them change your income. Your happiness. Your
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Body Language Secret #1

The Secret to Reading a Woman's Body Language There is an obvious height
disadvantage (or advantage depending on your point of view) that women have.
Women, on average, are about 5.5 inches shorter than men. These differences over the years have
caused several interesting opportunities for a body language expert to take advantage of.

If you want a woman to be comfortable around you...for her to like you (and this is
true whether you are a man or a woman) and say "yes" to you.... do whatever you
can to keep your eye level below hers. Here's why. Women often have several negative
feelings that mix together to form... a mess.... when they communicate with others. The feelings
are those of inadequacy, resentment, frustration, annoyance and a few others which would
overstate the point and I will save for your listening and watching the program.

These feelings are quelled when you sit so that your eye level is lower than hers.

This discovery was made totally by accident several years ago when I was teaching a nonverbal
communications class at the University of St. Thomas Management Center.

Instead of continuing with my planned outcomes for the day, we immediately switched gears and
tested this fascinating discovery. Each woman we tested with this, utilizing both men and women
in the chair opposite, reacted either neutrally or positively in the experiment.

Since then I've replicated the experiment numerous times. More importantly, I've tested it in the
real world, with astonishing results!

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Body Language Secret #2
A Body Language Technique You Can Do With Just About Anyone! Body Language
Technique That Instantly Makes....or Loses Sales, Depending on IF You Do it Right!

The next technique I want to share with you is something I didn't discover by accident, but by
investigation. For many years, the so-called experts have said that an excellent way to build
rapport was to lean into the conversation. Position your body closer and lean toward the person
you are talking to.

My experience has been that when people do this immediately, I react with a "bolt" bit of a
negative reaction. Was it just me? Was it random? Did my reaction mean anything?

It turns out that it did. (And they don't all turn out this way or this good.) The vast majority of
men and women report feeling significantly more uncomfortable and LOWER levels
of liking when people "lean in" to them early in a conversation. After picking some
specific points of demarcation, the "technique" does indeed bear fruit. But not early in the
conversation. Early in the conversation it causes negative reactions and a "no" reaction verbally.

Body Language Secret #3

Secrets of Flirting Body Language, Attraction, and More! Eye Contact and the
Messages You Send

A long time ago I was taught that when people look in certain directions, it indicated that the
mind was accessing different parts of the brain to gather information. It turns out this was not
correct. But it was during this time that I came across this unknown secret, if you will.

When two people are communicating and the eye contact is "consistent" and
"useful" (those are elements that I define in the program and will not go into here)
people feel significantly more comfortable when the other person "breaks" their eye
contact by looking down instead of up. Not only did this turn out to be a liking issue but it is
also is reported to be a trust issue. In other words, when people are breaking their eye contact up,
up and to the left, eye level and to the right... the other person is responding negatively and not
neutrally or positively.

I've had access to thousands of willing subjects over the last 11 years and I've had a chance to test
ideas, quirks, techniques, everything. I've found out what matters and what doesn't. I've
uncovered some truly spectacular nuances of behavior that literally make the difference between
hearing "yes" or "no."

In another 10 years everyone will know this, it will be in the text books and that works for me. I
will have spent another 10 staying ahead of the curve!

Bonus Video Clip:

(Load time can vary, I'm a body language expert not a video guy...)

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• Use body language to make your own covert messages. Get what you want - be
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• Use Your Body to Seal the Deal, Make the Sale and Have them Fall for You.
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