Why would you blame God for what has happened to you?

First ask yourself, do you really have faith to

Him? Do you really trust Him? No doubts at all?
It is maybe because you lost yourself to Him. There are 4 things Jesus would want to let you know if
you’ve been raped; 1. You are not alone, 2. It’s not your fault, 3. You are a valuable, 4. This is a safe place.
However, it is not God's fault that people choose to take the good he has created and corrupt it. It is not his
fault that fathers molest their daughters or that mothers verbally abuse their sons. We human beings are free to do
what we want to do. God is guiding as for what our choices would be.
As we had our BEC last Wednesday, our teacher told as a story about how she coped up with her problem
or on how God tested her. God tests us in a very unique way. God won’t ever let us have a problem He knows we
can’t handle.
Even if we hate God, we reject Him, we neglect Him or whatsoever, He always assure to protect us in every
little thing we do. There was a time that my mother and father fought and I heard gun shots outside of our house
the first thing I did was, I prayed. Because most of us, when we experience some circumstance, instead of Calling
God, we are calling the presence of the evil by calling out the evil’s names or saying bad words. Even though
something bad had happened to my mom, she can’t stand because her back hurts due to her back was hit at the
edge of the table. God guided us. God protected us. Yes my mother was hurt, yes my mother suffered pain, but she
did not die. God let us struggle but He doesn’t give us a circumstance He knows we cannot handle.
Jesus was honest about the inevitability of suffering. In John 16:33 he said, “You will have suffering in this
world.” He didn’t say to you might-he said it is going to happen. If you ask me that “Why did God let me abused
by my stepfather? Why didn’t Jesus protect me? What is the use of believing in angels and Jesus as a good
shepherd?” the only answer I can honestly give consists of four words. “I do not know.”
I don’t have God’s mind; I don’t share his perspectives. In 1 Corinthians 13:12 we are told, “Now we see
things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.
Someday we’ll see with clarity, but for now things are foggy. We can’t understand everything from our finite
perspective. And frankly, the girl who is abused by her stepfather don’t need a big theological treatise right now;
any intellectual response is going to seem trite and inadequate. What they desperately need now is the real and
comforting presence of Jesus Christ in their lives. And I am so grateful that so many churches and ministries of this
community are helping them experience that.
In genesis 1:31 says: “God saw all that He made, and it was very good.” But if God is not the author of
tragedy or evil or death, where did they come from? Well, God has existed from eternity past as the Father, Son
and Spirit, together in a relationship of perfect love. So love is the highest value in the universe. And when God
decided to create human beings, He wanted us to experience love. But gives us the ability to love, god had to give
us free will to decide whether to love or not to love. Why? Because love always involves a choice.
So in order for us to experience love, God bestowed on us free will. But unfortunately, we humans have
abused our free will by rejecting God and walking away from Him. And that has resulted in the introduction of the
evil in the world.
In Romans 8:28 the Bible promises, “And we know that in all things God works for the good pf those who
love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.”
Notice the verse doesn’t say God causes evil and suffering, just that He promises to cause good to emerge.
And notice that the verse doesn’t say we all will see immediately or even in this life how God has caused good to
emerge from a bad circumstance. Remember, we only see things dimly in this world. And God doesn’t make this
promise to everyone. He makes the solemn pledge that He will take the bad circumstances that befall us and cause
good to emerge if we’re committed to following Him.
If you trust God, trust Him completely. But if you doubt God’s promise, I can surely say that opposite
things will happen.

As I reflect to those questions given, I’ve realized that I don’t have the right to blame God of what has
happened to me. I am the master of my life and the captain of my soul. I am the one who is controlling everything
that is happening in my life. God is only guiding us in our decisions in life.