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minds. It’s something that has been used since we were newborn babies through crying, and later
developed through the use of speech. Because it is so common, we as people often underestimate
accomplished but it is not easily explained. One of the most essential issues in healthy
communication is to realize how to say than what to say... People have different backgrounds,
feelings, capacity of comprehensions, ages, sexes thus there are various sense-makings”
(KÜÇÜKBEZİRCİ, 2013). This shows that communication is something that is more complex
Within today’s world, it is crucial for young adults to learn these skills while they are in high
school to prepare them for the many milestones ahead of them, as well as how to prepare them
for communicating with different types of people. Young adults will benefit from learning this
life skill in high school, because it will better prepare them for life after high school. While these
skills could be taught to college students, it would be helpful for teenagers who choose not to go
to college and start working right after they graduate high school. In Utah, many students also
start families only a few years after they graduate. If taught these skills in high school, they will
be more prepared in interpersonal communications with their future spouses, and their employers
while building a life for themselves. Interpersonal communication skills should be taught in
Utah’s high school curriculum because it will better prepare them for marriages and families, to
develop friendships and maintain healthy social skills, and to prepare them for communicating
In the United States, and more specifically Utah, marriage is of the main focal points of
life. There are many teenagers who consider marriage even right out of high school. Being
married at a young age can bring many challenges to the lives of the young adults wanting to
make a commitment to one another. Jumping into married life is not easy. When couples learn
how to communicate, they can understand each other’s frustrations, likes, and dislikes as well as
find compromises. Couples can learn how to show their spouse love and affection by expressing
assumptions about what another person is thinking which can be difficult because there are so
many different types of people on the planet with many ways of thinking. These opposing
thought processes often show up in a marriage between a husband and wife. In a study on
Intimacy in Marriage, results showed that women often developed intimacy when their partner
made them feel “validated, accepted, and cared for” while men felt more intimate with their
partner when “engaging in self-revealing disclosure”. Researchers noted, “These ndings imply
that husbands and wives place somewhat different emphasis on the components of the process
that contribute to their respective daily feelings of intimacy” (Laurenceau, Barret, Rovine, 2005).
Understanding how to become closer with a spouse, or a partner, in life by learning how to talk
and discuss things that would help them feel more intimate would help struggling marriages
improve greatly. To reinforce this idea, it is critical for couples to learn these principles at a
young age where they would be able to practice these ideas before they are even married.
Couples have many disputes throughout their marriage and having poor communication skills
halts these couples from solving their issues. In a study done to mediate Demand-Withdrawal
communication (DW communication) the author points out, “One of the most widely studied
characterized by one partner pursuing or demanding some change, and the other avoiding or
withdrawing from the discussion. Most commonly observed in distressed, this pattern of
communication accounts for lower relationship satisfaction beyond the effect of general
negativity” (Jarnecke, Reilly, and South, 2015). If people can learn this in high school, it would
give these students the knowledge to know how to spot and solve these communication problems
as well as work them out throughout their whole marriage. This would allow them to have a
Social skills are also crucial to high school students as they develop friendships among their
peers. Having knowledge of interpersonal communication skill taught to them in their school
curriculums will benefit them as they gain friendships and connections with each other and other
people in their lives. “Friendship relations become particularly important during adolescence and
young adulthood as young people move away from family… conflict can arise among those who
have been friends for longer periods. Understanding how conflict occurs in friendships, as well
as how forgiveness is communicated between friends, is therefore important.” They then went on
to say that friendship helps to “deal with challenging life experiences and negative emotions like
stress” (Antony, Sheldon, 2019). Friendships developed in the late adolescent and early
adulthood stages in life are crucial for the mental health of young people because their lives are
changing so fast, with new stresses that they must deal with. When high school students are
taught how to connect with others through effective communication skills, they can understand
how to make long lasting connections that can bring happiness to them throughout their lives.
When people do not know how to express their feelings through interpersonal communication
skills, it is difficult to remain in friendships for long periods of time. High school students need
learn how to communicate to apologize, show forgiveness, and express their feelings towards
their peers. Having these connections will further improve their social skills for many different
events that take place in their lives such as being voices in their communities, working as teams
in religious groups or social events, and more typically in their future occupations and
Communication skills are universally essential skills in the work force. Whether it be
age, and gender is emphasized and fought for in the workplace. The best way to fight for equality
is to stand up for these rights in a professional and approachable way which can only be
listening, compromise, and asking question techniques. When promoting equality in the
In a journal about the importance of women speaking up in the workplace, different women’s
experiences were studied to understand the importance of powerful language skills. “By social
interaction with a colleague and the use of language to make the problem known within the
larger network, Betty and her colleague acted agentially to change the course of the abusive
interactions. She claimed her position as a documentation specialist by interjecting herself into
the conversation and letting the men know that she could not be ignored. Speaking up, although
it seems to be difficult for some, especially those who may be younger is an effective way of
asserting agency. Language shapes social interactions, and if women allow difficult situations or
people to silence them, they miss an opportunity to negotiate power” (Petersen, 2018). Giving
high schoolers the tools they need that are related to effective communication would show them
many different efforts they can work towards with powerful language skills. This would
significantly build onto the cause of promoting equality for people in our state of Utah as well as
our country.
These tools for effective communication also make a huge impact in furtherance in employment,
specifically in promotions. Research talks about the significance of strong interpersonal skills.
“In their presentation…Reinsch and Gardner (2011) reported the results of a national survey
revealing that senior business executives maintain that employees with strong interpersonal skills
are most likely to be considered for promotions. The study also indicated that writing
ability…was not viewed as a primary concern when considering executives for promotion. The
articles in this theme section extend the findings of Reinsch and Gardner by indicating that
employers would rather hire employees with well-developed interpersonal skills than those with
demonstrated writing ability” (DeKay, 2012). High school students are often taught about
important skills they need to further themselves when they graduate college and start working in
their careers. While English, math and science are important subjects to learn, communication
skills are often what take them higher in their careers leading to more success. Having the
knowledge of interpersonal tools in the adolescent age will allow them to further expand as they
use these skills through college, and eventually as they are employed.
High school students need to be taught communication skills as part of their curriculum because
they are going through a crucial stage of life. As they are completing their years of adolescence,
having interpersonal communication knowledge introduced and refined in their minds will give
them the confidence and professionalism that they need. These teens will be better prepared to
express themselves in the relationships they form to solve issues and build stronger bonds with
peers and loved ones as well as connections with coworkers and leaders.
Being able to communicate in a more effective way will allow them to build stronger marriages
with loved ones as they are able to settle disagreements in a healthy way. Stronger bonds will be
built with friends and peers in a time where young adults need those connections as they go
through a stressful time in their lives. Interpersonal communication skills will also benefit
students as they learn to prepare to join the work force. It will help to strengthen equality and
help them reach their goals as well as promotions. Teaching high school students communication
skills will better prepare themselves for the rest of their lives throughout the different paths they
take.
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Jarnecke, A. M., Reilly, M. S., & South, S. C. (2015). Internalizing and Externalizing Symptoms
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