What Is the Good Life?

What is the good life? Entire books have been written to address this question. Philosophers of all ages pondered
about this transcendent query as well. Still, the question remains to this present day. It therefore comes as no
surprise that people are still looking to discover what it truly means to be living the good life. Finding an answer to
this question is not easy, even in the modern age of information. The term “living the good life” can mean quite a
variety of different things to different people. The following will present from a variety of different perspectives
what the good life is all about. In its basic form, living the good life is all about the exploration of that which gives
you joy and satisfaction. It’s about finding purpose and meaning in your life and drawing happiness from that which
you do.

Every human being aspires to live a good life. The problem is, we all define the phrase “good life” differently. Some
are looking to live an honest life, full of integrity, joy and happiness. Others seek wealth, social status and fame, as
they hope these aspects will help them to live the good life. In fact, they directly associate the good life with money
and material belongings.

The good life is right in front of you. Seize it and make the most of it.
In people’s quest for a good life, some completely disregard the needs of other people, while others consider helping
people a means of living a good life. In the end, the question who gets to decide what it is that constitutes a good life
remains.

What is the good life?

Not every person that is living “the dream” or “the good life” is actually living a good life. Take for instance the
infamous Colombian drug lord Pablo Escobar. He surely lived well. After all, Escobar is recorded to have been the
wealthiest criminal in history. He had private jets, race cars and luxurious mansions. And I’m pretty sure he
certainly draw happiness and satisfaction from his life. But was his life a good life? Certainly not.

As you can see, there’s potentially a huge difference between living the good life and living a good life. Not every
person that is living a satisfied life is living a good life.

Not life, but good life, is to be chiefly valued.

Socrates

Definition of the good life

The good life is a term that refers to a (desirable) state that is primarily characterized by a high standard of living or
the adherence to ethical and moral laws. In its two different expressions, living the good life can be either expressed
through an abundant/luxurious lifestyle full of material belongings or the attempt to live life in accordance with the
ethical, moral, legal and religious laws of one’s country or culture. As such, the term can both be understood as the
quest for wealth, material possessions or luxuries and the quest to create a worthwhile, honest and meaningful
existence.

The term is also a central concept in the works of Aristotle that are centered around ethics (see also Eudaimonia).

I. Definition
Eudaimonia is often translated as “happiness,” but that’s a bit misleading. Eudaimonia comes from two Greek
words:
 Eu-: good
Daimon: soul or “self.” A difficult word to translate into English.
In Greek philosophy, Eudaimonia means achieving the best conditions possible for a human being, in every
sense–not only happiness, but also virtue, morality, and a meaningful life. It was the ultimate goal of philosophy:
to become better people—to fulfill our unique potential as human beings. Aristotle wrote about the idea the most,
and it was important to many Greek philosophers, from Socrates, the father of Greek philosophy, through
to Stoicism, a late-Greek philosophy.
You can achieve Eudaimonia, Aristotle argued, by working hard, cultivating your virtues, and excelling at
whatever tasks nature and circumstances come to you. However, Aristotle also wrote that living in the right kind
of place and balancing your activities with wisdom are essential to achieving Eudaimonia as well.

Example:
If you’re a parent, you should excel at raising your children; if you’re a doctor, you should excel at healing
people; and if you’re a philosopher, you should excel at gaining knowledge and wisdom, and teaching. Of
course, each person plays many roles life, and it’s by excelling in all of them that one achieves Eudaimonia.
Aristotle argued that, in addition to our specific roles (parent, doctor, philosopher), all human beings share a
purpose — one thing we all do that makes us human. In order to achieve true Eudaimonia, you have to excel
at this as well — being a moral person, controlling your emotions, and exercising reason. Because, Aristotle
argued, these are the most advanced and uniquely human abilities.

What is the good life?

What exactly is the good life and what contributes to living a good life?

When it comes to living the good life, we almost all have a certain idea how such a life should look like. For some,
the good life is all about spending time playing video games or watching television, while eating and drinking as
much as they please. Others associate the good life with days spent in nature, pondering and philosophizing about
life. Some simply want to spend their time in a worthwhile and productive manner, for example by trying to make
this world a better place. Others believe that the good life is all about pleasure, wealth and the fulfillment of all their
(material) wishes.

These examples raise an important issue. When it comes to the good life, some understand it as the continuous
pursuit of their desires by means of mundane activities. Others consider it as the striving for personal excellence and
the wish to contribute something meaningful in life.

We then have to ask ourselves the question, if the good life could really be characterized by a high
standard of living alone. If this were the case, living the good life would primarily consist of the never-
ending attempt to fulfill one’s desires and material wishes. As we all know, human desires can be
boundless, while the earth’s resources are quite limited. As such, the (excessive) good life of one group of
people might prevent others from living the “high-standard-of-living good life.” Or it might hinder future
generations from ever living the good life.

A high standard of living can certainly be regarded as part of the good life. But in itself, the good life does
not alone consist of wealth and abundance. As such, it would be quite limited and out of balance.

In line with this arguing, the popular philosophers Socrates and Plato primarily define in their works the
good life as the examination of life, the mastery of the self and the contribution to one’s community. To
them, living the good life integrated aspects of self-control and civic duty. As such, the good life
consisted of reining in your passions by attaining mastery over yourself and to contribute to your
community.
To return to the initial question, what is the good life?

Living the good life means living a life that sets you free. A life that satisfies and fulfills you, that adds
happiness, joy and a sense of purpose to your life. But it also means to live a life that is worthwhile – a
life that makes a contribution, instead of being solely self-centered. The good life is a life that is not
primarily wasted with mundane activities. Instead, it adds value and contributes to making this world a
better place. Even more so, it also contributes to your own growth. The attainment of a high standard of
living alone might not be fully fulfilling and will definitely not set you free. Therefore, the good life
combines aspects of exploration, self-mastery and civic responsibility with the endeavor to spend your
time in a worthwhile manner that both satisfies and fulfills. It is only through the combination of these
aspects that a joyous and happy life can be truly considered the good life.

The good life according to philosophy

Plato about the good life

In his work Apology, Plato gives an account of a speech given by Socrates while defending himself
against allegations of impiety and corrupting the youth in the year 399 BC. When being asked by the
court why Socrates simply cannot stop questioning the way people live, Socrates responds with a simple,
yet profound answer. According to Socrates the unexamined life is not worth living. Living life without
ever reflecting upon it is not worth living. The person who unquestioningly and continuously repeats the
cycle of waking up, working and going back to sleep, is not living the good life. Even further, people that
do not reflect on the nature of things are not living a worthwhile life. If a person is not examining what
they value and why, the chances of them being able to live a good life are reduced.

Examining, reflecting and questioning the nature of things, however, is not enough. Similarly, it’s not
enough to reflect on your personal values. Living the good life requires you to become a Master of
yourself. Socrates compared this process to a charioteer directing two horses. Socrates argued that each
and every one of us is such a charioteer. We all have to handle two horses. The first horse is stubborn. It
is a direct reflection of our animal instincts with a boundless appetite for lust and pleasure. The first horse
goes in whatever direction it pleases, if not tightly controlled. It is egotistical and does not reflect what it
does. It simply does. The second horse is of a much nobler and more sensible spirit. It resembles reason
and man’s capability to reflect upon that which he does.

If the charioteer ever wants to live the good life, the stubborn appetites of the first horse must be
controlled. Only by using your reason to reign in your passions, the two horses will lead you on the path
of the good life. In line with this arguing, not being able to control your desires and passions will make
you behave like an uncontrolled and misdirected stubborn horse. Socrates concluded that by living a just
life, based on reflection, examination and servitude to society, a person can truly live the good life. But
those who allow desires and passions to guide their actions, are most likely not living worthwhile lives.

