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sex life
Over the course of our lives, our bodies, sexual needs and in many cases
partners, will change. It is helpful to know what you can expect throughout
different stages of your life, because having a good sex life plays an important
role in your mental and physical health and wellbeing.
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Consent must be given but can also be withdrawn at any stage
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Menopause
and beyond
Growing older doesn’t
necessarily mean women
naturally lose interest in sex,
despite declining hormones
and other physical changes.
One study found the majority
of women aged between 45
and 70 were still sexually active.
The strongest predictor was the
belief that sex was important area to help strengthen tissue. Research shows older women
and physical limitations were These creams use a weaker are not only still interested in
less important. form of oestrogen than sex but are more likely to be
According to sex educator and hormone replacement therapy, assertive about their needs.
founder of bliss4women.com, meaning blood levels do not They express a desire for more
Maureen Matthews, a woman’s rise enough to increase risks non-genital sexual expression
largest erogenous zone is of cancers or heart disease. with a greater focus on arousal
her mind. If you have incontinence issues, and passion. They want their
“Reading erotic or sexually frank seeing a pelvic floor specialist partners to indulge more in
literature can be an effective can help. physical closeness and intimate
way to practise arousal”, The effects of life stressors at acts such as kissing and cuddling.
she suggests. this stage may also decrease Maureen points out that the
Physical changes can also play sexual desire. health benefits of continuing to
a role in decreasing desire. “In their middle years women enjoy a fulfilling sex life include
Oestrogen declines around the may be caring for children, boosting the immune system and
time of menopause, resulting in and/or ageing parents, and/or decreasing the risk of depression.
changes such as thinning vaginal dealing with career challenges”, She adds, “At any age, it is
walls, reduced sexual lubrication says Dr Farrell. “Competing life important to develop a way to
of the vaginal area, increased demands can sap the mental start talking about sex and to
levels of incontinence and fatigue. and emotional space women compromise and accommodate
There are ways to assist with have to be interested in an each other’s sexual needs.”
these changes. For example, active sexual life.”
lubricants such as KY jelly and Maureen says, “Many women
natural oils such as olive fear they will cease to be
or sweet almond oil can attractive and sexually viable
replace moisture, reducing after menopause, or they are
the discomfort of intercourse. anxious about waning desire.
Local oestrogen creams can Often they are grieving for their
be applied into the vaginal younger, passionate selves”.
“I reassure them that they
need to find ways to stimulate
sexual arousal, preferably
when they are alone, and there
is no expectation of sexual
intercourse. With practice their
body remembers how arousal
feels, and confidence in being
sexually interested returns.”
MENOPAUSE
AND SEX RESOURCE FOR SENSUALITY IDEAS
jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/menopause/sex bliss4women.com