SIX GOLDEN RULES FOR MEN

1. When you meet a girl, don't think of sex first; don't ask for sex. Even if you are hot in pants, pretend
that you are a monk for some time.

2.Don't go searching for a virgin, if you are not a virgin yourself. All the girls you have massacred, who
will marry them. Besides, there is no record that virgins make better wives or are more faithful in
marriage.

3. If you are a "modern man," don't look for a "village girl that knows nothing." Soon you will start
complaining that she is too local to fit into your circle of enlightened friends. Besides, a village girl may
"wise up" and trouble will start in your home.

4. Don't look for a girl that is afraid of you: a girl you can always intimidate. Fear is not respect.

5. Don't be carried away by a girl's physical features: beauty, height, complexion, shape, breast shape,
size and firmness, etc. They matter but they are not critical. In the long run, child-bearing and age affect
these features. Besides, when you have married a woman for some years, her physical features stop
"turning your head."

At that time, what will attract you to her will be what is inside of her: intelligence, wisdom, self-control,
patience, peace, gentleness, etc.

6. Don't be interested in a girl because of her wealth or her parents' wealth. Even if she is richer than you
or her parents are richer, make it clear from the beginning that you will take care of your marriage
yourself or that both of you will take care of your marriage together.

Don't accept your in-laws taking care of your family responsibilities. Let them allow you to build your
own home. After all, many of them were poorer than you are now when they got married. If they want
you to upgrade to their level, let them support your business, e.g by supplying their goods to you to sell
and make your OWN money.

ADVICE TO THOSE FALLING IN

LOVE:

1. When you fall in love make sure it's with somebody who treats you exactly how you deserve to be
treated.

2. Love somebody who wants to know everything about you,from your favorite color to your childhood
memories how you managed to survive all those years.

3. Love somebody who can make you laugh,who kisses your forehead and who notices all your flaws but
chooses to see past

them.

4. Love somebody who listens to whatever is on your mind,who protects you and always reminds you
how blessed they are to have found you.

5. Love somebody who you can't stay mad at for more than an hour because you miss speaking to
them,who knows every freckle on your face, every stretch mark on your thighs, every scar and every
tear.

6. Love somebody who you can plan your future with,and most importantly love somebody who is God
fearing.

7. And lastly don't forget to make them feel loved in return.

*If you agree that those 7 reasons,i have listed above should be considered

type {Yes}. if u don't type. {No}

SEX AND FEELINGS

A man can have sex with a lady and still don't have any feelings for her, most men only need space to
have sex but majority of women need reason to have sex.

90% of woman cannot have sex without feelings, A man can travel for eight hours just to have sex with a
female and yet, not love her or even have any feelings for her.

Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not!! What they feel is lust, what they feel is what
they see which is curves and a huge behind, go through a lady's silky skin thigh for a 5 minutes or less,
ejaculate and forget.
The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming
from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.

The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the
art of true love. So many woman are bought and blinded by materialistic things, yet miss the small little
gestures that money cannot buy.

Sex is not an act of commitment. So many Men and women still leave their partners on their beds and
start thinking of the next woman or man to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in
minutes.

It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses
of flying from the UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.

Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting
weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.

People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to
have the resources to keep many girls in their life.

You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is
all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love. What kind of
people do these students become when they leave school?

This is why we have a lot of frustrated graduates than nation-building graduates.

Today, a 16-year-old girl is already into sex. She wants to wear everything on trend. She is already a
prostitute in the sense that any man that comes her way for relationship must show some signs of
money and she would respond to him.

The funny thing is this, almost all those girls that have become sex symbols end up in a deep mess. How
many of them today is changing the world they are into? What kind of spirit would they do well within
life? They have sold their souls out to sex. They pride on what they wear and hotels they go to. That is
their biggest achievement. The girls they called cowards are setting up economic empires. Their future is
already exhausted when they come to their true senses?
Advice to my beloved brothers and sisters:

For men; never allow your erection today to destroy your future directions, stay positive.

My sisters, all that glitters is not gold, make your future bright and it start today.

I am not posting this to make anyone guilty or stand as a judge, but just stating nothing but the truth.

God Bless

Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes
your absence will teach what your presence cannot...

Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to
work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force
someone to be the person you need them to be.

I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have
got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to
come in your life, just not meant to stay.

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need
from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that
person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that
person anymore. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always
bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME

It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship...

Whoever sees you as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he
treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to
make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness...

Never keep awake thinking

about someone who is

deeply sleeping with

someone else.

Never stay a minute

thinking about someone who cant spend a

second

thinking about you.

Leave that person who

takes your love for granted

and doesnt love you back

the way you do,

Love should be balanced

not based one side.

Its better to be single than

being in an ugly

relationship that will make

you cry forever.

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Men and sex!!..

Women find it hard to understand wassup with men and sex�...

They want to help you,they want sex.

They say they love you,they want sex..

You mistakenly sleep over,they want sex..

They want to borrow you money.. They want sex.

They want to give you a job.. They want sex..

They want to pass you .. They want sex...

First of all.

You need to understand the system of men..

We didn't ask for this... We didn't create ourselves..

Do you know that 95% of healthy men wake up with an Erection??.. A mother fucking boner!!...

Did we bargain for it??.. No !!..

Do you know that the penis has a mind of his own?.. You can be reading your bible and your penis will
stand..