Aristotle about the good life

In Aristotle’s best-known work, Nicomachean Ethics, the philosopher adds important insights about the
good life. Very early in this work, Aristotle seeks to construct a framework by developing an
understanding about the highest good for human beings. He points out that to most people, the highest
good consists either in the acquisition of wealth, the pursuit of honor or the satisfying of bodily pleasures.
As a result, most people act accordingly. They seek wealth, honor or satisfaction and thereby hope to
ultimately attain happiness. Aristotle, however, points out that none of these aspects can ever serve as the
highest good. Firstly, he argues that wealth is primarily used to acquire other things. In itself, wealth
cannot make happy. Secondly, honor might not necessarily contribute to a person’s happiness. Instead,
honor is primarily sought to change how people think of us. Thirdly, the desire to fulfill one’s (bodily)
desires is not something limited to human beings alone. Animals are seeking pleasure, too. Even more so,
by orientating one’s life primarily to the satisfaction of bodily pleasures, a human being behaves no
differently than an animal. According to Aristotle, such a life is neither fit nor meant for human beings.

From this Aristotle concludes that the highest good cannot consist primarily out of these three aspects. Instead, the
highest good should be something that aims to maximize the inherent faculties of man. It helps human beings to
develop that which separates them from animals. In line with this arguing, the capacity for reason is that which
separates man from cattle.

Based on his reflections, Aristotle highlights the essential qualities of the good life. These qualities primarily consist
of contemplation and learning. It is through the process of contemplating and learning that intellectual virtues are
steadily acquired. These virtues can for instance stem from the acquisition of knowledge about the fundamental
principles of nature. Furthermore, this knowledge can be expanded by applying the principles of nature.However,
contemplation and acquiring knowledge is not enough to live the good life. Solely understanding nature’s principles
and contemplating on these does not contribute the highest good. It is only through right action that knowledge can
be put to its proper use. Hence, the development of a strong and virtuous character is necessary to perform right
actions. Aristotle therefore concludes that the highest good consists of the acquisition of both intellectual and
personal virtues. And, by living in accordance to the highest good, happiness (or Eudaimonia) can be attained.
Consequently, a person achieves happiness by contemplation, learning and the mental strength to perform right
actions. Such a person does not only know what is right, but also acts accordingly and derives happiness, fulfillment
and purpose from it. How to live the good life?As pointed out in the above, living the good life consists of three
essential aspects. These aspects are centered around concepts of self-mastery, exploration/contemplation/learning
and civic engagement:
The three central aspects of the good life.
By integrating these fundamental aspects into life, the good life that creates happiness, fulfillment and gives you a
sense of purpose and meaning in life can be attained. Therefore, the ideal of the good life does not set you on a
pursuit of wealth, status and pleasure, but creates happiness, fulfillment and joy through understanding the world
you live in, mastering yourself and helping your community to thrive.

In the following you can find several ideas to live the good life.

1. Examine life, seek knowledge

Examine life, explore its concepts and principles and seek to learn new things each day. Be open for new ideas and
never cease to go through life with open eyes.

Aristotle stated for a good reason that the unexamined life is not worth living. Living without questioning and
reflecting your behavior, beliefs and values, can result in spending your time with activities that are not worthwhile.
Even more so, it might even make it all the more difficult to live the good life. On the other hand however, by
applying reason to the examination of (your own) life, a continuous stream of knowledge and virtues can be
acquired. It is our capacity for reason that differentiates human beings from (instinct-driven and pleasure-seeking)
animals. If we explore the world and contemplate on our discoveries, new sources of pleasure, happiness and well-
being can be tapped into.

2. Slow down and enjoy simplicity

A great number of people assume that the good life can only be attained by adding more to their life. As a
consequence, they seek to add material belongings, wealth, social status, fame or something entirely different to
their lives. This, however, is the wrong approach. You don’t necessarily have to add something new to your life to
enjoy the good life. Quite the contrary is the case. The good life does not consist of continuously chasing evermore.
Instead, simplicity and the ability to draw happiness from what you already have can be integral aspects of a good
life. This shift in perception can help you to start living the good life in this present moment, without being
dependent upon external influences.

3. Seek to attain self-mastery

Living the good life is all about mastering yourself. But interestingly, most people do not consider self-mastery
when it comes to the pursuit of a good life. Instead of seeking discipline and mastery over themselves, they prefer to
chase wealth, material possessions, status or the fulfillment of desires. However, without self-discipline one’s
actions are primarily centered around the wish to fulfill desires. As a result, we waste important time and energy on
feeding desires that can never be fully satisfied. Consequently, our actions are egotistical, self-centered and
unreflected. Instead of living the good life, we succumb to the instinct-driven and unreasoned qualities we share
with animals.

It is only through self-mastery that we can replace our boundless appetite for pleasure with a nobler and more
reasonable thinking. Instead of being instinct-driven, it allows us to reflect and to think about what we do.
4. Drawing joy and happiness from life’s simple pleasures

In their quest to live the good life, the vast majority of people shift their attention from the present moment to a
desirable state in the future. They think that the good life can only be attained through the acquisition of wealth,
status and a variety of other things. Therefore, these people will never truly be able to live the good life, because
there will always be something missing. They either do not have enough material possessions to satisfy all their
desires. Or they are no longer able to enjoy these possessions after a certain period of time.

For this reason, the ability to draw happiness from life’s simple pleasures is essential. It’s a person’s ability to take
pleasure from even the most simplistic things in life that will help in understanding how worthwhile this present
moment is.

5. Help in making this world a better place

Almost all philosophers that pondered about the good life highlighted the importance of civic engagement. It is an
integral aspect of a good life. Even more so, all the other aspects of the good life can only be committed in a
worthwhile manner by utilizing them for the greater cause. Therefore, the life that is solely lived for the purpose of
fulfilling one’s own desires can never be fully considered a truly meaningful and worthwhile existence.

6. Be grateful for what you have

Gratitude is an important aspect of the good life. It helps us to overcome the feeling of not having enough. By being
grateful we can also overcome the never-ending pursuit of boundless desires.

7. Don’t worry about things you can’t control

Life presents us with two different aspects. Firstly, those aspects of our life that can be influenced or changed.
Secondly, there are those aspects or events that are beyond our ability to influence or alter. We are simply incapable
of exerting even the slightest influence over these events. We therefore feel extremely intimidated and helpless.
Feelings that even further contribute to our fear about things we cannot control.

However, the principal key to withstanding life’s hardship, lies in the way we allow these happenings to influence
us. While we’re not able to control a great variety of events in life, we still have the capacity to control our
responses to these events. We therefore have the choice to allow these happenings to break us and to incite fear
within us, or to get back up from the ground and to recover from it.

8. Value and nurture relationships

Imagine you’re living the good life but no one is around you can share your joy with. The concept of living the good
life includes the relationship dimension as well. Without it, it would not fully contribute to your happiness and
fulfillment. Even more so, relationships are an integral part of a worthwhile life. Neither wealth nor social status can
grant access to true friendship. Therefore, living the good life also consists of spending a significant amounts of your
time with those that you love and enjoy being around. The good life is all about growing, developing and becoming
stronger together, not alone.
9. Live your passions

Living the good life is all about discovering your true passions and having the courage to pursue these activities. By
doing what you’re passionate about, a sense of fulfillment, accomplishment and true satisfaction can be added to
your life.

10. Live in the moment

While it is certainly true that the good life means a great variety of different things to different people, we can
all agree that being haunted by the past or having fear of the future is certainly not part of it. Instead of being
trapped in the past or fearful about the future, try to enjoy this present moment. There’s nothing you can do
to change what happened. Also, the future can be greatly impacted in this very moment. Be here right now,
this is exactly where you need to be.

Conclusion about the good life

Living the good life means to strive for self-mastery, exploration and the improvement of the world around
you. It is a worthwhile life that sets you free. A life that is in balance and fully satisfies and fulfills you. But
the good life is not just a life that adds happiness, joy and pleasure, but it also desires to attain mastery over
the self. The good life therefore is not a life spend by the never-ending pursuit of personal desires. Instead, it
seeks to reign in your passions by attaining self-control. The one who is living the good life also contributes to
the betterment of this world and adds value to it.

The good life is one inspired by love and guided by knowledge.