A man can be sleeping,once you start rubbing the penis,it stands even when the man is asleep!!.

Have you asked yourself why men are never on any periods?,cramps or bad moods.. That's how God
created us..

A man is naturally always ready for sex!!....Rub a man on his head,he already thinks you want sex,wink at
him,he's already seeing you naked.. .

wave at a man walking with his wife,he will lose focu s�..

Its not by in Jesus name or holyGhost fire!!..

That's why churches don't allow ladies with short dresses to sit in front because they will confuse
pastor!!... Its not by anointing or Sheri ma ma ma ooo.

We didn't manufacture the high libido by ourselves...

We are all created in God's image...

The only man that over came sex according to the good books was Jesus Christ himself and
Joseph,Joseph own is that he didn't just run away,he fled!!!.. Him for stay n a�. ,Jesus was God and on
top that,he was very careful not to include a woman in his disciple trai n�..

So many great men have fallen because of sex.. Do you think they wanted to??...

Soldiers in front of war still develop urge for sex!!.. To show you how bad it is...so many soldiers were
killed during biafran war because a woman lured them Inside bus h�..
David in the bible sent a woman's husband to the war front for him to die so he can have sex with the
wife..

do i need to tell you about Samson,?. Solomon and other bible characters..

It can only take the grace of God,and some level of maturity to curtail this...

The way our body react to this is not the same you people's (women's) body react to it...

How many great women have you heard messed up because of dick??... None or even few !!..

So next time a man 'misbehaves' because of sex, don't see it as he's a beast or an animal.

We are just responding to nature....

Don't be like "i have lost the respect i have for you" "i thought you are responsible" "so this is what you
wanted"... Yen Yen Yen��...

Easy baby even that your father, a 17 year old girl can make him lose focus and collect the money meant
for your school fees �..

I pray you read this post with realistic understanding �

SOMEBODY NEEDS TO READ THIS RIGHT NOW! . .

Hey, you! Yes, you!!

Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You
can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to
be the person you need them to be. . I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the
person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not
meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by
trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. . You can’t get the connection you need from someone who’s
not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you
could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore. And you
might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why
things didn’t work out. TRUST ME . . Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding on
to you. Some chapters just have to close unceremoniously. That broken thing you keep trying to put back
together is keeping your life from that beautiful thing that’s waiting to be built. God loves you too much
to answer a prayer that’s going to leave you hurt. You deserve better..

THE 18 SIMPLE THINGS A WOMAN WANTS FROM HER HUSBAND/MAN

1. Give her your time. Don't make her beg for your attention. Women equate love with time. If she
means a lot to you, she should see that expressed by how much time you give her. Come home early.
Take her out on dates

2. Compliment her efforts to look good; her new hairstyle, her body, her clothes, her sexiness, her
cooking. It is your opinion that matters most to her. Appreciate her and she'll do anything for you

3. Say sorry when you wrong her. Do so quickly. Don't move on without addressing the hurt you've
caused her. This shows you are responsible with her heart

4. Randomly buy her gifts: Jewellery, chocolates, flowers, a dress, perfume. It is not the gift that excites
her, but that she is constantly on your mind leading to you buying her things as a manifestation of your
love

5. Ask for her advice and perspective on issues. This shows her that you are a team and she is not a
pretty escort in your life

6. Publicly show her love. Speak your love for her online, in public, to your friends, parents. This makes
her feel secure. Defend her from attacks from your family, friends and the public. A secure woman will
love you with no restrictions

7. Kiss her without warning, touch her like you know she is all yours, gently grab her bum the way she
likes it, make her wet because you can, pin her to the wall and caress her lovingly. Make her feel wanted.
She has preserved her sexy body for only you
8. Answer her phone calls lovingly, "Hi my love". End phone conversations with her on a high note, let
her hang up smiling. Phone communication with you are very special to her. Call her just to say "I love
you", be her number one chat mate

9. Don't just tell her "I love you", tell her why you love her, do this often. It gives her facts of love to hold
on to. She wants to know

10. Treat her well outside of sex, when sex is not the agenda. And when it comes to making love, she will
ride your hardness so good, she will drive your body crazy. Women make love with their heart. Take care
of her heart, and her body will do wonders for only you

11. Don't stay for long without addressing issues. This is how women often lose their peace, they start to
nag and they over-think. Spare her the stress. Deal with issues quickly

12. Unstrap her bra, offer to oil her body, dry her with a towel, massage her. Make her feel special

13. Offer to pray. Many men shy away from praying. But a woman gets wowed by a man who gives
spiritual leadership

14. Look at her when she is talking. Give her undivided attention. Never make her feel belittled or
ignored

15. Help her out with house chores. She is the woman you love, not your house help

16. Silence every negative thought of hers when she feels defeated, when she doesn't feel as beautiful,
when she becomes self-conscious about her body, when she is too hard on herself. Remind her of her
beauty, speak life to her, lift her spirit up, be her inspiration
17. Do parenthood with her. Be by her side as she carries your baby, be active in parenthood, be there,
ease off the burden, give her the joy of watching you being a responsible father

18. Charm her, praise her, brag about her, say romantic things to her in front her friends. Let her female
friends gang up and talk about how she has a great husband/man. Women love to talk when they catch
up. Let her feel good when she's catching up with her friends. Let her be called "blessed" because of you

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech